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overworkedtiredandnumb

overworkedtiredandnumb
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Dalian, China
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December 11
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US expat living in China. Another 40-something woman experiencing mid-life crisis, only this time in China, with dumplings.

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DECEMBER 29, 2008 5:26PM

25 is a lot of things

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1. I am on my fourth career, as software engineer.  I absolutely love my job.

2. For my third career, I was in IT support at the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences.  Customer support sucks.

3. For my second career, I trained high school physics teachers.  There was no money in it, but the work was rewarding.

4. For my first career, I was a research astrophysicist for NASA.  Hated it.

5. I am a decidely unfeminine woman raising two girlie-girls. I outsource shopping trips and nail-painting to friends.

6. I gave birth to my first child at age 38 and to my second child at age 42. I recommend getting an earlier start.

7. I was born at Druid City Hospital.

8. I think 25 is a damn big number.

9. I curse like a sailor, but have curtailed it quite a bit since becoming a mother.

10. I am currently addicted to the novels of Anthony Trollope. This is something like joining a cult.

11. I converted to Roman Catholicism as an adult. I'm very happy with my faith and very pragmatic about my church.

12. I like to read history books, mostly European history.

13. In 2009, my husband, daughters, and I are moving to China. Right now we are all studying Chinese. Ni3 hao3! (I can't figure out how to get Chinese characters on OS. That goes on the to do list.)

14. The more I think about it, the bigger 25 seems.

15. I am on day 1 of 5 straight days home alone with the kids. Help.

16. My favorite singer is Iris Dement. Second favorite is Gillian Welch.

17. I once won a writing contest sponsored by Film Comment magazine. The prize was a free trip to the New York Film Festival and a stay at the Plaza.

18. My most recent conversation went like this:

     Eleanor: Hazel bit the rocks.

     Me: Hazel, don't bite the rocks.

     Hazel: No.

19. I work from home and sometimes it really sucks.

20. I once walked 60 miles in 3 days.  You know, for the breast cancer thing.  It was an unmitigatedly positive experience.

21.  I work on the world's bigger router. Woohoo.

22. I never give up, even though 25 still seems kinda big.

23. I don't actually believe that unmitigatedly is a real word, but The Free Dictionary says it is.

24.  My first daughter was named after Eleanor of Aquitaine.  My second daughter was named after a kid I knew from church.

25. I watch As the World Turns and the Guiding Light online.  If the People's Court was available in streaming form, I'd probably watch that, too.

 

 

 

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"I outsource shopping trips and nail-painting to friends."
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Anthony Trollope is now on my list of people to read.

Eleanor or Aliénor- can't think which spelling I prefer. It was my grandmother's name, too.
I'm cracking up at #18. I totally feel your pain with #19. I've worked from home for 14 years and would some days pay for human contact (thus, the reason for too much time on OS, I suppose.) I've got to say that I'm extremely impressed that you've been able to start over career-wise 4 times. I've been trying to get out of what I do for years now and can't seem to make it happen. Maybe one of these days you can write a post about it? Love the Iris DeMent song about the cat (the name escapes me now).
i thought 25 was a big number too
hyblaean, Beware the Anthony Trollope cult/addiction. I'm on my 10th novel of his right now and there are newspapers and magazines yellowing at my bedside.
Lisa, I've never left a job willingly. It has always been due to relocations, funding running out, etc. Most of the time, after the fact, I thought to myself, "Why the hell did I stay that long?"
marcelleqb, No one can convince me otherwise, 25 is a damn big number.
你 好!
Will you take me to China with you?
I loved the rock story. I am the youngest of six kids so my sibs were mostly experienced parents who scoffed at me bitching about feeding little babies food just so.

"Jimmy," said one. "They eat rocks when you're not looking."

I guess he was right.
你好, Lonnie. I seem to be able to post in Chinese using my PC, but not my Mac.
And I'd love to take you to China!
Hey jimmymac1025, my mother always said, "You gotta eat a peck of dirt before you die." Hazel is on the fast track.
OWT&D, I've walked 60 miles in 3 days also --- X3. And I'm doing it again in San Diego, November 2009! I agree that it is an unmitigatedly positive experience, in so many ways.
That 25 thing is tiring. Made it through mine and now I want to join Hazel and bite some rocks.

Trollope then...well I was looking for something to read and it is hard to beat such a recommendation. Nice about China!
Julie, Someday I hope to do the 3-Day again. Only right now I don't think I could walk 6 miles. In 3 days.
Susanne, Start with The Warden, which is short. Then read its sequel, Barchester Towers, which is HI-larious.
These lists are addicting. Where in China are you exactly? What a great adventure!
We will be living in Dalian, a northern port city.
I would like to see and visit China but would be terrified to pack up and move there! You are a brave mommy soul.
Gracielou,
One day about two years ago, my husband (a semiconductor engineer) was standing in line at Target when he saw flash memory (the very product he worked on) for sale next to a box of bobby-pins. "Look," I said, "plenty of people are happily employed making bobby-pins." "Yes," he replied. "In China." Today we live in Chandler, AZ, a layover on our way to China.
Great list. I am procrastinating on mine. Hey - that could be #1: I always put off today that which I could easily do tomorrow. Or the day after that.

I can also now geekily admit that one of my favorite books is Barbara Tuchman's "A Distant Mirror". Let's hear it for Eurpoean history.

China, huh? I admire your bravery!
Please do get around to posting your 25, sierrasong. I would like to read them.

I've recently tried to find Asian history books that were as engaging to me as books like Tuchman's, but I haven't had much luck. I really need to learn more about Asia before moving there.
What an exciting and hard-worked life! No wonder your feeling overworked, tired and numb! I am just from reading it! My wife was 38 when she had our son, I think she would agree to start earlier although we're both totally in love with our son. He can wear me out in an hour. I'm sure having more than one it gets exponentially harder.

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Greg, Having that second one was a real chore, but I'm glad I did it. Watching kids interact is hilarious and now I don't even have to leave the house to do it. Of course, today is day 5 of 5 straight days home alone with them, so leaving the house (and the kids in it) sounds really good at the moment.
Nos. 24 and 11 are very cool.
Thank you, Linda. Church has brought me a lot of blessings, including a name for my 2nd born. As for the first born, she is going to inherit an embarrassingly large pile of books about Eleanor of Aquitaine. I hope she ends up liking history books as much as I do.
I love your dry sense of humor and the fact that the name Hazel now no longer has me thinking of a character of the same name from a 60's sitcom. Rated.
Thanks, cartouche. And I love your appreciation for the absurd. I should say that dry humor did not come naturally to me, it came as a gift from my thoroughly desiccated husband. The best thing he ever gave me. Then again, the bar is low. This year I got a crock pot for Christmas. No lie.