Equal pay for equal work? Although the issue transcends gender, race, religion, etc., in my state, it is merely un-PC to pay a woman less for the same work performed by a male counterpart - it is not illegal. This post was inspired by Jon Henner's Open Call regarding Equal Pay Day - April 28th. Check it out for other OSer's stories.
Story 1: Grandma S.
Grandma S. was born in 1910, raised on a farm in northern Kentucky, somewhere in the middle of five or six kids. She married Grandpa S., knowing that his music came first, and loving him anyway. He was a Vaudeville musican, and a good man, and mostly let her have her way. Even though he could play almost any instrument you can name, a musician's income is honest, but rarely steady.
When WWII came along, she worked in a factory making springs for the war effort. Within a week, she was setting production records, humming to herself as she precisely adjusted the tension on each coil, monitoring the little gauges on the machine. When the managers stood behind her one sweltering afternoon, she assumed she needed to speed up, and was suprised to learn from angry co-workers that her performance had convinced management to raise the quotas.
I don't know if she was thinking about equal pay, because it was assumed that women in the workplace were single, and higher pay belonged to family breadwinners. When the war ended, most of the women were let go to make room for the homecoming veterans. They wanted Grandma S. to stay. Instead, she went on the road with the Grandpa S. and the band (think "I Love Lucy," without the "Baba Lou").
They settled down in Cincinnati, and Grandma got work at a fabric and upholstery store. Her enthusiasm for the products was contagious, and she soon became one of the top sales people on the floor. In fact, to keep her working after Dad was born, the owner installed a mini-daycare in the back room. This was revolutionary for its time (and would still be considered revolutionary, unfortunately).
When sales began to level off in the late 50's, Grandma S. asked the owner to let her make appointments with some of their upscale clients, and take fabric samples to their homes. It was easier for the client to visualize color and pattern combinations in the rooms where they would be placed - and Grandma S. could take the measurements and orders all in the same visit. She was the quintessential interior decorator, with or without the title.
She ended up with a company car, and a reputation for a lead foot. (My earliest memories of her regard a sweet little Volkswagon and the smell of her leather driving gloves, cigarette smoke, fabric samples, hairspray, and rich perfume somehow lightly combined.) That's where she worked until she retired, and still looks back on it (she's 98) with great fondness.
Grandma S. got lucky - the owner of the fabric store valued those who did good business. Did she receive equal pay? I don't know - and I'm not sure that she knew either. I do know that she counts that job among the major blessings in her life, because it allowed her to provide a steady income for the family while doing something she loved.
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Story 2: Grandma M.
Grandma M. was born in northern Ohio, the precocious one of her three sisters and two brothers. When the "bob" came into style for the girls, but was forbidden by their parents, Grandma went out to the barn with a pair of scissors and gave herself a bob. She made such a mess of it, her parents had to take her (and her sisters, to make it fair) to get it cut properly.
Grandma M. was the first person in her family to receive a college education - a teaching degree. Although she was intrigued with Grandpa M. (when the dorm where Grandpa lived burned down, they joked that it was their love letters that set it aflame), she had no intention of marrying until she had her degree and a job. This, in turn, impressed Grandpa M.
In order to get her first job, Grandma M. agreed teach remedial English, and to coach girls basketball (old-school half-court style), even though she'd never seen it played. A book became her coach, although Grandad said he helped a little. She lived in a women's only boarding house, and because she would lose her job if she married, they eloped over Christmas break. Grandad snuck in through the window to visit her at night.
They announced their marriage at the end of the school year, and because she was doing exceptionally well with the classes no one else wanted (or dared) to teach, the school board did her a favor - she got to keep teaching. She was 5'2" tall, but she kept order among the least bright and most disruptive students using her famous elbow grip; her small hands were no match for the nerve endings near the elbows of even her largest pupils.
Grandad went on to become a Principal, a Superintendent, an Athletic Director. Grandma M. taught high school English anywhere he went. It is said that one day, arriving home from school to the bedlam and chaos of 5 overactive teenage sons, Grandma M. was heard to mutter at the doorstep, "This is not of me. For if it were of me, I would have a little dog, and he would know me." (The reference is to Odysseus, upon his return home. I once heard her in the laundry room: "Out, out, dam-ned spot.") Her two daughters (one of them my mother) also carried Grandma M.'s strength, grace, and bearing.
Was she thinking of equal pay? Most likely. Fairness and justice were in her very bones. Given equal footing, she might have made an amazing administrator or college professor. But she did her job extremely well. At her funeral, a suprising number of former students contributed anecdotes about her toughness; they admired that she made them learn to read and write better than they originally wanted to.
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To me, it is self-evidential that we deserve equal pay for equal work - across the lines of gender, race, perceived ability, age, religion - whatever. If I produce 10 widgets and you produce 10 widgets, we should receive the same compensation.
This is merely my meditation on equal pay - that without these women, I might not have the opportunity to ask the question about equal pay. They are my Grandmothers. They helped prove to the world that we can do the job.
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Story 3 - Historical Perspective
I'm not related to Ms. Truth, but if it were up to me, I would speak of her as Dr. Truth. As I was writing this post, her words would not leave me alone, so I thought I would add them as a post-script. In reality, they deserve a post all their own:
Sojourner Truth (1797-1883): Ain't I A Woman?
Delivered 1851
Women's Convention, Akron, Ohio
Well, children, where there is so much racket there must be something out of kilter. I think that 'twixt the negroes of the South and the women at the North, all talking about rights, the white men will be in a fix pretty soon. But what's all this here talking about?
That man over there says that women need to be helped into carriages, and lifted over ditches, and to have the best place everywhere. Nobody ever helps me into carriages, or over mud-puddles, or gives me any best place! And ain't I a woman?
Look at me! Look at my arm! I have ploughed and planted, and gathered into barns, and no man could head me! And ain't I a woman?
I could work as much and eat as much as a man - when I could get it - and bear the lash as well! And ain't I a woman?
I have borne thirteen children, and seen most all sold off to slavery, and when I cried out with my mother's grief, none but Jesus heard me! And ain't I a woman? . . .
Then that little man in black there, he says women can't have as much rights as men, 'cause Christ wasn't a woman! Where did your Christ come from? Where did your Christ come from? From God and a woman! Man had nothing to do with Him.
If the first woman God ever made was strong enough to turn the world upside down all alone, these women together ought to be able to turn it back , and get it right side up again! And now they is asking to do it, the men better let them.
Obliged to you for hearing me, and now old Sojourner ain't got nothing more to say.


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"To me, it is self-evidential that we deserve equal pay for equal work - across the lines of gender, race, perceived ability, age, religion - whatever. If I produce 10 widgets and you produce 10 widgets, we should receive the same compensation."
though there's still a ways to go before we've got real gender parity in pay, it seems like a no-brainer to me that we should, and part of the reason for that is that the generations of women before - inclunding your 2 grams - helped to make it so.
It is an inspiration to hear about these brave souls, who had the grit and determination to not stay where they were told, but rather faced down injustice, moving on towards excellence.
I think my mother considered herself lucky to have a professional job that used her degree, I doubt she'd have railed against a lower salary, when so many of her peers were confined to teaching and nursing.
And of course, she didn't have the job long, while she married late for the 50s, she did marry.
Nanatehay – thanks, nana. I work in an industry where I’ve seen the gender inequity, and may have experienced it. But I have used my Grandmas as role models to persevere and make my own way. Hopefully it will pave the way for others.
Pat-on-mars – writing about my Grandmas put me in the mind of Sojourner, who trailblazed in so many ways, for so many people, with struggles and hardships we can barely imagine.
FLW – I’m really lucky in regards to the heritage. I only hope I can live up to the examples.
Mama Lou – It’s true – we stand on the shoulders of giants. At 5’2” (eyes of blue), Grandma M. could humble a student half her age and twice her size!
Gary – one of the things that stand out regarding both of my Grandmas is that they never thought of it as brave, even though it was. They thought of it as doing the right thing. As for Sojourner Truth, I can only be inspired because there are too few equals.
Mausinka – I think we still find ourselves in that mindset, that we feel lucky to have the job we have, and so don’t rally for equal pay. In addition, it’s often difficult to find out what someone else is getting paid.
Penrose – I’m glad you enjoyed them as much as I do.
Fabflamingo – Thanks for reading. I suspect that Grandma M. is watching this whole thing over my shoulder, quite possibly correcting any factual errors with red ink, and bemused that her story is being used as inspiration.
Rated.
Thanks for all the time you put into writing it.
What a well written, well-deserved homage' to all three remarkable trailblazers!
I've been a full-time working girl (with a few breaks for childbirth and college) for over forty years. Unfortunately, in my observation, the old standard is slow to die. But we're gettin' there.
I'd like to take it a step beyond. How about the concept of fair compensation for the most important and toughest job ever? For those who work (yes, work - and hard!) as homemakers. They hone an impressive level of expertise in the following areas: childcare, nursing, psychology, tutoring, culinary arts, domestic skills, accounting, chauffeuring, volunteering, home security, poison control and home safety, laundering and general housecleaning, and others beyond delineating. Compensation? Just a thought.
Thanks for a glimpse into your lineage and history.
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"If the first woman God ever made was strong enough to turn the world upside down all alone, these women together ought to be able to turn it back , and get it right side up again! And now they is asking to do it, the men better let them."
CoyoteOldStyle – Your grandma sounds like one hell of a lady. I so agree with you regarding the obviousness of the argument. There are many issues where I can at least make sense of the opposing view. This is NOT one of them.
Hyblaen-Julie – Thanks!
I've said it a lot around here, and here I go again! "I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan!" And raise the kids, clean the house, go to Victoria's Secret, wash the car, split the atom, learn opera, volunteer at the school carnival, make sure Suzie has her costume for the play, earn a Master's degree in the hopes I can make a little more, go to couples therapy because I'm exhausted and getting little or no help, and do all of this on 3 hours of sleep a night.
Women are sci-fi. Seriously. I know women who do it all. Super Heroes. Mother's Day isn't near enough celebration.