Breaking the Silence

Figuring It Out One Day At a Time

Pamela Tsigdinos

Pamela Tsigdinos
Location
Bay Area, California,
Birthday
June 12
Bio
I'm left-handed, six feet tall, and I like broccoli but not cauliflower. I'm Michigander by birth, Californian by choice. Oh, yeah, and I'm infertile. There. I said it. Now you'll understand how living in an era of designer babies and helicopter parents served up loads of material for my book, Silent Sorority (http://www.silentsorority.com). When I'm not working with startups in Silicon Valley, I'm a forty-something writer exploring ideas and society's norms. At the keyboard is where I am most relaxed. So join me here as I try to be less type A and maybe figure a few things out....

MY RECENT POSTS

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SEPTEMBER 19, 2011 1:27PM

Dispatch from "hell": It's not all bad

I am not living a fate worse than death, although that's certainly the implication from a recent "Heroes Among Us" People magazine feature called, "One Mom's Mission: Help Others Adopt."

The Mom explains that she was motivated in her cause because she "can't live" with the idea of people living a… Read full post »

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MARCH 10, 2010 10:52AM

The Subtext of Big Love: Fertility Rules

In a television show about a modern family practicing polygamy we get ringside seats as the family members navigate the seamier side of politics, gambling and fringe religion, but one thing is clear: fertile women rule.

There are plenty of plot twists and surprises packed into each hour-long episode… Read full post »

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NOVEMBER 8, 2009 3:40PM

45 Years After Rossi, Mommies Propagate Prejudice

 

Alice S. Rossi passed away this past week. An unwitting beneficiary of her life’s work, I’m a bit embarrassed to admit I didn’t know her name or what she’d accomplished. It was the descriptor in a New York Times obituary headline that encouraged me to dive into the piec… Read full post »

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OCTOBER 12, 2009 2:08PM

Fertility Industry: Boon and Curse

Nothing gets me grumpier than having a peaceful morning shattered by an inflammatory news story -- especially before my first cup of coffee.

Yet there it was on the front page of the Sunday New York Times The Gift of Life, And Its Price. Mellow morning ruined.

Why? I was reminded… Read full post »