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Patrick Frank

Patrick Frank
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Asheville, North Carolina, USA
Birthday
September 26
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I am a poet-essayist-singer-songwriter, and advocate for the poor, with a teaching and counseling background. I grew up in Florida, now live in Arden, North Carolina. I also lived in New England 20 years. I love nature, music, and poetry. I am married and we have three adult-kids between us and four grandkids! I am interfaith, leaning toward Taoist, Celtic, and Native American spirituality, and an "Obama Democrat." I am now focusing on our upcoming move (within Asheville) as well as my music and poetry-writing. I also continue to write political columns.

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NOVEMBER 2, 2011 7:54AM

A Meditation on the Music of Bob Seger and My Past Life

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Listening to "Roll Me Away," by Bob Seger, great song and artist. Of course, it transports me to past decades, but this song is about freedom, freedom, freedom, of any age or decade.

Seger touched me back when I was striving to make a life in New England, and around the time that a prior marriage was falling apart, but for a long time I did not understand the dynamics. I had no idea how things would unfold, the pain the loss, the guilt for my part. Maybe it was 99% me. It's hard to figure out the dynamics from so long ago.

But Seger touched my creative spirit, and helped me to explore my musical side. Then a kind of tragedy began to unfold.

It is said that there is no such thing as closure in the aftermath of trauma. Closure is a word that TV psychologists like to throw around. I believe that the pain continues to reverberate somewhere in our psyches, though we do go on with life, to hopefully learn something about ourselves and other people and how to live with integrity in this crazy world.

Bob Seger--Hollywood nights, Against the Wind, Main Street, Night Moves and many others. Great songs. I love how he melded blues and rock and soul. It is a good thing for artists to cross genres, to not be limited to a single artistic point of view. It is good for artists to not make a mess of their lives and go down the tubes. Or if they make a mess, find a way to clean things up, to climb out of the pit of regret and feel the warmth of the sun again, and then to climb the mountain one more time.

When I think of Main Street, I think of the mean streets of Hartford Connecticut, near the train-bus station, where I volunteered in a homeless drop-in center, and years later, ended up on the verge of homelessness myself, but did not know I was headed down that road. Music brings back specific memories, and you feel a kind of sweet pain.

Seger. I know nothing about his personal life, but his great songs and performances have inspired me through all the years to keep going with my music and poetry and generally, with life.

Night Moves. Takes me back to Mt. Carmel, Illinois, my year in VISTA, before that song was even produced. Makes me think of another life I could have led, if I had made different choices.

But here I am, and here you are. We have choices today, Our lives are still being shaped. The story is far from over. There is more music to create...

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Great post my friend. Roll Me away too. The streets of Hartford are very different now. I rarely go there. "Accompany Me" is and always will be my favorite. Rated with A Jali Smile of course. :-)
Yes, Accompany Me is a great song...
Seger has been one of my favourite artists since "Heavy Music". However, one of his most significant songs was "Turn the Page", at least for me. It's something we all have to do at one time or another....

On the other hand, ain't it funny how the night moves?
I needed this today, Patrick. Thank you. Seger indeed reverberates in the sounds of my past...hauntingly so. You never fail to help us contemplate. Rated.
"Music brings back specific memories, and you feel a kind of sweet pain." Isn't that the truth. Sometimes I feel like every part of my life has a soundtrack because I can recall a song or songs that go with each memory. I always loved "Turn the Page" and "Beautiful Loser" is one of my favorites too. Wonderful post.
For me it was Beautiful Loser. Mt Carmel huh? Didn't miss me by much then.
"Night Moves" was the soundtrack of my courtship with my husband, and it still takes me back to a car parked near a creek at the end of a cornfield.