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Patrick Frank

Patrick Frank
Location
Asheville, North Carolina, USA
Birthday
September 26
Bio
I am a poet-essayist-singer-songwriter, and advocate for the poor, with a teaching and counseling background. I grew up in Florida, now live in Asheville, North Carolina. I also lived in New England 20 years. I love nature, music, and poetry. I am married and we have three adult-kids between us and four grandkids! I am interfaith, leaning toward Taoist, Celtic, and Native American spirituality, and an "Obama Democrat." Currently, I am working on poetry and prose as well as publishing political columns. I am also phone banking nationally for Obama.

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JUNE 23, 2012 6:53AM

It is what it is: the importance of facing reality

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It is what it is:

Accept reality. Take a cold, hard look at what is. Don’t run away from the truth. Like the fact that I am 67 and don’t have the energy I once did later in the day. Like the fact that my job record is spotty and if I seek part-time employment for the fall, my age and job record may close the door on an opportunity. Like the fact that due to my loss of energy in the late PM that fulltime work is not realistic; a part-time job is, though. The fact is that I am a good counselor but not such a good teacher, so I should stick to my skill.  In addition to writing, of course. Poetry is probably my first love, as far as a creative endeavor is concerned. But beyond that, I still want to work part-time. I hate to not utilize a skill.

Is there a reality you need to take a close look at and accept?

 

 

 

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Reality grounds us in mental health and well-being. It also is a great tool in our life path. Yet another thoughtful post, Patrick. R
the one reality i am reminded to face daily is accepting who I've become — and I nap in the afternoon, always have.
I always appreciate your searching questions. I'd say reality itself is the reality I always need to remember.
Patrick, it's funny I've always tried to avoid reality, but it still comes up and smacks me in the face!
This is true, I spent a lifetime being told to ignore reality so that's what I learned. It hasn't gone well. Even the little things like telling my friends I'm tired and need to leave a function or there's something I'm no longer capable of. Friends and family will argue and tell me it's not so, I stick with reality because I'm the one who pays the price if I don't. It's the same with people, others telling me to do this or that to make a person like me is pointless. If someone doesn't like me it's okay, it is what it is and I move on.

Running away from the truth doesn't change it. Great post, thank you.