
There is an article in today’s Chicago Tribune about Millvina Dean. “Who is she?” you may ask. Millvina Dean is the last survivor of the Titanic. Now 96 years old, Millvina was a two month old baby on that fateful April day in 1912. She was the youngest passenger on board. Her mother and father were taking Millvina and her two year old brother to America, joining the great early twentieth century migration of Europeans seeking a new life across the sea. From New York, the Dean’s planned to proceed by train to Wichita, Kansas, where Millvina’s father, Bertram, had relatives. Once settled, Mr. Dean planned to open a tobacco shop, and to make real his vision of the Great American Dream. Of course, that dream came to a cold and tragic end on the night of April 12. An hour after the ship swiped the ice berg, Millvina’s father wrapped his baby girl in a cloth sack and handed her to his wife, who was already in lifeboat number 13. In the confusion, they could not find their small son. While frantically calling his name, the lifeboat was lowered into the sea, mother and daughter separated from husband and son. Following their rescue the next day, the distraught mother found her son on board the Carpathia. In the chaos of the previous night, someone saw the small boy wandering the Titanic deck alone. The boy was picked up and placed on a different lifeboat than his mother and sister, but he was saved. However, the children would never see their father again. Bertram Dean, who dreamed of running a tobacco shop in America, was one of the 1527 men, women, and children who perished that night. His body was never recovered.
Millvina Dean is the last living connection to one of the great stories of the twentieth century. We are quickly losing our connections to the important events of the first half of that century. When film maker Ken Burns was interviewed about his outstanding World War II documentary The War, he said the main impetus for the project was the fact that 1000 American veterans of that war were dying every day. Within a few years, it would be impossible to make an oral history of the war based on interviews with actual participants.
My own family is a case in point. My mother had two brothers, one of whom served in the war, flying on B29 bombing missions in the Pacific. He passed away 15 years ago. Although my father was not a veteran, he had a job on the home front, working in a Memphis shipyard building landing craft that would be used on the beaches of Normandy, and on faraway islands carrying names like Iwo Jima and Saipan. He had four brothers, three of them veterans of the war. All but one of these men is gone now. The only remaining son from that generation is 88 years old and in poor health. My family connection to World War II is almost at an end.
Among the hundreds of family pictures in my possession, one that I find particularly interesting shows my grandmother’s brother in a doughboy uniform. He was a young farmer from West Virginia on his way to the horrors of the trenches. I only met that man once or twice, when he was already very old. I was just a boy. I don’t know anything about his WWI experience. Like all but a handful of World War I veterans, my great uncle is long deceased.
The last remaining Central Powers veteran of World War I was Franz Kuenstler, who fought for Austria-Hungary. He died last year at the age of 107. There are two surviving British combat veterans from that war, as well as two Australians, one Italian, and one American. The American is named Frank Buckles, who is 107 years old. In two or three years, there will be no living veteran of World War I.
When I was a child, I had very real and tangible connections to the great events of the twentieth century. I listened wide-eyed to my grandfather’s tales of West Virginia mountain moonshiners. I was enthralled by his personal recollections of the Appalachian coal wars, those violent and deadly clashes that happened a hundred years ago between unionizing miners and the companies they worked for. I listened to my parents talk about the hardships of growing up during the Depression, and heard their recollection of the “day that will live in infamy,” December 7, 1941. I was captivated by these stories, made real by the personal involvement of those I loved.
The story tellers are gone, now. The events themselves are recalled only in history books, and grainy old film. As we move deeper into the twenty-first century, we are quickly losing our personal connection to the great events of the previous one. It is an inevitable transition, but a sad one, nonetheless.


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The reason this is important is that it keeps that personal connection ALIVE!
undertow, thank you, too. I'm glad you stopped by!
I really enjoyed this post. I always enjoy posts like this in which there is a sort of abstract emotional dimension to the writing.
I think there are varieties of “personal connection” to some of the major events of the 20th century. You have some personal connections via relatives who participated in some of those events. Many of us may not have that type of “personal connection” but may feel a personal connection of another sort.
As a small boy, I was intrigued by, and felt connected to, the Titanic disaster. I read books about the American Civil War, the Great War (WWI), and WWII. None of my friends at that age (about the fourth through seventh grades) seemed remotely interested in any of those events, which I think is indicative of the idea that some people just don't seem all that interested in historical events in general while others are drawn to them. There is probably an innate difference that creates this dichotomy.
Despite not experiencing a connection to these events through personal relationships with people who participated in them, there have always been certain historical events to which I have been drawn, and to which I have felt some kind of unexplained personal connection. I subscribe to the well-known idea that history is important in knowing how we got to where we are, and in understanding some of the issues we face.
Recent events in America bear this out clearly, I think. Often our best understanding of such events will come through those who lived through those times, and I agree with you that it is important that we maintain contact with that sort of “personal connection” to these events. Thanks for writing this.
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LT, I will check out geni.com. Thanks.
Gary and Sandra, thank you both for your comments. Perhaps I should find a way to write about happy history next time, rather than the heartbreak of war and disaster!
There is hardly a day that goes by that I don't think about my dad and all the things I didn't ask him or that I did and he wouldn't speak of; the Depression, the War, memories of his father.
Thank you.
All of the WWII veterans in my family are gone now they included four Uncles and many "uncles" (the "uncle" title was the honorific variety that we used to address grandparents' cousins and long-time family friends). Most of them never talked about their experiences to us kids, or even amongst themselves while we were around. I know that not all the stories would have been horrific, while many did see combat, many more did not. I just get the feeling that it just "wasn't done". I'd love to go back and get those stories, the routine as much, if not more than, the thrilling. What was the hardest thing about cleaning an M-1 rifle? How did you refuel a P-47? How di dthey get the mail to the guys up on the line at Iwo Jima? These were the guys that knew. I'd also be just as interested in what my Aunts and "aunties" (same distinction) had to say about their experiences and the waiting and worrying.
Sometimes I think we just missed so much by not realizing how important this all was (people's experiences in general, not just wartime) until it was too late. That's why I really enjoy and value these posts.
Jeez, I ramble on sometimes.
What we don't always realize is that, in the digital age, preservation issues persist as technology evolves and old platforms are discarded. When this happens, we risk losing old images, letters, and films captured on older formats. (Betamax, anybody?)
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John, thank you so much. It's funny the editors and many commentors dwell on the war memories, which wasn't my intent. Really, as you point out, some of the most interesting aspects of the past concern not the great movement of armies, but the smaller events, like my grandfather's recollection of moonshiners and such, or your thoughts of the "routine" as opposed to the "thrilling".
Monique, thank you. It's that "ephemera" (what a great word!) that makes it all so real, isn't it? With the passage of time and loss of the primary players, ephemera is all that is left. The twentieth century is quickly becoming just another hisorical era, more and more void of living, breathing human beings.
I do amateur archaeology (always supervised, sanctioned digs, not freelance) and I always prefer prefer looking at the everyday. The great and the famous can look after their own history.
It is fascinating stuff, but not to everyone, I guess. You're exactly right about the “...drama that unfolded, involving very real human beings, that had serious consequences, both at a macro level, and an often heart-breaking micro level.”
When I was 17, I talked to an elderly man who had been in the pre-WWI era cavalry, and had gone with Black Jack Pershing, to chase Pancho Villa into Mexico. I so wish I had taken notes, as he had wonderful stories... which are now probably beyond us, unless he left a memoir.
I also worked for several years with an individual who had come out to California as a child with his parent from Oklahoma escaping the dust bowl. He often told stories of the camps in the central valley where he and his family spent time trying to find work. It correlated very much with my some of the stories I heard from my grandmother.
There are many stories of the people I have come to know over the years, many are incomplete. Thank you for this
Ironically there is to be a Story Tellers Conference ending the day we begin the FAR West Folk Alliance Conference in Mesa Arizona. We have lost a part of that heritage of storytelling and I believe it is time to go back and listen to those who have passed on the oral history of our culture, the history of the people for which you speak of. Tellers are the keepers of our heritage. That heritage is in the oral history told in tales and song, it is even closer to the earth that what has been written by academics.
I feel the call now to recall those stories I have heard from so many I have worked with over the years as well as the stories of my relatives. I began writing of one remembering a friend we all called “Good Buddy”, last week and will have to get back to it.
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I started something similar with a post about my father - who was a photographer for the Air Force during WWII, I have dozens of wonderful photos - and even more B&W negatives. One day soon I hope to be able to find some way to swing for a decent scanner that does large format negatives.
In the meantime I need to get my other scanner working so I can post more of his WWII photos.
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We're now almost 80 years from the start of the Great Depression. WWII veterans are, as you mention growing scarcer and scarcer. Elton John is now in his 60s. The grand movie palaces of my youth have all closed in favor of cineplexes. People who can remember segregation all now have grey hair. New wave music is now "retro." There are people voting this year who were born during the first Bush administration.
Thanks for reminding us how quickly this all goes by. It's important to save our memories.
Speaking of poetry, though, listen to this:
I teach a literature class with a colleague, an Indian as it happens. At her insistence, we have included a session on World War I poetry. The bitterness of those young men hits home with our students. Last year, perhaps 20% of them wrote on that. This is why we have poetry, to give a hard, diamond-like shape to the lived experience of the past.
I know this is not the same as the contact with the real witnesses of the past, but it is something nonetheless and is a living reality today.
Kelly and Faith, the memories of your loved ones are true treasures, aren't they? Of so much greater value than anything contained in a will or a bank. Thanks for sharing.
http://borgesandi.blogspot.com/2007/10/witness-el-testigo-by-jorge-luis-borges.html
Thank you for stopping by.
It had snowed for the first time that winter in my little hometown of Oakland, Maine. My brother and I were in a vacant lot across the street from our house, rolling up balls of snow to make a snowman. Mom came out and called for us to come inside at once. When we reached the door, she told us "This is something you will remember forever." We listened to the radio as the announcer described the attack on Pearl Harbour. Mom was right.
The ensuing four and a half years were the most definative of my life. Those who didn't experience it can have little appreciation of the great unifying spirit which pervaded every aspect of our lives.
How sadly unlike today.
Thanks for your contribution.
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I remember reading, as a child, Bruce Catton talk about how he listened to veterans of the Grand Army of the Republic discuss their experiences in the Civil War, which spurred his interest in that event. Another instance of storytellers, as you say, stirring interest in the great stories of the past.
What makes those stories so important is that they provide depth and texture to the names and dates that are the structure of history.
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At my age, and with my own family history, surrounded by family photos including my great uncle in his World War I uniform and his sister, my grandmother as a baby - a photo taken in 1903 - only until now has our history and heritage become lost - I will be personally connected to a century that I lived most of my life in and where many of the people in generations before me lived and died...I am appalled by young people who are graduating from high school and if you quizzed them, they would not know what the significance of December 7th means...we are an instant gratification society that forgets our recent history in this new century or dismisses it - this way of life should not be inevitable - we think we are chic and with it in our deconstructionist zeal when what we are really doing is self-destructing as a culture and a people...cut from our own roots instead of being the keepers of our oral tradition and the storytellers now...