psychomama

psychomama
Location
Dublin, Ireland
Birthday
June 13
Bio
I'm a working wife and mother whose 50th birthday resolution is to develop a life - friends, a book club, a voice... I've loved writing all my life and I've loved talking all my life - it's the convergence of these two modes that's been difficult! But I'm working on it... All posts copyright Agalma 2009.

NOVEMBER 15, 2009 5:35PM

OS Sucks ... And How!!!

 

Lately, I've been quite perturbed by the extraordinary level of navel-gazing on Open Salon.    I say 'extraordinary' because, of course, there is always a certain amount of navel-gazing in our posts.   Where would we be, for instance, without the meta-posts by people l… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 8, 2009 9:18AM

Arbeit macht Frei - an Enduring Myth?

Thinker, teacher,

poet, preacher, 

 

Mother, father,

voted-for-Dan-Rather, 

 

I am

What I do, not what I say

 

If I do not do

do I not have a say?

 

Why is it enough to tell you what I do

For a living?

When… Read full post »

OCTOBER 8, 2009 6:12AM

Party for Ric... Open Invitation!


What goes 'round comes 'round

Earth spinning on love axis

Karmic Banner-man

birthday hat

 

As many of you know, Ric Tresa has been in considerable pain since his fall on September 20th.    Open Salon seems strange without his regular technical advice, cartoons and comedy and
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SEPTEMBER 29, 2009 4:39PM

A Maggie called Julia: UPDATED

I remember one Sunday morning coming down to the kitchen, and she was sitting there beside the Aga.   Julia.   Wretched, bruised, distracted, ragged.  Sitting folded upon herself, away from me, like a skeletal knot in the corner.  She brushed wisps of frizzy, filthy hair… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 3, 2009 11:19AM

Citizen Obama

From a story in yesterday's Kilkenny People, we learn that US President Barack Obama is descended from not one but two eminent intellectuals of the Irish 18th Century Ascendancy class.   The body of his great, great, great, great grand-uncle Dr. John Kearney, has been located in a hidden va… Read full post »

In response to Barkinglot's open call, here is a song that almost cost me my friends a long time ago.   It's an Italian Eurovision entry from 1974.   It won, if I remember rightly.  I know it was released in English after the Eurovision and, according to the youtube comments,… Read full post »

AUGUST 26, 2009 10:25PM

Terminal (Sexual) Healing

She was blonde and beautiful.   Not thin, not coiffed, not Botoxed; her bag bore no designer label and her shoes were dark courts, not red stillettoes.  But there was something...

 

The young female registrar struggled with the interview:

'So, you've been told it's terminal now? &… Read full post »

Ten poems, ten punctuations, some old, some more modern, all relevant to what I am today.   Thank you, Cy, for another provocative open call!   I've linked where I could to a rendition of each poem so that you may have a full-sense appreciation of each one.   Now I'm bolting… Read full post »

AUGUST 22, 2009 8:16AM

Erotic Woman Walking

I've been reading Nuala Nic Dhomhnaill lately.   

I love the earthiness of her poetry, its rhythm, its cadence and its sexiness.    Perhaps this is what inspired me, watching a woman walking into a cafe on Grafton Street the other day.   

Something in her stride… Read full post »

Cyclopic has set a challenge - to name fifteen books that we found life-changing or otherwise unforgettable.   On Facebook, this challenge has two parts: to name the books, and to do so within 15 minutes.   Being a reasonable man - his bio is obviously written tongue-in-cheek! - C… Read full post »

There is a deep-seated atavistic fear in all humanity of the non-sense; it’s the horror at the centre of every joke, it’s the vertigo at the lip of every chasm.   This fear of madness threatens to overwhelm us all.  Affrighted, we gather like superstitious, torch-bearing vi… Read full post »

JULY 18, 2009 7:04PM

Happy Now?

- in answer to JLee's open call, an updated post:

The pursuit of happy-ness, that is the modern dilemma; a generation has grown up heeding the parental and societal demand that they ‘just be happy’.   It’s an injunction that pervades the common discourse: ‘You&rsquo… Read full post »

I've spoken before about the mistaken belief that the staple of the Irish diet is corned beef and cabbage.     Corned beef is much more an English meal than a traditional Irish meal.     Bacon and its many by-products, Spring lamb in a white stew, Clonakilty pudding… Read full post »

JULY 6, 2009 8:39PM

Aran Islands with Photos

In Dorinda's recent post, she mentioned a forthcoming holiday in Ireland, visiting Dublin and the Aran Islands.    Serendipitously, looking for some old photos on the computer, I found these pictures my husband took on a team-building business trip to the largest of the Aran Islands, Inis M… Read full post »

Happy Birthday, Teddy!

 

You're the most original voice on OS

A fighter, a champion, a brave knight

I wanted to buy you a cake

With candles and icing that shakes 

 But then those photos

Of a sweet LA 'Ho

 Suggested a gentler image, 

of a lady, a courtly lady

a… Read full post »

JUNE 23, 2009 6:31PM

Eye of the Beholder

 

At a lecture on eating disorders and thinking about where to go for lunch - as one inevitably does at these things - I was struck by the image-ridden obsession of our modern existence.  We are reflected, fashioned, copied, mirrored, reproduced, in a maniacally Barbie-fied world. &nb… Read full post »

JUNE 15, 2009 6:34PM

Bloomsday - a Joycean adventure

On June 16th each year, Dublin celebrates Bloomsday.  This is a ritualised re-enactment of the momentous banality of the events which passed in the life of Leopold Bloom on June 16,1904, in the sleepy, seaside town of Edwardian Dublin.   

This is literature.  This is culture. … Read full post »

JUNE 12, 2009 7:14PM

Too old to Party??

It’s my birthday.   It’s not a significant birthday.  It’s significant it’s my birthday.   It’s not a significant age.  It’s a significant day.   It’s significant.   It’s just... my birthday.  

It ma… Read full post »

Our country has been rocked again by another abuse report.   This is a personal response.   

Listening to and reading the debates on the Ryan Institutional Report, I have to ask why are we focussing on the issue of money?    The core issue here is not  money but ac… Read full post »

APRIL 23, 2009 3:29PM

Posts, Snarks and Flounces

Or maybe I mean:

Posts Snarks, and Flounces .......?

 

 

 

 

Anyway, when it occurred to me, I thought 'It's such a good title, why waste it?'

 

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I was 36 weeks pregnant on my first child when I awoke in the mid-night darkness with cramps.    Uncomfortable, I shifted to look, automatically, at the clock beside my bed.    My husband, still undisturbed, breathed softly behind me as another cramp clenched my… Read full post »


 

My immediate reaction to Zuma's challenge was to seek out this song, 'My Lovely Horse'.    Unfortunately I couldn't embed the video without the help of my college sweetie - still doing my… Read full post »

MARCH 21, 2009 9:15PM

Ghost's Open Call!

On the flimsy promise of a (virtual) cookie, I have bared my psyche in answer to Ghost Writer's most excellent Open Call.   His three questions, though posed so simply, provoked this stream-of-complex-consciousness response....... 

 

 

#1 What do you dream about?

Me, cycling down… Read full post »

Forgive me, OS, this post may be a little chaotic - we've just won the Six Nations CUp by a Grand Slam after 61 years by 15-17, with a drop goal by O'Gara with 90 seconds to go and Wales missing a score in the final SECOND of the match.........I should… Read full post »

One of the first posts I read on OS was about the ‘Sunday Crowns’, the hats worn by black religious women to Sunday services. I’d come across the term ‘crown’ in an episode of ‘The Wire’ and found the post informative, provocative and entertaining. Her avatar… Read full post »