Five quotes from “The end of the affair”, a 1951 novel by Graham Greene:
1. When I began to realize how often we quarrelled, how often I picked on her with nervous irritation, I became aware that our love was doomed: love had turned into a love-affair with a beginning and an end. I could name the very moment when it had begun, and one day I knew I should be able to name the final hour.
2. Distrust grows with a lover's success.
3. How strange too and unfamiliar to think that one had been loved, that one's presence had once had the power to make a difference between happiness and dullness in another's day.
4. 'How's Sarah?' I asked because it might have seemed odd if I hadn't, though nothing would have delighted me more than to have heard that she was sick, unhappy, dying.
5. If ash-trays could speak….


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CrazeCzar, hmmm, I really like #4 and #5, but I do have to admit that you are right about this: I should either stick with the premise stated in my blog's title, or change the title. I'll think about which I want to do.
Nothing like being picked on with nervous irritation...anger, or any other negative emotion - that's when you know it's not going to work unless you, the one being picked on is a masochist...