APRIL 19, 2009 1:18PM

Susan Boyle: Why Should I Change?

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So much has been written about Susan Boyle since the frumpy, middle-aged Scot from West Lothian became a talent show phenomenon barely a week ago that I hesitate -- but only mildly -- to add my tuppence to the mix.

Something struck me in one of her many media interviews -- it turns out that this plain-speaking woman, whose looks scream anti-celebrity, says she does not want to change her appearance. At all. Not a whit.

Why should I change? She told a reporter who asked if she planned to spruce up her look. Unfortunately, there was no cutaway to show the reporter's reaction.

This un-desire to alter her hair or cheekbones or style of dress flies in the face of every fashion magazine editor, every TV program that worships the stars, every piece of self-help advice that has been foisted on the public, especially the female public, since the beginning of recent time.

With her instant fame has no doubt come a mountain of free offers to bleach and straighten her hair, realign her eyebrows (though I do believe she's already submitted to some plucking), remove an extra chin, crown her teeth, firm up those triceps and abdominals, strategically suck out some fat, remake her wardrobe (what not to wear!) and teach her some foolproof makeup and skincare tips.

Why, in no time at all, she could look just like her idol, Elaine Paige, or even Madonna!

Fortunately, it seems, her brother has spirited her away somewhere to help those solid feet and sensible shoes return to the ground and help her whirling thoughts assess and reassess the chaos of the past seven days. Her world has already been remade -- should she remake herself along with it?

It's not every day that we are "gobsmacked" by international recognition overnight, especially when we've been living a quiet, nondescript life in a quiet, nondescript town with our cat Pebbles and singing just for our local church and pub mates.

The people seem to have "fallen in love with me," she says wincingly, barely able to believe her own words. So would it make any sense to do a radical makeover? Would the results kill the golden goose? Or would they simply help usher a modest woman of enormous talent into the arena she deserves?

I don't have any answers, but I do admire her initial instinct to push back against the publicists and make-up artists and hair stylists and celebrity journalists (a favorite oxymoron) who would run her through the star-making mill and spit her out onto a public that, I suspect, might quickly lose interest.

Would the ugly ducking become a plastic swan? Could the process of making her better actually make her worse?

Whether Susan Boyle wins the whole competition remains to be seen, but there is no doubt her chutzpah and success have given us all inspiration and indeed extra permission to let ourselves be ourselves, lumps and all.

With none of the usual trappings of beauty, this modern-day Cinderella revealed the splendor that is far more than skin deep, and her lack of bitterness despite years of bullying, loneliness and neglect only add to her appeal.

Despite it all, as the French would say, she feels bien dans sa peau. She feels good in her skin. I just hope that nothing of who she is -- of what catapulted her to the global platform -- is taken away from her.

For all that she has taught us about books and their cover, it would be so comforting if she could continue to wow the audience with her stunning voice while remaining just the way she is.

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Why should she change, indeed?
We talk about the "wake-up" call which Susan Boyle's voice gave to all listening that appearance doesn't matter.
We can consider ourselves "awake" when a woman who looks like her walks out on the stage and everyone waits for her to open her mouth before forming an opinion.
Susan is a beautiful example and has started a discussion which is much needed in our society today.
I, too, hope she doesn't change a thing.
This is very well written and not so much a commentary on her as it is a reflection of the media and the public in general. Over the past couple of decades, it has become counter-intuitive to honor talent and find beauty; in fact, we have lost our ability to judge the former at all (it gets decided for us) and we have been force fed this notion of seeking the latter so we can live happily ever after. Not.
This discussion (hopefully) won't end soon. If anything, I think we will keep a closer eye on the "handlers" of Susan Boyle and her career and perhaps finally realize how for too long, we have been had by image propagandists.
I just hope Susan has the tenacity to stand her ground. Her natural beauty could become the new black. I can always hope, can't I?
I agree with Susan, and this post. Why should she change?
It's hard to know what to hope for her.

Cynically, I hope she gets good financial advice and guidance and milks this for every penny.

The part of me that truly relates to her hopes she is able to have somewhat of a career in singing. Many wonderful vocalists do well doing the mid-level stuff.

What will be truly interesting is to see what SHE wants.
The first I heard of Susan, a news snippet had already been crafted around the theme of Simon's about-face. She was expected to be such and such but she proved to be such and such. Your post as well as this woman's meteoric week make the reader confront preconceptions. Any of us who say they're going to "see" someone in concert are already prejudiced, whether by the pop culture or some purely original invention.
I was also way more blown away by Paul Potts. That was a few years ago.
Not sure what's happened with him. I know there was a huge backlash when the pudding faced mobile phone salesman with bad teeth got "uppity".

And also the opera world had to weigh in, and say he would never make it past the chorus of a second rate company...

But boy oh boy - his voice is really amazing.
Whatever it is that she chooses, I hope it is what she most wants to do, and for her reasons. I hope she has much success, and feel comfortable how she came to have it. In many ways she is already the winner.
Rebecca, you hint at an intriguing angle on this Cinderella story: Cinderella herself is indeed "made over" or maybe better, "brought out" before she goes to the ball. In the Disney story, this takes up a large chunk of film, but just generally there is the assumption that Cinderella does "clean up nice" when she gets out of the cinders. And everyone including the prince focuses on her beauty during the ball. It's not for her wonderful application of Kierkegaard to our daily lives that the prince goes after her.

Susan's voice is her beauty. It was always there, in the cinders, and when she went to the "ball" everyone was astonished. So, if there is any fairy-tale justice in the world, we will focus on the beauty of her voice, and leave her appearance alone. Because her voice does not need to be "made over," just as Cinderella's beauty didn't need to be changed, just brought out.
And...Cinderella's talent is to be gracious and kind and never complain and always say thank you. This is revealed to be her beauty.

Susan Boyle's beauty is something I don't presume to know about - she can sing. I mean, I feel like I'm going to get bashed for saying this but - she's not that phenomenal! She's a really, really good singer. Gift, singing in choirs - she has become a very good singer.
But that's it.

I now feel like the Simon Cowell of OS. But I'm defending her right to make a choice about what she wants - because I think presuming her life was "bad" before this ( not that anybody here has - but the media has) reeks of privilege.
I think everything she has done is pretty fucking awesome.

The moment that caring for your your parents becomes a phrase associated with "loser' is when I feel the need to filter the media.
Finally, maybe we can get away from the Hollywood glamour and back to reality. I hope she stays the same, she's charming! She has a wonderful Broadway voice and she's the real deal. I just wish she had been discovered years ago. Knock 'em dead, Susan!!!
Rumor has it that Susan is now considering some improvements to her looks -- I just hope they stay within the normal range, small adjustments that she's comfortable with and make her feel good, and that the extreme makeover people don't talk her into anything, well, extreme. There's a lot of potential "ka-ching" going on here, and the pressure and the promises will likely come on strong. Just don't want to see this genuine woman and her genuine voice chewed up and spit out. Funny how she makes us care!
Rebecca, shouldn't we just leave well enough alone?
Why shouldn't we see the beauty that exists inside? She has looked at herself in the mirror every day of her life and saw only herself. If she is comfortable with her appearence then why would she need to change it? No one is clamoring forAretha Franklin to submit to lipo and cosmetic surgery to improve her looks. She should do with her looks what she wants, but, never submit to the demands of those who only want to change her to satisfy their opinion on looks.
this sure is a feel good story we needed that
Yes Why should we change. Susan Boyle has been sent down from God to teach us all the great lesson of sisterhood and compassion. It is a myth that we 'have to look like 'barbie' Susan is proud of who she is by staying just the way that is ment to be, this IS the stuff that should be in fashion mags, HOW to be a human being, not a plastic wimp. Horay for Susan Boyle the icon of womens liberation 2009.
Karen Braysher S.S.R.H W.F.S.H.S Dip Hairdresser , England.
Thanks, Karen. Agree entirely. I feel for her now but can't help but believe she truly won by losing. She's awesome.