JUNE 30, 2009 9:58AM

Is Anti-Poverty Advocate John Edwards a Deadbeat Dad?

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If anyone has harbored the tiniest shred of doubt about whether John Edwards is the father of his mistress' baby, Andrew Young's upcoming book should do away with it.

Young, who worked for Edwards and considered him a close friend, now says that Edwards begged him to claim he was the father of Hunter's baby.

Which he was willing to do. Until now.

Last week, Young sold his tell-all proposal to St. Martin's Press which, we can be sure, will rush the book to print. In the meantime, key details are making their way into the news.

If Young is to be believed, Edwards is without a doubt the father of a small child being raised by a single mother without any visible means of support.

And statistics have long shown that the poorest Americans tend to be single mothers and their children.

Edwards used the theme of poverty to fuel his presidential campaign, exhorting us all to pay more attention to the needs of those less fortunate than ourselves. And no one can argue with that.

Campaign donors, workers and volunteers gave huge amounts of money and time to that cause, passionately hoping to carry him and his let's-obliterate-poverty message to the White House.

Even after he withdrew from the primary and later confessed to the affair (when he also claimed he didn't love his lover), he continued to position himself as an advocate for the poor. He even defended his campaign by saying that it forced Obama and Clinton to incorporate poverty into their own key messages.

So why is John Edwards leaving his former lover to raise their child without any benefit of his millions?

Like many Democrats in central North Carolina, I saw through Edwards from the get-go -- he was widely resented here for using the state as a springboard for his presidential ambitions, and the news of his affair only confirmed our gut instinct that he was never to be trusted.

He and his family live just five minutes down the road from us in their 22,000-square foot compound. They are our neighbors.

We still shudder when considering the possibility of his having won the nomination.

But I digress.

Even though Hunter has not requested a paternity test -- and her motive for this is unclear -- Edwards might have a chance of regaining a modicum of respect if he would just, after all of the hemming and hawing and lying and dissembling, confess the obvious and get on with doing the right thing.

Even if Hunter steps forward with her own tell-all book and makes a bundle, that still doesn't take Edwards off the hook. He still has a responsibility to that child.

And what kind of message does Edwards' behavior send when so many young men today are fathering and then abandoning their children?

While Obama has been encouraging these same young men to step forward and not only claim but also help raise their children, Edwards seems to be saying that it's okay to deny your own kid in the interest of self-preservation.

In her own oblique way, his wife Elizabeth -- in her many interviews -- may have given Edwards permission to publicly claim the child as his own and begin financial support.

They don't need to invite Rielle and little Frances to the house for Sunday dinner, but he should at least make damn sure the child is properly provided for.

Otherwise, he's just one more deadbeat dad. And that puts one more mother and child at risk for poverty.web stats

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You know, even though I felt like Edwards might have some good ideas, there was always a certain something about him that made it hard for me to trust that he wasn't just another sleezeball politician. Sometimes it's a shame when our internal radar turns out to be accurate.
This is just another example of the hypocrisy in today’s politics. John Edward's crusade for improving poverty in this country was admirable. But his use of this crusade as a photo-op & springboard to the presidential nomination was pure hypocrisy... as you point out.

If he is proven the father of this innocent child, then he must stand up and support her. No matter what!
I haven't detected anything in Elizabeth's statements and TV appearances that would lead to help for Rielle and baby.

Aside from that, agree with your post.
I love it when the good looking guys turn out to be punks!
Do we know that Edwardsisn't providing any support?
I agree with your post except I'm wodering one thing: How do we know that Edwards isn't already financially supporting the mom and baby?
Edwards was always a little too polished for my tastes.
Good points. We don't know if Edwards is supporting Hunter and the baby but if he is, wouldn't he want that to be known? He would look like less of a skunk if he publicly acknowledged them and made it clear he was doing the right thing by them, no?

His professional life is over and if he was trying to sneak cash to Rielle, wouldn't Elizabeth find out? Unless she knows and is willing to let him keep quiet about it -- for the sake of the children, etc.

I got the impression -- however subtle -- from Elizabeth's interviews that if little Frances did turn out to be John's child that Elizabeth wanted nothing to do with "it." Not surprising. But the implication was that John could/should play some role in the baby's life.

I know that may contradict Elizabeth's words but then there was much that was contradictory in her statements.

Such a strange and sad state of affairs.
I'll concur with Jeanette and Roger; is there any way we can know for sure he isn't sending money? I also agree with Myriad; much as I admire Elizabeth Edwards, I have not seen or heard anything indicating she wants John to do anything but ignore Rielle and Frances for the rest of their lives.

Like you, I admired Edwards' effort to include poverty in his campaign. I wanted to like him, and am saddened by what he's fallen to.
He might be supporting the mom and baby with Elizabeth's full knowledge. He has millions. 10-20K a month (a likely figure) wouldn't make much of a dent in the Edward's net worth.

If Edwards is the dad, I'm sure that Elizabeth knows.

I don't think he wants to admit the baby because he is being very lawyerly about all of this. He is gambling that keeping quiet is best for him, and he is probably wrong.
If he is covertly paying her, perhaps that is why she hasn't come out with her own tell-all book? And that would be why Elizabeth would go along with the payments? To keep the truth out of the press? (Interesting twist as the FBI is investigating his finances and, one could assume, keeping track of his expenses. But as long as he isn't mixing campaign funds with personal funds, that shouldn't be an issue.)

The plot keeps thickening on this story, no matter how hard they try to keep it thin. If they really want this whole ugly thing to go away, he should just acknowledge the child and get on with it.
You can bet Edwards is not paying any child support because it is not in his personality or nature to do so (unless forced or it will somehow make him look good). The bigger the house, the smaller the man.
Thanks for a great post. It has spoken volumes to watch Edwards apologists try and do cartwheels to defend him but his actions are indefensible: cheating, lying to his family, stabbing his dying wife in the back - that took all kinds of sociopathic chutzpah! his supporters, the American public, having his friend take the fall for him, using campaign funds for his mistress [and they ALWAYS do - character matters].

It's so disingenuous when people say: "I don't care if he has sex with her as long as he represents me." If Lying and cheating and abuse of campaign funds is what you call "representation", you've got bigger problems than bad politicians.
nutjob, I'm glad you know all the inside details. Please do tell.

And, Deborah, I'd like to know who is apologizing for Edwards. His career is over. Everyone pretty much either hates him or feels betrayed by him.
Anti-Poverty Advocate John Edwards is Deadbeat Dad

You know what I really dislike most about this post? It is your headline, blaring out that John Edwards is a deadbeat dad, when in reality, you haven't got a damned clue what financial arrangements have or haven't been made towards a child that may or may not be John Edwards' child.
You're right, Token Tarheel. And I've changed the title to make it a question rather than statement.

I don't know any more than what millions of other Americans know -- what Edwards tells us. That he is not the father. Which will make Andrew Young quite the liar instead.

But if it's true, I just wish Edwards would fess up -- the truth would help a lot of Democrats heal and move on, even those who didn't support him in the primary. As a private citizen now, he doesn't owe us any explanation but as a former presidential contender, I would think he would want to clear up misunderstandings, confusion and hurt on the part of the electorate. And by showing that he is taking care of "his" child, he could significantly improve his reputation and public image.

I do think many people would then forgive him and finally let him move on.
You said it all and you did it very well.
Thanks, cartouche. I needed that.
I imagine that he's given plenty of money, through various channels, to the kid's mom. Why else is she keeping quiet!

What's left for him to do is just publicly acknowledge that it's his kid, arrange for child support payments and then let everyone get on with their lives without having to lie about it all the time.