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Everyone dreams of visiting the elegant castles of the
Loire Valley in central France.
That was also our dream when my husband and I took a fast train
from Gare Montparnasse in Paris to the city of Angers, which sits
at the center of the Loire's famous chateau country.
As soon… Read full post »
The Health Benefits of Whiskey

A short while ago, I took up drinking dark spirits. Whiskey, that
is. Aquae vitae. Eau de vie. The water of life.
Not because of the economy or marital problems or any deep malaise,
but just because. Because I recently rediscovered a bottle of
single malt whiskey my husband bought me… Read full post »
Why Are Women Still So Unhappy?
You would think that with all of the gains made for and
by women in the past, say, 45 plus years, that we would now rate
ourselves as significantly happier than our mothers and
grandmothers back in the dark ages.
Not so, according to economists Betsey Stevenson and… Read full post »
With Mel Gibson in the news lately -- thanks to his
recent divorce and pregnant girlfriend -- I can't help but fondly
remember the one and only time I served him dinner in Santa Fe.
I had been freelancing for NPR and local publications and was worn
out from the daily… Read full post »
Sometimes we end up in a strange land and we have
only the American taxpayer to thank.
When I contacted the renowned journalist Pierre Salinger in Washington -- whom I'd met some years earlier -- I hoped he might hire me at his public relations agency, one of the… Read full post »
Susan Boyle: Why Should I Change?
So much has been written about Susan Boyle since the
frumpy, middle-aged Scot from West Lothian became a talent show
phenomenon barely a week ago that I hesitate -- but only mildly --
to add my tuppence to the mix.
Something struck me in one of her many media interviews -- it… Read full post »
The Secret Life of Men's Underpants
Forget the stock market, forget home foreclosures,
credit card defaults and unemployment.
According to people in the know, the best way to determine how far
the economy has tanked is to find out how many new underpants guys
are buying at the store.
Sales of boxers and briefs are usually flat… Read full post »
Desperation Made Me Do It
I was desperate to start a blog but terrified of falling
on my face in the process.
Could I write original posts that people might actually want to
read?
After about 30 years of churning out NPR pieces, cable and public
TV programs, newspaper and magazine articles and even children's
books --… Read full post »
Five Good Reasons to Apologize
I used to be the Queen of I'm Not Sorry-Land.
I perfected my not-apologizing skills through many years of
practice, with friends, family and even strangers. Over time, I
discovered just how easy not-apologizing can seem to be.
Until I discovered just how damaging that stubbornness and
self-rig… Read full post »
Dropping Bombs with Kenny Clarke
Striding with (Little) Joe Turner
When I walked into La Calvados, a tiny jazz bo îte
near the Champs-Elysees in Paris, I could hear someone tickling the
ivories but couldn't see the tickler. It was two in the morning,
the place was thick with people and smoke, and waiters rushed by
with plates of spaghetti… Read full post »
The Health Benefits of Whiskey
A short while ago, I took up drinking dark spirits.
Whiskey, that is. Aquae vitae. Eau de vie. The water of
life.
Not because of the economy or marital problems or any deep malaise,
but just because.
Because I recently rediscovered a bottle of single malt whiskey my husband bought… Read full post »
Is Anti-Poverty Advocate John Edwards a Deadbeat Dad?
If anyone has harbored the tiniest shred of doubt about whether John Edwards is the father of his mistress' baby, Andrew Young's upcoming book should do away with it.
Young, who worked for Edwards and considered him a close friend, now says that Edwards begged him to claim he was the… Read full post »
Why I Love Church
I never thought I would become a regular church-goer in my mid-40s; pfftt, only the lost, the bewildered, the weak, the silly went to church at all, let alone every week. Going to church seemed so nerdish, middle-class, suburban, downright quaint, a throwback to when sitting in pews on Sunday w… Read full post »
Days of Welfare and Jell-O
The week my only child was born, Ford, Chrysler and General
Motors announced massive layoffs and F. W. Woolworth revealed steep
declines in their profits. General Foods also announced it would
close a Jell-O and puddings plant in Delaware for seven days later
that month.
Jell-O! Was nothing safe?
%IMAG… Read full post »
Bring Us Your Torn, Your Ripped, Your Holey, Your Broken
When I was a kid, one of my favorite errands to run with
my parents was a trip to the cobbler's.
The tiny shop on the edge of the town square, the clutter of shoes
and boots, the smell of wax and polish, the kindly gentleman behind
the counter --… Read full post »
The Nobel Prize Committee has been handing out awards
like candy this past week -- and that was quite a sugar-coated jaw
breaker for Barack Obama -- but I just don't understand why there
is never a recipient from the fashion world.
That said, it has been quite a year for… Read full post »
I Am A Victim of Restless Feet Syndrome
It usually starts in my head with a vague longing to abandon
everything -- family, friends, hearth and home -- then moves down
to my feet where my toes start to twitch and tingle.
If left untreated, as has happened more than once, I can wind up
chucking the whole… Read full post »
AIG Laughing to the Bank
Once the curtain closes on this latest drama with AIG,
the executives will keep their bonuses, the politicians will keep
their seats and the American taxpayer will keep on paying.
I would love to be wrong.
But honestly, who really expects AIG to be ashamed of themselves?
The way they played… Read full post »
AIG CEO Says No Bonus Without Bailout
Follow-up to yesterday's post on AIG:
I have not seen the following mentioned in any media reports on AIG CEO Edward Liddy's testimony to Congress yesterday...
When asked by a woman Senator -- whose name escapes me -- if the notorious AIG executivess would have received their bonuses if the tax… Read full post »
Confessions of an Insomniac
for its sake one must stay awake all day.
-- Friedrich Nietzsche
Were it so easy. No doubt that two-hour nap today will rob
my sleep of art tonight. But no amount of prodding could keep me vertical with a mere ten hours over three nights.

If you can't… Read full post »
Perhaps it would have been fitting -- in some macabre way -- to have gone down with that Aeroflot helicopter in a land so replete with death, where the earth had been toughened by the bones and soaked with the blood of millions of gulag prisoners going back at least a… Read full post »












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