
1. Oversleep. No meow wakeup calls.
2. Turn off the lights, heat, fans, and radio when you leave the house.
3. Make last minute plans to go away for the weekend.
4. Leave the laptop open without finding cat vomit on the keyboard.
5. Read a book without a cat sitting on it.
6. Eat a meal without having to offer a bite of something you know she will disdain anyway.
7. Stop worrying about stepping on the cat’s tail or paw, then feeling like a horrible person.
8. Cease waking at night to the sound of chucking up hair balls.
9. Wear black slacks.
10. Feel a bit lost walking down the pet food isle in the grocery store.


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I'm talking about my biggest cat!
But all the same, your list made me smile. =o)
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Bad Betty, who is full of hiss. A complete asshole, and who all the other animals hate (for very good reason) but who loves me. Sleeps with me. Pretend bites me.
Ernie, a girl, named for a good friend that we hoped would take her the summer that folks were throwing kittens over our fence in San Blas, and who didn't, who is the world's dumbest cat.
Ernie: "Meow meow meow." (Translate: "I am fucking starving!")
Me: "Here is some special wet food that the others don't get. It's just for you on this little plate." (Pushing her little head into the smelly wetness of the expensive shit.)
Ernie: (Looking up, stupidly) "Meow MEOW!" (Read: She is really really hungry now........I mean, REALLY hungry!)
Me: "It's right in front of you, sweetheart. Right in front of you. Tuck in baby."
Ernie: "MEOW!!!!!" (Looking up at me sadly, hoping that I will cry at her suffering.) "Meow! I am so weak from hunger........I may cease to exist..........meow......"
Me: (Shoving her stupid face onto the special plate of special food.)
"Eat THIS dumbshit, it's right in front of you."
Ernie: "Oh....yummy......" (Sounds of wet chewing and gulping.....and yeah, finally, a glance up at me.....smacking and slurping........and of course, my heart melts.)
Cats.
We do love them, don't we. And we do surely cry our eyes out when they leave us.
So much love to you. So much sorrow for your loss, sweetheart.
to this day i still save the last bite of my toast for a pet i haven't had for quite some years and i still have his collar. the other day i found the tags from the first pet in my life, some decades ago. i feel for your loss but also admire the way in which you've determined to move through this.