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JULY 4, 2009 10:35PM

Crazy From The Heat

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            Yesterday was one of those typically scorching hot summer days here in Sacramento.  Could be worse, but because of our location in the central valley of California, the humidity is not nearly so dire.  Still, it was hot enough to get me and the wife and daughter down to a small beach on the American River near Sac State with some friends.  A little leisure before the Fourth of July holiday.

            After romping around in the water with the kids for a couple hours and enjoying sandwiches and other picnic accoutrements, we hiked back to the car (death march 101) and headed back home.  On the way we needed to make a stop at our favorite little grocery store/butcher for some meat to throw on the barbee  for that evening’s dinner.  As we parked I noticed two of the store’s employees across the street standing on either side of a rather disheveled looking young man.  I recognized one of the employees as one of the store’s butchers, and he was holding what appeared to be one of their  signature sandwiches wrapped in familiar white butcher paper.  The butcher, I’ll just call him Bill, handed the man the sandwich and then all three of them walked back to the store.  I told my wife that I thought they caught the young man stealing a sandwich.  She asked how I knew and I said I could just tell (probably having to do with, one, my being a professional investigator and thus a great snoop and deducer of things none my business, and two, my being an amateur writer and thus a great snoop and deducer of more things none my business).

            As they got to the parking lot and passed by our car the employees were pointing toward the back of the store to a storage area full of cardboard boxes.  They got to the storage area and Bill  demonstrated to the young man how to break down a box.  The two employees left and the young man began to break down the boxes.

            I then told my wife that I was pretty sure the kid got caught ripping off a sandwich, and rather than call the police, Bill decided to give the kid the sandwich with the proviso that he break down some boxes to pay for it, which the kid seemed happy to do.  Once we got in the store I overheard Bill telling a fellow employee pretty much verbatim what I told my wife I thought had happened except he added that the kid didn’t have a dime on him.

            I’m not going to get into a long diatribe about this except to say that both my wife and myself thought that this was just about the most decent thing we’d seen in awhile.  I haven’t been able to stop thinking about that broke, hungry kid, and a guy using common sense and basic humanity to be able to see that no good could come from calling the cops for such a desperate act.  And yes, I know it’s a crime, but there are a lot worse things in the world than a young kid trying to eat.  He wasn’t stealing booze, it wasn’t armed robbery, he was just hungry.  Bill didn’t give the kid anything, he made him work, and that’s better than a freebie, after all give a man a fish and he eats one meal, but give him a fishing pole…  And maybe, just maybe, through Bill’s act of kindness, one little corner of the world became a little less hostile, a little less retributive, and truly a little more, yes, say it with me now, kinder and gentler.     

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Wow. I loved reading this. Definitely one of my favourite OS posts so far and I've read A LOT. Especially the last line. We can all learn from this. Thank you very much for posting it.
I know what hungry is. Chi Chi Rodriquez says, If you what to steal from my backyard, come to my front door, and I will give it to you. How simply is that?
Thanks Natalie, that means a lot to me. And the last line is my favorite also.
If only this would make the news more often, imagine how kind the world would/could be.....
This is what it's all about!
Good Fourth of July story, Sact. Reminding me why I didn't move somewhere else during Bush - I still think of kindness and common sense as American virtues.
This is a story that means something, Sactogator. Little bits of humanity are going on all over, but they're very quiet, as they should be. I'm glad that you were able to see it.

It sounds like a war zone around where I live. I can't believe the major fireworks that people are able to buy...it's the stuff that goes up in the sky and sets off huge blossoms.

Lordy, those drunken morons are going to blow the place up!
Michael: the great Chi Chi

cartouche: wouldn't that be splendid?

Guy: Yup

Ardee and Zuma: good things do happen all around us everyday, but, as it should be, the do-gooders don't scream out and say "hey look what I did!"

Teresa: Thanks
This is a great story. He's probably have lost his right hand in Saudi Arabia for the act. Bill should be commended; and you for bringing it to light.
Yeah, calling the cops would have been a re-enactment of a little book called "Les Miserables." Jean Valjean, recall, did hard time for 19 years for stealing a loaf of bread. Despite his ordeal, Valjean became the Bill of the story. Thanks for sharing the story when it seems to be far easier to point out what a mess this country can be.
Late to the story here, as usual - I just cant keep up with all this good stuff. I hate hackneyed, but 'pay it forward' was a good quip and if I paid it forward for every time I caught a break from another's generosity in my own life, I'd be what you call a good citizen. Listening to instinct in my own way gets the job done most days. We all have them, good ideas, but follow-through is a big issue. When I take the time, just take it and do what I instinctively feel is the right thing in the moment, there's good karma enough to go around. This man obviously knows goodness instinctively. God bless us every one, then pass it forward...I hope I will always be a giver and be fortunate enough to be a receiver as well. Evolution Revolution.

OBTW Sac - your comment to FLW on her recent self confessed 'thesis' was perceptive and I'm shocked the irony never came to me until you pointed it out - "Reagan National", indeed.
Thanks for visiting Gabby, appreciate the kind words.
I really enjoyed this, anything that promotes "kinder and gentler" has got to be celebrated.
I'm so happy you shared this story, we hear far too few stories about the goodness in men, and the honest, common sense most people could use a good dose of.

Thanks again.
Wouldn't it be great if the whole world were like this? People just don't get it--we need to use wisdom and compassion--there are times when calling the police is necessary--I live in Chicago and believe me there are PLENTY of those times--but there are also times when calling the police COULD make a criminal out of a desperate kid. I agree with you, here--this was the right approach. Rare in America. We are known for being judgmental and brutal with what we envision are "transgressions." This so-called democratic dream has morphed into a nightmare in some ways.