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Safe_Bet's Amy

Safe_Bet's Amy
Location
In my own little hell, Alaska,
Birthday
June 06
Bio
Missing her while trying to be as good a mom as she was.

MY RECENT POSTS

AUGUST 22, 2009 8:53AM

Existence

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leaves cartwheel gleefully across the yard;
chased by mother wind -
with memories older than man can comprehend.

russets and gold complete wild leaps into the water;
to float and drift -
understanding the need for their blissful demise.

eventually waffling towards quiet solitude;
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I just got off the phone a little bit ago with Bob, my BMFF (Best Male Friend Forever). He told me the progress on a documentary film he is making about 9/11 and about the part that his personal idol, Mark Bingham, played in it. For my part, I told him… Read full post »

 

Yeah, sure you don’t have any money, are going to get your car and house reposed, and have no health insurance, but it could be worse!

Luckily, you don’t have one of these Top Ten Jobs I Wouldn’t Want!

 

Job #10 - Waitress W/ Experience

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AUGUST 18, 2009 4:17PM

Pictures tell a story…

From heroism, unsullied by childish taunts of “queer” 

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(Mark Bingham http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Bingham)

  

 

 

 

to ones filled with sadness and pride

 

harvey-milk

           /…

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AUGUST 16, 2009 4:36PM

Making friends with my new house.

 

I imagine I am going through what my kids will, when they start in their new school.  They will be the “New Kids” and will feel kind of isolated and sad until they start making friends.

 

That’s how I am with this new house right now.  We sure aren’t BFFs… Read full post »

AUGUST 12, 2009 9:37PM

And So It Ends…

 

Our house is no longer our home.  With Amy hugging me tightly and tears streaming down my face, I signed the last papers a little bit ago.  I hope it gets as loved by the new owners half as much as I loved it.

 

It was my pride and… Read full post »

AUGUST 12, 2009 8:54AM

And so it begins…

 

The moving company will be here this morning to begin dismantling my world.

 

They are going to wrap each individual piece of my life in last week’s newspapers, load it into their truck and drive it away.

 

They, undoubtedly, will ohh and ahhh over Amy’s garage full of powe… Read full post »

AUGUST 5, 2009 8:18PM

Woohoo! We're moving to Iowa!!!!

I am SO lucky to be moving to Iowa!

 

Yup!  Lucky, lucky me!  I get to leave the horrid sunny beaches and nasty old mountains of Southern California for the fertile, flat fields of Iowa!  Yeah, lots and lots of flat fields… 

 

Soon, not only lots and lots and lots… Read full post »

JULY 24, 2009 1:37PM

Oh Crap! I’m a bigot too!

Last week I attended a PTA meeting with my friend Dorthea.  She is a black, single mother who has kids the same age as mine.  After the meeting, we were talking and she said, “Girl, I’ve known you for a couple of years now and you’ve always had those god awfulRead full post »

*Snerk*  I'm still laughing about this article.  The quotes are just too good!    

Man claims he found condom in French onion soup

  • SANTA ANA, Calif. – A man has sued a local Claim Jumper restaurant claiming he ordered French onion soup and bit into a c
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JULY 18, 2009 8:44AM

Proud of Them Being Proud of Us.

 

Later on this morning my daughters and Amy are going to walk in the San Diego Pride Parade. They are going without "Mom". I can't make it this year, but Amy is going to take both of their little hands and they are going to walk for all of us.

My/
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I grew up on a farm in the Midwest.  Like many farm kids, I could drive a tractor, plow a field and backup a triple gang of hay wagons well before I had my drivers license.  To make me even more of a hick, I was a cheerleader for my/… Read full post »

JULY 14, 2009 1:49PM

Cough... Cough... Hack... Hack...

Dear SO,

I can't tell you how excited I am that you've decided to take up smoking cigarettes again! 

Mmmmm, that special aroma of burned plant matter in you hair and clothing... the cute little brown patina that will be on your teeth...  that wonderful taste of tar and nicotineRead full post »

Do you srt8 folks ever wonder why us queer folk get so wound up about our “rights”?  Why can’t we just sit and wait for things to take their course?  If you do, I’d ask you to wonder about this statement, as well… 

“Hope and love can be terribRead full post »

 

uuummm.....  Hi.I just want to introduce myself to those of you that don't know me and to "Say Hey" to those of you that do (and care).Let me apologize in advance if I trip and bump into you, step on your foot or spill your coffee.  I usually don't mean… Read full post »