Are We There Yet?

Sarah Cavanaugh

Sarah Cavanaugh
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Cedar Grove, Wisconsin, USA
Birthday
August 01
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My poems have appeared in Poet Lore, Nimrod, and Southern Poetry Review. Currently, I am trying to reclaim my life after being blacklisted. Don't mess with the Federal Government or defense contractors. Wish me luck.

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AUGUST 19, 2011 11:58AM

Aftermath

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    My company has come and gone. Now for the adjustment period. My sister came first and stayed in my guest room for a week. The thought flitted through my mind that she might never leave. But I'm being uncharitable.

    We are both fans of the work of Frank Lloyd Wright, so we planned a trip to Oak Park, the suburb of Chicago which features a number of Wright designed homes.

    Our tour picked us up at 401 Michigan Avenue. You know the place. It's where you can have your picture taken with the sculpture of Marilyn Monroe, the iconic scene from "The Seven Year Itch."

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    The bus took us out to Oak Park where we disembarked for a walking tour of the neighborhood. The heat was brutal. A better time for the trip would have been October. The homes are privately owned (lucky people) so the tour was limited to sidewalk views. We were able to enter the Wright designed Unity Temple, though, which seemed like a religious experience in itself.

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    After the departure of my sister, my son came for a few days of cycling and swimming. The one day it rained we spent hours touring the Milwaukee Public Museum. We had a gorgeous day for our trip to Point Beach State Park.

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    I'm feeling a tad wistful, I must admit, now that my company has all gone home. I breathe a sigh, shed a tear. It will be another year till I see them again. But now it's time to assess the damage.

    I got off easy, I feel, a broken glass, a broken door handle, the two pounds of weight gain from all the feasting and boardwalk ice cream cones. I can mail the shaving mirror left in the shower and the hairbrush I found under the guest room bed. I miss them already. I hope the coming year flies right by.  

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I love having family to stay, especially my sister, but the time always flies too fast. Still, I guess they have to leave so we can look forward to them coming again.

It looks like a great place to visit. I must save up for another trip to the US.
It sseems you and I feel very much the same way about having company. You put it so perfectly!
I had to search the Marilyn Monroe statue. 26 feet tall?!

As always, Sarah, you write eloquently.
Beautiful post! Congrats on the EP!
There was a lot for me here in your post ...

I remember doing a little bit of research on Frank Lloyd Wright when I was much younger ... but for what reason, except that I chose to research him and his architecture as an assignment for school, I can't remember!

I DIDN'T know of the statue of Marilyn Monroe! It's gi-normous, isn't it?!

Family visiting is usually a delight but sometimes a breathe a little sigh of relief when they are gone.

But my sister ... well darn ... I just miss having her close by too. I don't get to see her nearly enough. Sigh.

Lovely post, Sarah. Thank you.
Linda, Chicago's a great city, but New York is my favorite. San Francisco is the most beautiful, but Chicago does have great architecture and museums. Thanks.
Alysa, There are always the pluses and minuses. Thanks.
Catherine, The statue is quite shocking when seen close up. Thanks so much.
Susie, Thanks much.
Little Kate, With family there's always a little give and take. Thanks for commenting.
That's one of the joys of living oversea... No drop in family visits.
Oh wait, I forgot about my wife's relatives.
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It's amazing how fast one falls into routines with loved ones, even when they are temporary guests. This is beautiful, Sarah.
Really, really nice. ~r
Ah the push-pull of having overnight guests. All in all it sounds like you had a good time and are no worse for the wear and tear. And you miss them already. That's the sign of a successful visit! You summed this up so well.
Yes sometimes relatives move and they might never move out. I had this happen once and it is quite trying but alas that is what family is for.
Oak Park and Marilyn Monroe. r
What a nice piece of writing Sarah. Congrats on EP. We seem to put ourselves on hold when guests are here, reaching out yet wanting to get back to our routines.
Summer's end, a bittersweet time, nicely captured here.
I would love to take a tour of FLW's buildings. Glad you had a good time with your sister.
limb, The best thing about company is that sooner or later they leave. Thanks for reading.
Eve, Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to read.
Joan, Thanks so much.
Margaret, And now I have a whole year in which to recover. Thanks.
Algis, Just this morning I received a lovely thank you note from my sister. I guess the visit must have gone well. Thanks.
lefty, Yep--hard to top those two. Thanks.
rita, We've been alternating. Next summer I get to return to Lancaster--which I miss every day. Thanks so much for stopping by.
Miquela, I worship at his altar and have been to quite a few of his creations, including the Guggenheim Art Museum in New York. My favorite is Falling Water in western PA. Thanks much.
When I was at the University of Chicago in the early 70's students involved in the annual spring anti-Vietnam riot one year did some serious damage to the Robie House, a Wright building on campus, ostensibly because they didn't like one of the professors there. A bunch of students showed up to clean up the mess, which I thought reflected the respect they had for the architecture--it was a very calming prairie house type structure in the middle of the city.
Con, I can't bear to see art desecrated. I agreed with the protestors, but kudos to those who tried to rectify the damage.
Soon the air will cool and you will be back on track. Glad you had such fun.
I understand this aftermath....it takes some time to get back a normal feeling after family visits, but I'm glad you had visitors!

And holy cow on that hideous statue.
Just my first thought there.
Our country celebrates this drug-addled actress with a 26 ft. tall statue full of life, and manages only a 29 ft. tall statue with pink stone for skin of Dr. King looking angry and all wrong?
We are so backwards.
('Scuse my rant if you love Marilyn.)
Lea, It's cool here in Wisconsin already. Thanks.
JT, I was horrified when I first saw the sculpture of Marilyn, but I try to keep an open mind when it comes to art--or whatever you call it. The Dr. King monument looks wrong to me, too. Was it Maya Lin who designed the Vietnam war memorial, the wall. If so, they should have commissioned her to do the tribute to Dr. King. Thanks.
It's so hard for me to think of Chicago, or any northern city as being hot. It goes against my idea that everyone ELSE is comfortably icy while we southerners are sweltering. But I must say it is nice to hear of someone writing about how they miss their visitors rather than the opposite! You must be an amazing host.