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SEPTEMBER 30, 2009 12:48AM

The Boss Turns 60 - Here's Why He And New Jersey Rock

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Bruce Springsteen Live: brucespringsteen.net

"Manhattan is a narrow island off the coast of New Jersey devoted to the pursuit of lunch." Raymond Sokolov


Yes, it's true. Deal with it. The Boss is a Boomer. Just turned 60. And is still a Force Of Nature. Many of us believe it's because he's from New Jersey. I'll  show you why.

To most Philly and Jersey natives New Jersey is less a state than a state of mind -- especially in the summer or at a Springsteen concert. For many of us, Jersey is part of our daily lives, and a window to our past.

There are a host of Facts and Firsts about New Jersey that might surprise you. But the section You Know You're From Jersey When will resonate, especially if you're from Philly --or New York-- because we consider New Jersey sort of our 'stepstate.'

Natives of New Jersey, New York and Philly will relate, smile, remember, cheer. Those who live anywhere else will find this enlightening.


You might even feel a little, you know ... jealous.



New Jersey Facts
The entire state of New Jersey is a peninsula.

Newark's Liberty International airport is the nation's third busiest, following O'Hare and JFK.

The Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island are in fact located in New Jersey.

New Jersey has more race horses than Kentucky.

New Jersey has the densest system of highways and railroads in the US.

New Jersey has the highest cost of living, the highest cost of auto insurance and the highest property taxes in the nation. (So where are the Housewives of New Jersey?)

North Jersey has the most shopping malls in one area in the world, with seven major malls in a 25 square mile radius.

New Jersey has the most diners in the world and is sometimes referred to as the "Diner Capital of the World."

Atlantic City has the longest boardwalk in the world. Not to mention salt water taffy.

New Jersey is the largest chemical producing state in the nation, when including pharmaceuticals. (Only Jersey would be proud of this).

New Jersey has the largest petroleum containment area outside of the Middle East.

New Jersey has the most stringent testing for water quality control along its coastline than any seaboard state in the country.

New Jersey is the world leader in blueberry and cranberry production (and you thought Massachusetts?)

Jersey tomatoes and corn are the best you can buy. Period.

Ahem
New Jersey is home to both NEW YORK pro football teams!



New Jersey Firsts
The first brewery in America opened in Hoboken, NJ in 1642. (Hey, what's more important than that?)

The light bulb, phonograph and motion picture projector were invented by Thomas Edison in Menlo Park, NJ, the first town ever lit by incandescent bulbs.

The first phonograph records (aka "vinal") were made in Camden, NJ.

Les Paul invented the first solid body electric guitar in Mahwah, NJ.

The first AM radio station was in Paterson, NJ. The first FM radio broadcast was made from Alpine, NJ.

The first airmail --to Chicago-- was started from Keyport, NJ.

New Jersey created and hosted the Miss America Pageant, held in Atlantic City for 85 years ... "Show us your shoes!" (moved to Las Vegas in 2005 ... "Show us your tits" just isn't the same).

The international game Monopoly features streets named for actual streets in Atlantic City.

Jersey City had the nation's first medical center.

New Jersey built the first underwater tunnel -- the Holland Tunnel, under the Hudson River. (Wonder how many Wise Guys are buried there...)

The first baseball game was played in Hoboken, NJ -- also the birthplace of Frank Sinatra.

The first intercollegiate football game was played in New Brunswick in 1889 (Rutgers College Vs. Princeton).

The first drive-in movie theater was opened in Camden, NJ.

The first Indian reservation was in New Jersey's Watchung Mountains.

Okay, now to the real nitty gritty:


You Know You're From New Jersey When. . .

At least three generations in your family love Bruce Springsteen, and you know Jon Bon Jovi's hometown.

You don't think of fruit when people mention "The Oranges."

You refer to Great Adventure, not Six Flags.

You've never had a car without sand in the trunk.

You know there aren't 'beaches' in New Jersey -- there's the shore. And you don't go to the shore, you go down the shore.

Wherever you park, there's a Camaro within three spots of you.

A good, quick breakfast is a hard roll with butter.

You've known the way to Seaside Heights since you were seven.

In the 80's you wore your hair REALLY high.

You've eaten at a diner when you were stoned or drunk at 3 A.M.

You know what a "jug handle" is.

You know that WaWa is a convenience store.

You've seen The Boss on the street or in a bar in Asbury Park. (I've talked to him over a beer. He's a regular guy. But, well, still hawt).

You know how to properly negotiate a circle. (Which you also know has to do with traffic.)

You know that Jersey is the only "New" state that doesn't require "New" to identify it (try . . . Mexico . . . York . . . Hampshire -- doesn't work, does it?)

You know that a "White Castle" is the name of BOTH a fast food chain AND a fast food sandwich.

You consider putting mayo on a corned beef sandwich a sacrilege.

You don't think "What exit do you live near?" is funny.

The Jets-Giants game has started fights at your school or local bar.

You live within 20 minutes of at least three different malls.

You refer to all highways and interstates by their numbers.

Every year you've had at least one kid in your class named Tony.

You know the location of every clip shown in the Sopranos opening credits.

You've gotten on the wrong highway trying to get out of the mall.

You know that people from North Jersey go to Seaside Heights, people from Central Jersey go to Belmar, people from South Jersey go to Wildwood and people from Philly go to Ocean City or Cape May (and the rich go to Ventnor/Margate/Longport).

You weren't raised in "New Jersey" -- you were raised in either North Jersey, Central Jersey or South Jersey.

You don't consider Newark or Camden to really be part of the state.

You remember the stores Korvette's, Two Guys, Rickel's, Channel, Bamberger's and Orbach's.

You also remember Palisades Amusement Park.

You've had a boardwalk cheesesteak and vinegar fries. And funnel cake.

You start planning for Memorial Day weekend in February.

And you've NEVER, EVER pumped your own gas.



New Jersey Natives
Nick Adams, Jason Alexander, Budd Abbott, Robert Blake, Judy Blume, Jon Bon Jovi, Aaron Burr, Grover Cleveland, James Fennimore Cooper, Richard Conti, Lou Costello, Tom Cruise, Sandra Dee, Danny DeVito, John Forsythe, Connie Francis, Alan Ginsberg, Admiral Wm. Halsey, Jr., Alexander Hamilton, Jerry Herman, Lauryn Hill, Whitney Houston.

Ice-T, Joyce Kilmer, Ernie Kovacs, Nathan Lane, Queen Latifah, Jerry Lewis, Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Ray Liotta, Norman Mailer, Marilynn McCoo, Gorden McCrae, Linda McElroy, Eddie Money, Jack Nicholson, Shaqille O'Neal, Joe Pesci, Zebulon Pike, Joe Piscopo.

Kelly Ripa, Paul Robeson, Caesar Romero, Eva Marie Saint, Susan Sarandon, Elisabeth Shue, Paul Simon, Frank Sinatra, Kevin Spacey, Bruce Springsteen, Meryl Streep, Loretta Swit, John Travolta, Dave Thomas (Wendy's), Sarah Vaughn, Dionne Warwick, Walt Whitman, Bruce Willis, Flip Wilson, Woodrow Wilson, William Carlos Williams, Robert Wuhl.

Okay, not all winners. But, yo, that's Jersey for you.



Happy Birthday, Bruce!

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The Boss at 60 and still rockin the house for all generations. No question, it's the Jersey genes.

My Hometown

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For everybody, but especially Beth Mann.
I went to his show a few weeks ago. I was ovewhelmed by emotion when he took the stage. Moved to tears over and over all night watching him. The experience is beyond my words. I guess I just love him. It's impossible that he is 60 and still does what he does in the way he does it. Thanks for the post. The Jersey stuff is funny and right on too :-)
Hey, I got a sister in Jersey...your post makes me miss her.

I guess it's time to make a phone call, eh?
wow. 60 years old.
thats pretty friggin' old, yet he still
has that vibe going on and knows how
to still rock!

go bruce.
i really like his song growing up...
and my favorite cd of his is
the rising...
The state of Michigan (my old home state) is TWO complete peninsulas, so there! And their corn and tomatoes are as good as anywhere. Plus they have double digit unemployment approaching 20%. Try to top that!

Never been to Jersey. I'm not much of a city boy, but I'd like to meet THE BOSS and Tony Soprano. I have some friends from Jersey and they are really cool. If everyone from Jersey is like that, it sounds like a good enough place for me.

I remember Korvette's!

The Boss is one of my favs along with Jon Bon Jovi. I just watched a PBS special about Wanda Jackson and she played at Asbury Lane's and Bruce was in the tiny bowling alley digging the show crammed in with all the common folk. I thought that was really cool. Just a regular Joe.
As a proud native Garden Stater - all my ancestors on both sides are buried in the same cemetery as Jon Bon Jovi's grandfather, come hockey season I live and die by the Devils, and I know what the Jersey Devil actually is (the 13th child of Mother Leeds) - all I can say is ROCK ON!

One correction- the Rutgers-Princeton game was played in 1869, not 1889. Rutgers won 6 to 4. If you are thinking that 6 to 4 seems like an odd score for a football game, you would be correct. That first game was very different. They had based the game on an English rugby football rule book, and had misunderstood them. Touchdowns (not yet called touchdowns) counted for as many points as fieldgoals (not yet called FGs, either); with no clock they played 10 "ends," as they were called, an end being over whenever someone scored. It was neck-and-neck until the Scarlet Knights scored the 10th end, securing the victory for dear old Rutgers (whose alumni include Paul Robeson and Mr. Magoo).

Rutgers is also the only major state university NOT named after the state. Its full official corporate name is "Rutgers, the State University of New Jersey." There is no U of NJ, nor an NJSU. There is a system of second tier state schools with a similar naming protocol - "William Paterson University of New Jersey." The only one that comes close - about 15 years, Trenton State College changes its name to become "The College of New Jersey."

But who gives a crap about a mere college?
Give the boomers credit for one thing, we may be getting older but we still know how to rock.
Happy Birthday Brooooooooooce!

My husband grew up in NJ. I love it there.
I was raised in Camden. It's terrible what it has become.

I remember "down the shore" very well.

Also, you left out traffic circles.

This brings back so many memories.
Rated.
You remember the stores Korvette's, Two Guys, Rickel's, Channel, Bamberger's and Orbach's.

Ah, geez - you HAD to bring up Korvette's, didn't you?

Now I'm homesick.


OK, not really. :-D

Thumbed for sheer Bossiness.
appreciate it and I love the Boss but my love for Jersey (perhaps never strong is on the decline.
1. For the first time in my more than twenty years here, I'm considering not voting for governor in November's election
2. My taxes on my condo with nice collective areas but only 1/11 of an acre I can call my own are twice the taxes paid in North Carolina by my friend with the four-bedroom house on two acres
3. No public transportation across the state
4. My health insurance pays a portion of what it deduces a reasonable rate. Unfortunately, the doctors around here usually charge MUCH more than the "reasonable" rate
5. We won't get into the culture of corruption
6. The rate of attrition is growing and while that might give those of us remaining more room, it won't lower the cost of living
Two maligned things: NJ and 60 plus. Thanks for the Joisey facts but most of all, reminding us that 60 is still sexy.
Great lists! I miss vinegar fries---people out here (AZ) think I'm crazy and it's hard to find malt vinegar anyway.
Bruce's concert in Chicago on 9/20 was my 79th Springsteen concert since 1988, and there are five more concerts of his that I will be attending in the next 2 months. As a Chicagona, I prefer New Jersey and Philly over NYC without a doubt. Jersey is a state of mind as well as a place where people are as genuine as Chicagoans. However, our mobs can still kick the ass of your mobs, and our politicians are much more corrupt. We win! Happy 60th birthday to Bruce, the best thing to ever come out of New Jersey.
You left out Martha Stewart, also from New Jersey. And yes, I adore New Jersey and lived there for 40 years. My two daughters, born and raised there, consider themselves "Jersey girls forever" despite graduating from college in Philadelphia where they still live, and where I now live. But as someone wrote years back, Philly should really be part of New Jersey, anyway! Most of Pennsylvania is just a void, although there is some wonderful natural beauty in Pennsylvania.

And as I always say, those who make fun of New Jersey don't know New Jersey with its numerous and diverse cuisines, languages, and cultures, its colonial history and Revolutionary War battle sites, its incredible natural diversity from the Atlantic shore to the salt marshes to wetlands to the "Pine Barrens" to mountains, not to mention being a flyway for 450 species of migratory birds. But hey! Those of you who think Jersey is a the "armpit" of the USA, you just go on thinking that and stay the hell away...and particularly stay away from "our" shore!!
Kelly, I can't watch a YouTube vid of him without tearing up. He's 'America.'

Jamie, call your sister and tell her Yo for me.

umwhatever, there are many people 60 years old who don't think it's so friggin old... it's more about experience and seasoning.

Michael, of course you have to start a contest over who's peninsula is bigger... heh. Trust me, everybody from Jersey is cool (except the politicians).

Charles, you are now officially Mr. Jersey. I'll take your word I got the Rutgers-Princeton game year wrong. And thanks for all the extra info.. fascinating. So why didn't you write this? ;)

Bob, old rock is the best.

Jeanette, tell your hubby Yo for me too.

Blackflon, you skimmed, ahem. Traffic circles are there. Glad I took you back.

Bill, I guess Korvette's was the first Big Box store, eh. Now I'm not so homesick either.

Nikki, I hear ya on the governor thing. Disgraceful choices. Just one thing: does your friend in NC have hurricaine insurance? :)

Lea, as always, you get right to the meat. So to speak.

spotted, it's hard to find malt vinegar because... it's made in Jersey!

Paul, you pointed out something interesting which I hadn't thought of before... Jersey, Philly and Chicago folks are very similar. Not sure your pols are more corrupt.. they just get caught more often.

Amy, you're right, how could I forget Martha Stewart? Thanks for the added Jersey facts. But how did I not know you're from Philly?
Oh my goodness, Sally - thank you!

Oh Jersey!

I'm so sorry for the delay but work swept me up this week. Did you see my latest Jersey mottos? I had fun with them. But before I cut and paste them, this stuck out the most for me, because its so effin' TRUE:

"New Jersey has the highest cost of living, the highest cost of auto insurance and the highest property taxes in the nation. (So where are the Housewives of New Jersey?)"

OUCH! Sick of that. Feel the expense of this mediocre state everyday!

Anyway, here's my mottoes:

Jersey - Only the Strong Survive
Jersey - Only the Good Die Young
Jersey - The Capital of Nothingness
Jersey - It Just got a Little Weirder
Jersey - Badabing!
Jersey - Where the Body was Dumped
Jersey - Just Keep Driving
Jersey - Nobody says "Joisey" and Don't Ask What Exit because it's just not Funny at this Point State
Jersey - Where the Bland meets the Bleached Blondes
Jersey - Hey! You looking at me?
Jersey - Home of the First Meth Lab
Jersey - Giving Toxic a Whole New Meaning
Jersey - The Black Hole State
Jersey - Where Dreams Come to Wither and Fade at your Feet
Jersey - The Garden of Evil State
Jersey - At Least we have Great Tomatoes!
Jersey - Bruce Slept Here!
Jersey - Where Sweet Caroline is Still Sung Loudly and Proudly
@Beth: my stomach hurts, that's so funny
@Sally: my friend lives in Raleigh/Durham - doesn't need hurricane insurance but bet he could afford it!
But yes, sixty is definitely the new, er sixty...
I'm sorry, Beth inspried me:

Jersey: What, we can't have at least ONE first-class state school? (sorry Rutgers, you ain't no UNC)
How could you leave out Hot Dog Johnny's?

New Jersey is my home and I love it.
And I loved this post.
Sally, here is another one from New Jersey. Mike Rozier, 1983 Heisman Trophy winner. He went to Woodrow Wilson High School in Camden.
"Jersey - Where the Body was Dumped" hahahahaha! That's GOT to be the new motto. You're killin me with these. But, really, it should be "Bruce Sleeps Here."

Nikki, you too, you little dickens.

Duane, Hot Dog Johnny's! I am an idiot. And what about Stewart's Root Beer Drive Ins?

Blackflon, keep em coming. I should have added: BETH MANN.
It's called Joisey, for starters. And I'm crazy about those Jersey cheese steaks.

The Boss is 60? So he's been getting AARP magazine for ten years? I feel better now.
I really enjoyed this and identified with it until I got to the Newark /Camden crack. That was pretty offensive, and it's obvious why. I guess a lot of poor urban black folks life in those two towns, huh? I guess it would be one thing if it were true but... I grew up in Montclair and honestly didn't know anyone who felt that way.
New Jersey is the largest chemical producing state in the nation, when including pharmaceuticals. (Only Jersey would be proud of this).

New Jersey has the largest petroleum containment area outside of the Middle East.

New Jersey has the most stringent testing for water quality control along its coastline than any seaboard state in the country.

Do you see a cause and effect (or is that affect, damn) reaction here?
I posted my last comment before I finished reading the post because I couldn't wait. This is the best, Sally.

"Sally." In my NJ world, that used to be a guy's name---A guy you didn't really want to mess with.

As I always tell people: "I dated Bruce Springsteen. In one form or another."
John, it's only Joisey in the North. Not the South or down the shore.

Destinesa, I'm sorry you feel offended, but please don't put racist words in my mouth. These are meant to be lighthearted generalizations, some old, some new, all in fun, none political.

Maddie, you're right, Sal or Sally is a guy's name in Jersey.
Happy Birthday to ya, Bruce. I'm happy to say that some of far less famous old farts can still rock out, too -- tho there's no way I could ever get back up from the knee slide The Boss pulled at last year's Super Bowl. In the Midwest, we have our own version of The Bruce in Bob Seger.
God, I loved this!

But the demographics of the shore are a little more complicated. Lots of working class folks at the north end of Ventor; lots of South Philly goes down to Wildwood; and there are some pretty rich people in Ocean City--after all Grace Kelly's family went there.

And don't forget the rest stops named after famous people on the Jersey Turnpike. My favorite: Joyce Kilmer--"I think that I will never see a place so lovely to take a pee."
This is great Sally...I loved all the different facts, some unexpected about The Boss's hometown. Hard to believe he turned 60...inspiring though really.
I can't stay away. More of Jersey's famous:
Anthony Bourdain, Zack Braff,William J. Brennan, Joyce Carol Oates, Mary Higgins Clark, Grover Cleveland, James Fenimore Cooper, Sean "P. Diddy" Combs, David Copperfield, Stephen Crane, Tom Cruise, Michael Douglas, Kirsten Dunst, Linda Fiorentino, Calista Flockhart, Steve Forbes, James Gandolfini (of course),
Dizzy Gillespie, and my favorite - Yogi Berra
I love NJ and Bruce. I used to work for a company that was based in Union, NJ and visited the state often. People for get that the Garden State got it's name for a reason. (Rated)
Tom, just using Bruce as an example that age is just a number, especially for rockers. Um, that didn't come out right.. didn't mean rocking chairs.

libertarius, you're right about the demographics, I was over-generalizing, which I should Never do among this crowd. ;) And though OC is supposed to be a Catholic enclave, we lived there for years instead of the more "Jewish" areas in V/M/L.

Mary, I think Bruce has been inspiring at all ages. He's the real deal.

Nikki, keep em coming. I left out a lot.

Roger, you're right, you should see the foliage along the GS Pkwy now, beautiful!
Oh yes, I am a Jersey girl, I grew up in Bergen County and still go there fondly, I still see myself there as I visit family and stuff like that. I still reminisce about the place I love, in all my Jersey places that I knew so well. I remember crossing rail road tracks, I knew of sorted stories of people who met up and died on those tracks. I grew up lost and confused on those tracks as well, as they seperated 2 parts of my hometown. One side was mainly Italian, the other was Polish and Slovick, my school was a main street and would be torn down to make room for about 10 or so homes that were built. Jersey will always have a special place in my heart, as it is a place of so many, but still has the sense of one place. I have always wandered and came across 3 miles I walked repeatedly since we didn't have a car, and of course being in my teen years was restless. I would also love when the winter started to come in, the air had that certain crispness that couldn't hold me back, and I would be standing on a street corner, intended that to be deliberate waiting for a bus. A bus to anywhere, but where I was supposed to be, a bus taking me to what some might have smiled back then as The Magical Mystery Tour. I was on my way, like a typical teen age girl I wanted adventure, and where else but at any one of at least 3 fantastic malls Bamburgers, oh fantastic especially when it was still a out door mall like ours in Yonkers at Cross County, but that is getting re built as we speak. Then there was the other middel mall, with a load of under ground shops, anybody who was anybody remembers those weird places, just a slip away behind a wall or something like that it seemed. Then there was the better mall, and that was fine, anything to be away from the droning of adults. I would know any bunch of fine Italian ladies, waiting for my mother to come over and coffee and desert on Sunday afternoons after dinner of course. I would hear those stories forever, while in the background Tony Bennet would be playing, "You know I'd go from rags to riches", and watching all those hapless Italian souls smoking ginnie cigarettes, while us young girls looked on, I could still hear a girl I knew, saying take one, It's not that bad. There I was smoking 13 under my mothers canopy, under the beauty parlor. Puffing and thinking this was wierd, that was the beauty of a small neighborhood, everybody knew your mother and she was going to find out and you were going to be beat. Until the next great song would come out, and the daring side would sub-side, more time would go by and you would realize your on the Jersey side, living is easy even if it's hard, it's 70's and we were rousing, but with out being over done. We were smart and knew that if we got caught we would be beat, we cut our words it's best when people don't know what the fuck you are talking about. I have a ton of Jersey pride and I always miss my State, I remember all too well going down the Jersey Shore, and secretly rejoicing every time I'd get to the end of the G.S. and the smell of the earth and farms and mixed with the scent of sea and salt, I have my family sprinkled what ever is left of it, around the Jersey Shore area, and up around the Pennsylvania area, about 20 minutes off. I know I have ranted here, but I just get so emotional my life was lived there, and I have oh so many crazy warm fuzzy memories. There is a great sense of civic duty to that State as well, and a strong sense of partiotism. I truly miss that, as when I was a kid growing up, as corny as it may sound we would be collected and put up on stage as young children singing "This Land Is Your Land", that was the time. You know how the saying goes, if those walls could speak, well if those streets could speak, it would be pretty amazing what they could say about my time there. Oh yes, the first opening part of the Sopranos, all those Mafia hangouts, exciting, well on the other side of the television of course. Of course I could also remember feeling proud when listening to Bruce Springstiens "Jersey Girl", amongst a back drop of other places that are sprinkled through out Jersey that are favorite haunts, Rt. 46 a bevy of stores and great quite beauty once you connect on 80 and head on up towards P.A. Coming into the GWB on any night there is a beautiful spot as you are driving that invites all motorist even for a moment to look at their beautiful holiday decorations, and while driving that same strip, the lights from the Palisades Park area are like a carpet for the eyes. The Diners, of course, we would be cutting school, (again) and ordering scrambled eggs and bacon to help keep our brains from scrambeling, you know Billy Joels, thats what you get at the Park Way Diner, you know where that is right? I know I do. We were in Jersey when his first famous song came out, "I 'am Movin Out". Just about that time, I was getting ready to actually do that, but not exactly the way I had in mind. Keep talkin Jersey your doin a pretty good job. I was exit 157 if you must know and I still to this day love to look at the Passic River, it was refuge for us when us kids were bored. Some of the worst floods had small garages taken down, trees, cars, there is a lovely falls over there, mounted by car sales, you know where to go if you need a car, I know you know that.