It's the end of the campaign, and everyone I know who's following things has become one raw nerve ending, wandering around, spasming at the release of every poll number, every questionable comment, every Palin rally and Biden gaffe. I have found myself reacting more emotionally to just about every aspect of the campaign in the last few days: what else could explain my uproarious laughter at John McCain's QVC skit last night?
So, in the spirit of good campaign tactics, I'm going to play on emotions, today. I told a friend of mine I was going to challenge her to a campaign cry-off in the near future, and I guess this is the beginning of that challenge. If there are moments, stories, quips, or videos that have brought you to tears in this campaign, I'm encouraging everyone to share them below. Let's have one final day of weepery, and then... well, let's hope it's over, for at least four years.
A note on this: trying to explain why something makes you cry is kind of like trying to explain why something make you laugh. It's visceral, it's reactive. But I'll try and put a little explanation into it anyway, because otherwise... I dunno, I feel like there isn't enough work going into it.
In no particular order, here are my Five Good Campaign Cries:
1). Will.i.am, "We Are the Ones."
I get the first little prickles in my eyes at the sound of the crowd chanting "O-ba-ma! O-ba-ma!" There's also something about the pleas in Spanish that really move me, and the speech at 1:30. "He's really going to be the president of the United States. He's not going to be the president of the top ten percent or the president of the most powerful corporations, or the president of the most powerful lobbyists, he's going to be our president, he's going to speak for us, because we put him there." Sure, there's some idealistic naivete in there, but... just to hear people speaking about a politician in that way gives me real hope. Real. Hope.
2). Early Voting in Evansville.
Ben Smith relates "an early voting story from a medical student in Evansville, Ind." The killer is in the second paragraph:
I squeaked in just before the 7pm deadline to find two very frustrated poll workers and a line of a couple dozen people, due to problems with the computerized voting system not accepting people's driver's licenses. It was taking about 7-10 minutes per person just to get the computer to accept them as valid and to print out their ballot, causing very long delays.
For me the most moving moment came when the family in front of me, comprising probably 4 generations of voters (including an 18 year old girl voting for her first time and a 90-something hunched-over grandmother), got their turn to vote. When the old woman left the voting booth she made it about halfway to the door before collapsing in a nearby chair, where she began weeping uncontrollably. When we rushed over to help we realized that she wasn't in trouble at all but she had not truly believed, until she left the booth, that she would ever live long enough to cast a vote for an African-American for president. Anyone who doesn't think that African-American turnout will absolutely SHATTER every existing record is in for a very rude surprise.
There were about 20 people in front of me but remarkably not a single person left the room without voting over the 2 hours it took to get through the line.
3). AFL-CIO Leader Takes on Racism
I blogged this one before, but it is one of the best speeches I saw this season, in a season of admittedly good speeches:
"We're gonna be able to look back and say that 2008 was the year that the tide began to turn against the Rush Limbaughs and the Bill O'Reillys and the Ann Coulters and the right-wing race haters. Brothers and sisters, we're gonna be able to say that 2008 was the year that we took back our country, and built a government that embraced workers, and loved unions, and saw the power that we bring, and the justice that we instill in our country."
4). Donna Brazile Isn't Going to the Back of the Bus
This is another re-post, but I think it deserves it. It's an impassioned, off-the-cuff rant on her hopes for the campaign, from a month ago. What makes me teary about it now is how divisive things became, even after this plea for unity, and what it means for the future that her advice wasn't followed:
5). The Obamamercial
I know. It's cheesy. I'm not even the target audience for this video. But at :47 in, when the camera has its first wide shot of Obama walking around a desk, in what Jon Stewart rightly called his practice Oval Office, that was the moment it really, truly, officially hit me: this man is going to be president. The long dark night of the Bush era is over. If there's a crisis -- when there's a crisis -- the speech that comes from the actual Oval Office won't be one that makes me cringe, or shudder, or search elsewhere for hope and answers. It will be a speech that informs and reassures, from a man who has, I am now willing to admit unabashedly, brought me hope. When decisions are made, I will be able to say I trust in the wisdom of my leaders -- not blindly, not uncritically, but with some real enthusiasm, maybe even with some pride.
There's quite a bit more that I found affecting in this commercial, like the older couple who, like my grandparents, worked so hard to own their home, only to find that ownership in danger as the cost of living outpaced their income, and the Kansas City family struggling to make ends meet. And on. And on. But it's Obama that gets to me here, as it has been all along.
So, in closing, thank you, Sen. Obama. Whatever happens Tuesday, it's nice to have felt this way again about my leaders and my country.
Honorable Mentions:
* The Digital Journalist -- Pictures from the Campaign Trail
Candid images of and some commentary about Obama on the trail.

* Don't Vote Redux
Following up on the Don't Vote video, celebrities and a few non-celebs give their reasons for voting. I am a sucker for people giving moving reasons to want change, particularly Neil Patrick Harris's "I fell in love and I want it to matter."
* Generation We Votes
These are my people. Of course they make me cry.
* Yes We Can... Hold Babies Blog. This is a special, sappy kind of teary. Their first picture pretty much says it all:


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Thanks for pulling this all together---it must have taken a long time.
I sincerely hope you have so many happy videos to sort through for next week's collection.
You know, at his best, I really get a grandfatherly vibe from McCain (and not just the "get off my lawn you kids!" or sad grandpa look that's joked about). But I think in part because of his injuries from Vietnam, he's not always able to reach for and hold babies like Obama can, so... I can't really pick on him for this, and don't want to.
"We knocked on doors and voices from behind carefully locked doors shouted, 'Who is it?"'
"'We're from the Obama campaign,'" we'd answer. And just like that doors opened and folks with wide smiles came out on the porch to talk. "
I started crying early in this process.
In primary season, I was torn between Obama and Hillary. I had seen Obama speak in Boston, and from that moment, I knew he would make this run, but I was preprogrammed to believe that this was Hillary’s turn.
Day by day…sometimes hour by hour…my loyalties shifted between the two. As the CA primary day got closer, I was still deadlocked. So I wrote their names on slips of paper (one each) folded them tightly and made a vow that if I couldn’t decide, I would pick up one of the papers on my way to the polls, not reveal it to myself until I was in the booth, and vote for the name I had chosen.
Election Day finally arrives, and I, folded slip of paper in hand, drive to my polling station. And when I pull into the parking lot, I burst into tears. I am hopelessly overcome with emotion by the opportunity to vote for one of these two brilliant, dedicated individuals. That one is a woman and one is multi-racial makes it all the sweeter. And that it is happening after nearly 8 years of unending darkness—just breathtaking.
I followed this by crying my way through the entire Democratic Convention, alone on my couch, the C-Span gavel to gavel coverage.
I’ve cried at the drop of a hat for the past two weeks, and my one remaining menopausal never is frayed beyond all repair.
I hope to be crying again on Tuesday---tears of joy---tears of joy.
Again, thank you for this one-stop-shopping cry-a-thon.
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My profound thanks.
Dean
And everyone -- it feels good to know I'm not alone in feeling the emotional pull this campaign season in a whole new way. From the pictures of kids like you're mentioning, Radio Girl, to the way that Donna Brazile seems to be talking to us all in such an accessible way, Umbrella, to the way it brings up all of these memories like you mention, Lea... I'm just feeling a little happy-teary about what a nice community we have here right now, too! (I really am just one big walking raw nerve until Tuesday night).
I was in the car driving and the song "A Change Gonna Come" by Sam Cooke came on and I honestly started crying....driving right through a strip mall.
When I took my daughter to see Obama when he was here, I started thinking about the Kennedys. Sang Abraham, Martin and John to her and barely made it through. Emotional day.
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I've seen it portrayed in films and TV. I've read the moving passages in books that conveyed the feeling...but I never believed or felt tears could fall because of hope.
I was at a children’s birthday party today. And as usual, the parents hung out together while our kids ravaged somebody else's backyard. And as usual these days, the topic turned towards politics. We were all surprised how every single one of us cried at least once during Obama's commercial. I did twice.
My son is eleven, and is a very sensitive caring young man. I see the best of both my wife and me in him...I always tell him it's okay to cry no matter what anyone else says. And it's not that I don't practice what I preach, it's just “that part of me” has been imprisoned. The climate of our country these last few years has done nothing but tightened those chains. I've cared far more about what was happening to my immediate family than the country we live in. Obama has that voice that breaks those chains. It unleashes in us all, that part we use to protect ourselves and to blind ourselves from any other cause than just the homes, schools and town that we live in. It awakens the larger picture of not just how we fit in our country but our place in the world. This enlightenment is like a drug...now that I have taste...I want more. This past year I have become more involved civically than I have in my whole life. I have become not only eloquent about national and international issues, I have a deep understanding of them. And it's been because of Obama.
Thank you especially Saturn for posting the Video of Generation We. I sat down to write this post after watching the video for the second time, but this time with my son. I had a short talk with him before it, explaining some of the points he was about to see (partisan politics etc…) but after the video…he felt empowered. I explained to him that his mom and I felt that we were the generation to make the change, but too much baggage was left over…it’s the next generation and everyone after it that will really change the tide not only for this country but for the world. But not to overwhelm him, I said…”you’ve already helped change that tide by understanding that the color of someone’s skin should not make a difference in how you view them”. My son smiled and told me that he wanted to go to his computer and learn more about Generation We and for me and mom to feel proud of what we and our generation has done because…
“ your generation made Barack Obama”
So yes. I cry a lot now. Because for the first time in my life, I truly believe in the hope for our country and our world. I may not see all the changes in my lifetime…but I can live each day knowing the world for my children and my children’s children will be a different one. As a writer, I would have never has put that last sentence on any page because it’s a cliché…but I believe in my heart that if Obama gets elected on Nov 4th, those words embrace nothing but truth and could never be said or felt enough.
For the first time in my life…I cry because I feel hope. I cry because I can see change coming. I cry because the life I wanted for my children is becoming possible. I cry because my grandmother isn’t alive to see this happening. I cry because this is the beginning of erasing hate and racism. I cry because I do love this country and it’s taken one man to bring that alive in me. And on November 4th…I know I’ll be crying again. Let’s all just hope it’s not because of our hopes being dashed and stolen away…but because of Barack Obama becoming the President of the United States of America. Either way…I’ll have tissues ready.
Thank you for pulling all this together in one place. I wish I could give you a thumb for each piece.
Which is why, Behind Blue Eyes, I think your comment is beyond the pale of cynicism. To say that people are "pathetic" to be inspired into action and emotion by another person denies the possibility of anyone ever transcending our worst hopes about each other and our natures. I choose to believe it's possible.
Just because Obama's commercials and the discussions and promotions around his campaign move me doesn't mean I think he's going to be perfect, or that I'm going to agree with his every decision. But I think he's shown good instincts, good leadership, and a willingness to consider problems that make me trust him. And it's the emotion that surrounds that act -- handing over that trust -- that gives me and everyone else commenting here the permission to wear our hearts on our sleeves.
Everyone else -- thanks for the comments and for reading and everything. I appreciate it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6S8X23gpT8w
This young woman isn't even old enough to vote, but she's using her voice to make her choice clear. I tear up every time I watch this (and yes, I've watched it at least a dozen times) because it is so full of optimism. I try to remember that this election isn't just about me, my needs, or even my fellow voters needs... it's about the next generation, too.
OBAMA OBAMA OBAMA
I am proud to say we have taken a step for generation we - a step forward and together we will tackle the task ahead remembering always - Yes we can.
Pax