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OCTOBER 22, 2009 7:41AM

Christmas in October (no, please)

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I want no one to think I hate Christmas, (I do) but every year the stores start their gigantic sales earlier and earlier. I know Christmas accounts for 50% of all yearly sales but come on, it's not even Halloween. The stores around here have their Halloween stuff out and some of their Christmas stuff out at the same time. It's not right. No one should have to start hearing these songs until a least Thanksgiving.
 
When I was a wee lad, many many moons ago, no one would even think about starting Christmas in October. I can never figure out how you can have a half-off sale for merchandise that hasn't even been put on the self yet. It starts with the great WalMart vs. Target wars. As soon as one starts any kind of sale, the other blasts back with a cheaper item. While this might be a good thing for us customers, it ruins the very idea of Christmas. One time, in the distant past, their was a reason behind the idea for Christmas. Now it's just a reason to buy expensive things for people who already have more things than they need.
 
On Christmas eve in 1914, during the first World War , a strange thing happened. Men who were fighting and killing each other, dug into trenches no farther than 30 or40 yards  apart, freezing in the snow, suddenly stopped firing. Out of the blue, someone started singing Christmas carols. Others soon joined in and before long both sides were singing and exchanging small gifts with each other.  Standing between the trenches these warriors, these men of death, who were both fighting for a cause they firmly believed in, were smiling. This my friends is Christmas.
  

German postcard from Christmas 1914 (copyright Simon Rees, click to enlarge)You are standing up to your knees in the slime of a waterlogged trench.  It is the evening of 24 December 1914 and you are on the dreaded Western Front.

Stooped over, you wade across to the firing step and take over the watch.  Having exchanged pleasantries, your bleary-eyed and mud-spattered colleague shuffles off towards his dug out.  Despite the horrors and the hardships, your morale is high and you believe that in the New Year the nation's army march towards a glorious victory.

But for now you stamp your feet in a vain attempt to keep warm.  All is quiet when jovial voices call out from both friendly and enemy trenches.  Then the men from both sides start singing carols and songs.  Next come requests not to fire, and soon the unthinkable happens: you start to see the shadowy shapes of soldiers gathering together in no-man's land laughing, joking and sharing gifts.

 

Every since my kids were small, they always asked be what I wanted for Christmas. I always told them that I wanted something that they had to make with their own hands. So every year while I watched and took pictures, my kids would bring me my presents. A card cut out of cardboard, with pictures of Santa Claus or Elves glued to it. I treasure these gifts more than any possession I own. I have saved them all, from homemade cards to a toothpick box my daughter made. No money or gold could buy these gifts. They were made from the heart of a child, and gifts from the heart are rare and precious.

 So this year, when you are saturated with ads from your TV, your radio and even your computers and phones, take a little time to remember what Christmas is all about. Not how much you paid for the newest and fastest electronic gizmos, but what it is really all about. This is the birth of Jesus, believe or not, and is a day for friends and family to get together and argue, yell, smile and laugh. And give. There are millions of homeless people in this country. No matter how they got that way, they also deserve a day of good food and good cheer. Is it to early to say Merry Christmas? I think so!

  

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

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I couldn't agree more. Americans will commercialize anything and everything. Nothing is sacred. I've seen Christmas stuff at Walgreen's right after Labor Day. It's like, give me a friggin' break, will ya?!

I'm just hoping for an extra lump of coal this year.
Good, good post Scanner. I can't agree more here. Be well and have a good one!!!
Mike, this year a lump of coal may be a luxury! Thanks.
Thank you Mission. We miss you around here and hope everything works out. Keep in touch!
Amen! I was looking for ant stakes the other day so wandered to the garden aisle and tada there was Christmas in all it's glory. I turned on my heels whispered bah humbug and left the store. I have already prepared my boys 17 and 18 this Christmas will be lean, very lean, BUT I told them there will be lots of Christmas Carols and food and love and that is all I can give this year. Wonderful post!
I will keep in touch here Scanner and love this site so.
Love that cartoon!
Zombies in the manger--ha!
I forgot. Is Jesus somehow related to Christmas? Or is that Groundhog Day?
R
When I worked at Target we started getting in our Christmas stuff in August. The worst is the Christmas movies. In 2004, the Ben Affleck flick "Surviving Christmas" was released on Oct. 22nd!?!

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0252028/releaseinfo

But it's just not Christmas that comes earlier every year, a few years ago I actually bought a Cadbury Easter Egg at my local gas station on New Year's Eve!
"One time, in the distant past, their was a reason behind the idea for Christmas. Now it's just a reason to buy expensive things for people who already have more things than they need."

I am so sick of it. (I don't let on to the kids except to discuss the meaning of giving and all that...which their grownups sort of poo poo, which rather ticks me, but hey...it's their life and their kids).

this year is a particularly bad year for us, on top of everything we just got bad news about our older dog's health. So we're spending what we don't have on her, giving each other additional quality life time for her, buying her hopefully comfort and maybe a few extra months where she won't feel like crap.

my husband is a little depressed over this...not taking care of the girl...he's all for that, but that what was going to be a frugal holiday is now going to be completely devoid of gifts between us. this makes me angry because I think I have everything! WHAT MORE CAN THIS MAN GIVE ME THAT I NEED THAT I DON'T ALREADY HAVE???

there is too much damn guilt about spending money and giving giving giving!! I do not understand how a loving holiday that went from the spirit of O Henry's Gift of the Magi, ended up the Target vs Walmart price wars.

does EVERY aspect of our lives have to be a consumer driven capitalist endeavor?


shit.

good post scanner, once again! but now I'm ready to kick something.
Love the cartoon.

Great post, Scanner. I wish we Americans would slow down a little and celebrate one thing at a time. That way we could really enjoy the celebration.
Great post Scanner---could you repost it once a week for the rest of the year? We need the constant reminder. It will be a more frugal Christmas around here this year but with no less love.
A man after my own heart. I am known as the biggest Humbugger ever on another site and have written on a similar topic here on OS.

It starts earlier and earlier in England and this year I saw the first Humbug display in a shop in mid-August. We also have the firework season alongside Halloween mixed in. No wonder kids are confused and hyper.

I'd love to see a suggestion we all forego our spending on the silly season and give to the needy instead. Something tells me not many would be prepared to do it.

Great post - Highly Rated.
Laughed my ass off at this one Scanner. Personally I think X mas should be every day! That way I always get presents and everyones always buying them, thus saving the economy!
Rated.
Pretty soon we'll have Uncle Sam in his July 4th finery hawking Christmas gifts.
LL2, I know now, if not before, the economy is bad. Everyones saying the same thing. Frugal!
Thanks Mission.
spotted, kids sitting on a Zombie's lap, thats funny!
John, I think Groundhog Day, it was just yesterday it seems~
Travis, I love Cadbury eggs, but at New Years? Thanks!
frills, Terri and I have already said the same thing. No presents.
Thanks Gwen! Christmas is so commercialized it's scary!! Boo~
Walter, If All You Need is Love, I got it covered. Anything else, no!
Linda, as long as people can mortgage their future with credit cards, there will be bigtime spending. It takes all year to pay it off. Thanks
Harrods opened their Christmas section in August ...
I so agree!

Rated for Jesus and zombies in one post!
I always liked that story from WWI. It really does speak to the real meaning of Christmas. I too, have tried to teach my little one those same lessons.

The cartoon at the end was funny. "Aim for their heads, baby Jesus !" LMAO !
Andy, thats what I like about you, always thinking!
Kris, I agree, 6 months of Christmas will become the norm.
Kirsty, August? Thats insane~Thanks~
psyche, and people think they will both come back, thanks!
Wanderer, I had heard of this, but when I went and did a little research, It was like reading something out of a movie. Thanks!!
I can just hear it now:

In the first month of Christmas,
It was hot and windy,
And I got a new-ew-ew convertible.
Boil them in their own pudding. Scrooge had the Right philosophy. Good man that.
Thanks Zuma and Mary. Merry Chr...,
that fireplace is so cozy!!!!!!!!

pretty soon they'll just sell Xmas stuff all year, they already have stores
I know we won't be buying much
from now on!
Kat, I believe this isn't going to be a good year for a lot people. Thanks~