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writer, voice-over, addicted to blogging, previously almost famous acid rock guitar queen (previously almost famous because I now have kids... hence screamin mama... but, it's still nice to dream), future photojournalist (still dreaming) and the next (female version) George Lucas, Steven Spielberg or Martin Scorcese (yes, dreams go far). I'm sure I'll add more somewhere down the line...

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AUGUST 27, 2009 4:23PM

Prayers for Tiana

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Goodbye to a very special young lady. Tears came flowing out of my eyes today when I dropped off my daughter's friend at the bustop to live at a shelter in Miami. She has been our neighbor and a part of our family for over 7 years. She is now 17 and the feuding at her home was  so bad, she's been living on the streets and at my house for the past 2 months. I didn't know how bad it was til this past weekend. Other than saying the family threw her bed out in the alley, I won't go into details, but I ask if you would please keep Tiana in your prayers. She needs two more years of high school and is determined to graduate. The shelter will help her and also help her get her social security number. Her family never followed up for her. I am sad and glad for her at the same time. Sad because I didn't hug her when I left her at the busstop, but I did say "I love you," because for the first time I realized that I loved her like my own daughter. I just wish I hugged her because I don't know when we'll see her again.  I'm  glad for her because I think now, with the help of this program, she will become the great woman I know she will be.

 

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I know I bitch and rant about my kids and all their friends, but when push comes to shove, I really don't know how I could survive without them. 

 I wish you all the best, Tiana, and I know you will make it.

I miss you already.

xoxoxo

 

 

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You're such a great person, Mama. What a heart-breaking story. Will Tiana have an address or email access? I think we'd like to send her letters of support. It's so tough being a teen. I'm glad you found a good program for her and I'm so glad she's committed to finishing school. Thank you for sharing.
What a wonderful suggestion Gwendolyn. Please feel free to email me at moxsi1@yahoo.com. You can send the letter as an attachment or in the body of the email and I will be sure to get it to her. Thank you so much for your thoughts. I know she would love to read your words of encouragement. xoxoxo
That is so touching. I have no idea how a parent could do something like that. I too hope that Tiana will emerge from this experience a healtier and happier person.

Excellent, but heartbreaking piece.
Consider her "on my list." And way to be a mama to someone who needs one!
Sorry to here about this far to common problem, Mama. With people like you around maybe she has a chance. You can still visit her can't you? She will likely need all the support she can get. I like Gwendolyn's idea. Do they have access to computers? I would bet they do. Please keep us posted.
oh, mama love, she knows that you hugged her with your heart. she knows. you gave her respite from a terrible situation. you told her you loved her. she knows that. what a brave young woman she is. i will pray for her and put her in my nightly gratitude talk with god/universe. when i was her age, i would have killed for a loving adult to take me in and to love me. you're an angel. love lvoe lvoe and gratitude and healing light and prayers!!!
Approximately 40% of homeless teens are gay, lesbian, or transgendered. I don't know the details of Tiana's situation, but my prayers are with her. You are a special Mom, Momma. xox
I'm sorry for all concerned. We're enmeshed in a similar situation. I will keep good thoughts for her... and for you.
Thank you all so much. Your thoughts and prayers mean so much. Let's keep all these kids in our hearts, as there are so many who are lost and confused. You are truly a wonderful, loving crowd here on OS. xoxoxo
Definitely sending up prayers!
UGgh! Poor kid.
I'm sure you have made a huge difference in her life--even if you can't see it quite yet.
Thank you Robin. Your prayers mean so much. Ghost, I know you're feeling this too. Thank you both for your kind words.

It's only been one day, but so far Tiana is doing well. She has a curfew, she sleeps in the bottom bunk, there is a nurse on hand (did I tell you she was diabetic?) and they are helping her get back in school to graduate. Best of all, she is happy! Your prayers are being heard! Thank you all!
I know exactly how you feel about your children´s friends. My eldest son will be 16 soon and I´ve known some of his best friends since they were toddlers and went to kindergarten together: they are part of the family, they spend lots of time at home and have shared many things with them.
It´s great that you have been there to help this Tiara: she is a very brave, lively little angel.
Kisses,
Marcela
Prayers for your young friend, sm. I hope she will be cared for and find the strength and skills she needs to move forward. I have a soft spot in my heart for teens, because they are so vulnerable, and so often their struggles are discounted. Bless you for your generosity in reaching out to Tiana - I hope you will continue to post about her.
Thank you for your enormous heart, and for sharing something of dear Tiana’s troubles. Please keep us updated on her journey.

—Melissa
Thank you, again, everyone for your thoughts and kind words. I just want to update you all. We saw Tiana yesterday, she is now speaking with her mom, I am so happy! She is staying at the shelter and is happy there. She is enrolled in classes and working on her degree. She will be 18 in a few months and then they will help her get her social security number. I will be sure to keep you posted. Lots of love xoxoxo
oh Christ what a mess. I hope she finds a soft place to land.
oh! she did- yay :D (should have read the comments first)
Hugs and prayers your way. You're doing a good thing. You are so right, I might point out the inconsistencies in my kids but I cannot imagine life without them and they are so worth it. Too bad some parents only see the negative.