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FEBRUARY 21, 2010 10:16AM

Putting A Contract on Me

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 rockclimb

 

I am contemplating committing to a contract.  This particular contract is one that I create and post on StickK.

 Before I write my contract, I must decide to what I will commit.

I've been reading the StickK testimonials,  and I am curious about the experiences.  I've noticed some OSers blog their personal commitments, and I wonder about the success that has come to them as a result.

I've never been strong at forming goals and putting them into print. I've been pretty good at taking punches and putting my feet on the floor, but that is another topic.

Before I write my contract, I am going to blog (stream--using the word list causes me panic) possible contract options.   These are the things on my mind this morning.

 --I will commit to completing a poetry chapbook.  (This month? Deadlines!)

-- I will commit to flying lessons.  (When?)

-- I will commit to a rock climbing beginner's course.  (Take #2                      daughter!)

--I will commit to less betting during March Madness (will I?)

--I will walk more, daily (how much?  Be specific Scup.)

--I will read again (You dare include reading here?)

--I will complete the still life before the apple rots.  (Better feel it first.)

-- I will make and keep health appointments (Sure. Tell that to your                  friends.)

 

Contemplating.  I zone a lot, but how well do I contemplate?  Commitment.  Hell.  I can barely spell it.  The word always looks like it needs a third t.  Goal setting?  I never get it right.  Once I wrote a list of things fifty things I'd like to do all over again. That list was meaningful.  A contract with myself? Didn't I stream this type of thing last month?  Maybe I'll zone a bit on the progress of my modest proposals for 2010.   Where was StikK then?   Oh blather.

 

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I will file my taxes on time.
This resonates. Please don't commit to less betting during March Madness, because I might like to wager myself, and I'll feel bad. Selfishly, I vote for the completion of the chapbook...provided that part of your self-monitoring involves regular posting of included work so that we can, uhm, help you.
I will keep you honest! If you break one commitment, let me know!
Scupper.....

Lets see. Rock climbing. Flying lessons.

I think you want to get high. You want to soar above the mundane. You want to be free.

Me too. Do those things. Forget the rest.
R
I thought you were putting a contract out on yourself. Mob style. Good to know you were just contemplating writing one to follow! But if you think about it, a contract is a contract. They are a little soul killing. If you can organize your thoughts and make plans -- even using paper -- without getting your inner attorney involved, that might be better!
I have no idea what StikK is! I'll have to check it out. I can so relate to your list...and the idea of committing.....and to the need of adding that second "t" to committing. I just did it! :) It looks correct to me.
I make committments (the extra "t" makes that red dotty line appear but fuck it. Ha!) and then I get rebellious and think who does that "committment" think it is trying to tell me what to do and I tell it to go suck an egg (or similar, more flowery language). There just seems to be one thing that I can commit to and it's the one thing that I wish I could take or leave. Oh well, that's me, contrary as all git out!
I make lists like this all the time. I count it a success if I follow one through...Good luck, I'm sure you have much more will power than me!
Walk, and contemplate while doing it. But do the poetry first--and then publish it here. (Selfish.)
I love the feeling of accomplishment as I make a list and then am able to cross off items as completed. My lists, however, seem mundane in comparison to yours!

I think starting small might be good (take a walk each day - you'll get several good benefits from that)...then you're rewarded for accomplishing one goal and feel heartened to go on to the next and the next and the next.
Good list. I hope you enjoy doing them! You may never want to scratch them off.
I'll think about it.
I have to tell you. We are what our vision is. We become our goals, plans, visualizations, commitments to ourselves. I am living proof. And so is my good friend.
I am a big vision maker and follow througher. I'm about to move to Colorado to start a fresh adventure with my husband, my son is graduating and joining the Air Force, we are debt free and looking forward to buying a house outright.

My friend who mocks my planning and visions is 58 years old and had to move in with her 80 year old mother. Life sucks.

Which way would you prefer? Believe me, you are your vision. And everybody has one, whether it's loaded for success or just "nothing good ever happens to me."
Entertaining, scupper. If it helps you decide, I've given up lists like this (I can say "list" because I've given them up, you see) because they set me up too easily for guilt trips, which I hate even more than not doing the things that I would put the list. Also, without the list I can feel righteous about doing one or two these good things every now and again as positive impulses rather than obedience, which I've always hated. Then again, every now and again I do make an ironclad contract with myself to do one - and, I emphasize, only one - thing. This works because I feel so righteous sticking to the contract that I can avoid haunting snippets of guilt for not doing the other things I should be doing. The contracts are usually broken by unforeseen circumstance, meaning I can blame the breach on something or someone else. Then, the emotional response is more akin to fleeting remorse than it is to guilt, which I hate so much I'm almost ready to make a contract that I will deny guilt under all circumstances. Hope this helps. (r)
I always thought commitment should have three t's too. Sometimes I make a list of my lists. ;)

I find putting one foot on front of the other is often a good start. Like right now even though I don't want to I'm going for walk. How I will feel when I get back is my motivation to move.

Now the taxes ...I feel that pain too.
Keep us posted, scupper. Sounds like a plan, once you make one . . .
scupper-Does it matter if I say I'm counting on you?
R
This sounds like a lot of work but just maybe worthwhile to try...Good luck with it all!
I need to make so many commitments to myself - thanks for the reminder...I like the poetry chapbook one! Just do it!!
ha! let me know if this actually works
I think that just by having the list, your ahead of the game!
Just pick one!
Bet the underdogs the first two rounds in March Madness. Oh, I forgot you aren't going to do that this year, right? I make lists like this and then spend days looking for the list. The still life is not going to remain still forever, so get on it~ Funny things here. It was enjoyable and good luck with the new you.
commitment. It does need a third t. I'm with Ann. I vote for completion of the chapbook. It was a ballot, right? LOL
Commitments with three "T", yes! But, aren´t those too many commitments? I mean: to fly, climb, read, write, paint, walk, keep health appointments ... I think I would need much longer days, or lots of vitamins!
Very entertaining, Scupper, thanks!
Kisses,
Marcela
Don't know what a chapbook is, or Sticky K or March Madness.
But I know, believe me I know - you need wings to fly.
Go for a walk, and finish the still life - the apples are done - toss them to the chickens.
My list is much longer than yours - get busy - come back and write.
We are here to work.
Making the most beautiful cup of tea you've ever had in your life,and sitting down on the verandah watching the way the shadows and the light fall about that tree trunk is work.
Apply yourself, scupper - complain about it later, how you didn't get that quite right. But god, you were close.
Sharon made me laugh. I love it when she does that.
close enough sometimes to make me cry
what a combo you two are
you really left yourself wide open on this. Walk daily to watch the Jayhawks fly sit on thier lofty wings and climb on the rock chalk jayhawk, Read daily of thier victories bet healthily once about the Jayhawks March Madness Dance in good health. Hows that for a contract? I believe I covered ALL the perameters. Har de har, har.!!!
Scanner,
I am reporting pro-active behavior today. I made the tax appt. and hired a consultant for the woes of the previous year. That's some progress to note.