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JUNE 29, 2011 7:29PM

Unexpected Death

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The Carter Family sings  Can The Circle Be Unbroken? 1927
 
‎..She is understandably taking the loss of her husband hard. She got up this morning to get ready for work, made coffee and the like. When she returned to kiss him good-by he was cold. The coroner thinks he died about 4 am of a sudden massive heart attack. He did not even stir enough in bed to wake her. Family is with her now..."
 
 
Were do you find the words? Most of us who rely on music to get us through find a song or two to speak for us. The man whose daughter this happened to put up this Carter Family song to show his feelings today.
 
I am reminded lately again of this fragile thing we call life. People die before their time, just whatever that means anyway. Sometimes there is just no right time I think. The wistfulness of a tree swaying in the wind says it all for me. There is a time when it is bare, then blooming. Freshness and green leaves speak for me, then the color blast of aging beauty, the vibrant outcry of the last moments of meaning, then bare again, tell me the time. Even when the tree dies, it can leave its hope of life. A seed carried by a bird can make a tree, all this happens under our unwatchful eyes.
 
While the city sleeps and we take our country slumber, the tree, in rain or snow or sleet or ice or sun or winds, finds its life. We ignore it and yet we do not, it is a part. So it is with all the life around us, teeming. Being born, growing, dying, all in this great circle of life. The music wakes our souls as it should. When words are lost and emotion great, there is still the sound of memories. 
 
For Patrick
 
I said goodbye
did you hear me
I whispered it to
you in the silent night
I waved to you
as I approached the light
I was happy
happier than you might know
but I did say goodbye
I wanted you to know
I will miss you
but while it was hard to
leave you
I was happy because
I know
I will see you
 
 Copyright 2011 by SheilaTGTG55
 
Jethro Tull
 
 
 

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Many thanks to all of you who will read this and send consoling thoughts to my friend and his family.
Sheila, I'm sorry for the passing of your friend. You have presented a beautiful eulogy for him here and I will say a prayer for his soul. May he rest in peace. My sincere condolences to his family and to you.
♥R
Can't say it any better than Fusun, nor can I even imagine how you wrote this so beautifully in much pain.

Odd association: I am moving into a new buildling. Last night I had a call from a great friend to tell me that his parents lived there and they would help me with the process.

This morning he called to say his mom died at 2 Am--just two hours after we discussed her. This is not any direct loss but speaks to the image of whenever and however and that it happens when least expected. Safe thoughts and blessings sent to you, r
Grand post on those who leave us. We that stay behind are those who grieve such a loss.
Rated.
Oh dear. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your friend, Sheila.
Wow, so sorry. Yeah, this thing we call 'life' is a fragile condition at best. The deaths that are the hardest for us are those that come unexpectedly-- not hard for those who passed, but for those left here.
Love your poem Sheila
My sympathies to you and your dear friend. I wish comfort and healing memories. You created a lovely elegy for his family in remembrance.
Sorry for your loss.
Oh Sheila,
More death:( I so hate it.. This was beautifully said.
Rated with hugs
So sorry to hear this Shelia, condolences to you and the family.
Sincerest condolences. Really. /r
that was a kind and generous post, sheila.
Lovely poem, Sheila. Condolences to you and the family.
We will stop to recognize what you share here, acknowledge the truth, then go on our way with the small doings of life. Still we know:
"We ignore it and yet we do not, it is a part. "
Lovely tribute and my condolences, Sheila.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. Your poem speaks to me in so many ways. It can happen in life as well when we need to tell a friend that we are there for them even though they don't hear our words. I am glad you had this chance to send a beautiful goodbye into the wind with the swaying trees. R
Our fragile nature simply emphasizes the miracle that we are all able to walk around every day. It's when one of us passes that we really understand how amazing it is. Best to you and your friend's family.
No, there is never a right time for loss, I'm so sorry for yours. I hope for peace and comfort for those hurting now.
You plant a seed here. We shall water it with our tears. My sympathy to all who loved him.
Your friend was most fortunate to have you in his life.