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Nelle Engoron

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FEBRUARY 5, 2009 1:50PM

Movie Musings: Reel People (Milk, Frost/Nixon & Man on Wire)

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I’m hoping to post now and then to talk about movies in some fashion – not reviews so much as musings.  Here are some thoughts about three current movies that tell the stories of real people, with varying success.

 

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MILK

(NOTE:  I already blogged about Milk on a “meta” level in my blog post “People I Know Are in Movies” but didn’t talk about the film itself.)

While this Oscar nominee has its flaws (like many movies these days, it would have been better if it was edited more tightly), I found it incredibly moving as a document not just of a life, or of a public tragedy, but of an entire movement.

Harvey Milk’s story, and the larger story that it’s a synecdoche for (of gay rights and gay pain) is powerfully conveyed, without the usual gross manipulation you find in most “message movies”.  For me, the most emotional scene was not the candlelight parade at the end, but when Penn as Milk almost casually discloses that he’s had two lovers kill themselves (and at that point, another suicide is still to come).  The high rate of despair among gays is presented in a matter-of-fact fashion that should stop every straight person in their tracks.  (It’s too much to hope that homophobic conservatives would watch it and feel ashamed of their absurd accusations that gays are powerful people pushing their social agenda on straights.)

Watching Milk, which ends about a year before I moved here to the Bay Area, I felt relieved at how much progress we’ve made on gay rights during those 30 years, and yet I know that I live in a bubble where there are not just legal protections but social acceptance far beyond what most gay people still experience.  And even here, there are still many pockets of homophobia and violence, as the Gwen Araujo tragedy showed.

Milk works mostly because of the strong performances of Josh Brolin and Sean Penn.  For me, Penn is one of those love-hate actors – I often dislike him as a person, even though I think he’s incredibly talented.  But I’d gotten tired of seeing him in too many roles as the sinister, sneering bad guy.  He’s terrific in them, but I always have a sneaking suspicion that it’s partly because they cut all too close to the tough, cynical and at times nasty guy that he is in real life.  

So it was refreshing to see him do what felt like real acting, transforming himself into not a gay man (that wasn’t the impressive part) but a believable character who was positive, who seemed to find joy even in situations that should generate hatred or despair.  I hope that Penn absorbed a bit of the character – as the old ad slogan goes, “Milk – it does a body good.”

(No matter what else he does, I’ll always love Penn for what he said during his Actor’s Studio interview, which is that he hates it when people excuse crappy mainstream movies by saying “they’re just entertainment.”   He said that movies are too powerful a medium to be dismissed that way, and “If you want entertainment, get yourself two hookers and an eight-ball.”  Classic Penn, and even if I have no taste for hookers, I agree with him that movies and other visual media are among the most powerful forces for affecting human beings that have ever been invented, and that we should respect what they can do.  But that, as they say, is another blog post.)

 

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FROST/NIXON

(I also mentioned this film in my "People I Know" blog post.)

Other than Frank Langella’s foxy performance as Nixon, I found this movie very disappointing (and not just because the person I used to know ended up having no dialogue!).  Perhaps it’s the problem of adapting a stage play to screen, or perhaps it’s knowing the real history, but to me, this movie tried very hard to build up suspense where none could be mustered.  

The contrast to Milk is helpful, because we also know what’s going to happen in that film, but the director (Gus Van Sant) still builds up an anxious suspense before the inevitable occurs.  Perhaps the difference is that after 2 hours, we’ve fallen a little in love with Harvey Milk and hate to see him die, whereas we don’t care what happens to either Nixon or Frost.  Or perhaps the problem is that we do care, and want Nixon to have more of a comeuppance.  All this suspense for just a tiny little admission?  How little we got in satisfaction from that man, after all he did to the country! (Although after 8 years of Bush/Cheney, Nixon begins to look more like someone’s rascally old uncle than the former most-hated ex-President.)  

I actually had to fight to stay awake during Frost/Nixon, which is very rare for me in movies.  I managed it only by waiting to see if Ken Khachigian had any lines and also noting stuff like the use of an entirely different location for Nixon’s house, since the real one would have had Catalina Island on the horizon in the shots with an ocean background.  (Having lived in the town and seen that same ocean view every day, I know the outline of Catalina on the horizon like I know my own face.  I once saw it pop up in a movie that was supposedly set on the Riviera.  These things tend to break your suspension of disbelief.)  Finding yourself focusing on such minutiae argues against a movie being a compelling viewing experience.

Not long after seeing Frost/Nixon, I was about to turn off the TV and go to bed when I stumbled onto the last hour of an American Experience documentary about Nixon, coming in just in time for the Watergate portion.  And I was so mesmerized by the real story that I had to force myself turn it off and go to bed.  So if you want a Nixon saga, go for reality – or at least rent All the President’s Men.

 


Man on Wire


MAN ON WIRE

To complete my round-up of movies about real people, I just saw this on DVD and highly recommend it.  Like a poorly rigged wire (something that will have more meaning after you see this), the movie sags a bit in the middle, but it’s an engrossing and cleverly made documentary about Philippe Petit’s amazing wire walk between the tops of the two World Trade Center towers in 1974 (shortly before Nixon’s resignation, as it happens). 

I was 16 when this made headlines around the world and the film does more than bring it all back for those of us who saw it then – it takes us deep inside the stunt (deliciously called “Le Coup” by the perpetrators) by interviewing the still-living participants, as well as showing both re-enactments and actual film of Petit in the 1970’s as he prepared.   So, for example, we learn that Le Coup was something Petit had dreamed about since he was 17 and read about the buildings in the planning stages.  The back story is intriguing, although I would have preferred hearing less about the inter-team tensions and more about how a man becomes able to walk with complete nonchalance a quarter mile above the ground on a wire about half an inch wide (on which, among other things, he actually lies down in the middle of making 8 crossings).  That is the question we mere mortals boggle at.

Petit’s feat was so extreme that it’s still unparalleled, and in case you can’t imagine enjoying watching such a thing, even knowing he survived, I’ll say that even someone as acrophobic as I am was able to enjoy it, just as his friends on the ground said they were so stunned by the beauty of the act that they forgot to be afraid for him.

Petit is at times almost a parody combination of an excitable Frenchman and a daredevil artist with grandiose interpretations of even the most mundane aspects of life, but what most impressed me was his extreme determination and courage.  My memory of the event was that it was fairly improvisational and that Petit was astoundingly lucky in even surviving it, but Man on Wire (that wonderfully succinct phrase is how the complaint appears on the police report afterward) shows us that years of serious planning went into the stunt.  (Although some admittedly wacky characters ended up aiding and abetting Petit in his “crime,” which they eventually pleaded down to “trespassing”. Uh, yeah, that’s one word for it.)

Seeing the twin towers is always a sad moment and it’s amazing how many movies and TV shows feature them.  You can be in the midst of a breezy romantic comedy only to feel your heart sink when they appear suddenly in the background of a shot of New York, and it took me a while to get past that feeling as I watched Man on Wire, which includes footage of them in the construction stage as well as during Le Coup.

Having seen their destruction happen on TV, it was amazingly moving to see them going up again in the old footage.  In a way the movie rebuilds the fallen towers by showing us that, and eventually I started seeing them as Petit did, and was able to enter into their history, the feeling of them as they once were, rather than how they ended.  It was rather like the point at which you can think about someone who died without bursting into tears anymore but instead just fondly remembering who they were.  In a way, Man on Wire celebrates not just Petit’s shining moment, but theirs -- when they were new and represented all the opportunity in the world.  

It’s stunning after watching this film to realize that Petit survived and they did not.  Sometimes a fragile human being is stronger than a colossus of steel.

 

 

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Giving this a little cinematic bump and grind....
Hey Silk - nice post. I loved "Milk", and I am not a huge VanSandt fan. This one, though, worked for me. It was very odd to see Sean Penn smiling as much as he did. I don't think he's smiled so much since "Fast Times". "Frost/Nixon" I really liked. I thought the performances were all strong, and even though I knew how it ultimately ended, it kept my interest the entire time, and never bored me. I Langella is getting all the press, but the one who made the movie work in my opinion was Sheen. Haven't seen "Man on Wire" yet, but it's in my queue. Again, great post.
Hey, Sheldon, thanks for the love! I wasn't sure this post would get any action, as it's the kind of thing I talk about with friends over coffee when we ask each other, "so what movies have you seen lately?"

I was sorry not to like "Frost/Nixon" more. I had high hopes. And I do love Langella (I was explaining to my partner's son that he used to be a sexy beast in his youth and he couldn't quite believe it). I loved Sheen in "The Queen" (now there's a terrific film and from the same writer, but different director, IIRC) and maybe his Frost suffered from, IMO, being too close to his Blair.

Do see "Man on Wire". It's gotten rave reviews and usually that sets me up for a disappointment but it really came through.

and I laughed at your comment that Penn smiles more than any time since "Fast Times" - indeed! perhaps he's not been tokin' enough in the interim....
You know, it may be a little weird to say this, but I kind of think Penn is somewhat UNDERrated as an actor. I think people know he's good and just kind of take it at face value, and don't really look to see just how good he actually is. I didn't see one false note in his performance, and that's kind of been his whole career has gone. I rarely see him "acting". He's been in movies that I haven't necessarily cared for, but he is always, at the very least, making interesting choices.
You know...I agree with you. I probably am being too harsh on him. I tend to get tired of actors playing similar parts, although I know that even at the upper level, it's not entirely their choice. They get offered certain sorts of things, and that's what they do. It's great that Van Sant looked to him to do Milk, which isn't what a lot of directors would have thought of.

Now if someone can just offer Jack Nicholson something that isn't a "Jack Nicholson part", maybe we can see some better acting from him again, too.
Couldn't agree more about Nicholson. I was really hoping "The Departed" would be the first step in that direction, but I don't think it took.
I only read the Milk review, because I have yet to see Frost/Nixon and Man on Wire but intend to (and I like to go in knowing as little as possible). That said -- yes, on every point you're making. Great thoughts, particularly: and yet I know that I live in a bubble where there are not just legal protections but social acceptance far beyond what most gay people still experience. I felt the same thing after leaving the theater: happy, but kicked in the gut. Which was, I guess, the point.
Saturn, yes, I think so too. So we don't get complacent. Of course Prop 8 passing around here helped remind us of that, too.

I understand about not wanting to know too much before you see something. I'm one of those odd ducks who loves to read or even re-read reviews after I see a movie (at least from critics who write about more than "uh, it was good) more than before seeing one (as most people do). So feel free to stop back and offer thoughts after you see them!
I saw Milk and my comments about Penn and Brolin's performances were, the characterizations were bigger than the actors. It was very riveting.

I still have to see the other flicks. Thanks for sharing your perspectives. Rated.
OE, I thought the scenes of Penn and Brolin together were the strongest in the film, and not just because of what we know about the characters but the way the actors interacted. I'd love to see them work together again.
Brolin is really coming into his own. The more I see his work, the more I become a fan. He's come a long way since "The Goonies". I think the guy has the chops to become a real hard-core character actor.
I saw 'Milk' yesterday,great acting from Sean Penn.
It must be difficult playing a role so out of character for him.
Rated
Sheldon, I agree about Brolin!

Peter, it does seem unlike him in many ways, which is what was impressive about the performance.
Thanks, UK! The article I linked towards the end (linked to Man on Wire phrase) has an interview in which Petit said that while watching the movie, he found himself on the edge of his seat wondering what was going to happen to this guy...! But it's not unbearably suspenseful at all, IMO. (I know what you mean, I don't like films like that, either.) Here you know the outcome so it's all OK.
Milk is the only one of the three I've seen. I enjoyed it a lot and have to agree that Penn is a great actor.

And this is the best quote ever: “If you want entertainment, get yourself two hookers and an eight-ball.”