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JULY 10, 2009 2:57PM

the uses of boredom

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I became a reader because I was bored.

I learned to read when I was about four years old, but, like most children, I read only picture books until I was seven.  My parents brought me to the library every two weeks, and I filled up on library books at school as well, but picture books didn't last long; I ended up reading them over and over because we had limited television options and, of course, no computer.  (I was also a clumsy child with seasonal allergies who didn't like to play outside.)

I occasionally glanced at the library shelves full of books for older children, and sometimes took one down to page through it, but I was intimidated.  They were so thick, and if there were illustrations at all, they appeared only once a chapter or so.  I was capable of reading these "chapter books," but they seemed like too much work.

Every summer, we loaded up the car and drove for what seemed like months, but was probably about eight hours, to our summer house to spend two or three weeks.  Before leaving town, we took a special trip to the library to take out an extra-large stack of books on extended summer loan.

The summer I was seven, my mother used part of her precious borrowing allotment to take out a few "chapter books" for me.  "But I don't like chapter books," I said.  She ignored me.

Of course, I read through most of my picture books in the car on the way to the coast, and even dipped into some of my brothers' horror comics to pass the time.  (They both suffered from carsickness, and so most of the reading material was mine for the duration of the trip.)  

For the first week of our stay at the summer house, I was forced to play outside far more than I would have liked.  My books were all read, we had no television, and a seven-year-old, even one who likes math, can only play cribbage for so long.  We found things to do: there was a tree behind the house full of fascinating fuzzy yellow caterpillars; there was a rusted old bedspring in the next lot that we liked to bounce on (and somehow none of us got tetanus); our parents took us to the beach or the nearby swimming hole every second day; and the blueberries needed picking and eating.

Then it rained.  We were stuck in the house, lying on the creaky couch in the living room.  We groaned and rolled our eyes at the tedium.  We pressed our noses against the glass to make interesting smudges or write in the steam from our breath.  

And then I saw, on the endtable, the little stack of "chapter books" my mother had brought for me.

I picked one up and leafed through it.  I don't remember what book it was, but there was a full-page woodcut at the beginning of each chapter, and the rest of the pages seemed dense and busy with text.  The first woodcut was of two boys and a girl, maybe brothers and a sister just like my brothers and me.  And there was a duck, I think.  The duck caught my interest.  

It was still raining.  I started to read.

I read that entire book that afternoon, and started another after dinner.  When bedtime came, I hid in the bathroom with that book until my parents threatened to shut down the power if I didn't turn out the lights and go to bed.

The experience of being entirely transported into another world was one that would shape the rest of my childhood and adolescence.  Until I pursued an English degree at university and ruined it all, reading became the most important activity in my life.

I might never have found it if we'd had cable TV, video games, or Internet access at that summer house.

These days, I marvel at those of my students who read for pleasure.  These kids have no memory of a world without computers, or even without cell phones.  At any given moment there are myriad forms of instant gratification available at their fingertips.  Even so, some of them still love reading.  My IB students and I had a discussion last term about the future of the novel, and they rhapsodized about books; Anny told us that her bookshelf is near her bed and sometimes she'll pull the books out and smell the pages because they make her so happy.

Most of my students, however, have no interest in reading, and I have to say that I don't entirely blame them.  I don't even read much for pleasure any more, especially fiction - I watch television and films, read blogs online, and listen to nonfiction as podcasts and audiofiles.  

I'm a writer and English teacher, and was a voracious reader from the age of seven.  If I'm not reading, what chance do my overstimulated students have, especially if they've never been bored long enough to reach out to a book they might normally not be bothered with?

A colleague and I were discussing his children one day, and he said that he and his wife had been debating the restrictions they should place on computer use and television viewing.  He said that during their conversation, he'd had a revelation.  "I want my kids to have the chance to be bored," he said.

How much creative discovery has taken place because a child or an adult was trapped inside on a rainy day and all the picture books had been read, all the video games had been won, or the cable had gone out?  How much more would teenagers learn about themselves if they put their cell phones away for a few days at a time?

We could argue that kids go to school, so they know plenty about boredom.  But would they be able to make more use of the "boring" hours they spend sitting at a desk if they had more chances, on their own time, to lie on the couch, look around the room, and find something new to read?  If they spent more time wandering through the woods, picking up sticks to use as toys, or examining the insides of flowers?  

Some of my most stimulating memories of my childhood are of doing these kinds of things, and some of the most interesting people I know, young and old, have been brought up environments where there was no, or limited, access to televisions, computers, game consoles, etc.  They got bored, and they had to do something about it.

Most importantly, someone was there to hand them a book, a chemistry set, or a basketball, and say, "See what you can do with this."  Is this what's missing from many of our kids' lives?  Is this what Anny's parents did - turned off the television, handed her a book, and said, "Try this on"?

My greatest fear is not that many young people will never learn to enjoy books, although I do think that's a shame.  My greatest fear is that many will never discover things they could really love, things that could make them better, happier people, because they're filling their time with easy distractions.  

I love easy distractions as much as the next person, and you are as likely to find me listening to BlipFM and playing solitaire as reading a novel these days.  But at least I had a chance.  What chance do some of these kids have?

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Interesting thoughts. I am bored, but I am bored by the business. I think I'd like the time to be bored - and perhaps a book, or chemistry set, or hand tools, or a basketball. That sound like a vacation to me.
Owl:
Yes, it's really that kind of empty, open-ended boredom I'm talking about - not the boredom where you have to do something tedious that you feel is meaningless, but the boredom where you can't find anything to do with yourself. Although the former might have its uses too - maybe doing stuff we hate can lead us to creative spaces if we have the right tools and can see it as a learning opportunity? Not sure.
It's funny that you bring this up, because I've been discussing this with friends recently. What I've discovered is that my children are never bored. Ever. EVER. It's one of those things that hits you like lightning and then you can't believe you hadn't noticed it before. Most people would congratulate me and suggest that this means I've done something wonderful with my kids. But the truth is, it's crystal clear why they--and their parents--are never bored. We all default to computers around the house. And that makes me uncomfortable. They will insist that there's all kinds of reading online (and you've just commented on my recent post, Siobhan, so you know that my kids are well-read and that their information comes mostly from new technology) but my bias remains hand-held books and sit-around-the-table games. That's just plain cultural I assume. But the bored thing? I just don't know. I absolutely feel in my bones that there's something that comes from it--that there's perhaps some lull necessary to motivate or spark some good ideas. The notion of invention comes to my mind. Sure, kids are savvier and more knowledgeable than ever before, but do they have the inclination to come up with their own ideas? I'm not saying they don't; I'm just asking.

Thanks for your standard provocative post!
I think you're onto something. It seems like some of my best ideas hit when I'm really just . . . driving or daydreaming (or both). Sometimes, when my brain is unfettered, it just spontaneously makes connections it wouldn't otherwise.
This is my favorite line "Until I pursued an English degree at university and ruined it all"

I picked up reading similarly, though it was also an escape from a not so friendly family life, lack of friends, and competition (a girl in my pre-K class could read so I felt I should too lol). But, yes, boredom, or at least a way to stay out of trouble (my brother chose starting fires and taking things apart, I chose books) was a reason for starting a book - but the books themselves are what kept me in them.

As for smelling books - yeah, I do that too :) god I love the smell of old bookshops
Even the ocean has low tide. Jesus, himself, many times had to leave the throngs following him and go off by himself. What I'm most afraid of is that these children, if not allowed to be bored, will never really know themselves. It's when we're bored, that we have conversations with our inner self and find out just who he/she is. If that goes by the way side in place of tetris and reality TV, we truly will be a society of sheep.

Just to be devil's advocate, however, I read somewhere that TV is the modern fire. Men used to come home from hunting and stare into the fire, now they just stare into the TV. It's not that they're tuning in, it's actually that they're tuning out.

Interesting topic. Thanks
Lainey: "Do they have the inclination to come up with their own ideas?" That's just it; I don't know either, but I know a lot of my ideas surfaced when I was just aimlessly schlepping around with nothing in particular to do.
Alicia:
All those things factored in for me too: I was lonely, I didn't like my life or the outside world, and I definitely wanted to be smarter than the other smart kids! But my memory of that particular event clarifies why reading was the outlet for me.
Noah:
I think staring into the fire is very different from staring at the tv. Staring at the fire gives your mind a chance to empty and go where it wants. Staring at the tv fills your mind up with stuff so it doesn't have to look at its empty self. My fire -staring experiences are all pretty memorable because of the peacefulness they brought, coupled, paradoxically, with excitement - all sorts of things surface when you're watching flickering flames. TV stamps all that stuff down. There's no room for your self.
Interesting idea. I used to think of boredom as laziness of the mind but I recently had an experience that made me think that perhaps the feeling does have some value - it forces us to get creative.

I just finished my first year of teaching about a month ago. And it took about a week (after I had done just a little bit of all my favorite things that I had been neglecting all year) for me to discover that I had nothing I wanted to do. And I was bored. It was an amazing moment! Mostly because I could not remember feeling that way in forever. I was grateful for it.

On the reading note - I had to trick my little sister into reading full on chapter books. Like you, she wouldn't read them because they were thick, but I ( a horrible bookworm) knew she would love them so I read the first few chapters of one I knew she would like out loud to her. And soon enough she got impatient with me because she could read it to herself much faster than I could read it to her. She's been reading ever since!

I strongly believe there is a book lover in all of us. It just may be tricky to find the right book!
You know, I read all these strategies that people have to mold kids into readers and, limiting computer time, forcing them to be bored, etc, etc. Taking them to the library. I don't get how people really think that's going to work. These are kids, they have a thirst for new experience, new things. And just like adults they need new books.

I buy my kid A LOT of books. And it has really worked. My son is eight. He has a playstation and unlimited computer time. But he reads tons. He's read all the Harry Potter books, and generally reads at least one novel a month. And most importantly, he re-reads. He's developed an emotional bond with books. He had lots of books that are HIS. I'm not knocking the library, but I don't think you can get that just from going to the library and borrowing books. It's amazing what people will buy their kids, but they don't buy books.

Children need to be stimulated into regular reading habits, not bored into them.

That's how my parents cultivated reading habits in me. And I am a lifetime reader and buyer of books. And I suspect my son will be too.
i'm sort of surprised by this concern. i don't understand it. as a child, i was fortunate to grow up in a house with tons of books. we had so many books i never even had to go to the library for school projects and papers: i could research ramses in my living room.

to me, that's what the internet is. everyone has the library of alexandria, right in their house. i'm never bored either these days, and i grant it is a struggle to tear myself away sometimes, but that has always been so. i had that problem with books! and boredom also leads to destruction and cruelty sometimes. i knew boys who would go kill snakes at the creek down the street from my house out of boredom. maybe now they just look them up on the internet?
It's not only reading. For example, as a kid I had a chemistry set and actually did the experiments. I had a microscope. A set of electronics experiments. A gasoline model engine I tinkered with for hours/days/months. I played a musical instrument. All of these things fascinated me. I built model planes. I climbed in the stones throw away (literally) mountains. I skipped rocks in the nearby creek. We played outdoors. We build go carts! Imagine the fascination of a few boards and four wheels. Collected bottle lips from Coke bottles. Captured pigeons. Shot bb guns.
Rode bicycles. Went sledding in the winter. And this is just the pg rated stuff. Wow. What a childhood. I'm glad we didn't have TV 24/7, video games, and the internet !
Excellent post and I agree with you completely! As an adult, I wish I could experience boredom, but there is just too much to do. Even if boredom was to knock at my door.....I'd open up a book and read!
I am the mother of a nearly 10-year-old wii-loving, television-watching computer geek who also loves to read. He's read Harry Potter and the Eragon books; he also has a soft spot for the silly Captain Underpants and the Diary of a Wimpy Kid graphic novels. He's been through Robin Hood and the Three Musketeers and Tom Swift. He loves to read. He is also the child of parents who value books and regularly read.

I agree with a lot of Juliet's points. Kids should read for the love of reading, not because it's the activity of last resort, when there's not a single other interesting thing to do. I spent a good part of my childhood reading, not because I was bored, but because I was stimulated by and enchanted with the stories. I read so much, in fact, that my mother worried there was something wrong with me.

For my son, a gift card to the local book store is a favorite present. The kid will spend an hour deciding which book to buy.
I think the real difference between today's kids and my generation (1970s childhood) is that parents feel compelled to entertain them during every waking hour (and so they come to expect that constant entertainment from adults.) My parents saw their responsibility as keeping me safe and healthy; not giving me constant interaction with and stimulus from adults. Aside from reading to me and singing to me for a few minutes before bed at night, they didn't do things for my amusement. Instead, they gave me lots of books, lots of paper, crayons, paint and clay, plus a reasonable number of toys. When I wasn't in school or doing homework, my "job" was to amuse myself with that stuff, either alone or with other children. If I told my parents I was bored, they'd say, "Find something to do!"
Yes, we had TV and I was allowed to watch it as much as I wanted to (as long as it wasn't bed time or dinner time.) I watched some TV, but my books and art supplies were always more fun. The only "must-see-TV" for me, back then, were the Saturday morning cartoons, which my brother and I would watch together, still in pajamas, with bowls of cereal (which we'd gotten for ourselves; our parents trusted us to pour cereal and milk into bowls!) on our laps.
I take care of a couple of little girls after school three days a week. They're nice kids but they expect to be constantly entertained and directed by adults and, after a few hours with them, I'm exhausted. Oh, and their parents are very strict about limits on TV and computer time. That strictness doesn't seem to have made them better able to amuse themsleves, though...
Treasure Island. My first true love.
I agree totally. I said something to that effect, not as well as you said it, at a staff meeting at school and the principal looked at me as if I had said the kids should drink poison. They believe kids should have everything crammed in to their little mouths constantly.

I was "driven" to books by boredom as a kid. Best thing that happened to me! I think it has different effects on teens and adults. Well, depending on what they have access to, but hopefully if they read that helps them have something to turn to.
I couldn't have said it as well as you. People these days are terrified of silence and quietness.
LOL--bstrangely sounds like my kids! That's exactly what they say--that the internet is like living in a library. I needed to be reminded of that sometimes. So the thinking goes that it would be like each of us old folks had actually had access to a complete library and bookstore and Mutual of Omaha Wild Kingdom episode and National Geographic collection at once. Yeah, we'd probably not have been bored either. But maybe that wouldn't have been good for us. Like the ones here who've mentioned that hands-on science kits, etc., maybe we wouldn't have played dolls or built rockets if we'd had that library collection at our fingertips.
Kasienda:
My instinct, in those moments of boredom like the one you describe, is to turn on the computer, turn on the TV, do ANYTHING to avoid listening to my own thoughts and appreciating the empty space. This is one reason I took up meditation. There's nothing more boring on earth, but it's possible to enjoy that if we can stop trying to entertain ourselves.
Juliet:
I agree that parents have to buy kids books - and one of the big problems is that parents who are not readers themselves are less likely to do so. But I sometimes look at my overflowing "unread books" shelf and wonder whether it's time for me and my books to retreat to a cabin in the woods.

My parents were big readers, and our house was full of books, but our access to new books was limited. I grew up in a tiny, isolated town with one very small bookstore. There was no Amazon, obviously. Even the libraries were small. For that reason, I ended up reading a lot of much more challenging stuff, because I had to find SOMETHING to read amongst the limited options, and once all the L.M. Montgomery was gone, I had to find new possibilities that I might not have reached out to otherwise.

Now I can get any book I want the moment I want it, and my reading habits have changed. I have piles of books that I was VERY excited about buying but haven't touched. I also receive DVDs through Zip (the Canadian equivalent of Netflix) and they languish next to the TV even though at some point I really wanted them.

I'm convinced that, for me personally, the abundance of choice and the availability of almost anything any time means that I am unlikely to read, watch or do anything unless it is EXACTLY what I feel like doing right now. I wonder if there are a lot of kids out there who are like me in this respect, and are unlikely to take the first steps toward reading or other pursuits that stretch them, unless other, more immediately attractive, options are suspended at least for a while.
bstrangely:
The internet is a fantastic, magical library - I totally agree. For me, though, reading off the internet is an entirely different experience from settling in with a novel, just like playing a video game is entirely different from inventing one's own games with toy soldiers or dolls. I love researching and reading on the internet, and video games are fun. But the more focused, absorbing and slightly more active pursuit of reading a novel is one that I indulge in less and less because playing around on the internet is less demanding. I see kids around me who are like me in this respect.
Narcissus:
I agree, reading is just an example. Any activity that requires a bit more effort - doing experiments, inventing one's own games, tobogganing - is likely to get shunted aside if a less demanding option is available, because that's what humans are like.
Maria:
I agree that a love of reading is the ideal impetus. The thing that intrigues me about my own experience was that I already loved reading, but was unwilling to take the next step and tackle more challenging books. Would it have happened another way if I hadn't been backed into a corner? Maybe, or maybe a friend would have brought his Atari console over. That would have been fine, but it would also have been a missed opportunity.
Eva:
A lot has been written about your point, and I'm always meaning to investigate it further, but I think it may apply mostly to middle- and upper-middle class kids, and less to the students I work with, many of whom come from working-class immigrant families. These kids are, I believe, left to their own devices a lot more of the time, or expected to help out at home rather than be "entertained". I agree, though, that there seems to have been a cultural shift in this regard. One factor might be that when I was a kid, I was allowed to roam around outside without adult supervision and there was no real concern that something bad was going to happen to me. Today in Montreal, it's unlikely that parents would feel comfortable with this arrangement.
Brenda:
It's the "terrified of silence and quietness" factor that I think is fundamental. I know it well, because I suffer from it myself. And maybe it's that, more than laziness, that keeps me going back to the TV - or the computer, where there's an illusion of interaction and company even when you're all alone.
Lainey:
"...maybe we wouldn't have played dolls or built rockets if we'd had that library collection at our fingertips."

I know I wouldn't have.
Ah, trips to the library. They were fantastic. Summer vacation was swimming and reading, swimming and reading. Boredom happens between your ears -- it's a choice. If solitude is boring, something needs to grow and change. Solitude is magnificent.

And chemistry sets -- are these even sold any more? Mixing up soap and stage blood and very tall columns of flame... don't mention that part to Mom and Dad...
I so cherish that I had a childhood of reading and exploring the outdoors. I feel badly that kids these days don't know how to just be. But then again, very few of us know how to do that anymore.
When I wasa a ki, I used to browse through the encyclopedias and stop to read when I came across something of interest. I wish my son would do the same, but I've never witnessed it so far. You are correct, it is a shame, and it stifles the imagination, and the joy of discovering new ideas and worlds.
yep. some neurologists are suggesting that kids brains are wired differently today because of the steady diet of tv, video games, movies, computer etc. .. think there is some validity to this. need to preserve ability for what might be called "slow thinking" that reading encourages.
It is up to the adults, the parents and the teachers, to give kids the chance to be bored. Excellent piece. As a teacher, I am so grateful for perspectives like yours.
Oh yeah, you're a teacher too. Caffeine hasn't kicked in yet ;)
When I was bored, I climbed the tallest tree in my grandmother's neighborhood and learned to make dove noises with my hands. It is still one of my better talents.

And I do wish more boredom, and more books, for all of our children. Well written and rated!
"At any given moment there are myriad forms of instant gratification available at their fingertips."
"I want my kids to have the chance to be bored,"
And the gratification continues to become even more "instant"--like Twitter, text messages, etc. Young people can't stand to be "out of touch". And you hit right on the why of it--they can't stand to be "bored" or unstimulated.
I read, I watch TV, I read blogs, I write blogs.
Fortunately my children (27 & 25) are both voracious readers. Like me, they like popular fiction. Great works of literature are not necessary to be "well read". It's enough to read and to open one's mind to possibilities and the conveyance of the human condition that the author is portraying.
This is an outstanding and important post. Thank you.
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There's a flip side to this: I used to read about 300 pg/day. I didn't learn to speed read, I just read a lot as a kid and by the time I was 18, I was reading 5 books a week. Today, reading can bore me as much as any other regular activity. I find that much of it is predictable, no matter what I'm reading. The only thing that doesn't bore me is interacting with other human beings, so when I'm bored, I get out and about, even if it is just to walk down the street and say hi to strangers.
Siobhan. I don't want to knock boredom, or at least the acceptance of boredom as part of a productive life. But I just want to say that I have bought my son lots of books he's never looked at and never will. My home is crawling with books I'll never read. But I don't expect to read the entire newspaper everyday, or every thing on the internet. No one should feel obliged to read an entire books, or all their books. Give the books to a library, sell them to a second hand bookstore. No matter how much money people feel they're wasting, I guarantee that if you buy a book a month, whether you read it all, or none of it, your life will be richer for it. The process of choosing books, keeping up with what's out there, hanging out in bookstores, even trawling Amazon, is as much a part of the reading experience as actual reading. It's not enough to value reading. People have to take regular action towards it. Intellectual health isn't all that different from physical health. You got to keep moving. There's no end goal.
lainey, why wouldn't that have been good for us?

i mean it's almost like you're saying library cards are for the weak. this is something i've heard before differently, and it still totally confuses me. i wrote a post on it on my blog last year.
http://strangelybright.blogspot.com/2007/07/speed-of-thought.html

when my husband was a kid, he wasn't allowed to go to sea camp until he went to sports camp first. his grandparents worried that he was too nerdy and needed to do more "kid things". i think this whole conversation is coming from a similar place. boredom is just different now. i'm sure your kids do some mindless things on the internet, and then they get bored with that and do something else. from the conversation you posted with your son on the future of journalism, i would say he's definitely got the ability to think deeply when he has too. that's a skill i value way more than capacity for boredom.

siobhan curious, when i was a child, it pains me to say i read all piers anthony's xanth novels over and over and over. i read them aloud to my mother. and now i see how stupid and misogynistic they were. they were like book crack. on the internet, a couple years ago, i read the jungle, just because i could. and then i was so interested in the story, i got into a huge conversation with the guys writing the wikipedia article on the jungle, and we weeded out all the garbage from the mackinac institute. it was fascinating. i found team upton sinclair and we took the ball back from team free market.

i believe i see this evolution differently because i am extremely process oriented. there is just so much more to do and explore on the internet. i still don't understand why you think being bored is more valuable than being enabled to address your boredom. that's what your parents did when they brought those books on vacation.

were they wrong to enable you like that?
bstrangely:

"i still don't understand why you think being bored is more valuable than being enabled to address your boredom."

I don't think that, not exactly. I'm saying that in order for boredom to be addressed in a way that is not habitual - in order for something new and exciting to come of it - we sometimes need to experience it fully, instead of distracting ourselves with something, anything. And sometimes we need to address it in ways we wouldn't necessarily choose ourselves. My parents didn't bring more picture books on vacation, and that's what I would have preferred. Instead, they brought books I wouldn't have chosen if left to my own devices, books that were more challenging and that I would have ignored, had I had other options. Boredom is certainly not the only thing that can inspire that effort, but it's one common impetus for taking on new experiences, and without of it, many of us stick with the habitual activities that make us comfortable.
I was a bored kid and a defensive reader--to get away from my neurotic family. Books saved my life, but we live in a different world now. Your post is beautiful and true, but it won't ever be the way it was for us again. You write wonderfully well.
I remember a teacher saying to our class, "If you're bored, it's because you're boring." That wasn't going to be me! I'll admit, we are a TV-watching family, but my girls - aged 7 & 9 - have almost 800 books in their room (yes, I counted one day - one whole wall is bookshelves). Every night, they play in their room until it's "lights out," and then they turn on their little lamps and read for hours... And they always ask, "Can I read ONE more book?" And I say, "Oh, okaaaayy" (and I'm smiling inside).
What I like about the internet is that whenever a tivial question pops into my head, all I have to do is google it and, voila!, the answer. But what about the "big questions", the questions no one can find the answers to but me, by doing whatever it is I have to do to find out? There are innumerable know-it-alls in cyberspace who provide answers to the big questions, but I've been around long enough to know that if I accept their answers, I'm just a big horse's ass. A young person, however, doesn't know any better. What're ya gonna do?
I have to love the title of this piece. I agree about the importance of boredom...looking around in a calm way, at the small wonders. The imagination needs to have the problem of filling time in all phases of our lives, but filling time and over-stimulation are different things. I want kids these days to be less busy than they are...to be given permission to be KIDS, with plenty of unstructured time.
I find that the loss of reading diminishes patience and (often) depth. It has for me, anyway. I wonder what will be the future of the human mind? Great post.
i understand what you're saying, i just don't see why you think this is something new.

kids did not play musical instruments 200 years ago, unless their families were very, very wealthy. most kids did not go to school. the literacy rate wasn't anything like it is today. when you mourn this single activity as though kids are going to be profoundly different going forward, i feel as though you're looking at a very tiny and local way of life that we humans have known only briefly.

i believe the kids of today and tomorrow have an excellent chance to live life in a way we adults may not understand or appreciate. for all we know, relying on harry potter to stimulate someones imagination was the worst thing we could have been doing. maybe teaching them to recite shakespeare or the iliad would have made them more eloquent and poetically minded. maybe apprenticeships were the best way to get brilliant thinkers like leonardo da vinci. who knows? i only know that now they can choose more things to fill their days with, and that does not make me sad, no matter how hard i try to see your perspective.
Not only a chance to be bored, but a chance to be unsupervised and unscheduled, for a while. I feel so lucky to have had my summer months to amuse myself as a child. I could and did play witih friends and the neighbor kids around, but it was spontaneous, for us. Nobody arranged play dates for us, and other than sometimes fixing us snacks or supervising us when we swam, there was rarely a nervous adult hovering around. We roller skated, we played on our front lawns, walked or rode our bikes to school, and nobody thought anything of it! From all of this, I learned self-sufficiency.

On days when I got bored, I'd ride my bike to the library and load up on books--all by myself! I don't deny there are dangers out there for the unsupervised child, but they can be taught how to protect themselves, and the odds are good that they'll be okay.

The thought of children never discovering the pleasure of something good to read makes me very sad. Worried for the future of our country, and also sad that they don't associate reading with pleasure.
I loved this post! It reflects exactly why I love the summers I spend with my family. My husband and I work at a summer camp and pack up our kids and all of their books and board (not bored!) games to spend 3 months living without tv, internet, texting, computer games, wii, etc. They are so much more peaceful, fight so much less often, and I can see their imaginations bloom again the minute we arrive. Our summer experience has been so powerful that we have basically banned tv and non-homework related computer time during the school week. At first they protested but now they get it. One thing I will say, it makes you become a much more hands-on parent when you make this choice and so you have to be prepared for that.
Hi bstrangely, if you're still reading: I think you are a great foil to the arguments here and you make me reconsider. To be clear, I was only musing, asking. I had not settled definitively on the idea that Boredom=Good. I was just thinking about what if any positives come from boredom. You make the identical arguments that my kids make, and they too are very persuasive. And for many of us, this is not any kind of big problem if it is even a problem at all; it's just fodder for an intellectual conversation.

Here's what I'm having trouble letting go of: the idea of action versus gathering knowledge. It's really interesting that you suggested I was saying library cards are for the weak. I think perhaps I've been projecting a bit, because there is a thread of impulsivity (an "addiction" kind of weakness) that runs through me and my family that worries me. I'm talking about the disinhibition characterized by adhd (whether you want to call it that or not), which has us intractibly indulging in the moment, losing track of time, not able to look up and at the big picture and plan. For the kind of bright, curious, information-seeking people that my children are, this often translates into being sucked into the internet and neglecting not only the everyday chores and tasks required of maintaining normalcy but perhaps--perhaps--the activation of some great ideas that their reading inspires in them. If they are anything like me, reading and learning about things often makes me imagine myself doing all kinds of things--I'm going to start seriously trying to sell my writing! I can't wait to put this gardening knowledge into reality! Yes--exercise and fitness IS important--I am going to see if the kids want to play tennis!--but there's always another great article to read or site to visit, so all those things get put off and pretty soon an urgent deadline is forcing us to abandon our stations and get to the ballgame! (or whatever). It's an issue with time management, I guess. And I suppose it's more a problem with my/our particular personalities than with the internet per say.

But someone else brought up another interesting point--about the instant gratification of looking something up and knowing the answer right away. I just asked my son yesterday--inspired by my thinking of a word that I couldn't quite grasp but knew the meaning of and going almost immediately to dictionary.com for it--whether he thinks we (people in general) are changing our memories in some capacity by not needing to perseverate on something till we remember it. Again, I'm not really complaining--I'd way rather be able to look up what I need and get an immediate answer and move on to more pressing concerns--but it is an interesting notion, that we are in some way eliminating that particular thing we used to do, sitting there being nagged by something until it comes to us.

Thanks Siobhan for letting me ramble--you're a doll :)
maybe my kid is different, maybe she just loves to be outside, but her boredom and frustration come frome the books... she struggles with reading so it bores her.. i dont know how bc i, and her nana and my grandmother were all huge readers!
My childhood entirely. We were the lucky generation--before TV and films and multiple media choices took over. I grew up with the "bookmobile" in the summer, run by the local library, and like you I stocked up on books every time they parked on my street. I soon tired of picture books and by age seven I was writing my own! Good post and great turn down memory lane.
I too am a closet book sniffer. And like that student of yous, I keep my favorite books close by and just pull them out ever so often, just because they make me happy. I think all this new technology has brought about the end of an era. And that makes me sooo sad. These kids today have brains that are wired differently than ours were. Hm, maybe our parents said that about us. And on it goes. Great post.
I was a voracious reader from age eight, and I would say that most of the knowledge I have acquired came from reading. And yes, few read today.....and no one is educated who doesn't read, as many a wise person has noted. No matter how many degrees one has, if one has never read extensively (and I don't mean romance novels and crap like that), then one is not truly educated. It works the other way, too. Any person who has read extensively despite having little education, is still an educated person, and probably more so than many with formal schooling!

I read out loud to my children until they were in middle school, had them do weekly book reports for awhile, joined the summer library programs every year, made weekly trips to the library from their babyhoods, and limited TV watching. In other words, I did everything I could think of to encourage reading because I know what reading extensively did for me! I'm also glad I read history, biology, auto-biographies, biographies, zoology, etc. If I read fiction, I read classics.

Nothing illustrates the "dummying down" in this nation, in terms of education, etc. than the failure to read. It's easier to watch TV......and how convenient for those who control the rest of us! An uneducated population is so much easier to exploit, manipulate, and control!
hi lainey!

thanks for coming back to wrestle with this! i think about these things a lot, and i hope i'm not coming off like an obnoxious jerk. i read articles like this from time to time and this is the first opportunity i've had to discuss the ideas with the people who take that position.

this may or may not help shed light on my position... you mention adhd and impulsivity, and those are things i've struggled with my whole life. i was diagnosed with add when i was young and i've had to work hard to corral my attention. i would sneak books to school and read them during class inside my desk. i remember a teacher accused me of cheating on a spelling test that way, and seemed completely oblivious to the fact that the book i was reading had many more challenging words in it than the test did.

years later, i was prescribed ritalin and i weaned myself off it (long story) because i wanted to reclaim my mind. i didn't like being on that drug for many reasons, so i worked on having a better awareness of how i think, so i could control my impulsivity. i guess i think my mind has always worked in the way s.c. worries about: leaping around from lots of topics and eager to set things aside instead of finishing them. at this point, i can better control how i make that choice. when i started to spend lots of time on the internet, i was ready to be attentive to my mind, so i could peel off the good ideas and devote myself to them instead of wandering off to read cracked. i'm not always successful. this is an ongoing struggle.

when it comes to the internet, i would point you guys to studies on participation inequality. 90% of people only read or consume the content they find here. 9% of us intermittently contribute ( i think of those people who will sign up here on os just to leave a disagreeable comment on something they hated). and only 1% of us are generating content regularly. 1%. and in some cases you'll note, that number is even lower. you can be a spigot or a siphon, by design or by default. but now, it is more and more a choice we make. there is no publisher to stand in the way if you have a short story you want people to read. you don't have to find a gallery to host your artwork. you can sign up for these services for free.
http://www.useit.com/alertbox/participation_inequality.html

to me, this question is the same one we've always asked: why aren't there more makers? why aren't there more poets? and i don't know the answer to that. but i do believe, with all my heart, that understanding that basic equation will help us get to that answer. this is not just about boredom. my parents encouraged me to create my own visions of reality to share with the world. i can't help but notice that everyone here is mourning our inability to submit to someone else's (to riff on kerry's post about submitting to novelists, she offered lamely).
http://www.redorbit.com/news/entertainment/499053/bookish_britain_overtakes_america_as_top_publisher/

anyway, thanks for chatting about this. there's a lot to think about here!
What a great riff bstrangely--and I think you're mostly right. At the end of the day, I think most of worry, perhaps unconsciously, about our kids' ability to survive. And today that mostly means making a living, etc. I know when I focus on this sort of thing--my kids are spending too much time in front of a computer! my oldest can't find a job! do they rely on their friends to show up (and not initiate the social organizing or calling themselves) because they're afraid of the risk of rejection? It's crazy, I know, especially from the outside, where there appear to be these perfectly well adjusted children moving through the house, flawed but happy. I suppose it's Darwinian.
Possible remedy: Use subsidies intended to provide "a laptop for every student" to give every kid a Kindle instead ...? "It's a computer, but it's also a book! Many books, in fact!"

Are there even any such laptops-4-kids subsidies? I seem to have heard tell...
why would just having kindle be better than a laptop? don't you still have to pay for books?

all the public domain books are already on google.
Only people unfamiliar with libraries would think the internet is like a good library.
Like you I was brought up to always have a few books to read; preferably simultaneously. I loved all kinds of books and my children are now recommending books to me as we are moving ahead with boundaries no longer so neccessary given we are all young adults, their mother and father included.
I strongly agree. Boredom exists for a reason!
Growing up in our household, there wasn't a call to bedtime but to reading time. Although my mom tried to teach us the rules of etiquette, more often than not we ate our dinner (God forbid, not supper) with books on the table. As soon as as my brother and I could string two words together we were spanked out the door to the public library. The librarians didn't mind because they knew that if we found the right book there would be no moving us until closing time. Some people may find the idea of 5-6 year old boys running about like that as a strike against my Mom's parenting skills but to them I say it was a small town and who knows what we would have got up to? Library or reform school? She decided...
Thanks so much to all of you for your comments and discussions on this. It's a topic people seem to have very strong feelings about, and I'm glad to provide a forum for airing them! As bstrangely points out, with every advancement throughout history have come losses, and the question of what exactly we are (or might) be losing is, I think, an important one. And Lainey, don't ever apologize for rambling - I love hearing your thoughts!