I became a reader because I was bored.
I learned to read when I was about four years old, but, like most children, I read only picture books until I was seven. My parents brought me to the library every two weeks, and I filled up on library books at school as well, but picture books didn't last long; I ended up reading them over and over because we had limited television options and, of course, no computer. (I was also a clumsy child with seasonal allergies who didn't like to play outside.)
I occasionally glanced at the library shelves full of books for older children, and sometimes took one down to page through it, but I was intimidated. They were so thick, and if there were illustrations at all, they appeared only once a chapter or so. I was capable of reading these "chapter books," but they seemed like too much work.
Every summer, we loaded up the car and drove for what seemed like months, but was probably about eight hours, to our summer house to spend two or three weeks. Before leaving town, we took a special trip to the library to take out an extra-large stack of books on extended summer loan.
The summer I was seven, my mother used part of her precious borrowing allotment to take out a few "chapter books" for me. "But I don't like chapter books," I said. She ignored me.
Of course, I read through most of my picture books in the car on the way to the coast, and even dipped into some of my brothers' horror comics to pass the time. (They both suffered from carsickness, and so most of the reading material was mine for the duration of the trip.)
For the first week of our stay at the summer house, I was forced to play outside far more than I would have liked. My books were all read, we had no television, and a seven-year-old, even one who likes math, can only play cribbage for so long. We found things to do: there was a tree behind the house full of fascinating fuzzy yellow caterpillars; there was a rusted old bedspring in the next lot that we liked to bounce on (and somehow none of us got tetanus); our parents took us to the beach or the nearby swimming hole every second day; and the blueberries needed picking and eating.
Then it rained. We were stuck in the house, lying on the creaky couch in the living room. We groaned and rolled our eyes at the tedium. We pressed our noses against the glass to make interesting smudges or write in the steam from our breath.
And then I saw, on the endtable, the little stack of "chapter books" my mother had brought for me.
I picked one up and leafed through it. I don't remember what book it was, but there was a full-page woodcut at the beginning of each chapter, and the rest of the pages seemed dense and busy with text. The first woodcut was of two boys and a girl, maybe brothers and a sister just like my brothers and me. And there was a duck, I think. The duck caught my interest.
It was still raining. I started to read.
I read that entire book that afternoon, and started another after dinner. When bedtime came, I hid in the bathroom with that book until my parents threatened to shut down the power if I didn't turn out the lights and go to bed.
The experience of being entirely transported into another world was one that would shape the rest of my childhood and adolescence. Until I pursued an English degree at university and ruined it all, reading became the most important activity in my life.
I might never have found it if we'd had cable TV, video games, or Internet access at that summer house.
These days, I marvel at those of my students who read for pleasure. These kids have no memory of a world without computers, or even without cell phones. At any given moment there are myriad forms of instant gratification available at their fingertips. Even so, some of them still love reading. My IB students and I had a discussion last term about the future of the novel, and they rhapsodized about books; Anny told us that her bookshelf is near her bed and sometimes she'll pull the books out and smell the pages because they make her so happy.
Most of my students, however, have no interest in reading, and I have to say that I don't entirely blame them. I don't even read much for pleasure any more, especially fiction - I watch television and films, read blogs online, and listen to nonfiction as podcasts and audiofiles.
I'm a writer and English teacher, and was a voracious reader from the age of seven. If I'm not reading, what chance do my overstimulated students have, especially if they've never been bored long enough to reach out to a book they might normally not be bothered with?
A colleague and I were discussing his children one day, and he said that he and his wife had been debating the restrictions they should place on computer use and television viewing. He said that during their conversation, he'd had a revelation. "I want my kids to have the chance to be bored," he said.
How much creative discovery has taken place because a child or an adult was trapped inside on a rainy day and all the picture books had been read, all the video games had been won, or the cable had gone out? How much more would teenagers learn about themselves if they put their cell phones away for a few days at a time?
We could argue that kids go to school, so they know plenty about boredom. But would they be able to make more use of the "boring" hours they spend sitting at a desk if they had more chances, on their own time, to lie on the couch, look around the room, and find something new to read? If they spent more time wandering through the woods, picking up sticks to use as toys, or examining the insides of flowers?
Some of my most stimulating memories of my childhood are of doing these kinds of things, and some of the most interesting people I know, young and old, have been brought up environments where there was no, or limited, access to televisions, computers, game consoles, etc. They got bored, and they had to do something about it.
Most importantly, someone was there to hand them a book, a chemistry set, or a basketball, and say, "See what you can do with this." Is this what's missing from many of our kids' lives? Is this what Anny's parents did - turned off the television, handed her a book, and said, "Try this on"?
My greatest fear is not that many young people will never learn to enjoy books, although I do think that's a shame. My greatest fear is that many will never discover things they could really love, things that could make them better, happier people, because they're filling their time with easy distractions.
I love easy distractions as much as the next person, and you are as likely to find me listening to BlipFM and playing solitaire as reading a novel these days. But at least I had a chance. What chance do some of these kids have?
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Yes, it's really that kind of empty, open-ended boredom I'm talking about - not the boredom where you have to do something tedious that you feel is meaningless, but the boredom where you can't find anything to do with yourself. Although the former might have its uses too - maybe doing stuff we hate can lead us to creative spaces if we have the right tools and can see it as a learning opportunity? Not sure.
Thanks for your standard provocative post!
I picked up reading similarly, though it was also an escape from a not so friendly family life, lack of friends, and competition (a girl in my pre-K class could read so I felt I should too lol). But, yes, boredom, or at least a way to stay out of trouble (my brother chose starting fires and taking things apart, I chose books) was a reason for starting a book - but the books themselves are what kept me in them.
As for smelling books - yeah, I do that too :) god I love the smell of old bookshops
Just to be devil's advocate, however, I read somewhere that TV is the modern fire. Men used to come home from hunting and stare into the fire, now they just stare into the TV. It's not that they're tuning in, it's actually that they're tuning out.
Interesting topic. Thanks
All those things factored in for me too: I was lonely, I didn't like my life or the outside world, and I definitely wanted to be smarter than the other smart kids! But my memory of that particular event clarifies why reading was the outlet for me.
I think staring into the fire is very different from staring at the tv. Staring at the fire gives your mind a chance to empty and go where it wants. Staring at the tv fills your mind up with stuff so it doesn't have to look at its empty self. My fire -staring experiences are all pretty memorable because of the peacefulness they brought, coupled, paradoxically, with excitement - all sorts of things surface when you're watching flickering flames. TV stamps all that stuff down. There's no room for your self.
I just finished my first year of teaching about a month ago. And it took about a week (after I had done just a little bit of all my favorite things that I had been neglecting all year) for me to discover that I had nothing I wanted to do. And I was bored. It was an amazing moment! Mostly because I could not remember feeling that way in forever. I was grateful for it.
On the reading note - I had to trick my little sister into reading full on chapter books. Like you, she wouldn't read them because they were thick, but I ( a horrible bookworm) knew she would love them so I read the first few chapters of one I knew she would like out loud to her. And soon enough she got impatient with me because she could read it to herself much faster than I could read it to her. She's been reading ever since!
I strongly believe there is a book lover in all of us. It just may be tricky to find the right book!
I buy my kid A LOT of books. And it has really worked. My son is eight. He has a playstation and unlimited computer time. But he reads tons. He's read all the Harry Potter books, and generally reads at least one novel a month. And most importantly, he re-reads. He's developed an emotional bond with books. He had lots of books that are HIS. I'm not knocking the library, but I don't think you can get that just from going to the library and borrowing books. It's amazing what people will buy their kids, but they don't buy books.
Children need to be stimulated into regular reading habits, not bored into them.
That's how my parents cultivated reading habits in me. And I am a lifetime reader and buyer of books. And I suspect my son will be too.
to me, that's what the internet is. everyone has the library of alexandria, right in their house. i'm never bored either these days, and i grant it is a struggle to tear myself away sometimes, but that has always been so. i had that problem with books! and boredom also leads to destruction and cruelty sometimes. i knew boys who would go kill snakes at the creek down the street from my house out of boredom. maybe now they just look them up on the internet?
Rode bicycles. Went sledding in the winter. And this is just the pg rated stuff. Wow. What a childhood. I'm glad we didn't have TV 24/7, video games, and the internet !
I agree with a lot of Juliet's points. Kids should read for the love of reading, not because it's the activity of last resort, when there's not a single other interesting thing to do. I spent a good part of my childhood reading, not because I was bored, but because I was stimulated by and enchanted with the stories. I read so much, in fact, that my mother worried there was something wrong with me.
For my son, a gift card to the local book store is a favorite present. The kid will spend an hour deciding which book to buy.
Yes, we had TV and I was allowed to watch it as much as I wanted to (as long as it wasn't bed time or dinner time.) I watched some TV, but my books and art supplies were always more fun. The only "must-see-TV" for me, back then, were the Saturday morning cartoons, which my brother and I would watch together, still in pajamas, with bowls of cereal (which we'd gotten for ourselves; our parents trusted us to pour cereal and milk into bowls!) on our laps.
I take care of a couple of little girls after school three days a week. They're nice kids but they expect to be constantly entertained and directed by adults and, after a few hours with them, I'm exhausted. Oh, and their parents are very strict about limits on TV and computer time. That strictness doesn't seem to have made them better able to amuse themsleves, though...
I was "driven" to books by boredom as a kid. Best thing that happened to me! I think it has different effects on teens and adults. Well, depending on what they have access to, but hopefully if they read that helps them have something to turn to.
I couldn't have said it as well as you. People these days are terrified of silence and quietness.
My instinct, in those moments of boredom like the one you describe, is to turn on the computer, turn on the TV, do ANYTHING to avoid listening to my own thoughts and appreciating the empty space. This is one reason I took up meditation. There's nothing more boring on earth, but it's possible to enjoy that if we can stop trying to entertain ourselves.
I agree that parents have to buy kids books - and one of the big problems is that parents who are not readers themselves are less likely to do so. But I sometimes look at my overflowing "unread books" shelf and wonder whether it's time for me and my books to retreat to a cabin in the woods.
My parents were big readers, and our house was full of books, but our access to new books was limited. I grew up in a tiny, isolated town with one very small bookstore. There was no Amazon, obviously. Even the libraries were small. For that reason, I ended up reading a lot of much more challenging stuff, because I had to find SOMETHING to read amongst the limited options, and once all the L.M. Montgomery was gone, I had to find new possibilities that I might not have reached out to otherwise.
Now I can get any book I want the moment I want it, and my reading habits have changed. I have piles of books that I was VERY excited about buying but haven't touched. I also receive DVDs through Zip (the Canadian equivalent of Netflix) and they languish next to the TV even though at some point I really wanted them.
I'm convinced that, for me personally, the abundance of choice and the availability of almost anything any time means that I am unlikely to read, watch or do anything unless it is EXACTLY what I feel like doing right now. I wonder if there are a lot of kids out there who are like me in this respect, and are unlikely to take the first steps toward reading or other pursuits that stretch them, unless other, more immediately attractive, options are suspended at least for a while.
The internet is a fantastic, magical library - I totally agree. For me, though, reading off the internet is an entirely different experience from settling in with a novel, just like playing a video game is entirely different from inventing one's own games with toy soldiers or dolls. I love researching and reading on the internet, and video games are fun. But the more focused, absorbing and slightly more active pursuit of reading a novel is one that I indulge in less and less because playing around on the internet is less demanding. I see kids around me who are like me in this respect.
I agree, reading is just an example. Any activity that requires a bit more effort - doing experiments, inventing one's own games, tobogganing - is likely to get shunted aside if a less demanding option is available, because that's what humans are like.
I agree that a love of reading is the ideal impetus. The thing that intrigues me about my own experience was that I already loved reading, but was unwilling to take the next step and tackle more challenging books. Would it have happened another way if I hadn't been backed into a corner? Maybe, or maybe a friend would have brought his Atari console over. That would have been fine, but it would also have been a missed opportunity.
A lot has been written about your point, and I'm always meaning to investigate it further, but I think it may apply mostly to middle- and upper-middle class kids, and less to the students I work with, many of whom come from working-class immigrant families. These kids are, I believe, left to their own devices a lot more of the time, or expected to help out at home rather than be "entertained". I agree, though, that there seems to have been a cultural shift in this regard. One factor might be that when I was a kid, I was allowed to roam around outside without adult supervision and there was no real concern that something bad was going to happen to me. Today in Montreal, it's unlikely that parents would feel comfortable with this arrangement.
It's the "terrified of silence and quietness" factor that I think is fundamental. I know it well, because I suffer from it myself. And maybe it's that, more than laziness, that keeps me going back to the TV - or the computer, where there's an illusion of interaction and company even when you're all alone.
"...maybe we wouldn't have played dolls or built rockets if we'd had that library collection at our fingertips."
I know I wouldn't have.
And chemistry sets -- are these even sold any more? Mixing up soap and stage blood and very tall columns of flame... don't mention that part to Mom and Dad...
And I do wish more boredom, and more books, for all of our children. Well written and rated!
"I want my kids to have the chance to be bored,"
And the gratification continues to become even more "instant"--like Twitter, text messages, etc. Young people can't stand to be "out of touch". And you hit right on the why of it--they can't stand to be "bored" or unstimulated.
I read, I watch TV, I read blogs, I write blogs.
Fortunately my children (27 & 25) are both voracious readers. Like me, they like popular fiction. Great works of literature are not necessary to be "well read". It's enough to read and to open one's mind to possibilities and the conveyance of the human condition that the author is portraying.
This is an outstanding and important post. Thank you.
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i mean it's almost like you're saying library cards are for the weak. this is something i've heard before differently, and it still totally confuses me. i wrote a post on it on my blog last year.
http://strangelybright.blogspot.com/2007/07/speed-of-thought.html
when my husband was a kid, he wasn't allowed to go to sea camp until he went to sports camp first. his grandparents worried that he was too nerdy and needed to do more "kid things". i think this whole conversation is coming from a similar place. boredom is just different now. i'm sure your kids do some mindless things on the internet, and then they get bored with that and do something else. from the conversation you posted with your son on the future of journalism, i would say he's definitely got the ability to think deeply when he has too. that's a skill i value way more than capacity for boredom.
siobhan curious, when i was a child, it pains me to say i read all piers anthony's xanth novels over and over and over. i read them aloud to my mother. and now i see how stupid and misogynistic they were. they were like book crack. on the internet, a couple years ago, i read the jungle, just because i could. and then i was so interested in the story, i got into a huge conversation with the guys writing the wikipedia article on the jungle, and we weeded out all the garbage from the mackinac institute. it was fascinating. i found team upton sinclair and we took the ball back from team free market.
i believe i see this evolution differently because i am extremely process oriented. there is just so much more to do and explore on the internet. i still don't understand why you think being bored is more valuable than being enabled to address your boredom. that's what your parents did when they brought those books on vacation.
were they wrong to enable you like that?
"i still don't understand why you think being bored is more valuable than being enabled to address your boredom."
I don't think that, not exactly. I'm saying that in order for boredom to be addressed in a way that is not habitual - in order for something new and exciting to come of it - we sometimes need to experience it fully, instead of distracting ourselves with something, anything. And sometimes we need to address it in ways we wouldn't necessarily choose ourselves. My parents didn't bring more picture books on vacation, and that's what I would have preferred. Instead, they brought books I wouldn't have chosen if left to my own devices, books that were more challenging and that I would have ignored, had I had other options. Boredom is certainly not the only thing that can inspire that effort, but it's one common impetus for taking on new experiences, and without of it, many of us stick with the habitual activities that make us comfortable.
kids did not play musical instruments 200 years ago, unless their families were very, very wealthy. most kids did not go to school. the literacy rate wasn't anything like it is today. when you mourn this single activity as though kids are going to be profoundly different going forward, i feel as though you're looking at a very tiny and local way of life that we humans have known only briefly.
i believe the kids of today and tomorrow have an excellent chance to live life in a way we adults may not understand or appreciate. for all we know, relying on harry potter to stimulate someones imagination was the worst thing we could have been doing. maybe teaching them to recite shakespeare or the iliad would have made them more eloquent and poetically minded. maybe apprenticeships were the best way to get brilliant thinkers like leonardo da vinci. who knows? i only know that now they can choose more things to fill their days with, and that does not make me sad, no matter how hard i try to see your perspective.
On days when I got bored, I'd ride my bike to the library and load up on books--all by myself! I don't deny there are dangers out there for the unsupervised child, but they can be taught how to protect themselves, and the odds are good that they'll be okay.
The thought of children never discovering the pleasure of something good to read makes me very sad. Worried for the future of our country, and also sad that they don't associate reading with pleasure.
Here's what I'm having trouble letting go of: the idea of action versus gathering knowledge. It's really interesting that you suggested I was saying library cards are for the weak. I think perhaps I've been projecting a bit, because there is a thread of impulsivity (an "addiction" kind of weakness) that runs through me and my family that worries me. I'm talking about the disinhibition characterized by adhd (whether you want to call it that or not), which has us intractibly indulging in the moment, losing track of time, not able to look up and at the big picture and plan. For the kind of bright, curious, information-seeking people that my children are, this often translates into being sucked into the internet and neglecting not only the everyday chores and tasks required of maintaining normalcy but perhaps--perhaps--the activation of some great ideas that their reading inspires in them. If they are anything like me, reading and learning about things often makes me imagine myself doing all kinds of things--I'm going to start seriously trying to sell my writing! I can't wait to put this gardening knowledge into reality! Yes--exercise and fitness IS important--I am going to see if the kids want to play tennis!--but there's always another great article to read or site to visit, so all those things get put off and pretty soon an urgent deadline is forcing us to abandon our stations and get to the ballgame! (or whatever). It's an issue with time management, I guess. And I suppose it's more a problem with my/our particular personalities than with the internet per say.
But someone else brought up another interesting point--about the instant gratification of looking something up and knowing the answer right away. I just asked my son yesterday--inspired by my thinking of a word that I couldn't quite grasp but knew the meaning of and going almost immediately to dictionary.com for it--whether he thinks we (people in general) are changing our memories in some capacity by not needing to perseverate on something till we remember it. Again, I'm not really complaining--I'd way rather be able to look up what I need and get an immediate answer and move on to more pressing concerns--but it is an interesting notion, that we are in some way eliminating that particular thing we used to do, sitting there being nagged by something until it comes to us.
Thanks Siobhan for letting me ramble--you're a doll :)
I read out loud to my children until they were in middle school, had them do weekly book reports for awhile, joined the summer library programs every year, made weekly trips to the library from their babyhoods, and limited TV watching. In other words, I did everything I could think of to encourage reading because I know what reading extensively did for me! I'm also glad I read history, biology, auto-biographies, biographies, zoology, etc. If I read fiction, I read classics.
Nothing illustrates the "dummying down" in this nation, in terms of education, etc. than the failure to read. It's easier to watch TV......and how convenient for those who control the rest of us! An uneducated population is so much easier to exploit, manipulate, and control!
thanks for coming back to wrestle with this! i think about these things a lot, and i hope i'm not coming off like an obnoxious jerk. i read articles like this from time to time and this is the first opportunity i've had to discuss the ideas with the people who take that position.
this may or may not help shed light on my position... you mention adhd and impulsivity, and those are things i've struggled with my whole life. i was diagnosed with add when i was young and i've had to work hard to corral my attention. i would sneak books to school and read them during class inside my desk. i remember a teacher accused me of cheating on a spelling test that way, and seemed completely oblivious to the fact that the book i was reading had many more challenging words in it than the test did.
years later, i was prescribed ritalin and i weaned myself off it (long story) because i wanted to reclaim my mind. i didn't like being on that drug for many reasons, so i worked on having a better awareness of how i think, so i could control my impulsivity. i guess i think my mind has always worked in the way s.c. worries about: leaping around from lots of topics and eager to set things aside instead of finishing them. at this point, i can better control how i make that choice. when i started to spend lots of time on the internet, i was ready to be attentive to my mind, so i could peel off the good ideas and devote myself to them instead of wandering off to read cracked. i'm not always successful. this is an ongoing struggle.
when it comes to the internet, i would point you guys to studies on participation inequality. 90% of people only read or consume the content they find here. 9% of us intermittently contribute ( i think of those people who will sign up here on os just to leave a disagreeable comment on something they hated). and only 1% of us are generating content regularly. 1%. and in some cases you'll note, that number is even lower. you can be a spigot or a siphon, by design or by default. but now, it is more and more a choice we make. there is no publisher to stand in the way if you have a short story you want people to read. you don't have to find a gallery to host your artwork. you can sign up for these services for free.
http://www.useit.com/alertbox/participation_inequality.html
to me, this question is the same one we've always asked: why aren't there more makers? why aren't there more poets? and i don't know the answer to that. but i do believe, with all my heart, that understanding that basic equation will help us get to that answer. this is not just about boredom. my parents encouraged me to create my own visions of reality to share with the world. i can't help but notice that everyone here is mourning our inability to submit to someone else's (to riff on kerry's post about submitting to novelists, she offered lamely).
http://www.redorbit.com/news/entertainment/499053/bookish_britain_overtakes_america_as_top_publisher/
anyway, thanks for chatting about this. there's a lot to think about here!
Are there even any such laptops-4-kids subsidies? I seem to have heard tell...
all the public domain books are already on google.