Shivaun Nestor

Shivaun Nestor
Location
San Francisco, California, USA
Birthday
June 10
Company
Shivaun Nestor Design
Bio
Lady of loud laughter, lover of politics, poetry, sex, the moving image, metaphor, and most things queer. Web/graphic designer, health/sexuality educator, veteran San Francisco hill walker, frequent gourmet cook, and occasional party grrl.

Hi All! 

 I know it's been a long time since I've posted.  No, I promise that I didn't flounce.  I have just had so much going on in my life that has precluded posting.

 Family visits / obligations / losses, my cat became very sick and was diagnosed with kidney… Read full post »

Dear Mr. President,

As June comes to a close and San Franciscans finish celebrating Pride, I want to thank you for officially declaring June LGBT Pride month.  I also want to thank you for celebrating the 40th anniversary of Stonewall yesterday with a commemorative reception today, Jun

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Once upon a time, he strode into a room, shoulders broad, chest out and spine straight, gaze outward. He carried himself with purpose. Although it was a struggle for him to maintain his weight, he always looked trim in his perfectly tailored suits. Upon first glance he seemed at least 5… Read full post »

Joan Walsh in Four HatsI know, this is late, late, late.  But I have an excuse.  Right before I joined OS, Joan put out an open call asking for a new hat for her OS Avatar.  When I went to the OS Birthday Bash, there was mention of the hat contest.  So… Read full post »

JUNE 5, 2009 6:46PM

Invasion (Fiction)

Empty busHe embarks at the last (or first) stop on the line, near Baker Beach.  Weighed down by a large, frayed knapsack, he must drag his thin body up the steps.  When he reaches the landing, he twists sideways to make room for the heavy bags that he carries in both hands. … Read full post »

 

By way of update to my post, "Women Speak: In Praise of Afghan Protesters", an MSNBC Video on RAWA's shelters for child brides and abused women in Afghanistan. 

Here is a plea from two NYC lesbians that I received in my email a couple of days ago.  They… Read full post »

Train tracks cut
a path through our lust.
In this war place,
heightened by the fear
of getting caught,
Desire invades imagination,
moving hand to cunt.

In the music of the train wheels,
we follow - centurions
and blue-painted Gaels,
knights and conscripted farmhands.
I plaster your body against
remnants of R… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
MAY 26, 2009 3:34PM

The 2010 ballot? What's next for California LGBTQ rights?

Protest Photo from SF Weekly

On the evening of the November 2008 election, I was sitting by my 81 year-old mother's hospital bed, holding her hand as we watched the election results trickle in.  We were in Prescott, Arizona, where only an hour before, McCain had held his last presidential campaign rally.

Throughou… Read full post »

MAY 23, 2009 5:17PM

To Dakini Dancer

Dakini Dancer was one of the first voices I encountered on OS.  She was also one of the first OS-ers I met in person, at the OS birthday celebration in San Francisco.  When I walked in, I was a complete unknown, yet Josie made me feel welcomed.  I asked about the… Read full post »

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Editor’s Pick
MAY 22, 2009 10:42AM

My Mother, the Spy

Agent 99 w/ Cowboy Boot PhoneI don’t remember seeing my mother the night that she decided to play spy, although chances are, I just didn’t recognize her in her super secret espionage wear.  The year? 1974, just after I had turned eighteen and my mother had turned forty-seven (apparently going on twelve)… Read full post »

MAY 21, 2009 10:36AM

Dancing Dirty Haiku Thursday

 

smooth blue explosion

wild cunt cock dancing

neurons hi-five each other

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  moscowIdaho

Over the weekend, a small group of LGBT/ally activists in Moscow were bashed by the police who should have protected them (click here).  Such occurances are not rare in Eastern Europe, where homophobia is rampant and often serves as a recruiting tool for Neo-Nazi and other right w… Read full post »

MAY 10, 2009 6:50PM

I Remember, Mama

I remember…
worn pillow cases turned into rag rugs,  your repeat of Baba’s words, “No work,  no pork,” and “Waste not, want not,” your insistence that we (sister Amy and I) use our imaginations to entertain ourselves.  

I remember…
not being a… Read full post »

stiletto

Feet overflowing

Bondage in stiletto bands.

Fishnet support hose.

 
 
Inspired by this Sandra Stevens post. 
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 Their 300 grey and black headscarves are brightened by bobbing swatches of pink, lime green and electric blue, harbingers of hope. Their banners, emblazoned with proclamations like “Equality is Our Right!” sail above the waves of shaking fists and screams of “whore!

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First, a bunch of Kansas DJs decides to "teabag" the White House.  Then, in conjunction with the release of its overwrought “Gathering Storm” ad, the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) launches its 2M4M Campaign.  Such misnamed bids for relevancy raise a h

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CherryBlossomsSmall

Spring is here, bringing with it Passover, Easter, and Cherry Blossom Festivals in both D.C. and in Japan, where the blooms are still making their way north.  Japanese language has a whole vocabulary to describe the transitory beauty of cherry blossoms.  It awes me that wi… Read full post »