Shivaun Nestor
- Location
- San Francisco, California, USA
- Birthday
- June 10
- Company
- Shivaun Nestor Design
- Bio
- Lady of loud laughter, lover of politics, poetry, sex, the moving image, metaphor, and most things queer. Web/graphic designer, health/sexuality educator, veteran San Francisco hill walker, frequent gourmet cook, and occasional party grrl.
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “What a surprise to log
onto my email this morning to
get
notice of many
comments!…”
August 25, 2009 12:50PM - “Wow! Thank you for
sharing your artwork. The
Heavenly Garden
pieces touched
my…”
July 10, 2009 01:04AM - “Sending all my good
thoughts and good wishes your
way. I like
the border idea
-…”
July 07, 2009 01:27PM - “Welcome - and I have an
admission to make - while I
have
never enjoyed the
experi…”
July 07, 2009 02:15AM - “Rick, while I don't
understanding football well
enough to
keep with the
analogy,…”
July 07, 2009 02:06AM
Shivaun Nestor's Links
Mea Culpa and No, I Am Not Flouncing Post
Hi All!
I know it's been a long time since I've posted. No, I promise that I didn't flounce. I have just had so much going on in my life that has precluded posting.
Family visits / obligations / losses, my cat became very sick and was diagnosed with kidney… Read full post »
President Obama on DADT “Love is Worth Fighting For” UPDATED
Dear Mr. President,
As June comes to a close and San Franciscans finish celebrating Pride, I want to thank you for officially declaring June LGBT Pride month. I also want to thank you for celebrating the 40th anniversary of Stonewall yesterday with a commemorative reception today, Jun
… Read full post »The Ache of Memory (OS Father's Day Contest)
Once upon a time, he strode into a room, shoulders broad, chest out and spine straight, gaze outward. He carried himself with purpose. Although it was a struggle for him to maintain his weight, he always looked trim in his perfectly tailored suits. Upon first glance he seemed at least 5… Read full post »
LATE OPEN CALL: Holiday Hats (and More) for Joan
I know, this is late, late, late. But
I have an excuse. Right before I joined OS, Joan put out an
open call asking for a new hat for her OS Avatar. When I went
to the OS Birthday Bash, there was mention of the hat
contest. So… Read full post »
Invasion (Fiction)
He embarks at the last (or first) stop on the line, near
Baker
Beach. Weighed down by a large, frayed knapsack, he
must drag his thin body up the steps. When he reaches the
landing, he twists sideways to make room for the heavy bags that he
carries in both hands. … Read full post »
Why Feminism? Afghan Women in Action + a Plea from NYC
By way of update to my post, "Women Speak: In Praise of Afghan Protesters", an MSNBC Video on RAWA's shelters for child brides and abused women in Afghanistan.
Here is a plea from two NYC lesbians that I received in my email a couple of days ago. They… Read full post »
Normandy (a sinful cinquain alternative for Verbal)
Train tracks cut
a path through our lust.
In this war place,
heightened by the fear
of getting caught,
Desire invades imagination,
moving hand to cunt.
In the music of the train wheels,
we follow - centurions
and blue-painted Gaels,
knights and conscripted farmhands.
I plaster your body against
remnants of R… Read full post »
On the evening of the November 2008 election, I was sitting by my 81 year-old mother's hospital bed, holding her hand as we watched the election results trickle in. We were in Prescott, Arizona, where only an hour before, McCain had held his last presidential campaign rally.
Throughou… Read full post »
To Dakini Dancer
Dakini Dancer was one of the first voices I encountered on OS. She was also one of the first OS-ers I met in person, at the OS birthday celebration in San Francisco. When I walked in, I was a complete unknown, yet Josie made me feel welcomed. I asked about the… Read full post »
I don’t remember seeing my mother the night that
she decided to play spy, although chances are, I just didn’t
recognize her in her super secret espionage wear. The year?
1974, just after I had turned eighteen and my mother had turned
forty-seven (apparently going on twelve)… Read full post »
Dancing Dirty Haiku Thursday
Fighting Neo-Nazi Violence - Budapest Pride '09 "Open Call"

Over the weekend, a small group of LGBT/ally activists in Moscow were bashed by the police who should have protected them (click here). Such occurances are not rare in Eastern Europe, where homophobia is rampant and often serves as a recruiting tool for Neo-Nazi and other right w… Read full post »
I Remember, Mama
I remember…
worn pillow cases turned into rag rugs, your repeat of
Baba’s words, “No work, no pork,” and
“Waste not, want not,” your insistence that we (sister
Amy and I) use our imaginations to entertain ourselves.
I remember…
not being a… Read full post »
Dirty Haiku Thursday (A Menopausal Tale)

Feet overflowing
Bondage in stiletto bands.
Fishnet support hose.
Women Speak: In Praise of Afghan Protesters
Their 300 grey and black headscarves are brightened by bobbing swatches of pink, lime green and electric blue, harbingers of hope. Their banners, emblazoned with proclamations like “Equality is Our Right!” sail above the waves of shaking fists and screams of “whore!
… Read full post »Is the conservative movement going to the… hamsters?
First, a bunch of Kansas
DJs decides to "teabag" the White House. Then, in
conjunction with the release of its overwrought “Gathering
Storm” ad, the National Organization for Marriage (NOM)
launches its 2M4M Campaign. Such misnamed bids for relevancy
raise a h
Of Spring Blossoms, Politics, and Poetry

Spring is here, bringing with it Passover, Easter, and Cherry Blossom Festivals in both D.C. and in Japan, where the blooms are still making their way north. Japanese language has a whole vocabulary to describe the transitory beauty of cherry blossoms. It awes me that wi… Read full post »


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