While visiting another city about 40 miles up the road from where I live, I had to wait for an hour to see a man I wanted to talk to about business.
I went next door to one of those hoity-toity coffee shops. I'd never been in one before. They were apparently upset that I just wanted a simple, good, cup of coffee; not one that was a work of art, or made from beans imported from the red sands of Mars or some-such, just a good cuppa joe. Eventually I convinced them and got what I wanted.
As I turned from the counter, I could see that there was only one table occupied. An elderly man, about my age sat all alone with his cup of coffee placed squarely in front of him as though it were his passport and allowed him to be in this alien land.
I walked over to him, smiled and said, "Since this place is so crowded, do you mind if I sit here?"
He nodded and waved his hand at the seat opposite him. I sat down. For the next hour he and I exchanged words over our coffees - we both had two more - and if I told you now what we said, I'd be lying. I don't remember a bit of it. It was just social blather. The kind that us older folks are quite skilled at because we didn't have electronic gadgets attached to us like some kind of almost Borg creatures as we grew up.
It was the most pleasant hour of my last three weeks. I may not remember what was said, but I'll never forget what was communicated.
I have a new friend. I may never see him again but I know for certain that he is my friend forever. And I his.


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:-) / r
Sometimes, all I want to do is chat. No politics, no religion, just pleasant conversation over a cup of warm coffee.
Life is short. We must live it up.
r
Also glad that (at least) MY kid had a life beyond electronic devices. Although he always had access he still actually left the house to go plink starlings with a bb gun and run around creating real world mischief with his buddies or by his self.
Good day it was you had I'd say... too. How much is a straight honest coffee at the hoity toity shop?
R
Dying to know what happened three weeks ago?!
This is the best post I've read today! Now I want a "cup of joe!"
But not just any "Joe."
r./
America was different, better, in a way back in the late 1970s/1980s. Neighbors talked to eachother.
In my condominium complex, nobody knows eachother
You all deserve a reply but running a tad late sooooooo...........
-britney,
The coffee was fiction too.......
-zanelle,
I find it easier as I age. Less shy than I was....
-Inverted,
Coffee grows in your back yard?!!..... Two questions: Are you married? Do you want to get married?
-Blacklilly,
The internet has done wonders for me. All this anonymous conversation has led to me now being able to do the same thing face to face. My shyness is gone!!
-Tr ig,
I still don't know. This was fiction.......
-Cathy,
F i c t i o n !!!
-Rwoo5g,
Yes, I remember those days well. Do you remember what we talked about? Yup! How life was simpler in "the old days" and was waaaay too complicated now (then).
-Tinkie,
My imaginary friend drinks better coffee than your ol' stimky imaginary friend..... so there!
My thanks to everyone again, especially those who thought this 'real.'
Nothing pleases a fiction writer more than people taking a story as non-fiction!
;-)
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Not at StarBucks? They re-branded here as ButtFucks.
Old fashioned tea shops or coffee if you must, with plastic table covers (preferably torn red) and occupants with imaginary dogs - love 'em.
Next time for Christ's,Allahs or Tink's sake take an imaginary photo.
You can mug a teenager and use their camera fone too.
"Rate this 'individual' FRed(tm) he comes in piece."
But I DID take an imaginary photo!!! If you can't see it, (you knew this was coming) you aren't using your imagination!!!
minis,
Yes. Problem is we're facing real, long-lasting ones; soon too!
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