This deserves to be posted again, considering how dramatically things have changed since the first post two years ago. 

I was twelve years old when I had the courage to admit to myself that I loved  men “in that way!” In 1961, even that secret internal acknowledgme…

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For myself

You stand majestically at the center of the universe

 

For many  

You stand on the edge of eternity

 

Without judgment

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 There's no sense to try to improve this or write something new. This came through me. So I have no choice but to repost it once a year! 

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 I am motivated to write the following blog because of several recent events. First is the 25th anniversary of the Names Project (The AIDS Quilt). The second event was the presentation of a “Champions of Change” award at the White House, to my friend Cleve Jones. T/… Read full post »

 

I refuse to jump on a bandwagon in this divisive, totally dysfunctional, deliberately manipulated political debate about the healthcare mandate!

 I do not understand anyone who defends a mandate that requires individual citizens to throw their hard earned money away in a system th… Read full post »

  

In 2011 the US government gave $2 billion in subsidies to the five largest oil companies! In 2011 Democrats in Congress tried to end those subsidies. Republicans in Congress blocked the efforts to end the subsidies. Those same five oil companies made $137 billion in profits in 201… Read full post »

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 I need to tell this story so the world can truly understand my feelings of rage for those who call themselves Republican candidates for president. But I also have a need to educate the public about how what we now call bullying was institutionalized in the second part of the 20th… Read full post »

 

When my partner Rob and I first arrived on the south coast of the island of Crete, it was a Swiss tourist who first realized that we were a gay couple. Barbara was the kind of person who would just blurt out what was on her mind. After we confirmed… Read full post »

I love movies. I love how art imitates life and life imitates art. As I watch many of the movies of the 30s and 40s, I am struck by how many have so clearly warned us of the political and cultural dangers we now face in the 21st century. Last night… Read full post »

I realized I am Gay at about the age of 12. I’m 63. So that means for the last 51 years I have awakened everyday to a world and a country that has blatantly discriminated against me because it believes… Read full post »

 

Twenty years ago this coming April I experienced an epiphany. Over the past two decades the memory of those days on the south coast of the Greek island of Crete have informed everything I have done and believe. I came to that important crossroads through a decade of incredible loss… Read full post »

I’ve never experienced anything more terrifying than waking up at 3:00 AM, unable to breathe. I wondered if I should have left instructions for someone to know where my important things are kept, just in case I didn’t make it… Read full post »

 On the second anniversary of this post

IT'S NICE TO SEE THAT MILLIONS OF PEOPLE HAVE JOINED ME! 

Today I Quit Bank of America

This need not be a long or complicated essay. It is my moral duty to not participate in institutions or endeavors I consider evil. Therefore, beginning today I… Read full post »

  

 Me With The Katona Twins

In the next few months another rich and rewarding episode of my life will come to an end. I don’t really like the sound of the word “retirement” because it implies so many things I feel would never be applicable to my life regardles… Read full post »

 

When I remember my childhood, I prefer to leave behind all I have learned in the many decades since my innocence has been destroyed. That feeling of innocence becomes sanctuary from the heavy weight that was laid upon my shoulders when I became conscious of the adult world that existed… Read full post »

 

It happens time and time again. I post a comment on FaceBook or another website, expressing my disappointment in President Obama. Each time I express my feeling that I have been “thrown under the bus” as a member of the Democratic base, I am inundated with White House talki… Read full post »

 

 Arash statue in Iran

If you read my blogs regularly, you know that I love to keep small souvenirs from different periods of my life. If someone were to find my box of grocery receipts, hand written notes, theater tickets and such, they most likely would put them directly… Read full post »

 

 

Most people can remember at least one outstanding human being during their lifetime, who represented the best of what the human spirit has to offer. There will always be the Mahatma Gandhis and the Martin Luther King Juniors. They will be forever celebrated in the history books… Read full post »

“This is the price we pay for freedom!” There was a time when that statement would give me a nice warm fuzzy feeling inside. But that was a time when there were different rules of engagement for political dialog, as well as a very different system for the dissemination of information… Read full post »

 

  Tibetan Symbol for Eternity

Most studies of childhood development conclude that the first years of life are crucial in the creation of our character. I was born into this world in 1949, with only one grandparent still alive. But my mother’s story of my Grandpa Dreher&rsqu… Read full post »

 I’m sure what I am about to write will ring true for many who read these words. For me, December is always the most memorable month of the year. Each time it rolls around, I sort through the decades of Christmases past, the nearly 60 eves of new years. It is… Read full post »