spotted_mind

spotted_mind
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PHX, Arizona, USA
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July 17
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Overall a survivor of the universe's cruelty. Not a professional writer, but always enjoyed writing and hoping to find it, and the support of the OS community, therapeutic. I have plenty of stupid things that cross my mind and I just want to lighten it up for everyone. ;-)

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JUNE 11, 2009 3:53AM

I write the Fluff That Makes the Whole World Sing…

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Tonight/Last night, I got home from work and was a bit riled up about comments that were made on one of my posts.  I never even touch my computer after work, but I couldn’t resist.  I logged on to OS and I sent a message to a friend to ask their advice about my dilemma and then got to reading Cartouche’s blog (saw it at work and couldn’t read it “quick” between actual work--"At What Cost Freedom of Speech?").  

I cried and commented.  It speaks for these crazy times that, unless you were born 75+ years ago (shout out to my Mom!), are new to us as far as the economy  goes, but everything else has been slowly evolving...Into EXACTLY, what we, as a society, have made it to be.

I have witnessed (can I get an “Amen!”) the personal attacks on others, and recently, a completely, idiotic attack on myself.

You know what?  I remember Cartouche’s post, not long ago, about her thought process on OS ("What was she thinking?")and she mentioned something about buzzing over posts that didn’t interest her (all about titles).  I know she’s probably not interested in mine, since I do write the fluff, but I don’t care!  I am not trying to appeal to ALL audiences! (Nor has she singled me out to comment on meaningless writing--thanks!) If you don’t agree with someone, can you NOT politely move along, or leave an intelligent comment about your viewpoint without degrading the writer?

I know, I know…there are miserable, unhappy, lonely people out in the world who just want someone else to be just as unhappy as they are. Blah, blah, blah…apparently at OS they troll looking for a post to prey on.

I read a ton of posts everyday and comment about 50% of the time.  And when I do, it’s not about their avatar or personal appearance (unless perhaps, that is what the post is about).  I like to add my 2 cents to build someone up that (in my opinion) is worthy.  Sometimes the posts are thought-provoking, sometimes they’re just for a good laugh--Isn’t that what this is all about?

Disclaimer:   My intention was not for this blog to be about Cartouche ( I won’t even put her in the tags).  We do not know each other and I am not being paid to write this.  By her,  or anyone else.  If you are offended by my “hippie” point of view, too bad… Unless you’re Cartouche, in which I will immediately delete this post, as it refers to you.

 

P.S. I tried really hard to link to the above mentioned posts.  I have put links in posts before (so, NO, I'm not an idiot), but I've been at this over an hour and I'm tired.  Sorry. You can get to Cartouche's blog relatively easy.

And peace be with you.

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And same same to spotted_mind.
~~
Stanley Kunitz wrote:

I have walked through many lives, some my own,
and I am not who I was,
though some principle
of being abides, from which I struggle not to stray.

And peace be with you.
one day learn to cut and paste?
If this is about that vzn guy, that was screwed up what he said don't worry about it your a good writer.He's a fruit that odviously need glasses. as far as the carto stuff I don't what your talking about. got to go to work peace out.sorry for spelling
Suffice to say too many angry people in the world with inadequate existence syndrome. Reading allows the thought process to happen, your reaction to that in kind is always appreciated. Don't cater to the tangled mess of their pugnacious lives. The beauty, peace, and wisdom you have cannot be taken away by those contentious, self absorbed souls. An infectious smile,coupled with positive thought will get you closer to the happiness we all seek. Keep doing your thing.
arthur: profound. thank you! but what is this "cut & paste"? ha ha ha

ron: nah, not about vzn. But you should read Cartouche's post.

patrick: thanks for the warm thoughts and the reminder :-)
It might have taken me a lot longer to discover you spotted, had it not been for your very kind and generous comment made on my post last night. (Now of course, I feel like a complete dufus for not having found you much sooner!) As you mentioned, we both seem to read a lot of posts but don't necessarily always feel the need to comment on all of them. And, I'm all about the peace too.
Again, thank you so much for introducing yourself to me at my blog and for doing so with such tenderness and kind words. They meant a lot to me. Rated and favorited (so I can follow what you are up to around here!);)
thanks Cartouche! Means a lot to me...and btw, I don't think you're a "dufus"! ;-)
cartouche love is very powerful. :) Your post got me thinking -- I want to read more of your writing, non-OS meta.
in a word .. fluff :)
la, la, la de dah.
methinks you doth protest too much.
but I dont want to rudely interrupt your fairy wonderland ..

do you mind if I nickname you Tinkerbell??
Oh, a spotted_mind? cut & paste?
ask Owl_Say_Who? Who knows?
Owl has proof? Owl turns a head.
Owl sips soup from a cool spoon.
Cartouche's (so, NO, I'n not an idiot),
IF kissing certain OS'ERS? keep both
hands in your dirty, back pants, bibs.
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spotted_mind. I am a newbie @ blogs.
You'd look great in a straw fedora hat.
the tease? I am learning? no. no pants,
no top hat, no white shirt, no bow ties.
'cut & paste' makes me want the Dejon.
The French neighbor grew up in Dejon.
We got free Dejon mustard today, huh.
Let us all be donning garbage pail hats?
A Salon Photo can show readers goofs?
I did? 'cut & paste' & rye+cheese treats?
emma: thanks for the interest!

arthur: you bring the crazy & I love it! going to the thrift store this weekend--I'll see if I can come up a straw hat or a bucket for my head!
I agree. If a person is going to take the time to comment they should try to address the issue and not engage in personal attacks or be hostile. I see very little of this going on at OS but a whole lot of this on political discusion boards.
eric: I am glad you "see very little of this" on OS. :-)
I missed it on your other post, but I can't believe someone actually criticized your looks... A) this is a writing forum... i dont recall ever seeing Vonnegut in the 'Sexiest People Alive' issue of People... B) youre pretty hot! mind you its a small pic, but redhair and beautiful cheekbones make you hot... C) i think anyone who cant recognize the bravery it takes to put an actual picture of yourself up here next to your writing is an asshole and does not deserve to read your wonderful wonderful posts!

Rated for being a sexy bitch! ;)
Kwame: thanks for the super ego boost!

For the record, this post wasn't about someone criticizing my looks--that meant nothing compared to the attacks & hatefulness I had seen on other posts.
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