"Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and the angels know of us."

Thomas Paine

 I don't know about others, but I know what it means to have a "reputation." That's what we called it in high school when a girl was thought to be sexually active. Never mind if it was true or not. I was one of those girls and I can tell you, it is really weird dealing with the product of empty gossip, or what was described in law school as arguing facts not in evidence. What people say about us often is the result of idle conversation and gossip. Even people who know nothing about you will talk. Whatever "they" might say, it has nothing to do with what we know of ourselves.

After the death of Thomas Paine in New York City on June 8, 1809 the newspapers read: "He had lived long, did some good and much harm," which time judged to be an unworthy epitaph. He left a tremendous philosophical legacy, but in his day he was vilified for a few mistakes.

When we mean to be of service, whether we get a reputation for helpfulness or for failing to help often has nothing to do with what really happens. This is the legacy of many who are of service. You may not be known for what you do -- do it anyway!

 While there is no need to hide the nature of what we do, as some people want to do for religious reasons,  if we are looking to become "known" through acts of service, we could well ask ourselves, "What service is there really for those being served?"

In any case, we can't control what others say about us anyway. Finding the true joy of self-expression in service is it's own end. When we serve we share the opportunity to express what is divine, or best, within us--and with those with whom we share the experience. Nobody else really needs to know. We can't prove we are good people. It isn't our purpose and trying to prove how "good" we are only points to our doubts about ourselves.

Remember, it is your own character that is among your riches, for you are divinely made, and no matter what "reputation" you might enjoy -- you know in your heart of hearts  is true of you. Enjoy that knowledge and celebrate it in offering your hand in the equation that service represents in our lives. Service is always some part of what is best about living expressing perfectly through, and as, you!

Perhaps someone reading this can share ways that they have been of service that have contributed to their own sense of self in unexpected ways.