Dr. Susanne Freeborn

Dr. Susanne Freeborn
Location
Bellingham, Washington, USA
Birthday
November 06
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...................................................... BANNER BY RIC TRESA

MARCH 10, 2009 2:18AM

Knowing Myself: The List Part Six

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Wherein Life Really Goes to the Dogs 


Schools I attended by age 11

  • Alice Birney Elementary School
  • Bonsall Elementary School
  • Valley Center Elementary School
  • San Marcos Elementary School
  • Richland Elementary School
  • Conway Elementary School

 


Conway Elementary School

 


 Memories of School

·         Alice Birney Elementary School – Little cots for nap time.   Pedophile in a car stalked me.

·         Bonsall Elementary School – Had a part in the Christmas play as a tree

·         Valley Center Elementary School – two years attending 3rd to 5th grade. I loved Mrs. Conway.  Tried to learn clarinet.

·         San Marcos Elementary School – I wasn’t there long enough to remember anything but playing jacks at recess – then I was bussed to Richland.

·         Richland Elementary School – Finished 5th grade here. Mrs. Maiwald told the kids to be nice to me when she introduced me to the class.  I won the spelling bee at this school.

·         Conway Elementary School – It was a new school.  I didn’t make any new friends. 



I liked school quite a lot, and for the most part, I excelled even though by sixth grade I was attending my sixth elementary school.  My friend from Valley Center, Jane Rogers was a student at Conway, her family had moved into town and bought a house of their own.  She was in my class again!  But she didn’t seem to want to include me, though her mom invited me over to play Candyland.  We drifted apart.   I was pretty lonely and sad,  horribly disappointed that she didn’t seem to like me anymore.  She had meant so much to me before, like a life vest against the rising storm waters in my family.  But that is a lot to expect of another little girl, isn’t it?  

Kids are resilient though.  I was sort of the leader of the neighborhood kids in whatever shenanigans we could get ourselves into, without our parents learning of what we had done.  We built a fort out of abandoned old doors and lumber from a house that was demolished nearby.  Sometimes the doors fell on our heads.  I don’t think we had many nails to hold everything together, nor did we have any adult help, since we built it secretly down by a creek.  

  Avocado Groves Escondido 

We hiked up into the hills, in the avocado and citrus orchards, where we were chased by gigantic black mastiffs guarding the crops.   

Shouts of “They’re going to eat me!” and “They’re going to bite me.” Followed by “Run faster!”  “We’re almost there!” were repeated until like little keystone cops, or the dead end kids, we raced down the slippery leaf covered hillsides. We all kept falling and sliding past one another, tearing clothing and flesh, getting up and running for dear life as the dogs kept coming and barking loudly and fiercely.  We slid under the barbed wire fences escaping without any bites.  Some of the littlest kids were sobbing and shaking with fear, for of course, they were the closest to being caught. 

After everyone calmed down, there was a lot of laughter and embellishment of our tale of adventure.  But the reality was that it wouldn’t have just been me getting physical punishment that night if more than scrapes and scratches had been evident.  The very fact that other kids got spanked at home seemed solid enough evidence to me that I wasn’t so different, after all.


Valley Center Groves

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This was so lovely yet so powerful.

I am terrified of dogs, maybe because I have been chased a few times as a child.
Thanks. I hadn't yet found a decent picture of a mastiff when you read it Moana. Mastiffs are really pretty sweet dogs if raised by nice people...
Wow, quite a story Susanne, I felt like those Mastiffs were chasing me.
Susanne - I love this story; sounds like a great adventure. Makes me think of the old saying, "A dogs bark is worst than his bite." I bet at the time you would not have worried about that- you just want to get out of there.

Rated
Glad that the series is alive and well.

I remember in my own parallel world to yours mostly the part about the retelling of the adventures and how they grew in our imaginations until we really were living the tall tales. Everything was bigger and grander and scarier than the alleged "reality" that we left somewhere hanging in a twisted mess in the briers we had barely escaped, which now took on truly evil dimensions.

Monte
Thank you each for coming by to take in another chapter of my adventures.

I asked my husband about his adventures, and while he and his friends dammed a creek with small boulders, he doesn't remember the kinds of stories that 'we' would make up. Thinking back on it, it was I that told the stories of our adventures, and I do think some of those stories actually helped me to remember parts of my childhood with great detail. Monte is right about how we left greater carnage behind us in our tales than we did in fact wreak.
I'm glad you're continuing this series, looking forward to more
Wonderful writing; great pics ~ thoroughly interesting and a good read. A history unfolded by a busy pen!
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I admire the memory you have recovered. I have blocked out so much of my childhood. Reading what you've done gives me hope that some day I will be able to do the same.
Its surprising how much I am remembering because I am writing this little by little. Thanks for coming by everyone. I so appreciate the kind things you've said.
Children today don't play as much as we did as kids. I feel sorry for them. They may have all the computer equipment from Gameboys to Wii, but they'll never replace running up and down hills.

Plus, when you think about it, being chases by dogs with your friends was the best bonding ever.

Lots of memories with this piece, good and bad and everything in between.
Excellent Susanne---warm and so human and so real.