Dr. Susanne Freeborn

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MAY 28, 2010 5:08PM

For Bill Fix With Love, 42 Memorial Days Later

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Memorial Day Sonnet

 We're here to honor those who went to war

Who did not wish to die, but did die, grievously,

In eighteen sixty-one and in two-thousand four

Though they were peaceable as you or me.

Young and innocent, they knew nothing of horror ---

Singers and athletes, and all in all well-bred.

Their sergeants, mercifully, made them into warriors,

And at the end, they were moving straight ahead. 

As we look at these headstones, row on row on row,

Let us see them as they were, laughing and joking,

On that bright irreverent morning long ago.

And once more, let our hearts be broken.

      God have mercy on them for their heroic gift.

      May we live the good lives they would have lived.

 ~ Garrison Keillor ~

A Prairie Home Companion, May 29, 2004


9387 Americans are buried in this military cemetry located at Colleville-sur-Mer, in France, a few meters away from Omaha Beach where soldiers belonging to the 1st and 29th infantry divisions landed on June 6, 1944.

Newly visited grave by caspermoller. 


 

 This memorial there is called "The Spirit of American Youth Rising from the Waves."  The reflecting pool below is on the opposite side.


The reflecting pond in front of the memorial by caspermoller. 


We can't forget the wars of our own generation, the lost family, friends and lovers, the changes to those who survive...

Viet Nam War Memorial


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WILLIAM LEROY FIX
is honored on Panel 52E, Row 17 of
the Vietnam Veterans Memorial.

Full Name:WILLIAM LEROY FIX

Wall Name: WILLIAM L FIX

Date of Birth:5/19/1949

Date of Casualty:4/26/1968

Home of Record:SAN DIEGO

State:CA

Branch of Service:MARINE CORPS

Rank:PFC

Casualty Country:SOUTH VIETNAM

Casualty Province:QUANG TRI


The above information is from Viet Nam War Memorial Fund website.  


58,236 Americans were killed in Viet Nam, 153,452 were wounded, and  1,740 were lost.  Over 1 million North Vietnamese were killed.  The Army of the Republic of Vietnam lost over a 250,000 and there were untold civilian deaths on both sides.  So when I share about my friend, Bill Fix, I know there are millions of people who feel a deep and similar loss.

From the official Viet Nam War Memorial website:

 WILLIAM LEROY FIX

PFC - E2 - Marine Corps - Regular

Length of service 0 years
His tour began on Feb 24, 1968
Casualty was on Apr 26, 1968
In QUANG TRI, SOUTH VIETNAM
HOSTILE, GROUND CASUALTY
GUN, SMALL ARMS FIRE

Body was recovered 


Every time someone asks me to attend a peace meditation, I think of Bill Fix, the boy who took me to see Georgie Girl and to the Shamrock Shuffle dance at Clairemont High School. Bill laughed at my jokes and won the presidential election at Methodist Youth Fellowship in Pacific Beach. He was handsome, sweet and wonderful and was an amazingly gracious and kind young man who made me feel special and pretty, something that life had not given me before. When we held hands there was electricity! All these years later I still grieve for this glorious golden boy who could have done just about anything he wanted to do. Namaste Bill! 

Even now, thinking his name makes me cry all over again for the many friends we lost and it feels like it is my duty to feel that pain because of the price that these many young friends all paid.   I hope that somehow my good and joyful life has been some solace to Bill wherever in the great universe he may now be.


 Gorgeous photos of Colleville-sur-Mer in Normandy shared by caspermoller on Flickr under Creative Commons rights, and who otherwise had nothing to do with this post or it's written content. 

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It does seem that only the good die young. All of us of the age had a neighbor, or a cousin, or a brother that died over there. This was a very personal and very moving post. Thanks.
Thanks Rodney. At some point I realized that at least twenty or more boys I knew had been killed in action. It was because I grew up in San Diego County. My uncle was never the same bright shiny guy after Viet Nam.
This is very sweet and moving, Susanne. And I love the way you wrote it, bringing it down from the overall numbers, the countless dead and wounded, to the one special, known and cared for individual. It makes it all so very, very personal. A wonderful post.

Monte
PS: I recommended this to my friends on Facebook.
Wonderful tribute, Susanne. From the mass to the personal is the only way to dissect, understand and commemorate a terrible loss of life. *wiping away tears*
Thank you both for taking the time.
Photos amazing, tribute even better.
Bill Fix surfed like you Beth. Thanks for dropping in.
beautifully done Susanne, to the utmost. Thank you very much.
Thanks Barry, your post was just as moving!