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APRIL 4, 2011 6:06PM

TIME AND SPIRITUAL MATERIALISM

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GLOUCESTERSHIRE OLD SPOTS
There was a hog farmer, Brown we will call him, who year after year won first prize at the county fair with his pigs. His neighbors competed each year, but always lost to Farmer Brown's hogs. At last the lot of them threw up their hands and went to Brown.
 
"We give up," they said. "We won't compete against you anymore. But please just tell us what it is you do that causes your hogs to win every year."
 
"Well," he said, "okay. The first thing I do is get up every morning at four and get out to the barn early so I can wake 'em gentle. Then I mix up a batch of oats I've soured up for a few weeks until they're just right and mix that in to a careful proportion to the other slops. After their breakfast I walk 'em out to the yard, hose 'em down and give each one a hand drying and a rubdown. While they are out for the day I hose down their place in the barn, put in new hay, and clean the area until it's good enough I could sleep there. That evening I bring 'em in and give them a special corn mash mix I fix up by hand. I try to spend time with each hog, talking to it, brushing it down. Then I bed the whole bunch of them down and make sure each has a comfortable place. I usually stay awhile and sing them asleep.
 
"You do that every day?" the other farmers asked.
 
"Sure."
 
They said, "But isn't that a huge amount of time?"
 
"Well, boys," the farmer admitted. "It is." Then he added, "But what's time to a hog."  
Hampshire Hog

 


Someone sent me this story years ago.  I have no idea who wrote it, but I still appreciate the lesson.  Imagine, how often we judge ourselves harshly because the way we have been living our lives hasn't produced the result we wished to produce, as quickly as we would have liked? 

In one of the best spiritual books of the 20th century, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism by Chogyam Trungpa, he wrote of spanning the gulf between the esoteric tradition of Tibetan Buddhism and the everyday joys, sorrows and questions of spirituality in everyday modern life. In this book, Trungpa focused on the presentation of the spiritual path from the perspective of the role of expectation and promise of reward. 

Before I read that book, I was still trying to be a "good girl" and was trying to get living "right" so I would really be worthy of a better life than it seemed the one I was born into had been so far.  Let's not talk about my being in my early thirties at the time!  Perhaps Buddha would smile on me and suddenly things would be so much better. It wasn't working for me and I was deeply dissatisfied.

Trungpa wrote about how these expectations obscure our ability to be with life the way it really is, and isn't.  So long as we have a story about how long it takes to do something, we can use that story to stop ourselves in two ways:  the first being that we block ourselves from experiencing the present moment, and the second, we impede ourselves from moving forward in our lives in the direction of our dreams because we create the idea of difficulty as a burden, as if life should always be easy and challenges have no value.  Where do we get the ideas that we should pit "easy" against "challenging" and one should be of higher value than the other?  What makes a lifetime project of less value than a quick fix? 

What if we would simply choose today to live a spiritual life today, and tomorrow we choose again what kind of life we would live, today we don't have to worry about it and we don't have to worry about results or spiritual attainments?  Wouldn't living such a simple life relieve us of the burden of opinion, measurement and self-inflicted suffering?

 



Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism - Chogyam Trungpa
The now classic Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism is the record of two series of lectures given by Trungpa Rinpoche in 1970-71.
 

 

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Love the story and the author.
I wonder if we could say that metaphorically
these hogs are our everyday thought/emotions,
and if we treat them patiently and lovingly
(knowing that despite their 'filthy' habits they are
actually quite intelligent)
we will effortlessly , easily win any silly "competition"
they will face once they have matured enought that we
"show" them to others...

as for some "gulf" between esoteric knowledge
and everyday life,
there is none,
ultimately.
Yet there is.

Perfect paradox to point to what you & chungpa say
about avoiding the present by bringing back past
unfinished business of the mind.
Nice insight James. As someone who has raised hogs in childhood, it is my impression that hogs are cleaner and smarter than most folks know. Yes, they like to wallow in mud. They are also able to smell things that other creatures miss all together. So as a metaphor, that intelligence thing is full bodied in a hog. Human beings just have a habit of treating them poorly, and then blaming the result on the hogs. That being said, the metaphor works exactly the way you suggested.
They said, "But isn't that a huge amount of time?"

"Well, boys," the farmer admitted. "It is." Then he added, "But what's time to a hog."


His interrogators were viewing only the farmer’s investment in time; the farmer, on the other hand, was viewing also from the perspective of the hogs.

I had the impression that the farmer considered himself and his hogs as a team, working together, while the others viewed the hogs as objects, as a means to an end rather than an actual part of the farmer’s “reality”.

How often do we treat those we encounter in our daily lives as a means to an end? How often are we, ourselves, treated that way? How often do we consider that those in our daily lives are of equal value, that their time, their presence, is just as important as our own? How much wonder do we miss because of such disconnects from them?

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Rick, you went right to the heart of it, treating others, ourselves included, as a means to an end is a lousy way to live.

I'm thinking that the wonder of it all is completely missed from that perspective. Today, rainy as it was, I was looking out the big front window into the garden and was overcome with wonder at what continues to rise from the earth in the Spring. The rainy mist just made it seem magical.
Seeing people as means to an end seems to be the primary tenet of capitalism. Like they say, “Practice makes perfect.”
When did we get to be the culture where what matters most to a large portion of our populace is what can be bought and sold? It seems like that happened in the last 30 years, but then I think of Watergate and I realize it was going on 40 years ago too.
Great story. How long it takes to do something... yes--I've been using that excuse for my writing! No time, too many other things to tend to, blah, blah. But lately I've been going through a bit of introspection--mining some fear, dark chasms, scrutinizing all those impediments, and this book is one I'll surely be adding to my library queue. Thanks for the introduction to it! :)
Glad to have been of use!