There have been nights when my poor husband Danny has come home from work and found me in the same position as when he left; still stooped over my keyboard. After promising to finish in a few more minutes, I have often typed for another hour. Giving up on being served a home cooked meal, he sauntered across the kitchen and opened the empty refrigerator.
“Were you planning on eating tonight?” he asked politely while staring at the empty shelves. What he really means is, “When are you planning to go to the grocery store so we can have a proper meal?”
I get so absorbed with writing that I forget to check the time and the day slips away.
Some would say that I have found my passion, but I think there has to be an internal combustion engine driving that passion called motivation. When I looked up the word “motivate,” I found the definition:
(v.) to provide with an incentive; move to action; impel.
Impel? Another verb: 1. to drive or urge forward; press on; incite or constrain to action. 2. to drive or cause to move onward; propel.
Ooh! I really liked the synonyms: inspire, stimulate, encourage, persuade, provoke, arouse, influence, and prompt.
It occurred to me that since I began writing earlier this year, I’ve had no problem motivating. But what motivated me? What is the secret potion that keeps me banging away on my keyboard for hours every day? I deduced that the key ingredient in the concoction likely included an emotion. I posted a simple question on Facebook and Twitter. “What motivates you? Anger, fear, or joy?” The wide range of answers included, “My wife!” (Would that be fear?)
When our family visitedWilliamsburg, Virginia, we attended a living history tour and learned that the Revolutionary War headed up by gallant George Washington began with anger over English bureaucracy. George was disgusted by pigs that ran wild and fouled the water in Winchester, Virginia. He wrote legislation which was passed in the Lower House then in the Upper House. It was sent to the Governor and then carried by ship to the King of England. More than a year later, the “Clean Water Bill” was signed and the townspeople penned up their pigs. It’s a good thing that George was motivated by anger. If our founding fathers hadn’t gotten pissed off about pigs (among other things), we could be still under the power of the English Crown.
Personally, I don’t motivate well when angry. My frontal lobe is activated which shuts down my creative energy and reasoning power – and it is not an attractive look for me!
Fear has motivated many over eons. After all, fight or flight is the most basic human instinct. If my only goal was to blog and build a writer’s platform I would say that I was fearless. However, I exude a healthy amount of fear every time I think I may not finish my book. It motivates me to turn off the internet and set a total word goal for the day.
This brings me to joy. -Ah joy! It’s my favorite of all motivators. I really enjoy writing and expressing all of the crazy ideas that used to float around aimlessly in my head. As an artist and illustrator I have found pleasure in this new way to create. In place of a paintbrush or ink to capture an emotion through a portrait or landscape, I use words. I find descriptive expression through characters in a story to be as vivid as any painted canvas.
Understanding what motivates us is important in order to define the right conditions for accomplishing our goals. Read the newspaper’s political commentary if anger inspires you. Set goals so there is a deadline looming and fear will nip at your heels. Pour yourself a full cup of coffee, sit down near a window and allow your imagination to run wild. Let joy embrace you.
Just remember to go to the grocery store once in a while!
What motivates you? Explain your choice in the comment section.
My son Kelly and Danny role played in the living historical tour
about “Pigs Gone Wild”
All photos by S. Lindau
A special thank you to Juleigh Muirhead Clark from the
Williamburg Library for the Pig Law link.


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I could not figure out why they weren't sticking when I went back to see if the writer had commented.
It is very lucky if joy gets to be a motivator at all. Most seem to get stuck on fear and responsibility. Off I got to click those links.
But you can sit down and type for hours and wonder where the time went. Thats why I take photos now so I go out hahaha
HUGGGGGGGG
Neil I will remember that!
Linda- It is good to get out or we run out of topics to write about!
I also really enjoy when I get into "the zone" as is often refered in sports, when my focus and ideas all come together and...I...just...can't...stop!
I'd never thought about this but it's given me massive flashes of insight about why I'm struggling with applying for jobs but it's so easy for me to write. Thank you.
rated with love
i lash out at others for hindering me
for frustrating my blossoming genius, ha,
and
usually am just striking at
some projected portion of myself.
fear negatively motivates me to curl up like a starfish fetus
at the bottom of a thousand feet of ocean and wait.
anxiety motivates me to do something, anything, move
or talk.
it is only joy that really motivates, impels, me to write.
joy that i am an infinite mind, an eternal soul
who understands the beauty
and terror of existence
in this form. human.
1. If I had my Joy, I wouldn't be out here propositioning inspiration. Writing is a joy like a drug is a joy... psst, are you..
2. Afraid? Living for nothing are we? Words have Meaning. But we are the meaning.
3. Where does It end? That makes me angry.
(snapping of fingers from the coffee house audience)
I want kiss that avatar's neck!
I do stuff because I'm bored. No one does anything for reasons of Joy. Joy is what you get when you're done.
Hahaha!
Thanks!
Thanks for reading~
Great post, I love this subject- thanks for bringing it up and getting me to about it.
Fantastic passion here. I relate. I'll have what you're having!
It amazes me how much I love writing. I hope I always have this passion!
What?
RATED!
I so glad that you write here and have found an outlet!
Sometimes fear that people are not going to do what's in their own best interests as a whole, simply through apathy or ignorance, I don't know which and I don't care which as long as they get over it.
Sometimes anger at the people who make things harder, more difficult or inefficient for all. Anger at those who consider violence as their first and sometimes only real option. Sometimes anger at the bully, the intimidator, the snide, smug, self-absorbed solipsists who, without care or concern for anyone else, do what they do, all the while just daring you to do something about it.
Sometimes joy is my motivator. The joy and wonder at such wonderful people I have met. The beauty and grace of those that dare to stand for what they know is right, even against tanks, bombs and kings. The joy at the simple beauty of this world in it's natural state and the relatively natural state of the caring, concerned and careful citizen, dedicated to righting wrongs, making life better, or coming up with new ideas and taking them to their limits.
These are my motivators. At different times and for different reasons. As the psalm and song go, to every thing, turn, turn, turn, there is a time and purpose to everything under Heaven.
Like you, I have started my day writing (and when I first started it was pen in hand, scrawling rapibly in script across several dozen pages of college ruled line paper (both sides)) each sitting.
I recall standing up to finally go to the bathroom and nearly blacking out from lack of food, rest and movement. I recall that a LOT. Today, I spend more time away from the keyboard (I started with a 1953 Royal typewriter and worked my way up to my current ergonomic keyboard) over four decades of nearly continuous writing in one form or another.
I love ideas and I love this little question of yours. Thanks for asking.
--rrr--
: )
As for motivation, I think the idea of audience is why blogging has taken off. Being read by others and wanting to please them is a huge motivator!
Excellent comment Dunniteowl! I had a Royal too! I wish I still did!
Thank you~
I love this article and I am so pleased to find someone out
there whose family bears the cross of the writer! lol fine work!