T-Bucket's Memories of a Happy Poor Boy... pt. 4
“Hey, Trouble, get ya behind in the car, we’s goin’ ‘cross town”, Momma collared me and steered me to the back seat of the Duece. Chaunce, dropped the football we were playing with in the yard, and followed without any prompting. Doodoo was stayin’ at the neighbors.
Unc’ Bennie pulled the Duece out and headed downtown. He popped in his newest eight track, the Chi-Lites. It was a gift from Willy B for his daily morning rides. Willy knew his soul music.
Momma had her ’Sunday’ wig on and began what we called her ’downtown speech‘, “Looky here, we gonna swing by Miss Andrew’s house, den we gonna go to Monkey Ward, and I‘ll be damned if I‘s gonna chase you two boys all over that store. I will chap ya behinds if’n you gimmee any trouble. You gonna stay wit’ me, mind ya manners, and BB gonna buy ya an Icee if you do right. Here?”
“Yes, Ma’am”, we responded in enthusiastic unison.
“Pack down that nap, Terrence, you lookin’ like Buckwheat, and wipe off ya glasses. Tie dem shoes, Chauncey. Look respec’able.” Momma spit on a Kleenex, reached back, and wiped smudges off Chaunce‘s grimacing face. I, hurriedly, wiped my face off to avoid the spit wash. Bennie was oblivious; he sang along to the high parts of 'Tell Me Have You Seen Her', as we cruised up the road so slow that trucks hauling houses could pass us. Hoo-hah, we were going to Montgomery Ward to get an Icee, but why were we going to my school’s music teacher’s house?
Unc’ Bennie parked on the street of Miss Andrews well-kept neighborhood, and Momma smoothed her purple pant suit and adjusted her wig as she went to the door. Miss Andrews answered and invited her inside. I liked Miss Andrews, her class was so fun. We sang 'Raindrops Keep Fallin’ on My Head', saw musical instruments up close, and she was in charge of the school plays. These were all things that my old school on the Black side of town didn’t have. I was the March Wind that year in the play. I had one line, “Do not weep Little Bow Peep, we will find your sheep.” I wore a sheet and spun offstage making ‘whooshy’ sounds.
Miss Andrew’s husband got killed in Vietnam, just like Willy B’s dad. All my uncles were either too fat or too scrawny to pass the physical to go to Vietnam, and my Pop got killed in Little Rock.
Chaunce and I were having an intense discussion about what flavors would be at the Icee machine, if we’d mix them, and how to avoid a brain freeze, when Momma slid back into the front seat. She turned around, and plopped volume ‘A’ of the World Book Encyclopedia on the seat between Chaunce and me. It was one of the thickest books we’d ever seen.“That’s y’all’s. Now treat it wit’ respec’. I don’t want y’all gettin’ Icee all on it. You gets any questions that starts wit ‘A‘, you gonna look ‘em up. I’s gonna be watchin’ Miss Andrews' baby girl, while she sells dem books at night.”
The first half of sixth grade, Miss Andrews dropped off her 4 year old, Christina, at our house, and picked her up at ten or so each night. We’d peek out our bedroom window, and watch as Miss Andrews carried her swaddled, sleeping baby girl to her car every night. Every Saturday morning there was another volume of the World Book Encyclopedia on our kitchen table. We eventually had the whole set.
Chaunce and I devoured the information in these books. We never really asked Momma a question after awhile, because we knew her answer was going to be ,”Look it up”. Chaunce and I read these encyclopedias from cover to cover many times over the years. Laying in our bunkbeds that Unc' Billy had made for us, we traded info and challenged each others facts. To this day we can both have intelligent, in depth conversations on most any topic without faking it. You do not want to play Scrabble or Trivial Pursuit with us. I make a comfortable living from my home, and Chaunce speaks six languages, and works for NATO in Brussels. Demetrius (Doodoo) owns his own company in Texas. I give immense credit to those books for our station in life.
I reminded Momma recently about this story, and asked her what she recalled, “That lady had the cancer, and she were jus’ tryin’ tuh make some money for her baby girl for after she was gone.” That explained why Miss Andrews had abruptly stopped coming to our house back then, she had died of cancer.
“How much did you make back in 1972 for baby-sitting?“, I wondered out loud.
“A World Book ’Cyclopedia a week”, she smiled.
Momma still has those books proudly displayed in her living room, even though she can barely read. Inside the cover of each one of these 22 books, stamped in ink it says,
This book is not for resale, but is the sole property of Field Enterprises, to be used for demonstration and sales purposes by representatives of Field Enterprises, dba World Book Encyclopedia.
(might want to check out parts 1-3 , while you're here)


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This is a beautiful, beautiful, piece. To say it’s a glowing tribute to everyone involved in the story is not enough. It’s a radiant narrative of the best and most precious that any child could carry with him through life to edify others with in later years.
These memories you have tucked away in your heart are treasures T-Bucket. Thanks so much for sharing them with the OS family.
By the way, I used to go to "Monkey Ward's" with my great-grandmother. They must not have had the Icee machine then, or else Granny didn't let me know about it. A man I used to work with grew up in Poly and worked at MW in the 50s, filling orders on the upper floors wearing roller skates!
Dean
Yours was a Saint.......and so was Miss Andrews.
Incredible story T.....just incredible.
I and my sister too have been spit-washed, but our mom didn't use her own mom-spit: she made us spit into the handkerchief before rubbing the dirt off our faces. And we profited from our family encyclopedia as well-- I think mom kept it until she had to go into care; I don't know its fate.
But, an encyclopedia volume a week is GOOD pay for babysitting! Your mom is terrific.
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Greg
i love this story!!!! miss andrews working at night while she was sick with cancer. wow.
and my mom used to do the same thing when we asked questions, look it up. i remember one summer when we were all getting on her nerves she told us she would give us a dollar for everyenyclopedia we read. my mom had a good sense of humor.... and we did start to read them, but don't think one of us finished one so no money earned.:)
thanks for letting me know of this post.:)
mary
Btw, I had an olf World Book Encyclopedia. Won on Jeopardy! in the Art Fleming as host days.
Yes, two wise mothers!
An encyclopedia set is a wonderful thing to a child with an inquiring mind. Only thing I got as much (maybe more) from was my great aunt's collection of National Geographic magazines. She had shelves of them, going back for decades.
I'd hacked out what I thought was a 'worthwhile' compliment, depicting the definition of "transcendentalism", then involving the moment in Robin Williams' 'Good Morning Viet Nam', the moment when they stopped the troop bus, panning the youthful faces, finally recalling the cold concrete on the stairs of the Lincoln Memorial, but the laptop apparently didn't speak with the airwaves. Just wanted to thank you for your words.
You know you're too white to be cool when you have to read that sentence more than once to figure out what context the term 'nap' is being used in ;)
Another excellent installment T. I hope you've got more comin.
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I wonder what happened to Christina.
I bet your Momma has many great stories just like you do! Thanks for sharing!
We had a Funk and Wagnall's set that came one book per week with a whatever $ purchase at the store. Ah, the days of analog research ! Great thing your Mom did for you and yours. My Mom's contribution was teaching me to read by the time I was 4. Opens doors and sets the course for what follows.
Thanks for the nice read.
Thanks for this. This post is my treat of the day!
We had encyclopedias, too. Collier's. I have no idea how we could have them, because we had the free lunch cards and were on food stamps for a while, too. But if we hadn't lost them in a house fire, I'm sure my five siblings and I would have fought over them when my mother passed away from cancer 1.5 years ago.
I remember getting my clothes at Montgomery Wards and spit-washing, too, but what I really relate to is the World Book, we had a set in the one-room schoolhouse. I had a desk right next to the bookshelf and when I got ahead of my work, I'd pull down a volume. I figured out the use of an index from those books, because I loved mythology and I wanted to read every word on the subject. I started down the list under "myths" in the index and just followed every "see also" reference.
Your mama was a hell of a good woman
She used to underline things, then make us write the thought in our own words......this was an incredible lesson.
It is a great thing to have gratitude in one's life. It is even greater to teach others that they too can have gratitude for everything in your life.
Thank you for the love, the lesson and the hope.
This is a great story. I love to hear your mother's voice. What a remarkable, strong, smart woman.
By the way, you write: "I give full credit to those books for our station in life." But you know you don't. That credit is shared with the woman who knew exactly what was needed to to give her children a better life. That's why you write about her with such love.
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Thanks.
Thanks for writing it and thanks for posting it.
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Got here late and all the good compliments are taken. It's so cool that Ms. Andrews was making extra money to leave for her daughter, and your mother helped her by babysitting everynight for a demonstrator encyclopedia, and then you and your brother taught yourselves so much about the world from those books. Now later in life you are giving it away again by sharing these stories, and it sounds as if your brother is doing well (and speaks six languages). This is such a great story of good coming from a sad occurence (cancer). I love it!
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just pamela: I don't know what happened to Christina
lea: ahh, Jeopardy, one of my faves.I was on Wheel of Fortune
olga: Monkey Wards, and now Walmart ,known as Wally World or Weirdmart, depending on the day
mungular: sorry 'bout your job
dcvdickens: Eventually, I will probably print things that are out of time sequence ,and reorganize at the end.That typical of me.
zuma: I assume you had a station wagon...
jimmymac: i tried to look up price, but coudn't find it. Momma thinks they retailed for like $250. Weigh inflation , and they were extremely expensive for the times.Could be wrong.
roy: ours came with an atlas , too
mah: adjusted to say "immense" , as you are correct
hobolawstudent: I think that is said without words
Coyote: I feel a soundtrack , coming on....
rijaxn: not in the plans,ever
thanks y'all
F-ing great tale...there is a movie in your life brother...and I want to tell it. I think you may be the next Diablo Cody [JUNO]. Bring the Scrabble...I'll bring the dictionary!
You really connect with what is both precious and common in all our experiences and manage to give it a distinctive flavor. Loved it!
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How nicely you went from the vivid images of your memories to the present conversation with your Mom. Great flow, terrific details as always. The purple pantsuit and wig Momma smoothed and fixed, the spit-wipe (look how many others have been subjected to that!) and great dialogue. I enjoyed this. Thanks.
All that being said, how long will I have to wait for part 5? :)
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harry: I'll platy scrabble , anytime. We play with a one minute time limit and a loss of turn for failed challenges. dictionary can only be touched for challenges. "Let's get ready to rumble!"
Noisy: Chaunce for Chauncey, Doodoo for Demetrius, T for Terrence
Diane: #5 is one week after you post your next story
Wonderful writing.
Exemplary post. So beautiful and such depth.
No wonder you have such a depth of understanding on so many topics. Your mother was a smart woman.
We called it monkey wards too.
I remember when we got our Encylopedia. It was a Big deal. We went to the train station in town and waited for the freight train to drop them on the little wooden platform. We had a place cleared out for them on the bottom of the bookshelf in our back parlor/mom's office/mom's organ room (Hohner, not kidney and such). And inevitably, if we'd ask Any question, her response was, "Look it Up!"
And our Monkey Wards didn't have no icee machine either!
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It was worth coming to OS to read your work. It is wonderfully written and you capture your experiences so professionally! It absolutely resonates with the love you must have felt being raised by such a mother.
You never mentioned what happened to Doodoo though - what's he up to now?
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Reading and books and encyclopedias really were a magical escape. So's this. Thanks, again.
Everything vividly comes to life in pictures when you write, it's amazing how you describe everything in detail.
The greatest thing is the lesson that growing up in a dirt poor black community doesn't stop you from making something of your life, not if you have the passion and desire to succeed, and you have a fascinating life story to tell. The simpler things in life sooften make for the best stories.
A child with many more books might (like I did) have left the encyclopedia on the shelf, but you all obviously found in these books a way to explore the world and it's wonders, in in doing that gained a lot of wealth of knowledge.
Can't wait for the next chapter....
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“A World Book ’Cyclopedia a week”, she smiled."
That made the hair on the back of my neck raise. Tears in my eyes. A mother's love is a powerful thing and you wrote about it beautifully.