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JANUARY 18, 2009 11:32AM

T-Bucket's Memories of a Happy Poor Boy... pt. 4

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 “Hey, Trouble, get ya behind in the car, we’s goin’ ‘cross town”, Momma collared me and steered me to the back seat of the Duece. Chaunce, dropped the football we were playing with in the yard, and followed without any prompting. Doodoo was stayin’ at the neighbors.

  Unc’ Bennie pulled the Duece out and headed downtown. He popped in his newest eight track, the Chi-Lites. It was a gift from Willy B for his daily morning rides. Willy knew his soul music.

 Momma had her ’Sunday’ wig on and began what we called her ’downtown speech‘, “Looky here, we gonna swing by Miss Andrew’s house, den we gonna go to Monkey Ward, and I‘ll be damned if I‘s gonna chase you two boys all over that store. I will chap ya behinds if’n you gimmee any trouble. You gonna stay wit’ me, mind ya manners, and BB gonna buy ya an Icee if you do right. Here?”

“Yes, Ma’am”, we responded in enthusiastic unison.

“Pack down that nap, Terrence, you lookin’ like Buckwheat, and wipe off ya glasses. Tie dem shoes, Chauncey. Look respec’able.” Momma spit on a Kleenex, reached back, and wiped smudges off Chaunce‘s grimacing face. I, hurriedly, wiped my face off to avoid the spit wash. Bennie was oblivious; he sang along to the high parts of 'Tell Me Have You Seen Her', as we cruised up the road so slow that trucks hauling houses could pass us. Hoo-hah, we were going to Montgomery Ward to get an Icee, but why were we going to my school’s music teacher’s house?

  Unc’ Bennie parked on the street of Miss Andrews well-kept neighborhood, and Momma smoothed her purple pant suit and adjusted her wig as she went to the door. Miss Andrews answered and invited her inside. I liked Miss Andrews, her class was so fun. We sang 'Raindrops Keep Fallin’ on My Head', saw musical instruments up close, and she was in charge of the school plays. These were all things that my old school on the Black side of town didn’t have. I was the March Wind that year in the play. I had one line, “Do not weep Little Bow Peep, we will find your sheep.” I wore a sheet and spun offstage making ‘whooshy’ sounds.

  Miss Andrew’s husband got killed in Vietnam, just like Willy B’s dad. All my uncles were either too fat or too scrawny to pass the physical to go to Vietnam, and my Pop got killed in Little Rock.

  Chaunce and I were having an intense discussion about what flavors would be at the Icee machine, if we’d mix them, and how to avoid a brain freeze, when Momma slid back into the front seat. She turned around, and plopped volume ‘A’ of the World Book Encyclopedia on the seat between Chaunce and me. It was one of the thickest books we’d ever seen.

  “That’s y’all’s. Now treat it wit’ respec’. I don’t want y’all gettin’ Icee all on it. You gets any questions that starts wit ‘A‘, you gonna look ‘em up. I’s gonna be watchin’ Miss Andrews' baby girl, while she sells dem books at night.”

 The first half of  sixth grade, Miss Andrews dropped off her 4 year old, Christina, at our house, and picked her up at ten or so each night. We’d peek out our bedroom window, and watch as Miss Andrews carried her swaddled, sleeping baby girl to her car every night. Every Saturday morning there was another volume of the World Book Encyclopedia on our kitchen table. We eventually had the whole set.

 Chaunce and I devoured the information in these books. We never really asked Momma a question after awhile, because we knew her answer was going to be ,”Look it up”. Chaunce and I read these encyclopedias from cover to cover many times over the years.  Laying in our bunkbeds that Unc' Billy had made for us, we traded info and challenged each others facts. To this day we can both have intelligent, in depth conversations on most any topic without faking it. You do not want to play Scrabble or Trivial Pursuit with us. I make a comfortable living from my home, and Chaunce speaks six languages, and works for NATO in Brussels. Demetrius (Doodoo) owns his own company in Texas. I give immense credit to those books for our station in life.

 I reminded Momma recently about this story, and asked her what she recalled, “That lady had the cancer, and she were jus’ tryin’  tuh make some money for her baby girl for after she was gone.” That explained why Miss Andrews had abruptly stopped coming to our house back then, she had died of cancer.

“How much did you make back in 1972 for baby-sitting?“, I wondered out loud.

 “A World Book ’Cyclopedia a week”, she smiled.

  Momma still has those books proudly displayed in her living room, even though she can barely read. Inside the cover of each one of these 22 books, stamped in ink it says,

This book is not for resale, but is the sole property of Field Enterprises, to be used for demonstration and sales purposes by representatives of Field Enterprises, dba World Book Encyclopedia.

(might want to check out parts 1-3 , while you're here) 

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T-Bucket,
This is a beautiful, beautiful, piece. To say it’s a glowing tribute to everyone involved in the story is not enough. It’s a radiant narrative of the best and most precious that any child could carry with him through life to edify others with in later years.

These memories you have tucked away in your heart are treasures T-Bucket. Thanks so much for sharing them with the OS family.
The love of two mothers. Beautiful.

By the way, I used to go to "Monkey Ward's" with my great-grandmother. They must not have had the Icee machine then, or else Granny didn't let me know about it. A man I used to work with grew up in Poly and worked at MW in the 50s, filling orders on the upper floors wearing roller skates!
yep, ours had one ,it was one of the few in town...
What a Momma won't do for her own.

Dean
Mothers do what it takes for their children to thrive.
Yours was a Saint.......and so was Miss Andrews.
Incredible story T.....just incredible.
Another beautiful piece, thank you, T-Bucket.

I and my sister too have been spit-washed, but our mom didn't use her own mom-spit: she made us spit into the handkerchief before rubbing the dirt off our faces. And we profited from our family encyclopedia as well-- I think mom kept it until she had to go into care; I don't know its fate.

But, an encyclopedia volume a week is GOOD pay for babysitting! Your mom is terrific.
Ok, I know we are related. I thought my momma was the only person who called it "Monkey Ward's" (he-he). I look forward to reading more. I remember my parents getting encyclopedia's for us. It's funny how you may not have had the finest clothes, or home, but you had what was important-the ability to get knowledge.
Great story-telling once again T.

highly rated
Peace
Greg
t-bucket,
i love this story!!!! miss andrews working at night while she was sick with cancer. wow.

and my mom used to do the same thing when we asked questions, look it up. i remember one summer when we were all getting on her nerves she told us she would give us a dollar for everyenyclopedia we read. my mom had a good sense of humor.... and we did start to read them, but don't think one of us finished one so no money earned.:)
thanks for letting me know of this post.:)
mary
My family had two sets of encyclopedias, given to us by a librarian friend whose school was throwing them out. But neither was the World Book, so they didn't count to me. Couldn't be trusted. The World Book was like a god and the internet combined. I had to use my school's World Books for reports. I'd completely forgotten this until I read your wonderful post. I can see those red covers and glossy pages right now. How thoughtful of your mother to do that for you.
as catamitebastard might say, thubmed.
applauding and rating! :)
Wonderful. Love your way of using colloquial language, and your depiction of familial love.

Btw, I had an olf World Book Encyclopedia. Won on Jeopardy! in the Art Fleming as host days.
Beautiful story. I remember we had an old set of encyclopedias that I loved to look at. People don't read like that anymore.

Yes, two wise mothers!
A great memoir of two devoted moms.

An encyclopedia set is a wonderful thing to a child with an inquiring mind. Only thing I got as much (maybe more) from was my great aunt's collection of National Geographic magazines. She had shelves of them, going back for decades.
T-
I'd hacked out what I thought was a 'worthwhile' compliment, depicting the definition of "transcendentalism", then involving the moment in Robin Williams' 'Good Morning Viet Nam', the moment when they stopped the troop bus, panning the youthful faces, finally recalling the cold concrete on the stairs of the Lincoln Memorial, but the laptop apparently didn't speak with the airwaves. Just wanted to thank you for your words.
"Pack down that nap, Terrence, you lookin’ like Buckwheat,"

You know you're too white to be cool when you have to read that sentence more than once to figure out what context the term 'nap' is being used in ;)

Another excellent installment T. I hope you've got more comin.
Rated.
Lovely story and love your "voice". Unique, evocative, touching. Is this part of a book?
Great writing, T-Bucket! Sounds like your mother surely kept you boys in line and then got you off to a great start with the encyclopedias. My parents got us encyclopedias but, no Monkey Ward's in our area.

I wonder what happened to Christina.

I bet your Momma has many great stories just like you do! Thanks for sharing!
Great story, T

We had a Funk and Wagnall's set that came one book per week with a whatever $ purchase at the store. Ah, the days of analog research ! Great thing your Mom did for you and yours. My Mom's contribution was teaching me to read by the time I was 4. Opens doors and sets the course for what follows.
Thanks for the nice read.
"Monkey Wards!" Yes! My Mom had six kids, tubs of Dixie Peach, and could dress us, pack us up, and haul us all everywhere!

Thanks for this. This post is my treat of the day!
Those books weren't cheap. We had a set in our house and I think my parents used an installment plan to pay for it. But the idea of 'look it up' is priceless.
Great story.

We had encyclopedias, too. Collier's. I have no idea how we could have them, because we had the free lunch cards and were on food stamps for a while, too. But if we hadn't lost them in a house fire, I'm sure my five siblings and I would have fought over them when my mother passed away from cancer 1.5 years ago.
A splendid read. I'm on the lookout for more.
Your mom is incredible. I would love to be that wise someday.
T, you did it again.

I remember getting my clothes at Montgomery Wards and spit-washing, too, but what I really relate to is the World Book, we had a set in the one-room schoolhouse. I had a desk right next to the bookshelf and when I got ahead of my work, I'd pull down a volume. I figured out the use of an index from those books, because I loved mythology and I wanted to read every word on the subject. I started down the list under "myths" in the index and just followed every "see also" reference.

Your mama was a hell of a good woman
My loved of books saved my life. Wonderful as usual
T, Encyclopedia and my mom taught us kids how to write correctly.
She used to underline things, then make us write the thought in our own words......this was an incredible lesson.
Love the way you tell a story T. Your Momma was more than special. She seemed to know the value of an education I'll say. Kudos to the whole family for rising above and taking the high road as the low road is always available. What a story. Loved it!
T-Bucket,

It is a great thing to have gratitude in one's life. It is even greater to teach others that they too can have gratitude for everything in your life.

Thank you for the love, the lesson and the hope.
Mmm, encyclopedias. Beautiful piece.
T-Bucket,

This is a great story. I love to hear your mother's voice. What a remarkable, strong, smart woman.

By the way, you write: "I give full credit to those books for our station in life." But you know you don't. That credit is shared with the woman who knew exactly what was needed to to give her children a better life. That's why you write about her with such love.
what a beautiful story. Thank you for writing it.
Rated and appreciated - although I wonder how much credit can be given to the encyclopedias, and how much should be given to growing up in a house where learning and reading were considered important enough to invest night after night of sitting to get that encyclopedia.
Your mother so "got" you. And what you would need. I love her. I love this post.
I can hear the Chi-Lites singing in the background as I read. I still have a complete set of World Book encyclopedias that I managed somehow to get for my children. Every time I decide to get rid of them, I take one out and thing of all the times I told them to "look it up." Still haven't gotten rid of one volume.

Thanks, T. rated
Lovely story, tightly written.
Thanks.
Read 1-3, and now 4. Awaiting Part 5 with the anticipation of daddy get out of prison day.
Didn't get online until 9 pm or so but didn't have any trouble locating your post: first entry under top rated - where it belongs.
Thanks for writing it and thanks for posting it.
Rated.
I can't ever stray to far from the truth. T...it is you and enveloped in your written word! Simply the truth.
You gave me goosebumps, T-bucket!
T,
Got here late and all the good compliments are taken. It's so cool that Ms. Andrews was making extra money to leave for her daughter, and your mother helped her by babysitting everynight for a demonstrator encyclopedia, and then you and your brother taught yourselves so much about the world from those books. Now later in life you are giving it away again by sharing these stories, and it sounds as if your brother is doing well (and speaks six languages). This is such a great story of good coming from a sad occurence (cancer). I love it!
Rated my man.
My grandparents had those books too. During the times I spent at the farm, when I wasn't rooting through the storage room for cool old treasures, I had my nose in those World Books. Kudos to moms like yours.
grif:English,French,German,Spanish,Russian , and Latin.... he learned Spanish first by using records at home that he got at a flea market, then found he had a gift for it. He learned Russian in the air force. Weird, I only have English,and no other languages except latin as a base.

just pamela: I don't know what happened to Christina
lea: ahh, Jeopardy, one of my faves.I was on Wheel of Fortune

olga: Monkey Wards, and now Walmart ,known as Wally World or Weirdmart, depending on the day

mungular: sorry 'bout your job

dcvdickens: Eventually, I will probably print things that are out of time sequence ,and reorganize at the end.That typical of me.

zuma: I assume you had a station wagon...

jimmymac: i tried to look up price, but coudn't find it. Momma thinks they retailed for like $250. Weigh inflation , and they were extremely expensive for the times.Could be wrong.

roy: ours came with an atlas , too

mah: adjusted to say "immense" , as you are correct

hobolawstudent: I think that is said without words

Coyote: I feel a soundtrack , coming on....

rijaxn: not in the plans,ever

thanks y'all
T, I've really enjoyed reading these memories of yours. I just went back, to re-read all of them one after another. What great stories. Such beautiful writing. Thanks.
Another fabulous story. I feel like I am riding in the car with you. I used to read almanacs cover to cover. I grew up without money and in 6th grade, the school had a reading contest and the winner would win a set of encyclopedias. I read 18 books- difficult books, way beyond a 6th grade level. Another kid read 20 books-easy, 40 pagers. He won the encyclopedias. I wanted to win those so bad! Your mom sounds like a great mom.
Bucket I have been away from the OS, needed a moment to reflect and cleanse myself of foul stench that had been rotting around here but an email from you reminded me why I came here in the first place.

F-ing great tale...there is a movie in your life brother...and I want to tell it. I think you may be the next Diablo Cody [JUNO]. Bring the Scrabble...I'll bring the dictionary!
I remember those encyclopedia volumes, somehow my mom managed to get them for us. I wouldn't be surprised if she made some kind of trade, or wrote bad checks to get them for us. I particularly liked the anatomy section with its clear layers of organs.

You really connect with what is both precious and common in all our experiences and manage to give it a distinctive flavor. Loved it!

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So the T stands for Trouble and Terrence?
How nicely you went from the vivid images of your memories to the present conversation with your Mom. Great flow, terrific details as always. The purple pantsuit and wig Momma smoothed and fixed, the spit-wipe (look how many others have been subjected to that!) and great dialogue. I enjoyed this. Thanks.
T, I don't know how you manage to keep outdoing yourself, but you obviously do. This is the best part (so far)!! I smiled at the beginning, then brimmed with tears near the end. It brought back the memory of spit-washes and trying to avoid them. It brought back memories of the supermarket encyclopedia set I read and re-read cover to cover during grammar school and into high school. I can picture them - royal blue covers with gold printing on the binding. Thanks for the memories, love.
All that being said, how long will I have to wait for part 5? :)
Hugs
MJ: love your "bear" story....

harry: I'll platy scrabble , anytime. We play with a one minute time limit and a loss of turn for failed challenges. dictionary can only be touched for challenges. "Let's get ready to rumble!"

Noisy: Chaunce for Chauncey, Doodoo for Demetrius, T for Terrence

Diane: #5 is one week after you post your next story
Well-written remembrance of childhood foundational moments!
Thank you for sharing your mothers wisdom and kindness. If she ain't Sainte Momma...I don't know who else would qualify! These two women have such insight; such strength of character, perhaps the rest of the world would be in better shape if they had been raised by women like these...McKai
Excellent piece T-Bucket. I gotta tell you though, the thought of the spit wash brought bring "yuck" memories! And the fact that my mother told us that we all have the same germs! LOL Rated
brings new meaning to the term " relative humidity"
I love tributes to Mommas and to the power of education - and at bottom, all education is self-education.

Wonderful writing.
Way to paint the picture my friend!
I hope it is your intention to put all your stories in a manuscript with the intention of getting this published. Too large a gift to only share with the wee little OS community. This is another artfully told story and I thank you for the gift of your words and for shaking out a memory of my own. I spent hours reading those encyclopedias. And as always, you always have something at the end of the posts that is always some kind of a surprise, something unexpected. Thank you!
marytkelly:I am only on your planet for a limited time. I must share my knowledge...jus' kiddin' , thanks
T-Bucket,
Exemplary post. So beautiful and such depth.
No wonder you have such a depth of understanding on so many topics. Your mother was a smart woman.
We called it monkey wards too.
I love memories like this T. Must be in the air.
Engrossing - thanks for another great read. I promised myself that I would never do that dreaded, discusting spit bath - of course I do it to my own boys now too. Your stories are absolutely visual - I am totally sucked in....
So much resonates here, particularly your affection for these two amazing women. I love your stories.

I remember when we got our Encylopedia. It was a Big deal. We went to the train station in town and waited for the freight train to drop them on the little wooden platform. We had a place cleared out for them on the bottom of the bookshelf in our back parlor/mom's office/mom's organ room (Hohner, not kidney and such). And inevitably, if we'd ask Any question, her response was, "Look it Up!"

And our Monkey Wards didn't have no icee machine either!
Great story, T-Bucket. Moms and dads can be great motivators. Your style is simply wonderful. While reading this piece, I could see a vivid picture of your growing up and feel the bonds between the different people. You have something good here. Don't stop!
Other comments have said it all. Super story telling.
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How did the neighbors feel about leaving doodoo at their place, because I would be outraged.
T-Bucket.
It was worth coming to OS to read your work. It is wonderfully written and you capture your experiences so professionally! It absolutely resonates with the love you must have felt being raised by such a mother.
This is truly great stuff, T. $250 sounds right (we had a set of World Books when I was a kid, and I'm sure there was a two year period where "vacation" was just going for a drive because of those encyclopedias), but they were worth every nickel.
You never mentioned what happened to Doodoo though - what's he up to now?

Rated.
Rated. A treasure for sure. Also a side note: Didn't you know that Mommy Spit is magical? It can remove just about any dirt or stain. Sadly, though, it cannot remove cancer as I'm sure your mama would have washed away Mrs. Andrews' cancer if she could have.
T-Bucket,

Reading and books and encyclopedias really were a magical escape. So's this. Thanks, again.
You cast a beautiful net over your readers with your magical stories that have such vivid images. We are as lucky to have you share them with us as you were to receive the love that made you the person you are today......pure magic, T.
Another thrilling installment, I love it!

Everything vividly comes to life in pictures when you write, it's amazing how you describe everything in detail.

The greatest thing is the lesson that growing up in a dirt poor black community doesn't stop you from making something of your life, not if you have the passion and desire to succeed, and you have a fascinating life story to tell. The simpler things in life sooften make for the best stories.

A child with many more books might (like I did) have left the encyclopedia on the shelf, but you all obviously found in these books a way to explore the world and it's wonders, in in doing that gained a lot of wealth of knowledge.

Can't wait for the next chapter....
You know I love to read your stuff.
Rated.
Poddy, we had a city library, but it was a giant one downtown .Momma didn't like the way they treated us/looked at us, and it was too risky a ride in the Duece
"“How much did you make back in 1972 for baby-sitting?“, I wondered out loud.

“A World Book ’Cyclopedia a week”, she smiled."

That made the hair on the back of my neck raise. Tears in my eyes. A mother's love is a powerful thing and you wrote about it beautifully.
I may be one of your newest fans. I can hear your voice as you write. You have a real gift of blending serious life issues and humor. Please let us have more.
How come no stories in a while, T? They are ususally enjoyable.