Teresa M

Teresa M
Location
Waukesha, Wisconsin, USA
Birthday
July 09
Bio
I am a 55 year old mother and wife who considers herself a progressive. I write a blog about midlife and all that I find interesting, disappointing, scary, funny and otherwise about it. I am a midwesterner and generally like to keep things clear and simple. www.midriffmuse.com These days, everything comes into question. Who and what is going to get my time and energy? Do I really want to keep everything I've accumulated? Now that my schedule and activities are not dictated by being present for my kids' interests, where do I want to go and what do I want to do? Admittedly, I can sometimes be cranky, opinionated or even downright judgmental, but above all I am trying to be honest, forthright and in integrity with myself and my loved ones. I am often much more amused by myself than some people think I should be.

MY RECENT POSTS

JUNE 18, 2010 4:58PM

Yup - Got 'er Done!

Yup – Got ‘er Done!

“Yup” is most often the laconic response I receive (usually in the form of a text message) from Joe to my variety of queries in numerous formats.  I want details whereas Joe likes to operate in brief… Read full post »

MARCH 13, 2010 7:05PM

Oscars 2010

The Oscars 2010

It was a simpler celebration this year.  We didn’t get the strawberries dipped, but we had chocolate fondue.  We ordered pizzas, but… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 24, 2010 12:35AM

She Is Here!

“There is an angle in our family,” were the words of my husband, who flew to meet her only hours after her presence commenced in this life. This first grandchild has forever changed all of our long-held titles: Mom and Dad to Grandma and Grandpa; and sister, sister-in-law,/…

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FEBRUARY 20, 2010 9:08AM

Long Anticipated Demise

Godspeed and Safe Sailing

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Our pink toilet has tanked.

Listing to the starboard,

It sits in a snow bank.

Are we sad to see it go?

Oh no.

Oh no.

Oh no.

FEBRUARY 14, 2010 6:25PM

Daddy's Girl II

When I uploaded my current puny little “Daddy’s Girl” post – the first one in some time – and I saw all the titles with Valentine in them, I realized I was a little out of step – not that there is a right or wrong topic, I know, but I… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 14, 2010 2:04AM

Daddy's Girl

014 Yesterday I bundled up without regard for fashion or vanity to spend some time in the snow with the puppy (11 months old today and pretty big). He’s been getting neglected while I have centered my energies around nursing my husband as he recovers from knee replacement surgery. So I… Read full post »

Friday nite, December 11th

xmas tree 09028I went to The Concert for Bangladesh tonight, or more accurately, as you have probably already guessed, The Concert for Bangladesh came to me tonight via DVD. I saw the original movie back in 1972. I purchased the boxed DVD set of the rereleased, digitally remastere… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 24, 2009 2:51PM

Remembering to Look at the Small Picture

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It’s Foodie Tuesday. The coffee set featured here was given to me by Hawk and the kids for Mother’s Day some year’s back. It is a “Forman Brothers, Inc” creation. They did not stamp their pots with a serial number indicating the manufacture date, but based on th… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 18, 2009 8:43PM

Grief

Grief doesn’t keep a schedule.  It doesn’t look in and ask: “is this an okay day for you? Cuz if it isn’t, I can come back another time.”  Grief pretty much comes by when it needs to.  I guess.

 I knew this was coming and I thought I… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 17, 2009 8:45PM

Foodie Tuesday - Coffee Pot in a Box

One of the interesting things about having a hobby such as collecting old coffee pots is that people tend to think of you whenever they spot something that they think might belong in your collection.  It’s sort of a warm fuzzy in many ways.  A few years ago, my mother spotted… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 11, 2009 11:21PM

Veteran’s Day – Geneseo, IL

Geneseo, Il honors its Veterans with a flag for each one back through the Civil War  - over 650!

Yesterday I joined my sister, Peggy and my mother for a road trip to Geneseo, IL to visit Peggy’s son Mark and his wife, Kyle and their three children: Connor, Cailin and Carson.

This morning we learned that the city honors its veterans by displaying a flag for every… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 10, 2009 1:18AM

Foodie Tuesday - Long Tall Coffee Pot

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This week’s coffee pot is another Manning Bowman Work of Art. This was the first pot that I purchased from ebay. Isn’t it a statuesque beauty? The spout pours as beautifully as it looks – in a long elegant arc. Manufactured in 1933, it also has an extra fuse still… Read full post »

Cooking is not my natural art form. I just don’t do it well. I don have that feel for blending flavors, adding a little of this, a little of that, grabbing a red or yellow pepper for the sake of presentation. I have some tried and true recipes that I stick… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 1, 2009 2:35AM

For Halloween I Build Me a Church

I’m not one for the macabre or ghoulishness, never have been. My kids have always had hand-made costumes: horse, cow, southern belle, cell phone, giant baseball glove. I always have candy for trick or treaters. About a decade ago, I was moved to fill my yard with paper bag luminarias on… Read full post »

I Knew Things Were Going Down a Bad Road When the Color Turned Green Bay Packer Gold

A true Wisconsinite, I have proudly rooted for the Green and Gold many times over many years.  I am old enough to have been around for each of their two great/… Read full post »

OCTOBER 25, 2009 10:30PM

I couldn't help myself ...

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I didn’t want to do a new post so soon because I like to leave a few days space because I’m afraid that if I post too many too fast hardly any will get read and I really do hope that you all read the previous post of  SedonaRead full post »

Landing in Phoenix was one thing, we still had a couple of hours of “gettin to Sedona to do.” You will remember, if you read the first piece in this series, that back in Milwaukee, we had chided my brother Joe, for putting a kink in the general plans for streamlined… Read full post »

OCTOBER 20, 2009 1:51PM

Hello Again

I have for some weeks now been bereft of any creative energy, hence my long absence.  I have not even had the wherewithal to check in and read my favorites from time to time and comment, which I feel terrible about because so many of you are so great about leaving… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 1, 2009 6:36PM

Baby is 22

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Shannon is my second born. She arrived in this life in much the same manner that she arrives anywhere: with the intent to be there – a short fast burst of labor, and there she was in my arms. Her Dad and I had been seated at the counter of… Read full post »

AUGUST 25, 2009 6:46PM

Eeeeeeeeeek! O'Connor's on a Plane!

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Sedona (first in a series) – Getting There

Growing up in a large family in the 1950’s and 60’s did not lend itself to taking family vacations for numerous reasons. It was a different time then. Of course there were some families who did, particularly as lifestyles morphed int… Read full post »

 

Orgasmic Plumbing

            Many American households do their utmost on occasion to avoid a call to the plumber.  Sometimes this means that the household lives with the faulty plumbing until the handy person of the family finds t/… Read full post »

AUGUST 1, 2009 6:18PM

Why Can't We All Just Get A Thong?

Because it’s not a good idea and I’ll tell you why. Some of you have read my previous musings on this subject. I’m asking you to stay with me while I fill in the newcomers and then I will broaden the scope, so to speak.

Several years ago, my daughters… Read full post »

 

My friend Derba was in my kitchen the other day.  Her name is actually Debra, but I found it humorous one day to switch the r and the b around to make it Derba.  Fortunately for me, she actually thinks that I’m funny when I do this sort… Read full post »

JULY 8, 2009 12:59AM

The Ironing Board is in Her Room

Shash Graduation & Cody016 It feels different this year, even though it is not all that different than other years. Katie graduated from UW Madison on May 16th. Shannon graduated from North Central College on June 13th. We had an open house gathering of family and friends Jun14th and later that evening, Shannon, with… Read full post »

JULY 4, 2009 11:29PM

Unattended Fireworks

Last year,

Sad and alone,

Because my marriage was ending,

I drove to a parking lot at the edge of town

To watch from a distance the city’s fireworks display.

I hadn’t watched any for years.

There were mosquitoes

And I wished that I… Read full post »