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APRIL 28, 2010 8:08PM

Is Your Mom A Prostitute?

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By now everybody knows the story surrounding Jeff Ireland and Dez Bryant. The sad part is there is really no story here. Let me begin by saying the society we live in has became overly sensitive to everything, especially the spoken word and written word. With that being said, I am not sure if it is society as a whole or the 5% of people who scream the loudest about things that do not matter. I should also mention this before I get into the substance of this article. I am not overly sensitive and I am not a real private person. My grandfather had both of his legs amputated due to health issues. If somebody was to make a joke about a person missing their legs I would in no way be offended. If somebody asked me in a job interview about my mom being a prostitute I would probably laugh and say I hope not. The majority of people take matters to seriously these days.

So, with all of that being said you can understand why as of this morning I was not really upset about what Jeff Ireland asked Dez Bryant. That does not mean I condone the question. I just do not care. I thought of it as a non-issue. As of this afternoon my sentiment has kind of changed some. I think Jeff Ireland had every right to ask Bryant the question he did based on the facts we have. According to a New York Times article in October of 2009 (http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/08/sports/ncaafootball/08bryant.html), Bryant's "mother served time in prison on a drug-sale conviction." Did you know that sometimes, not always, that people involved in drugs will do anything to come up with a few spare dollars, including selling their bodies? I am not saying that Bryan't mother was or is a prostitute but is it really that far fetched to consider that this might be the case.

The list goes on. The main point of the article I reference in the last paragraph was about when Bryant became ineligible at Oklahoma State last season because he lied about going over to Deion Sanders house. Is it asking to much to recognize there could be some character issues here? Now, there is no doubt that Bryant is going to be on his best behavior when it comes to impressing NFL scouts because there are already a few character issues at hand and he definitely wants to impress his future employers. That would be a negative. According to an article on SportsDayDFW (http://cowboysblog.dallasnews.com/archives/2010/03/wr-dez-bryant-works-out-for-scouts-gets.html), Bryant "forgot to bring his cleats, and that as a result he had to wear a pair of brand-new shoes, which had not properly been broken in." So you are asking what did he forgot to bring his cleats too? He forgot to bring cleats to his workout, I believe his first with NFL scouts. All of this after not going to the NFL combine or Oklahoma State's pro day.

Jeff Ireland had every right to ask the question he did. The people that surround an NFL player (support system) are going to have a vital role on how that player and the team performs on the field. There is no way you can make an argument against that statement based on recent events regarding certain NFL players (see a certain Pittsburgh QB). The Steelers are going to be without a guy who has led them to two Super Bowls based on off field events that may or may not have happened. NFL teams have every right to know the people who are going to be surrounding their players before they lay down millions of dollars in contracts. The person I actually feel sorry for in this whole joke of a story is Bryant's mother. Millions of people now know she was/is a druggie and possibly even a prostitue. Even a non-private person such as myself would not want the world to know those details about my mother, especially if she has gotten her life back on track.

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yeah. the question should have been asked privately by the scout away from the media. was it? now there may be some public profiles of his mother. he denies she was a prostitute. we'll see. I wouldnt exactly call it a fair question, but neither was it totally unjustified/uncalled for....
I have to disagree with you here, You are not aquiring a business here, or an asset, you are talking face to face with another human being, and it is utterly degrading and humiliating to ask that question no matter what the circumstance.
"Jeff Ireland had every right to ask the question he did."
No man should ask that question to another man. Even if the answer was yes, he deserves a punch in the face for asking that question. Is there no common decency anymore, are poor black players commodities that you look at their teeth on the selling block? You say this is not news, it would be if it were a white draft pick, but its okay to ask that question to a poor black kid with a troubled background. thats not news...
vzn,

From every report I have heard the question was asked in a private setting between Ireland and Bryant. Thanks for the comments.

Banterrific,

I am going to assume you are not a big sports fan. If you know anything about the situation in Pittsburgh right now you would understand why questions like these matter.

Second, Toby Gerhart (a white running back) was asked if he felt entitled because he was a white player? Obviously you have not heard that story because the media chose not to run with it. Reason being, because it is really not that big a deal.
I am actually a NFL fan, less so now after Jeff Ireland's comments and your post. I do know all about Toby Gerhart, and I feel soo sorry soo very very sorry for him because he is not a black running back. let this emoticon symbolize the saddness I feel for Toby Gerhart for his perceived reverse racisim :(.... However, I dont think anyone asked if his mom was a whore if I recall. I know the situation in pittsburg is of crucial importance as a sports fan. but I also think treating other people like human beings is also of crucial importance, and should not be overlooked because this is the NFL. I mean come on.. you may laugh it off when someone takes a shot at your mom and asks if she is a whore, but with your giggly attitute to someone insulting your mother, you should at least be able to see how humiliating and degrading that comment COULD be. My point is, Jeff Ireland would never ever treat a Colt McCoy or a Sam Bradford like he treated Dez Bryant. Sure Dez Bryant has had a checkered past, he may be a genuine ahole for all I know, but it is telling of how a white GM thinks about a poor black player that he would ask that question. Because if he thought of him as an equal, or even another human being, he would have never asked that.
Banterrific,

The NFL is not a regular employee. I believe they have the right to know almost anything they want about a player, especially the people who are going to be surrounding him and living with him. With that being said I can admit there are appropriate and inappropriate questions. If Bryant really said his father was a pimp and that his mom worked for his dad, then I really have no problem with what Ireland asked. With all of that being said I can agree with your most recent comment to an extent. Would he have ever asked somebody like McCoy or Tebow a question like that? Of course not. What reason have either of them even given for any of us to question their character? Bryant, on the other hand, has given us reason after reason. He just happens to be black. There are plenty of white guys who do not have solid character who probably could have been asked questions similar to those asked of Bryant.

It is not a black and white thing. You picked out two of the classiest white players in college football and then you went the complete opposite way with Bryant. There are plenty of high character black guys heading to the NFL. I do not feel that Bryant falls under that category.