This summer has been long and hard. I started my summer workshop education classes this summer. Nine hours of Master's classes, my daughter having a baby and a double ear infection. Eeesh.
The classes were not bad, interesting even. I learned a lot and had my eyes opened to a lot of what is happening in the education world that I didn't know about. I will probably write more on that later.
My daughter had a terrible time having the baby and it was a long troublesome recovery for her. She had to have an emergency C-section after 2 hours of pushing. She ended up with her lower body swelling beyond belief.
She hemmoraged a week after she came home...I took a trip to the emergency room with her. She was so scared she would die, I have never seen her so scared before. Her husband, a great guy and equally good Daddy was also scared and inexperienced in the ways of the medical world.
She got through that then got an infection. The doctors misdiagnosed it as a uterine infection and for two more weeks she continued to get worse. Finally they "listened" to her and treated her for the bladder infection she thought she had to begin with, but not until she became really sick. All this time she tried to breast feed and the baby wasn't getting enough and wasn't gaining weight...another stress.
I know it wasn't me going through all this, but in a way it was. I felt like I was the one that had the baby, the stress was awful.
I didn't know if after class I would be taking another trip to the hospital or doctor office. Seeing the constant pain and misery in my daughter's face was horrible. I worried she wouldn't survive with doctors that did not follow up on their patients anymore. It made it hard to concentrate in class some days. I was lucky I had made some very good friends that helped me through it. Fellow "future" teachers that looked out for each other any way they could.
While all this was going on I fought a double ear infection that drained the energy out of me.
Finally when her bladder infection was driven out with the correct medicine she began to recover. That brought us to the middle of July and the summer was half over. She began to feel better and I had two weeks to get a miread of projects done before the semester was over.
Things are better now.

My daughter is able to get around and feeling more confident in taking care of a brand new baby. I finally got rid of the ear infection and somehow I passed my class with an A.
The fall brings on new challenges for our family. I start another 9 credit hours of classes including my practicum while substitue teaching. My daughter and her husband are going back to work as teachers and will have to leave their baby with my husband (Grandpa). He will be babysitting every day with a two-month old which will be a new stress in itself. He also is going to school at night. So...with the summer now over and all of our family trials simmering down, I hope to find a little time to come back and write. In the meantime.
Here are some new baby pics.





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I'm sad summer is over. Now, in a way it's time to get back to the real world.
A wonderful piece!
:)
Grandmothers In Denial Ha!
Those who've never had them, may not realize, that they're as bad as tooth pain or worse.
Baby's a cutie -- so are You
Welcome back, and a rating for granma and baby, too
And...
And that Baby! God, I just wannna, well...do what you're doing in those last two pics! Awwwwwwwww....baby face!
Oh yeah, and good on you for doing school! yay for you!
your granddaughter is just as sweet as can be.
Thanks so much for all your well wishes.
My daughter Bethany took the baby to the DR for her two month checkup today. She is now 13.9 lbs and 23.75 inches long. She said she had to have her shots and she cried when they gave them to her. I told her I was glad I wasn't there because I would have cried too.
I told Bethany...see how you feel when your daughter is hurting, now you know how I feel when you are hurting. You hurt with them...only worse. You would rather be taking the pain for them.
Anyway, enough of the eooee gooeey stuff.
Second, what a precious baby! You are one lucky grandma.
Third, my prayers for you, your daughter and all of your immediate family. The summer has been far from easy but you can now look to the future in hope. I pray for wellness and joy.
Monte
I don't mean to complain or try for sympathy with my post...just an explanation of my absence. I know everyone has trials and stress in their lives. It's all relative to what your experiences are. I am looking forward to writing again. I have some subjects in mind since taking my classes this summer. I have had my mind opened in ways that I would not have expected. I try to be open, but analytical.
It will take a while to compose what I want to say...I am still thinking about it. In the meantime I'll just share what's going on. Love and miss all of you.