TMaita
- Location
- I know I'm out here somewhere, California, USA
- Birthday
- May 26
- Title
- Psychotherapist
- Bio
- "Oh, what sad times are these when passing ruffians can say `nee' at will to old ladies. There is a pestilence upon this land, nothing is sacred. Even those who arrange and design shrubberies are under
considerable economic stress at this period in history."
MY RECENT POSTS
- An Open Letter To Neil Young
June 07, 2009 12:54PM - “In Treatment” from a
psychotherapist’s
perspective
May 27, 2009 04:32PM - A Memorial Day ride of a
lifetime
May 26, 2009 07:45PM - Amateur Strip Night in Creve
Coeur Illinois
March 30, 2009 12:49AM - Shooting Spree in Oakland - 4
officers and a suspect dead
March 21, 2009 09:17PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Well, I guess we are
twin sisters of different
mothers. It
was such a loss of
som…”
September 27, 2010 03:40PM - “Hey Tom
Sorry
that I missed this post
previously!
At least
you didn't compare
your…”
June 13, 2009 12:33PM - “Hey Tom
I have
never been to TN. Been all
around it, but I'll make you
a
deal, if…”
June 12, 2009 02:32PM - “You go Juli! I really
have never been much of a
runner
(perhaps the years of
smok…”
June 09, 2009 12:12AM - “So many feelings came up
for me as I read this. Mostly,
most
importantly, is to
t…”
June 09, 2009 12:07AM
TMaita's Links
- New list
- No links in this category.

I’ve become a huge fan of HBO’s phenomenal series “In Treatment”. There are a few reasons for this. First, it is so well written and craftfully acted---take John Mahoney’s recent performance as the tormented CEO “Walter”. In… Read full post »
A Memorial Day ride of a lifetime

I guess that I have a “bucket list”, though it has changed and evolved over time. These days I dream of traveling to Sicily to meet my “people”, of finally getting back stage at a Neil Young concert, of having a one night stand with James Purefoy, and of… Read full post »

Violence is not unusual in Oakland, but today's violence is just another grim reminder that when people are desperate or feeling threatened, they will make the most fatal of choices.
Apparently, 4 police officers were gunned down, and there are conflicting news reports stat… Read full post »
A Family Tragedy – My Brother’s Traumatic Brain Injury

(Jim, surrounded by his sisters)
When I heard about the tragic circumstances of Natasha Richardson’s brain injury, I immediately flashed on the stages of grief, and the incredible amount of denial that my family endured when my brother Jim fell off of his h… Read full post »
I Used To Enjoy Meet The Press

I used to really enjoy watching Meet The Press. Tim Russert was an extremely likeable man who was able to ask pointed questions without coming off as a sanctimonious piece of work. When Russert pressed his guests for meaningful responses, he did so with respect, and a certain twi… Read full post »
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GO JOAN GO!
In the middle of a debate over Obama's stimulus package, Dick Armey began to laugh, blush, and become apoplectic after Joan began to debate… Read full post »

When the US Airways flight that was piloted by Sully Sullenberger and crew glided onto the Hudson River, it was a day of renewed hope for a country starved for good news. As a nation, we have been psychologically deprived of a sense of competence, and for a feeling that… Read full post »
8 Years and 10 Days
I’d like to
be able to tell you about my mother in a way that enables you to
really see her and who she was. I’d like to tell you about
all of her antics in the 1970’s---her 1965 powder blue
Cadillac convertible—how she would drive it down the street
with… Read full post »
A few words about Dan Fogelberg - A Confessional of Sorts
I learned of Dan Fogelberg's death at 6 AM on a Monday morning. As my favorite news anchor read the brief obituary, I literally doubled over in tears. My husband climbed out of bed and came toward me to be of some comfort. He looked at me and said, "I… Read full post »
Ego personified

Christmastime is here again, and I’m beginning to feel that familiar emptiness that tends to haunt me at this time of year.
Both of my parents are gone, and we are a family of grown-ups. My siblings have their own families and rituals to perform. I don’t have any… Read full post »
Did my time in the California Conservation Corps - Open Call
I was 18 years old in 1979, and had been raised in a homogenous suburb of San Francisco called Castro Valley. I had no clue what I wanted to do with my life. I had started Junior College and that brought forth no answers either. What I needed was a major… Read full post »
The Red Suitcase

It was 1975, and my parents were in their early 50’s.
One afternoon, my pal Dennis and I… Read full post »
Early morning prose

dogs grunting at 5:45, wet noses bumping my cheek
get up, mama, get up!
The sun is up!
Husband snoring, or pretending
it's your turn, not mine you think
but you steel yourself and rise
to the occasion
Stumbling down the stairs
steaming milk
6 dogs peeing in the… Read full post »
My family moved to a new house when I was 10
years old. The “rumpus” room was downstairs, and the
bedrooms, kitchen and living room were on the top floor. My mother
never did like this house, but my dad had purchased it on a V.A.
loan, and it was… Read full post »Facing Death
You rarely work on a Saturday, but sometimes you prefer it. Most of the administration, office staff and doctors aren’t there on the weekends, and it feels more relaxed and casual. You won’t have to compete with the doctor for a look at the chart, and the physical therapy department… Read full post »
Election Night
I can’t believe that the election is over. Well, it’s mostly over. There are still Senate seats to be decided, and as I was driving home from dinner last night, I noticed that the DNC office was still open and staffed 2 weeks after the election. It is hard to let… Read full post »
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