June 27, 2011 will mark my two-year anniversary here in the hallowed halls of Open Salon. (Well, if we had halls, they would surely be hallowed.) Being the self-proclaimed rebel that I am, I have decided to eschew tradition and publish my two-year anniversary post several days ahead of the actual anniversary date. Seriously, what could it hurt? Truth be told, I’m catching a glimpse of my muse today, and God only knows when she may decide to show her face again, so I need to take advantage of her presence.
My first post on OS was a snarky little number entitled Enough With the Farrah Hair Already which to this day remains one of my most read posts. What that says to me is that it’s hard to beat good snark. Oddly enough, the post that earned the distinction of being at the top of my most-read list is something entirely the opposite of snark. It’s a feel-good piece about friendship, one that I’m quite proud of, actually. You can find it here: Promise Me, Friend. And, yes, in case you’re wondering, I totally believe in self-promotion.I don’t know how many posts I’ve actually published on Open Salon due to the occasional snit-fit when I threw caution and good sense to the wind and deleted some of them. A few posts deserved deleting, a few of them I should have let stand. What’s done is done and there’s no turning back. Looking back, I had far fewer filters when I first began to post here. I’ve become more cautious, one might even say taciturn, of late. In my two years here, I’ve found the most delicious friends. Great friends, true friends. Anyone of the opinion that one cannot form true friendships online is, in a word, WRONG. I’ve been fortunate to meet several of my OS friends in person, and look forward to meeting even more of them (as well as revisiting the ones I’ve already met.)
OS has seen me through some truly horrific times. I’ve written extensively about my trials as I dosado and allemande left with the worst dance partner of all time – Depression. You all extended your hearts and your virtual hands to me as I watched my son, my darling son, be ripped apart by a zero-tolerance justice system gone terribly wrong. And you rejoiced with me when he was returned to me, miraculously whole and not destroyed, which was my greatest fear. You’ve seen me through the births of grandchildren, the joy of my youngest son’s college graduation; through my greatest joys and through my darkest days. You have been, in the truest sense of the word, friends.
I have learned about myself, but I have also learned about you. In my time here on Open Salon, I have been honored to read some of the finest writing anywhere. My constant refrain since first stepping foot on these virtual premises has been that this place is home to the most incredible pool of talent I have ever encountered. I’ve laughed, I’ve cried, I’ve held my breath, I’ve hoped and prayed, and all of it because of a very special group of fine folks who have come to call this place home.
It has been my greatest pleasure to have shared these past two years with you here on Open Salon. I wonder where we will all be two years from now. Is it possible we’ll all still be here by this virtual fireplace, telling our stories, laughing and crying, and wondering where the time went?
It could happen.


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Can't live with it, can't live without it.
Congrats.
Scanner - Ah, my good buddy, Kenny. You were one of the first to befriend me when I came here and I love you to pieces. Always will. Here's to another year... hell, here's to many more years!
Duane - thank you. Can't believe it's been two years already.
In some ways, the friendships I've made on OS are better than real-life ones, because it's just words and thoughts and dispenses with a lot of the trivial and shallow.
I've had a couple of dances with Depression too. Fred and Ginger, it wasn't. Hope you're staying off that dance floor.
lschmoopie - Happy Blogiversary to you!
Rei Momo - It is nice to have OS working again. Nothing else like it out there.
Patrick - I agree completely.
Pauline - OS is a very unique place. Even when I tried to hate it (when we couldn't log on and the site was always down, etc.), I couldn't. ;-)
Thanks for your delicious friendship, Scarlett!
a lifetime for some
this place OS a lifetime within those who write here
i've danced with your dance partner
i've enjoyed reading you
let's dance.
Joanie - I remember when you came to OS. The first time I read you, I knew I had found a treasure. And then to discover that treasure would become a friend as well... pure joy!
Rated.
Happy OS anniversary, Unbreakable : )
♥R
Perhaps in the weeks and months to come, we will find many more. I call that a very good return on my investment.
And as for you, may your life be so wonderful that all your pieces sounds like they were written by the Waltons.
And nope, I won't hear of anyone telling me you can't make friends online! For sure we can and do!
HAPPY 2ND BLOGIVERSARY, FRIEND!
Scylla - that means more to me than you know. Thank you.
dianaani - thank you. I'm getting my snark on as we speak. Watch for it. :-)
Just Thinking - I hope so, too. I can't imagine NOT being here... writing, reading, commenting...
Fusun - I agree - true friendship and humility rank right up at the top of my list, too. xoxo
JD - you have to know that you are one of the people who has made this place so very special to me. Thank you for your friendship, dear friend.
trilogy - I think I feel a margarita party in Austin coming on very soon! I would dearly love to finally meet you in person!
Little Kate - thank you! You are always so very kind and gracious. I'm glad you're here!
mypsyche - dearest Drema - I miss you! Thanks for all your oh-so-kind words. I would say I'm blushing at the compliments, but we both know that's not true. :-) Feels like margarita time coming up soon, don't you think?
aim - and a very high compliment that is, too. Thank you! And you - cold black heart - pffft! I'm not buying it. xoxo
Jerry - I am honored to be in the presence of writers like you and so many others here. Thank you for your wonderfully kind words.
Sheila - and just think - I followed you here and I'm sooo glad I did. Much love to you, dear friend!
I have no doubts about the sincerity of online friendships and feel very much as you do. The support and caring I've received in the past has helped me enormously.
I'm not an avid poster on OS but I do admire the quality of writing on the site, including your own of course.
You were an established figure here already when I got here. The place wouldn't be the same without you. Keep coming back!
Linda - thank you so much for coming by and for your sweet words. I'm looking forward to your next post - are you still posting on WDC?
Pilgrim - it has been fun, hasn't it? And it's been a pleasure sharing this journey with you, my friend.
Charlie - you're so sweet - thank you! What a place this is, huh?
Dawn - Thank you for your encouraging words. I remember the first piece of yours that I read - it was about a reunion between you and three of your friends from high school, I believe. It was a delightful read and it made me smile - a lot. I've been very sporadic on OS for a while because of the ongoing technical problems (that, and going back to work has put a serious crimp in my reading and commenting habits!) so I've missed a lot of your posts. I just went to your blog and read several of them, and my first impression of you was dead-on. You are a delightful writer. I'm glad to be here on OS with you.