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MAY 2, 2009 7:42PM

Rufus Wainwright is a GOD

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So, here's the thing. I'm a hag. A fabulous, unapologetic, screaming mad fan of gay pride. Half the boys I had crushes on before the age of 25 turned out to be gay. Don't bother asking why, because I don't know. It just sort of IS.

It kind of goes without saying that growing up, I was a massive fan of Elton John and Freddie Mercury.

I posted a few videos of Mika a while back (have since deleted because that post, like this, was a throwaway). Mika's sort of my latest imaginary Entourage Boy (that nod's to you, Mungular). But Mika--well, he's just a flavor of the moment. I don't see a lot of longevity there.

He'll never take the chamber of my heart occupied by my darling Rufus Wainwright. A few years back, a friend won tickets to a show of his and couldn't go. She gave them to me. I went with an icky Match.com date, but that's not the point. I fell absolutely, abjectly, head-over-heels with this darling, witty, catty, brilliant talent.

Rufus is the son of Canadian folk royalty (I know, I know; you didn't know there was such a thing): Loudon Wainwright III, and Kate McGarrigle. His sister Martha is a wonderful musician in her own right. 

He can be an acquired taste (which is to say, I am not allowed to play his CDs when Mr. Remedy is in the house), but oh, how I adore him. 

First, here's a cover:

Across the Universe (with Sean Lennon and Moby)

 


Next, one of his own compositions that slays me with a lance through the heart every time I hear it. "He asked me what my favorite work of art was...and never could I tell him it was Him." Gah! Sob!

The Art Teacher

 


A Rufus show is never short on camp. See Exhibit Z (usually the show-closer).

Oh What A World


Probably my favorite composition in his catalog so far: "Cigarettes and chocolate milk; these are just a couple of my cravings. Everything it seems I like's a little bit  stronger,  a little bit thicker, a little bit harmful for me."

Preach on, Rufus my honeybun.

Cigarettes and Chocolate Milk

 

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Cuz I'm lazy and I've run out of things to say.
I love his official video for across the universe with all the men floating in chairs very Rene Magritte. I'd never seen this one before. Thanks for the next half hour of music. Love to all the hags. We really have to come up with a new 21st century name for you girls.
Get on that, Tijo, would ya? Give us a new label. Other than, you know. Friends.
Nice selections. My fave is Leonard Cohen's "Hallelujah." He was also recently on Elvis Costello's fine interview/performance show "Spectacle," on the Sundance Channel. I'll leave others to comment on his hotness, but he sure is fun.
wow - as the four year old says about my current leonard cohen obsession, 'he's really very different, isn't he' ? :) thank you, now i may have a new obsession forming -
I looked for Hallelujah, Jimmy, but none of the available versions (mostly live and grainy) passed my stringent quality requirements.

I was cruising down the highway singing along with Want Two this afternoon. Damn fine music.
Okay, I won't characterize him as a "God", but he is damn good. And I am officially an aqueerius. Have been as far back as I can remember. What's your name again?
V.R., the Wainwright family has three generations of talent. Rufus' grandfather, Louden S. Wainwright was a long time columnist of Life Magazine and also happened to be a friend of my paternal grandfather. My brother who owns a sound company has had the good fortune to have worked shows with both Rufus and his father, Louden (not performing together, but at different times).
OK. Husband is sleeping in the room where I am snoring. I'll have to go and find a computer elsewhere and listen to him. You mentioned Freddie Mercury, so how could I not?

denese
Also a big fan of Rufus, Loudon, Kate and Martha.
Thanks for the tunes, fellow hag. Rufus is adorable.
rufus is definitely at the intersection of cute and fabulous (venn diagrams, anyone?)...and re your identification as a hag, here's how twisted i am--i identify as bi, and the women i'm most attracted to are always the hags (and we definitely need another word for that)--gimme that girly who likes girly men...or something like that
Okay. So I am going to totally brag. I was a music writer in Montreal when Rufus signed his first record deal record deal with Dreamworks. I tracked him down as soon as the rumor came out. And I did the FIRST media interview with him after he made that deal. And, somewhere, I have the demo tape he gave them, because the record wasn't even in production yet. I can honestly say I knew that guy when he was playing coffee houses for free. People up here were sick of him because he would play anytime, anywhere (which I say with affection. He really is a great guy, and deserves all the success.)
I love the "Across the Universe" clip. The camp thing is great, but he gets his humor from Dad. I hope you've heard, "Rufus is a Tit Man" or the "Shit Song" from dear old Loudon.
jealousing jealousing jealousing, Juliet!!!!

And designator, too...look at all the Rufuslinks on OS already!

Mister Comedy--oh, glory be, that's funny.

Cartouche--Aqueerius, eh? I like it!

Denese, hope I didn't mislead you; there's not a whole lot of Freddy in Rufus beyond the theatricality!
Love him. I saw him in concert in Iowa City a few years back. The audience consisted of me and many, many very giddy gay boys. Rufus pranced (yes, he pranced) onto the stage in tight leather pants and said, "Are these pants fabulous or what? Do you love them?" Oh, they really did.

Great show.
Rated for the passion; I'll have to give him a listen. Whenever I hear "Wainright" I think "Loudon" and then I think "Dead Skunk in the Middle of the Road", which probably isn't very representative. :-)
Did I mention we did the interview in the lower duplex he shared with Martha? His mom was living upstairs. It was such a great interview. He told me all about how he'd been kind of estranged from his dad. But then Loudon encouraged him to make the demo and sent it off to Van Dyke Parks who had started working with Dreamworks. The thing I remember the most was him telling me how when he was a kid he was obsessed with Judy Garland and used to pretend he was her, which explains the tribute record.
I'm a hag too. Or a former hag. I had lots and lots of gay boyfriends. I like to think of it as another girl scout badge I earned. Or that I like the sensitive types. I married one...That is, a sensitive type!

Loved this.
Well, once again you've expanded my musical knowledge by introducing me to someone I've never heard of before. Very nice VR. Thanks! Especially like across the Universe. One of my favorite tunes.
Not a total throwaway - great music is NEVER a throwaway. Thanks, VR!
I agree with the 'acquired taste' perception of his voice; it is very, very distinctive, a bleating, munchkin-like voice, not very suitable to choral pieces, or at least I didn't feel it made for great harmonies in your first selection. I am a fan now but every time I listen to him I need to re-adjust my ear to the sound of his voice for the first song or two. A remarkable songwriter and a very poetic, androgynous presence.
What about his Judy Garland??? I love his father as well. Fantastic folk and brilliant lyrics.
My fave is Mr. Izzard, although not gay. I saw him early in the Village when he wore tasteful St. John suits and minimal makeup and spoke French and talked politics and was so brilliant. He still hasn't had the acclaim he deserves.
I like your taste in music -- Rufus Wainwright is a favorite of mine. He's got a lot of space on my iPod.

If I were a contestant on "American Idol," (or if I miraculously became able to carry a tune, I should say), I would sing "Sansoucci," from "Release the Stars." It's such a lovely song.
You are so on , on this!!!!!
Count me in for the Rufus love-fest...(so to speak). As Juliet has already pointed out, Montrealers have been listening to him (and a good chunk of his family) for a good long time now.

He is currently penning an opera (!) that is due to have its world premiere in Toronto later this year, I believe...
Oh my. Thanks so much for this. (I so loved the McGarrigles, and haven't listened to them for years.)

I think he was in the "I'm Your Man" documentary about Leonard Cohen, yes? That was the first time I really saw him perform, and realized his connection to Kate McGarrigle.

Again, Oh My.
First paragraph? I knew that. Me too, drawn to the sensitive, artsy types. Elton & Freddy? No surprise there, Dearheart. Rufus is new to me. Quite the showman, from these clips. I'll "You Tube" for more.
Your eldest half-brother plays with Yoko Ono's nephew in and around Iowa City. A few years back they spent a night in her NYC flat, jamming with Shawn. He was just a kid . He sounds as if he inherited considerably more of his father's talent than Julian, in my opinion.
--rated--
You've tagged this post as a total throwaway, but for me, it was a new discovery. The only one I'd heard was Across the Universe. Listened to Cigarettes and Chocolate Milk three times; it's addictive!
I am also a hag. Love love love gay men and they love me. Rufus is amazing, been a long time fan. He was so good on the Cohen doc I'm your man.
Even lesbians have the hots for him. Have you heard him sing Leonard Cohen's (my alltime hero) Everybody Knows? He's totally adorable.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPtBjE0Qb5I
OMG, and Across the Universe-- Sean looks/poses like John, I've never really seen that in him before. Took my breath away.
Rufus has a huge following here. And not just among the giddy, gay boys or fag hags (God, how I hate that term... yeah, let's come up with one that respects those women who so appreciate gay men!). People go crazy over him. And I too was a McGarrigle fan.

Juliet, what a scoop that must have been!

Rated... for Americans appreciating our beloved Canadian idols.
Rufus is an Oscar Wilde fan. Definitely not a fag hag but I do appreciate talent and people who are prolific, persevering and persistent with range. Rufus fits the bill. I had never heard of him. Thanks for sharing.
Ha Juliette I have been to that lower-duplex apartment too! It was way back when...fifteen years maybe! Wow! I was a student in Buffalo and went to Montreal to visit my friend whose name I've forgotten but who was an accordion player and put herself through school by selling tickets in an XXX movie theatre and she said my friend's having a party and we went to his house and he and Martha were super nice and we had a great time but...when I used the bathroom they were out of toilet paper.

A few months later he had an album and a few years later big celbrities like Michael Stipe were praising his talent.

And let me add that Martha totally rocks in her own right too.
Yeah Cryptic. I did find the duplex charmingly messy. Then again I didn't have to use the bathroom.
I love Rufus! My friend played with him at the Equity Inaugural Ball. I think I have a link to them singing "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun " with Cyndi Lauper. Let me check and get back to you.
Mamoore, I WANT that link. Love Cyndi. What a combo!
The first time I ever heard Rufus Wainwright was on the 'I am Sam' soundtrack, covering Across the Universe. He is pretty amazing. And I love Elton John and Freddy Mercury too!
rated.
Wow. He's fabulous VR. Just the right amount of everything.

I was so intently listening to these that my husband (a musician) came in from the other room and said, "what's wrong with you? I've been yelling for 20 minutes now. WHO IS THAT GUY?"

denese
I love him. We went to see him perform in Dusseldorf and he and his band were incredible! My fave: Beautiful Child, Slide show.. but that is only the beginning of the list. Very singable in the car. I am thankful that my husband thinks he's awesome as well.
I've run out of things to say too so I'm doing a post on Wil.i.am. Loved Elton John too, before his pacemaker and his marriage.
He grows on you. He starts out somewhat disconcertingly weak, then builds into a powerhouse performance worthy of Broadway. I have never heard this fellow before, but will listen again!
Popped back in here today to hear Cigarettes and Chocolate Milk again. It's a fabulous antidote to the pop my daughter's friend insisted on playing on the way home from church.

There I was with an incurable Kelly Clarkson earworm, and Wainright to the rescue!

Love, love that song. Yummy.
Damn. I think his sideburns beat mine :D
Great post VR, thanks!
I thought my friend Catie had the video on her website of the inaugural ball but I can't find it -there is footage on youtube but it is pretty bad. It was Cyndi, Rufus, Thelma Houston, and Catie Curtis. I will check in w/ Catie and see if she has a better clip...Rufus looked beautiful that night, by the way.
I adore Rufus and have for what seems like ever...he makes me want to be a gay man :)

Also, he and Ben Folds did a delicious cover of "Careless Whisper." A must-hear.
Playing catch-up with your posts. I'm a Rufus fan, too, and had McGarrigle Sisters albums back in the day.

My theory: gay boy singers (or campy queens) appeal because they get to keep being the romance-lust-dream-swish-and-swirl dancing on the grass-spinning with our arms thrown out-singing-emotionally open adolescent girls we've had to leave behind or sequester.
Do you really think, he supposed to be called like the same only because he is gay and cannot be in your favorite list ever again, you said it right in your previous post about your thing you don't believe.
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