hi all its me again with your favorite installment. Ive been blogging about other matters with much more gravitas & havent posted on this in awhile. so Ive got a ton of pics & links. click on the pics to go to the ladies blogs.
the links are my own potpourri or cornucopia of wild & crazy gender related stuff in my favorite topical areas. generally from sites I scan regularly.
gender related stuff is of course quite prolific in the media. the media tends to blare stuff that is either intuitive or counterintuitive.
you see age-old debates constantly rehashed. such as monogamy vs promiscuity. or porn vs sex positive etcetera. after many yrs of thinking about it.... I think these are deep unresolvable archetypes in the human consciousness. the eastern concept of yin & yang captures this the best. as bohr said, "all great truths contain a paradox".
in my opinion the big fat seismic news in the monogamy front is the failure of the Moore-Kutcher marriage. its worth $290M and its a spectacular exploding hollywood relationship train wreck. I must admit Im personally chagrined, I liked 'em both, see 'em as playful, entertaining and dynamic and spontaneous/unpredictable, & think they made a cute power couple. maybe a little too spontaneous I guess!
now theres these persistent rumors that eg Moore is a *bisexual*, that they had an open marriage. if demi is bisexual, she must be more discreet than James Bond.
how could she keep that under wraps? I heard its a semi open secret in hollywood. which suggests that (a) maybe hollywood has a little more tolerance for this stuff than the rest of the planet [surprise] but also (b) a code of silence to keep it from the papparazzi if the stars want it quiet. surprising given the near-voracious & rapacious at-times nature of the papparazzi. hmmm, I smell an unauthorized biography coming on!
one of my favorite writers chelsea handler said that they had [past tense now!] an open marriage with threesomes, and that this led to twosomes, which then led to divorce! handler is not married last I checked haha. right? and I love her holier-than-thou attitude after publishing a book with a title like My Horizontal Life. one of the classics. I just finished her last book about her pimp-aholic father. apparently he has a big taste and big wallet for young jamaican maids. oh wait, I guess Im going off on a tangent here. or am I? :p
check out the links on celebrities that have 3somes, the guy in india with 39 wives, celebrities like lady gaga and tiger woods who've had 3somes, the iphone app to find your cheating spouse, etcetera.
then in our evopsych section we have the controversy over "erotic capital", the new idea that ladies should use their sexiness to get ahead in the workplace. an ancient idea dressed up in a new respectable/intellectual jacket by a new author.
otherwise... beautiful women have the same effect on the brain as cocaine! a concept that Ive been aware of since a teenager. but science confirms it. nichole shes-a-zinger certainly has that effect on me =)
also in this section, the *upside* of sexual objectification! yes ladies and gentlemen, thats right! there is a positive side! and, a scientific analysis of the perfect breast shape!
next, the mating market is about the so-called singles meat market. feminists might decry this but I think most males fully understand the concept. and the weird twist of *females* who visit strip clubs. yeah thats a real curve ball on so called "supply and demand"!
now its always been hard to meet & date truly quality members of the opposite sex, but these days with increasing economic equality & a near full shift in our economic system away from manual labor & mfging, we are seeing some unusual and new anomalies from the pt of view of history such as more uneducated, uncompetitive-compared-to-females males.
in the [non]conflict section theres a new view into the eternal "battle of the sexes" [or lack thereof]. one notable item is that in Saudi Arabia they're actually worried about women with sexy eyes covering them up and passing regulations for this! holy cow what an unbelievably repressed culture! can it get any more extreme? I do suspect its hit the high-water mark with them announcing that women are about to be granted the right to drive...
its quite bizarre to me sometimes how real headlines sound like they were written by the Onion! man if ever there was a society ripe for a sexual revolution, Saudi Arabia is it. and with the increasing prevalence of a disenchanted, chafing younger generation, its a ticking bomb just waiting to go off.
one thing to be thankful for... that we dont live there!
feel free to write comments on anything that "grabs" you, lets start a conversation... I check back frequently & usually reply.
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Monogamy Helps Geese Reduce Stress | Wired Science | Wired.com
Can Women Be Sex Addicts? | Sex & Love Addiction | Cheating Men & Infidelity | LiveScience
Fantasies, faking it, and feeling desired: The sexual secrets that reveal what REALLY turns women on in bed | Mail Online
5 Habits That Can Make Men Terrible at Sex (And What to Do About Them) | Sex & Relationships | AlterNet
5 Bad Habits Women Have In Bed - Date Report - Dating Blog | HowAboutWe
What's the Scientific Reason Women Have Orgasms? | Sex & Relationships | AlterNet
Is Porn Ruining Our Sex Lives? | Sex & Relationships | AlterNet
Not tonight, dear! Never mind sex, it's CUDDLES women can't stand | Mail Online
Women are 'having sex out of obligation, not enjoyment': How fun in the bedroom has slipped down list of priorities | Mail Online
One in three single girls has used a male 'friend with benefits' for sex | Mail Online
Demi Moore, Ashton Kutcher, Open Relationships, and Divorce - The Daily Beast
Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher Divorce: Why Celebrity Marriages Fail - YouBeauty.com
Ashton Kutcher and 'bisexual' Demi Moore to divorce amid claims couple practiced 'open marriage' | Mail Online
Darryl A. Cobbin: Open Marriage: A Celebrity Solution or a Contradiction in Terms?
The world's biggest family: Ziona Chan has 39 wives, 94 children and 33 grandchildren | Mail Online
Jason Biggs, Lady Gaga, Tiger Woods: Celebrities Who Have Had Threesomes (Photos) - The Daily Beast
‘The Secret Lives of Wives’: Is Cheating the Secret to a Happy Marriage? - The Daily Beast
Your Cheating Heart: iPhone App Finds Wife With Another Man - Yahoo!
'Wife-sharing' among brothers haunts Indian villages as number of girls decline | Mail Online
Women Should Use Sex to Get Ahead? Controversy Erupts Over "Erotic Capital" | Books | AlterNet
Rosie Huntington-Whiteley has 'same effect on men as cocaine' | Mail Online
The Science Of Attraction - People - Stylist Magazine
Plastic surgeon finds the ideal breast shape... by examining Page 3 girls | Mail Online
Too sexy, too laid back, too independent... Why some women just AREN'T wife material | Mail Online
The Upside of Sexual Objectification - Lifestyle - GOOD
Boys’ brains, girls’ brains: How to think about sex differences in psychology. - Slate Magazine
mating marketCheap dates - How the ‘price’ of sex has dropped to record lows - NYPOST.com
Buying stock in love - Great Recession | Economic Recession, Economic Crisis - Salon.com
'Free Sperm Donors' and the Women Who Want Them - The Daily Beast
Why DO women including Rihanna and Emma Watson visit strip clubs? | Mail Online
Why Do Men Visit Strip Clubs? Their Confessions Revealed | Sex & Relationships | AlterNet
Intelligent women forced to 'dumb down' and find a less-educated man to marry | Mail Online
Why men are in trouble - CNN.com
Women bloggers call for a stop to 'hateful' trolling by misogynist men | World news | The Observer
Saudi women with attractive eyes may be forced to cover them up, if resolution is passed | Mail Online
Study: More Than Half Of Women Are Attracted To... Other Women
Study: Single Men Not Afraid of Marriage or Having Kids - TIME
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