
Once I cooked...
Fast food served in throwaway packaging, working moms who just don't have the time their grandmothers did, prepackaged meals from Boston Market or Wolfgang Puck, all these are modern phenomena which were unheard of just a couple of generations ago.
While I suspect that the "demise of cooking" may be an overstatement, there is no doubt that far fewer families enjoy a home cooked dinner six or seven nights a week than they did a few decades ago. The pressures of a society in which almost two-thirds of moms hold a full time job have made this change almost inevitable. But that's not the only culprit. Girls in school used to be expected to take Home Economics courses which taught them to cook (as well as many other household duties), but since the advent of "Women's Lib", such academic pursuits have fallen out of favor. And if the female members of the Baby Boomer generation haven't learned to cook, what hope is there for their daughters?
Fortunately, there is a flip side. The popularity of Rachel Ray's "30 Minute Meals" program, and the sales of her books and others like them attest to the fact that moms and others are not disinterested in cooking, just frustrated that they don't know how they can accomplish the difficult task of preparing a meal for the family in the short period of time afforded them by their busy lifestyle.
A lot of the secret of Ms Ray's 30 minute cooking schedule lies in the choices of what to fix. Rice and pasta are at the center of many of her menus, simply because they can be prepared in about 20 minutes, package to plate. Using store-bought products like jarred spaghetti sauce may have been anathema to your grandmother, but are quite acceptable to all but the most diehard traditionalists today.

Fast food has had a profound effect on American's eating habits. A quick trip through the drive-in lane at Micky D's or the Colonel's and your dinner problem is solved. But every solution brings a new problem, and fast foods are cited by many nutritionists as a root cause of an unhealthy shift toward obesity and concomitant problems. A serving of fries and a cheeseburger adds up to over 1,000 calories, and that is fully a half to two-thirds the daily suggested limit for many people. Premature death resulting from heart disease, stroke, diabetes, fatty liver disease or cancer are just some of risks involved with becoming obese.
Some have blamed the microwave oven for much of the current state of affairs, saying that it makes it far too easy to just grab a frozen dinner out of the freezer, pop it in the microwave, and start eating a few minutes later. I disagree. While there is no doubt that the prepackaged meal is "nuked" nightly in a great many households, the microwave oven is a boon to genuine cooks as well. Why bake a potato in a conventional oven at 400f for nearly an hour when you can nuke it in under four minutes? That is not only easier on the cook, it is easier on the planet as well, since the energy requirement is far less than that of the electric oven.
Make ahead meals offer a solution to the time restraint problem. You can assemble, cook, pack and freeze many dishes which can later be taken out of the freezer, popped into the microwave, the oven, or a pot on the stovetop and be ready to eat in minutes, and you don't have to slave away in the kitchen for practically the whole day every Saturday or Sunday to prepare them.
So you can't have homecooked Southern fried chicken done ahead, that just won't work. But you can make lots of sauces and stews, both of the meaty and the veggy varieties, in advance and reheat them to serve over pasta or rice or even a baked potato, fresh from the microwave. Heck, you don't even need to spend the limited time these starch elements require - just make a quick stop at the supermarket and get a nice loaf of Ciubatta bread, cut it in half horizontally, and fill the cavity with beef, lamb or chicken stew, open a bag of salad mix and a bottle of your favorite table wine, and you're good to go in less than half an hour. Top that off with a palate-cleansing lemon gellato you also picked up at the WinnDixie and it's practically a gourmet dining experience.
Family participation can be a big and a satisfying part of meal preparation. What could be better than having your kids as sous chefs? They can do lots of the prep work, they will enjoy taking part and the feeling of involvement in a family activity.
So don't be afraid to plan and prepare a hearty and healthy meal the whole family will enjoy. Careful planning will allow you to get the job done in a jiffy, and with results that will put smiles on the faces of all the beneficiaries of your labor of love.

Now teenagers cook for me


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In the meantime, it ensures we sit down together at least once a day; we cooperate in meal preparation, during which my son also develops his math skills; my son considers pizza a rare treat, not a staple.
Slow cookers, microwaves, freezers and the rest make it possible to do these things with a little forethought and planning. The effort is entirely worth it.
People aren't getting married as young as they did in the early twentieth century--as a result, both girls AND boys should be learning to cook healthy, affordable, nutritious meals for themselves, never mind gender or even status as "mom." (I've never been a mom and never will be--I cook up a storm.)
So yes, by all means, bring back cooking in high school. But don't limit it to one gender, and give it its proper place. Dont call it Home Ec: make it a part of the Health curriculum, taking the place of [screwing around in the gym] "Physical Education" one semester each year.
As I commented in another blog, " I expect the little woman to cook for me, but I was upset to see that the sugar she put in my coffee came from a box with a picture of a dead rat on the side." '>)
... or maybe we just live in a place with no good restaurants.
Yeah, but can you make a good Fra Diavolo or Arabiatta? You can buy some damned fine ones at the local Piggly-Wiggly. Or, if not, at the local Italian market.
VR, you're just too damn quick. You posted your comment while I was writing the one about gender bias. I concur wholeheartedly.
HL, good restaurants I have no quarrel with, just the ones which hand you food out the window in a bag full of styrofoam boxes.
I'm a big fan of crock pot meals. Preparation time is typically minimal, and the result is usually quite good.
When my son was born we agreed we would eat at the table like the Cleavers and the Taylors from Mayberry did. I highly recommend it if you can do it.
As for my wife cooking? She's great when she does it. So am I. We split duties. She works just as hard as I do and I cannot in good conscience expect her to do everything. Sorry fellas, I not only blog 10-12 times a day, but I clean, cook, wash clothes and all the other things a husband/father must do. I sleep once a week between 6:00 - 8:00 a.m. on Sunday morning.
Maybe we ought to pressure the squirrel to give up some recipes.
I am not even going to tell you about cooking at home.
I usually just eat out all the time... and being a part-time vegetarian who refuses to go fast-food, it gets expensive.
Cooking and eating, once my soul pride and joy, has now become the bane of my existence.
It also helps economically if you buy the bulk meat and break it down for three nights' meals.
Lots of mouths to feed over here ... I think this is the KEY to healthy & homemade!!!
oooooh, I'm right behind you in the line!
When I was working, I'd make use of the broiled or rotisserie chickens that are sold at most markets. Simply tear off the meat, throw away the nasty skin, and stuff tortillas with chicken, cheese and black beans---cook in a skillet until the tortilla browns and the cheese melts---serve with a salad and light sour cream---or a mashed avocado (mixed with some fresh chopped jalapenos.
Or saute a diced onion or shallot in a pan, add canned or chopped fresh tomatoes, some herbs, maybe a can of garbanzo or white beans, some chicken stock and some cooked pasta, grate some parmesan---done.
Or toss cooked pasta with chicken meat, peas (frozen are fine) chicken stock, some milk or cream (no more than a quarter cup, 2% or better.)
The cooked chickens might be pricey---but the fast food/ restaurant food isn't free and with the addition of beans, you can stretch the protein, and none of the meals suggested take very long to prepare. And they are healthy and "home-cooked."
We had a "Bachelor's Club" at my first high school. It was an extra-curricular activity for boys who wanted to learn to cook. We met in the home ec classroom with the home ec teacher. At thirteen, I made my first lasagna in that class.
We both work full time and we are huge fans of the crock pot and doing the prep work ahead of time. Many foods can be made in bulk and frozen. Make enough to have tasty leftovers for a day or two.
I never took Home Ec. in high school. Seemed like a waste of time. I heard that a long time ago, women could go to college and major in Home Economics. That must've been strange. Who needs a degree to run a house? If you grew up in a house, you can pretty much run a house when you're an adult. Unless you're lazy and not enterprising.
I learned to cook from my grandmother. She was awesome at it, good southern food and always molasses at the end.
The supermarket sends out a quarterly recipe magazine with loads of ideas for quick meals. I save all the magazines. There's also the Fannie Farmer when it comes to traditional meal items.
I tell my son that good food takes time. It's not ready the instant you walk in the door.
Have you ever seen the movie "How to Cook Your Life"? It's all about having a connection with the food you eat.
I am transitioning from married to living alone. I don't have the umphh to make full scale healthy meals for one right now. So it's a lot of baked sweet potatoes and oatmeal and occasionally homemade spaghetti and meatballs or soup. I am in agreement in spirit, however the flesh is weak...
Great post.
I live in a rural that has no fast food at all. So, for me, McDonald's is actually a treat.
I have no idea how this came to be on the "most read" list, but strongly suspect that it was some glitch which put it there.
Rated & Cheers!
Lea, always good to hear from you.
Tonight I'm fixing boneless pork ribs with sweet and sour red cabbage. It will be tastier than anything I could get at the Burger-do, and lots cheaper, into the bargain. Added bonus - no Styrofoam cartons to clog up the landfill.
I don't believe that heating up jarred sauce or a prepared freezer items is cooking, any more than grabbing a fast-food meal, but I understand that not everyone can/will cook every morsel of food they eat on a daily basis. Making my own sauce or stock doesn't make me a professional chef. It means I am willing to make the time.
Economics also drives some decisions here, too. I refuse to use bagged salad anymore when I can buy myriad lettuces for the same price as a plastic container of "triple-washed" salad greens. Again, take a little time, it's worth it. You make a lot of great points about fast food and, while I can't stand her for a second, I will agree that RR does manage to show that cooking a meal can be easier than most people think.
Regarding the use of the microwave to save energy: a little planning and you can use your conventional oven to the max. For example --- when you're roasting that chicken, stick the potatoes (white and sweet) in along the sides as well along with a sheet of cut vegetables for roasting. Take the chicken out of the pan to rest, pour off the grease, and wilt some greens (arugula, swiss chard, spinach), right there in the still-hot pan; more than one or two meals there to be sure.
Instead of the picture you portray, which is admittedly too accurate for comfort, I think people are beginning to explore more local cuisine, cooking seasonally, and using meat as more of a seasoning than the main menu item. I hope I'm right. I haven't been to McDonald's in 15 years and hope to never go again.
My partner, my wife and I were discussing this earlier. The three of us all know how to cook relatively well but we find that in our age group (most of our friends are in the 25-35 set) a lot of people just flat out don't know how to cook.
So we thought instead of doing a wine & cheese tasting party or get together, we could possibly invite some friends over for an instructional workshop on how to actually COOK some of the food that we make and get such lovely compliments on. (As in, you know how much you love my baked meatballs and cheese? I'm going to show you how to make it!)
It sounded like a fun idea. Rated.
People cooks good.
The last time I cooked, there came a hearse driver. She was puffing and smoking a Kool? No. It was a tobacco mixture She got from the White House chief chefs.
It was No pipe or cigarette tho.
It was a exquisite spitting scroll.
I fear She spit some in my soups.
A hearse visits IF W. Gallant cook?
Practice the Hein`licks Removers?
I did heard that from a graveyard?
Henry J. Heinlich's Maneuver is awful.
The hearse driver hauls off eater Guest.
My effort fails to dislodge sweet pea soup.
My Guest leave and go to a ER room to moan.
The ER say:`Ya never get a EP @ Salon either.
The ER room is full. Guest got broke ribcages.
The dishes Wayne Gallant serves? Visit funeral?
Why? The Guest choke on nail files and toe nail?
No give free manicure @ any Salon dinner table!
P.S. No drop a nail file at the eulogy @ a funeral.
Guest who may attends ~ may have a PTSD dose.
The veterans will scream:`Hit the dirt! Incoming!
These days, I do most of it, but that's because I like it. We eat home cooked most of the time mainly because I don't think what I can get out is even close to what I can make at home. My husband has a few dishes he does very well and since he eats very few cooked vegetables he always has a big salad made that lasts for days. There are only 2 of us, but we make large amounts of food so there are leftovers, which often get made into something completely different.
This week's menu:
Monday - grilled steak , corn on the cob & salad. Sliced bell peppers and onions are also grilled up along side the steak & corn. I love my grill - no heating up the house and much less clean up!
Tuesday - fajitas made with leftover steak & peppers from previous day and salad. A pot of rice is also made and split up. Part of it is mixed with some salsa & black beans for this meal, the rest is reserved for the next meal the dog.
Wednesday - Grilled side of salmon (4 filets), with grilled asparagus and rice. The leftover salmon is my lunch the next day and made in to a spread for snacking.
Thursday - grilled pork chops a la Shawn, probably with baked beans (those are from a can, but we like them and I'm not arguing when he is doing the cooking) and salad.
Friday – probably leftover chops, perhaps mixed with the remaining rice & beans.
Weekends – a large batch of something is usually made with part of it eaten and the rest bagged & frozen...spaghetti sauce….shredded beef or pulled pork BBQ…beef stew, etc. These are great things to have for one night, but are even better when you can stop on the way home from work, pick up a baguette, a bottle of wine and heat up something out of the freezer for a quick and easy meal.
I believe that scratch cooking is a way of connecting with those around us, and those about whom we care, I am saddened that some many people today either choose not to cook, or simply don't have a clue.
For me, cooking is an art form, and a meditation, I try whenever possible to proselytize this joy of cooking with others.
From both an economic, and health perspective, cooking just makes sense.
But for those who aren't comfortable/happy in the kitchen, I'm glad there are "shortcuts" available. If jarred spaghetti sauce and bagged salad are what it takes to get some families to eat together, that's one less trip to the drive-thru. Baby steps.
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