zanelle

zanelle
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I am here in cyberspace trying to understand the true nature of reality. My artwork can be seen in the blog link below. My 'Sex and Love' articles can be seen on Hayley's Comments http://hayleyscomments.com/

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JULY 4, 2011 9:07AM

The Baby Boomers are a Mess

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   Here we come.  The Baby Boom Generation is retiring.  We are exhausted and broke.  Our health is precarious and we have few solid relationships to sustain us.  Our mental health is teetering on the edge of sanity and we have alienated many of the very people and resources that could help sustain us.  We don't like to work and we feel entitled to a pension and care.  We like to drink and eat sweets and our alcoholism and diabetes are rampant.  There are so many of us that we could overwhelm the welfare system with our needs.  We are spoiled and lost.  Traumatized by wars that don't matter and a world that is teeming with young people anxious to see our generation move along.  We take up valuable resources as we flounder about in our old age and we have burned all the bridges that were built by our parents' generation. 

   The WWII generation has almost passed.  The Boomers are struggling to help the last of them leave this earth and we make fun of our parents frailities.  We demand the best care for them and yet we are unable to provide it ourselves.   The WWII generation had a great safety net but their children have none.   Parents support and live with the Boomers and when they die we are left berift of social connections and funds.  We have spent our inheritance over and over again and we face crushing debt on a national and personal level.  We can't afford to continue the lifestyle our parents enjoyed since WWII.  Our future looks grim as there are so many of us and we are so needy.  Our parents are not proud of what we have become.

   The boomers are obsessed with sex, drugs and rock and roll.  We wallow in our addictions and let the practical business of surviving take last place.  The information age is crowned with a porn industry on the top of the highway.  Our fantasies and appetites have brought us to our knees and there is only one way to go and that is further down.  Our moral compass is pointing all over the place and anything goes.  We have seen all sides of life and our freedom to choose whatever lifestyle we want has led us in a million destructive directions.

   If we are to survive the next twenty years we should all just hope that the Boomers die quickly.  If they all linger with expensive medical treatments and no money to pay for them the systems will be completely depleted by the time the Boomer's children grow into their maturity.  The needs of the Boomers can only show how the system that so proudly developed to care for the WWII generation is too extreme to care for all of us.  We need a graceful way to step out of the way and not be more of a burden to the world.  We need to move along without doing any more harm to mother earth or our children.  We need good life insurance policies because that has become the way to navigate the future.  We are gambling on our deaths and we need to die and share the winnings.

   The Conservative Boomers are wailing about the Progressives and the two political systems have come to a grinding stop.  We are unable to work together in a civilized mannar and we will resort to violence when the impasses become too great.  I fear for the infighting that will develop as the Boomers become more and more needy.  We are taking giant steps backward and the Great Society that our parents hoped for so fervently is crumbling.  We are decending into a time of want and despair.  There are too many of us and we are going down.  

  This is just the impression I got at the BBQ I went to yesterday.  Happy Fourth of July????????????

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That POV went off like a Boom with good thoughts and ideas. Happy 4th to you>
Well. Now that was uplifting. Unfortunately I think it's also right on the mark. R.
Hmph.

Let's you and I make a deal eh? We'll drop in again when these last few generations get to that 'certain age' and see how they're holding up?

If they survive both the mess they're walking into and their own narrow field of vision.. sounds like a deadly combination to me though.

Rated for I wish this was tongue in cheek..
Powerful observations form a BBQ. I hope there is hope for us.
I remember my parents telling me how horrible it was to be in the great depression and that we will never have to live that way. Now we are coming full circle and creating our own.
rated with love
Geez, you've got us nailed! I thought you were writing my biography. At least you can jump on the 8 and zip over to Viejas for a bit of "retirement income planning", Zanelle! Can't do that here in Vista.
My o day. Please check out a Boomer Book?
I was given a Free book by Mr. Gus Russo.
I had the pleasure to meet and speak.
The Event was at UMBC College.
I loved walking the campus.
Catonsville, Md was my`
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old stomping grounds pre-draft into war.
Gus Russo wrote a paperback New book:`
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BOOMER DAYS.
We need Time?
We way behinds.
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believe by browsing the Boomer Days book will sure-Enough answer many Questions.
We need Care/Courage.
Ask Proper Questions.
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I really wonder many days.
I must go speak to someone.
Carry one-another burdens.
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I'd read a book by Wendell Berry too.
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WHAT MATTERS - Economics for a Renewed Commonwealth.

The forward is by Herman Daly. He's a professor at The University of Maryland.

Herman E. Daley wrote `
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FOR THE COMMON GOOD`
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ref economics hat is local/sustainable.
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BEYOND GROWTH, ECOLOGICAL ECONOMICS
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I hope we cease & desist the politico jingoistic lingo.
We must not eat balanced diet of green jelly beans,
and`
argue over what M & M taste best? Red, Black, White,
and I say`
baby blue`
better than`
green lettuce`
We need more`
Kale and garlic`
apple vinegar.
Great comments. I'm trying to find a little hope this morning. I do love living by Viejas, Walter. Somehow I find the Indian Reservation soothing. They take care of each other somehow. They are thriving. But all around them are the signs of decay and they are preying on the vulnerable people who are addicted to gambling. The retirement system of the Boomers. Ha. Yes.
I think Boomers also think that retirement is fun. However the reality is that it is tired and the burdens of life are amplified. I'm just hoping to go out with a little dignity. I look back and see all the other paths I could have taken and I wouldn't have wanted any of them. I'm happy with my life. I'm curious about the next thirty years. I think I have learned and honed down to a steel core that is going to get me through whatever happens. Boomers bounce back. We are good at that.
interesting impressions. but we're all in this together. a single generation cant mess up the whole system. there has to be accomplices. the generation after your is also known for its self-centeredness. as Ive studied in my blog, rise of wealth disparity and the power of multinational corporations have a lot to do with our current predicament. these are systemic shifts that are not necessarily due to a particular generation. I would argue the basic tension is rich vs poor or rich vs middle class & everyone else and not so much generational.
Yes, good point Uzn. This is a cycle that goes round and round. Each generation has its deadbeats and princes. I just saw a cross section of my generation at the BBQ yesterday and today I am going to a BBQ of my mother's generation so the contrast is stark. But you are right. The system of corporate greed and materialistic values has done us in more than anything. There is a dark hole where spirit should be in Boomer land and each person just has to fill it the best they can. I'm trying but it isn't easy. Keeping it simple helps.
Factually true, but it's all in how you look at it.
Ya know I love ya, zanelle - but I don't agree on your take on this one. I agree that SOME baby boomers are a mess. And I agree that some folks of all generations are a mess. But alot of us baby boomers thrive in all the areas you describe.

Granted, we have unique political and social realities to contend with - but no, I don't think that as a generation we are prone to emotional disturbance and fractured relationships.

I think in any life, no matter the timing of birth, folks have an awful lot of personal power to transcend virtually any hurdle.
I was taken care of (kind of) for 18 years of my life.
I took care of my mother for 18 and a half years of mine.
I took care of other people's kids for a long time.
I missed a lot of parties and barbecues and nightclubs and concerts.
I put myself through college and a chunk of grad school.
I served in the military.
I contributed to my social security for 24 years.
I have left my murals and name on the sides of buildings.
I have left my ideas and memories of good times in many hearts.
I inherited nothing. All that I have is from the generosity of strangers or by my own accomplishment.
I'm tired and I am retired.
My dues are PAID!

Now, I get to party like it is 1999.

This is a brilliant post that should be read on the TV and the radio.
I agree.. I can go anytime..:)
HAPPY 4TH
HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
I hope that was a joke a la Jonathan Swift. The worst thing we boomers did was to cop out of all the great stuff we set in motion: demonstations against war and discrimination, movements for organic food and healthy living, spiritual movements that got us in touch with the earth and away from materialism, women's liberation and evolvement, gay liberation, ecology and reverence for the earth, free to be you and me, creative individuality instead of automaton behavior, concerned political involvement from the grass roots up, and I could go on: Joan Baez, Dylan, Pete Seeger, idealism. I hate it when people knock the Sixties. The problem is all the conformists who switched to Me, Me, Me. Some of us didn't cop out and didn't make drugs our mantra. We still have a lot to offer, so tell those people at the BBQ to chill and respect people of all generations. Yes, another Sixties concept, diversity!
zanelle, you are great but i think i'm going to disagree. every generation has people who mess up. our country has problems and we could do a better job. i went to a picnic on friday night, all baby boomers except for one Buddhist Gen X potter (who added a great deal) and each person there was doing something wonderful to contribute to the world. the group had its share of typical Baby Boomer problems but even outside of employment and health issues, all were volunteering in the community in various causes to make life better. Find new friends, girlfriend!!!!
I was born in 1963, the tail end of the boomers, according to some. We're not too tired - yet. And we're getting pretty pissed off. Hope is not over or done. Pull up a chair and have a beer. At least take today off. :)
You make plenty of good points zanelle and I've made several of them myself, but you paint it pretty bleakly. The strain on pensions and health resources is undeniable. At least this will prompt most young'uns to set aside their discomfort with assisted suicide. Hell, some of them might even be willing to lend a hand. On our way out we should at least offer an apology for leaving them to deal with global warming and the growing divide between rich and poor. Also the casino financial system where just as in Vegas, the house never loses.

We can take some credit for greater rights for racial minorities, women and gays. But I'm not sure that will be in the forefront of the minds of many a couple of generations from now. I hope that at least your BBQ food was tasty.
zanelle, this is riveting. My husband was greedily reading it over my shoulder. WOW, he kept saying. You explain so clearly what I've been worrying about. Having worked in health care, I'm terrified the Boomers will bankrupt my children's generation. Many of you will have some money to leave to Gen X, but it'll be used up to pay for basic necessities and what'll be left to our kids will be negligible. Time to get busy building solutions.

Also, give yourselves a break. You also popularized mental health therapy and treatment, making marriages like mine and many others possible because there is real help now. Also your art and music is pure and timeless. You gave the next generation tools to heal and fix things. It's up to us to use them.

Happy 4th!
I think we should all hold hands and jump off the Grand Canyon. Problems solved, for now!
Speak for yourself, my dear.

Perhaps a little reminder is needed that the "Boomer" generation (the one I associate myself with) embraced recycling, renewable resources, small planet identity, expansion of consciousness, demonstrations for peace and civil rights, honoring ethnicity, deconstructing racism, supporting women's rights, spiritual inquiry, communal living, self-reliance, shared responsibility, living off the grid, health food, developing and sharing back-to-the-land skills, organic farming, tolerance and love (not to mention colorful and creative clothing, homes and vehicles.) In fact, just about anything decent and delightful in the world today was fostered and nurtured by the counter culture, and the counter culture was nurtured and fostered by the boomer generation. Perhaps we were just a small subset of the larger, but if so we were a mouse that roared -- and our call continues to reverberate in the hearts of everyone that truly gets that we are all in this together, and ALL IS ONE.
I like the advice to "Get New Friends!" Good thought. The world and the universe exist "out there" and we are just in charge of our own little bubble and this present moment. Right now I am fine. So I will go on from there. Good people are in the world along with the losers. I thought it was about fifty fifty at the BBQ yesterday. And who is to say that the losers will not be just fine and the winners will lose in the future. People can do amazingly good things with their lives.
What really touches me is to hear all the good things the Boomers did and to pat myself on the back. I left some good kids to follow me and I helped lots of people on their journeys thru this world. Life can be beautiful and I intend to keep it moving along somehow in spite of a few bumps in the road. Thank you Thank you for all the great comments.
the whole world is a mess. But there's so many of us baby boomers our stink is more noticeable.
Yikes, realism. Who needs that on a holiday? (Excellent post.)
well you raise some valid points. I believe baby boomers tend to be self-absorbed. The US is experiencing a very bad economy, and these are tough times to be older than 45. So why beat up the Boomers? Much of what you said may be right on target; but how do Boomers change the reality of the times and events that formed us? Do you believe the Boomer generation has taken more than it has given? In our primes, we were very productive.
Distrubingly truthful post. Whoever says ALL IS ONE is dreaming in makebelief world.
I am at the tail end of the boomers born in 1959. In the hospital I work in the boomers want everything done to extend their lives to forever. At whatever cost to the system, they feel they deserve it all. New knees at 77yo, new heart valves, new hips and so on. No one is going to not be at their peak, or get 'old'. Many get sicker just going for these surgeries. But walk slower, slow down, sit down is not an option. I don't know how I will feel, but I know at 52 I am slowing up and it doesn't seem that bad to me, not bad enough for a hip replacement so I can still play tennis at 85yo. I am not sure how any health system can survive this type of stay young at any cost mentality. REally good post.