MY RECENT POSTS
- President Obama, On Wednesday
Be the Man We Campaigned For
September 04, 2009 09:21PM - Blast Those 6th Graders and
Their Blasted Cell Phones
September 01, 2009 09:38PM - Clone Me Up, Buttercup, But
Don't Break My Heart
August 31, 2009 10:33PM - In my Next Life I want to be a
Dog
August 29, 2009 09:12PM - When the Voice in Your Head is
Someone Else's
August 27, 2009 06:17PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “But at least you're
still trying! I'm having too
many glass
half empty days
late…”
August 29, 2009 09:28PM - “Wow! What a great idea.
I have to do this.”
August 26, 2009 08:25PM - “Oh my. My heart goes out
to you. Sharing your life
with
someone who struggles
w…”
August 16, 2009 04:12PM
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President Obama, On Wednesday Be the Man We Campaigned For
If I could write Wednesday's Congressional speech for President Obama, I would focus on leadership, vision and a call-to-action. Why? Because my 15-year0old daughter campainged from Mr. Obama, and asked to go to Washington D.C. on inaugural weekend rather than have a … Read full post »
Blast Those 6th Graders and Their Blasted Cell Phones
Well, it's happened again. Today was the first day of school for our 11-year-old. And upon arriving home from school, she did not at first regale us with stories about how funny her first-ever male teacher was or how much fun it was to see all her friends. No, she… Read full post »
Clone Me Up, Buttercup, But Don't Break My Heart
The first time I heard that scientists had cloned a mammal, I was aghast. Why in the world would anyone think that's a good idea, I mused. But now, with two kids, two dogs, a cat, a house, and a "this ain't your standard 40-hour-a-week, full-time job, lady", I say....
Clone… Read full post »
In my Next Life I want to be a Dog
In my next life, I want to be a dog. Well, let me clarify that a bit. I want to a dog living with a man who loves dogs. For a while now, I've tried to act more like a dog, but doggone it, it's much harder than it looks. We… Read full post »
When the Voice in Your Head is Someone Else's
Recently, I had what I would have to call an, NPR out-of-body experience. I was reading the newspaper and came across a book review written by Maureen Corrigan. For those of you who don't know her, she teaches at Georgetown University and write books reviews for newspapers and NPR. … Read full post »
Five Books for Life
I just read "abeerforbreakfast's" Life in 5 books, and liked the idea so much, I had to do my own version. So...
Early Childhood: The Sneetches by Dr. Suess. This is one of the only kids' books I can ever remember owning as a family. My mom would read it to my… Read full post »
Signs of a Dead Marriage
How do you know when your marriage is truly dead? When a person dies, there are tell-tale signs that he or she has died. Her pupils are fixed a dilated. There are no breath sounds. Her heart has stopped beating. But, with a marriage the signs can be so subtle as/… Read full post »
Teenagers: Can't live with them, can't.... live with them
There are days when I cannot understand why some parents seem to always be yelling at their kids, and then there are days when I can't understand how they don't. Today is one of those days. My teenager is making me crazy!
I know all those parents out there with… Read full post »
Taking the Spouse in for an Upgrade
For years, whenever I can't remember doing something with my spouse, I have quipped, "You must have done that with your other wife". My kids have even given "his other wife" a name, and she frequents our conversations, especially after my husband has been away on busin… Read full post »
There's Nothing Like a Thunder Storm to Bring Back Memories
Tonight is one of those nights that makes you want to curl up in bed with the windows wide open and listen to the storm. Thunder and lightning and buckets of rain, oh my!
When I was little and there was a storm, my mom would throw open the front door… Read full post »
A We Without the Me
For this first time in a very long time, I'm coming to the close of weekend alone. My younger daughter is staying with a friend for a few days, I'm away on a business trip, and my husband and older daughter are home.
Yesterday, I worked all day, so my mind was… Read full post »
A Me Without the We?
When you spend more than half your life with someone, it often becomes less about who you are individually, and more about who you are together. This is especially true once you become parents.
Not long before our first daughter was born, I was dumbfounded by how I went from being… Read full post »
Weekend With Only My Thoughts for Company
Normally, a weekend sans husband, kids, dogs and our cat would be pure bliss. Time to read, time to relax, and time to do whatever I want, whenever I want, whereever I want. Are you kidding me? Really? OMG! (Funny how the OMG! adopted with such gusto by my… Read full post »
No longer all alone
As someone brand new to blogging, I can certainly see the attraction. To get comments and advice from people I've never even met definitely removes some of the 'I'm in this all alone' feeling that has plagued me for the past couple of months. Thank you!
It's the end of a very… Read full post »
can't sleep
Can't sleep. That's another side effect. Normally I might turn on the television, something that usually puts me back to sleep in minutes. But, now I worry that I'll stumble on a movie that I used to love, and now can't stand. Sappy love stories and romantic comedies have alwa… Read full post »
21 years of marriage and no longer counting
After 21 years of marriage, I think it may be time to stop counting. My husband, whom I have known and loved for more than half my life, can't decide if he wants to be married to me anymore.
Since he told me this two months ago, I have been vascilating… Read full post »

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