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<rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" version="2.0"><channel><title>toritto's Open Salon Blog</title><description>toritto's Blog</description><link>http://open.salon.com/user.php?uid=55725</link><lastBuildDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:06:14 -0400</lastBuildDate><item><title>Truth is Coming - Ed Snowden</title><description>

&lt;p style="text-align: center"&gt;&lt;img src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/KlV7E5FC4ISwoxmVsqTbzw--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTYzMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en/blogs/thelookout/edward-snowden-lg.jpg" alt=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Excerpts from an on-line interview between Edward Snowden, America's most wanted, and the Guardian newspaper in the U.K.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"&lt;span style="color: #767676; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22px"&gt;I&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: #767676; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22px"&gt;pointed out where the NSA has hacked civilian infrastructure such as universities, hospitals, and private businesses because it is dangerous. These nakedly, aggressively criminal acts are wrong no matter the target. Not only that, when NSA makes a technical mistake during an exploitation operation, critical systems crash. Congress hasn't declared war on the countries&amp;mdash;the majority of them are our allies&amp;mdash;but without asking for public permission, NSA is running network operations against them that affect millions of innocent people. And for what? So we can have secret access to a computer in a country we're not even fighting? So we can potentially reveal a potential terrorist with the potential to kill fewer Americans than our own Police? No, the public needs to know the kinds of things a government does in its name, or the "consent of the governed" is meaningless."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: center"&gt;"snip" &amp;nbsp; (hehe)&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;He was asked to elaborate on how much "direct access" the NSA had to phone-call records and if analysts could listen to the content of domestic calls without a warrant.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p id="yui_3_8_1_20_1371499394671_236" style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"The reality is this: if an NSA, FBI, CIA, DIA, etc analyst has access to query raw SIGINT databases, they can enter and get results for anything they want. Phone number, email, user id, cell phone handset id (IMEI), and so on&amp;mdash;it's all the same," Snowden replied. "The restrictions against this are policy based, not technically based, and can change at any time. Additionally, audits are cursory, incomplete, and easily fooled by fake justifications."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Under authorization of the Foreign Intelligence Surveillance Act,&lt;/strong&gt; Snowden continued, &lt;strong&gt;"Americans&amp;rsquo; communications are collected and viewed on a daily basis on the certification of an analyst rather than a warrant. They excuse this as 'incidental' collection, but at the end of the day, someone at NSA still has the content of your communications":&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #767676; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22px"&gt;All of it. IPs, raw data, content, headers, attachments, everything. And it gets saved for a very long time&amp;mdash;and can be extended further with waivers rather than warrants.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: center"&gt;"snip"&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;Snowden was also asked why he did not fly directly to Iceland, where he told the Guardian he would have preferred to seek asylum:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;blockquote style="margin: 10px 26px; padding: 10px 0px 10px 25px; color: #767676; border-left-width: 1px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: #cccccc; line-height: 22px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leaving the US was an incredible risk, as NSA employees must declare their foreign travel 30 days in advance and are monitored. There was a distinct possibility I would be interdicted en route, so I had to travel with no advance booking to a country with the cultural and legal framework to allow me to work without being immediately detained. Hong Kong provided that. Iceland could be pushed harder, quicker, before the public could have a chance to make their feelings known, and I would not put that past the current US administration.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;Snowden, who said he had not had contact with the Chinese, scoffed at speculation that he would provide classified information to the Chinese or other governments in exchange for asylum.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"This is a predictable smear that I anticipated before going public, as the US media has a knee-jerk 'RED CHINA!' reaction to anything involving [Hong Kong] or the [People's Republic of China] and is intended to distract from the issue of US government misconduct," Snowden replied. "Ask yourself: if I were a Chinese spy, why wouldn't I have flown directly into Beijing? I could be living in a palace petting a phoenix by now."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;He also responded to the argument, made by U.S. officials, that the NSA spy program has foiled dozens of terror plots:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;blockquote style="margin: 10px 26px; padding: 10px 0px 10px 25px; color: #767676; border-left-width: 1px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: #cccccc; line-height: 22px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Journalists should ask a specific question: since these programs began operation shortly after September 11th, how many terrorist attacks were prevented SOLELY by information derived from this suspicionless surveillance that could not be gained via any other source? Then ask how many individual communications were ingested to acheive that, and ask yourself if it was worth it. Bathtub falls and police officers kill more Americans than terrorism, yet we've been asked to sacrifice our most sacred rights for fear of falling victim to it.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;Snowden thinks his revelation of the NSA spy program gives President Barack Obama &lt;strong&gt;"an opportunity to appeal for a return to sanity, constitutional policy, and the rule of law rather than men. He still has plenty of time to go down in history as the President who looked into the abyss and stepped back, rather than leaping forward into it."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;Snowden added that he's become disillusioned with the public debate over his leak:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #767676; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22px"&gt;Initially I was very encouraged. Unfortunately, the mainstream media now seems far more interested in what I said when I was 17 or what my girlfriend looks like rather than, say, the largest program of suspicionless surveillance in human history.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p id="yui_3_8_1_20_1371499394671_245" style="margin: 11px 0px 0px; padding: 0px; font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;Edward Snowden finally noted that&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;the truth about the government spying program he revealed will eventually come out, regardless of what happens to him.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;"&lt;strong&gt;All I can say right now is the US Government is not going to be able to cover this up by jailing or murdering me,"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 22.453125px"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"Truth is coming, and it cannot be stopped.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="text-align: left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/17/truth_is_coming_-_ed_snowden</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/17/truth_is_coming_-_ed_snowden</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:06:58 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>No Stairs</title><description>

&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;img id="cid_1145950" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline" src="/files/100_04911301971323.jpg" alt="100_0491" hspace="5px" width="485"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I live in a house with no stairs.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Eighteen hundred thirty two square feet&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;three bedrooms, two baths two car garage.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;A&amp;nbsp;lanai.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Houses with stairs are for the young.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;People who live in houses with stairs&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;go to work everyday&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;have kids and a dog.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Coming downstairs in the morning&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;is the beginning of&amp;nbsp;a commute.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kids go upstairs to their rooms&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;before slamming the door.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Men walk upstairs behind their wives&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;admiring the turn of her hip&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;knowing they will soon be taking off&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;her night gown.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I am alone in my house with&amp;nbsp;no&amp;nbsp;stairs.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Me and my cat.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Cats are less trouble.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;You don&amp;rsquo;t have to walk them.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I don&amp;rsquo;t need stairs anymore.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The kids are gone off&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;living their own lives.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;There is no woman to follow&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;upstairs at night.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;When I get up in the morning&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;there is no place I have to be.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;There is laundry day.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Food shopping day.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Vacuum the house with no&amp;nbsp;stairs day.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Doctor's appointment day.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;And I can always do it tomorrow.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I can spend stormy days&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;in my robe if I like.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;No one is coming&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;to the door.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I live in half&amp;nbsp;the house.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The back half.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Near&amp;nbsp;the television and the &amp;nbsp;microwave.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Near the lanai where I have my espresso&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;and &amp;nbsp;a Macanudo.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;I dust the other half of the house&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;while spending my day&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;writing poetry.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Who has it better?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;And I think about what went before&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;All the choices, great and poor&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;and how I never thought I'd miss&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;the slamming of that old screen door.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt;

</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/16/no_stairs</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/16/no_stairs</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 05:06:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Poppa Was a Union Man</title><description>

&lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;a repost for Father's Day&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;img id="cid_1011721" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline" src="/files/your_mom_and_dad_edited1294435472.jpg" alt="Your_Mom_and_Dad_edited" hspace="5px" width="485"&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Danny and Mary in front of our little house - circa late 1950s&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The ghost in the doorway is me.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;My father was a union man; a member in good standing of the International Hod Carriers, Building and Common Laborers Union of America. In the 1960s the name was shortened to the Laborers International Union.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Domenico was the youngest son of Italian immigrants making their way in a new country.Everyone called him Danny.&amp;nbsp;As a young man he was&amp;nbsp;quite good looking in that Italian sort of way. Slender, muscular and dark with a pencil mustache.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Danny had only one problem.He had epilepsy.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He had been hit by a car as a child while riding his bicycle and suffered a head injury. At least that is what I have been told by people who would know. Maybe it is true. Maybe not.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Epilepsy was something one never talked about in those days.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Ever.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;The general attitude of people at the time was (a) its hereditary - or worse - contagious ; (b) it was associated with "feeble mindedness" and violence and (c) many thought those with epilepsy needed to be institutionalized.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Eugenics was all the rage in America.Many states would not permit those with epilepsy to marry. Missouri was the last to repeal this law in 1980!. Blood banks wouldn&amp;rsquo;t take your blood until 1987. Employers would fire you after the first seizure on the job. General practitioner physicians had little to offer you and patients were afraid they would be reported to the health department.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Danny had to leave school after the 8&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;&amp;nbsp;grade because of the disease.&amp;nbsp; No epileptics allowed.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;I was twelve years old the first time I saw my father seize. It was the first time I saw him cry because it happened in front of me.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;My mother warned me not to breathe a word of it to anyone - not to my friends, not at school, not to my younger brothers.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;During the depression dad joined the Civilian Conservation Corps. There was no work for an Italian with an&amp;nbsp;8th grade education. It seemed like a good idea. He was sent to California to work at Yosemite - and then sent home after a seizure.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He was of course unfit for military service when war came.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;By this time he had married my mother, &amp;nbsp;Mary.&amp;nbsp; She had lived across the street with her 4 brothers and sisters. Her mother died and the State in it&amp;rsquo;s wisdom would not permit an Italian immigant with no wife to raise five children. She was sent to an orphanage in Tarrytown, New York.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;When she turned 18 she had to leave the orphanage so she returned home with her little suitcase. Her father, my maternal grandfather had remarried and was not interested in taking his grown children in - even temporarily.&amp;nbsp; My mom had a few bucks, no job and couldn't drive.&amp;nbsp; My father&amp;rsquo;s mother, Grandma Laura took her in off of the streets.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Love blossomed and Danny and Mary married in November 1941.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Danny now had responsibilities. The primary issue was how to make a living.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He had no education.&amp;nbsp; He had no health insurance nor the money to see a neuro-specialist.&amp;nbsp;Our local Italian pharmacist gave him Dilantin and Phenobarbitol without prescription which poppa took everyday. Many times as a kid I picked up his drugs. Nobody would suspect a kid.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Eventually he got a job; the only job he could get.&amp;nbsp; He got a job as a common laborer, pushing a wheel barrow eight hours a day for an Italian owned constrution company. A few months after starting work he joined the union.&amp;nbsp; He carried cement and mortar from the mixers to the brick layers. Nothing but brawn and sweat. No brains required. No thinking required. Just the labor of a poor man with a wife and eventually three kids.&amp;nbsp; They knew he had epilepsy.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He did&amp;nbsp;the work&amp;nbsp;everyday his working life. He went to work rain or shine. If it rained he came home. You didn&amp;rsquo;t get paid when you didn&amp;rsquo;t work. Many weeks in Winter he had no work.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Union membership came with health benefits.&amp;nbsp; He got his epilepsy under reasonable control - I only saw him have two more seizures all of his life.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;When we needed a bigger apartment with the birth of my youngest brother we rented a small house.&amp;nbsp; Several years later the owner wanted it for his own son.&amp;nbsp; We moved.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Poppa was able to buy us a two bedroom "bungalow" on the fringes of Coney Island - on a dirt street.&amp;nbsp; I slept on a Castro Convertible in the living room while my two brothers shared a tiny bedroom in bunk beds.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Poppa paid $5,000 for the house. The former owners held the mortgage privately.&amp;nbsp; It wasn't much of a house even by standards of the day but we always had a roof over our heads and food on our table and serviceable clothes to wear.&amp;nbsp; We always had the necessities of life.&amp;nbsp; No vacations.&amp;nbsp; No fancy car - a '51 blue Chevy.&amp;nbsp; Hand me down clothes.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;But we were never hungry or homeless.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Poppa never earned more than $10,000 in any year his entire life.&amp;nbsp; Most years it was more like $7,000 &amp;nbsp;- 8,000.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He was able to shelter, clothe and raise a family on what he was able to earn himself.&amp;nbsp; Mom was always home for us.&amp;nbsp; He was paid a living wage for his sweat.&amp;nbsp; The owners still made plenty of money as did their competitors, the Trumps who also were building low-mid rise apartment buildings all over Brooklyn and Queens.&amp;nbsp; Donald Trump's father paid union wages and still left a fortune of $400 million to Donald and his siblings.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;And he was able to make his way in the world only because he was a union man. He had a dignity and pride in his work and would point out apartment building and projects that he had worked on&amp;nbsp;if we passed them on a Sunday drive.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He never considered his work demeaning or of no consequence - his sweat mark is still everywhere in Bensonhurst and Flushing.&amp;nbsp; His work had a dignity of&amp;nbsp;its own because&amp;nbsp;a union wage allowed him to care for those he loved.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He never felt like a slave.&amp;nbsp; He was a worker and was never ashamed of what he did or what he was.&amp;nbsp; And he knew what he was.&amp;nbsp; He wasn't "middle class" or "white collar".&amp;nbsp; He had no way to make a living but to sell his labor.&amp;nbsp; He knew he was a worker and in solidarity with all others who had no accumulated wealth to live on.&amp;nbsp; But because he earned a living wage he had dignity.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;It was all he ever wanted.&amp;nbsp; A fair wage, a little house, an education and a future for his children; a comfortable old age.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;He could look forward to a union pension when he retired as well as social security.&amp;nbsp; He never made it.&amp;nbsp; He died at 56 from emphysema - probably from all of those years breathing in cement dust.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;His two remaining living sons wound up bankers and Wall Streeters - but we never forgot from whence we came - and&amp;nbsp; all the others now making the journey.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;A living wage gives dignity to work and to the men and women who toil at those "menial" &amp;nbsp;jobs.&amp;nbsp; It gives them the self respect to look you in the eye without shame, knowing they too can care for their own.&amp;nbsp; If you can support your&amp;nbsp;family or support yourself on what you earn, the job is no longer by definition "menial"&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;This nation will not live up to its ideals until all within her jurisdiction&amp;nbsp;can obtain&amp;nbsp;basic medical care.&amp;nbsp; All within her jurisdiction receive adequate nourishment; all within her jurisdiction have shelter; all receive a quality education.&amp;nbsp; And all who work full time receive an adequate wage.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Don't say we don't have the money.&amp;nbsp; We know where the money is.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;My dad's&amp;nbsp;proudest achievement aside from his marriage to my mom and his three sons was that he and his older brother Angelo helped build the United Nations complex - which he viewed as a monument to those who sweated in its construction.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; They made their little contribution to something they knew was important; something they knew would last.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Whenever I passed it I thought of them.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;And although I haven't been to F.D.R. Drive in years I would like to assure them.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;It&amp;rsquo;s still there Pop and Uncle Angelo.&amp;nbsp; It&amp;rsquo;s still there.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Happy Father's Day.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline" align="center"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline" src="http://mw2.google.com/mw-panoramio/photos/medium/614229.jpg" alt="UN Building" width="341" height="500"&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
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</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/14/poppa_was_a_union_man</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/14/poppa_was_a_union_man</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 10:06:52 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Grandma's Windows</title><description>

&lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt; &lt;img style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline" src="http://sivanaskayoblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Napoli17.jpg" alt=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Moonlight never shined&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;across her bed of dark pecan&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;through the small minded windows&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; 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text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;the outside from the in;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Windows that moved up and down&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;refusing to open;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;painted shut, held rigid&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;by decades of enamel and decay&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;facing inward on&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;a tenement courtyard&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;untouched by moonlight;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;no framed scene of tree or sea.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;When young she never noticed&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;the long Winter night&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;while filling the oil lamp&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;or by a candle's light&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;for the moon shined bright through&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;the tall windows of Naples;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;windows that opened outward; outward&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;to the people and the world.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; text-align: center"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Along the path of dreams&lt;span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; 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</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/13/grandmas_windows</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/toritto/2013/06/13/grandmas_windows</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 22:06:09 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Lesbian Life</title><description>

&lt;p style="text-align: center; margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;&lt;img id="cid_8313784" src="/files/photo1371086079.jpg" alt="photo" hspace="5px" width="285"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Remember when Obama came out in support of same sex marriage?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;The &amp;nbsp;Sunday morning "news" shows and respected journalists were yammering about whether or not coming out for same sex marriage would help or hurt Obama&amp;rsquo;s re-election efforts.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;"Sixty percent of those polled indicate his stance wouldhave no effect on their vote; 16% said they are less likely to vote for him while yadayadayada."&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;While the fight goes on over DOMA in the SCOTUS, my married lesbian niece and her partner in Massachusetts live their lives. My niece has a three year old biological daughter (from the bank) and her partner just had a daughter today with the same father, making the girls half sisters.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;&amp;nbsp;They have a lovely home, work every day, pay their taxes, shop for food, service the car, shovel the snow, cut the grass, haul pellets for the wood stoves, go to church (Unitarians - yeah I know; that don't count right?), worry about the quality of schools, worry about "having two mommies", save for college educations, pay their health insurance. etc. They get along with their neighbors, have straight and gay friends, see family regularly and on holidays, even go on vacation once in a while - and bother no one.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Exciting the lesbian life ain't it?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;They have family who love and support them in their life's quest for happiness. &amp;nbsp;I am among them.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When they married I got a special call - would I be there? It was important to them. We were there - me and my girls and their men - with bells on. One of the best fun weddings I ever attended.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Should they have lived a lie because other people think they should? Perhaps have married men and faked it?&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think not, though each of them is lovely and could have easily found a man if that was what they wanted.&amp;nbsp; They took the harder road.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Should they live as a second class citizens because someone else thinks they should?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think not.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;Meanwhile be assured, if you had any doubt, straight people still get married in Massachusetts.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Twenty five years from now folks will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about. &amp;nbsp;It is people like my niece who are changing facts on the ground. &amp;nbsp;They are building new families, not waiting for others to give them approval. &amp;nbsp;Eventually the law will catch up.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Meanwhile join me in celebrating the arrival of Chloe with her big sister Grace!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 18px 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: baseline"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;

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