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<rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Proud and Progressive's Open Salon Blog</title><description>You Know I Always Wanted A Pony</description><link>http://open.salon.com/user.php?uid=11008</link><lastBuildDate>Fri, 1 Jun 2012 00:06:33 -0400</lastBuildDate><item><title>I Must Be Hallucinating!</title><description>
&lt;span style="font-family: times, serif; line-height: normal; font-size: 11px"&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10.8333px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;Really. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10.8333px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;I must be hallucinating.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;Or am I the only person in the whole country who understands how income taxes are assessed?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;I can't be the only person. &amp;nbsp;I know all of you at Open Salon are smarter than the average right wing media nut. &amp;nbsp;And you're lots smarter than Christine O'Donnell.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;I wanted to scream at the TV and at Chris Coons, when in their nationally televised debate on October 13th O'Donnell said &amp;nbsp;"What you fail to realize is the so-called rich are the&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="color: #366388; cursor: pointer; background-color: transparent; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-color: initial"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #366388"&gt;&lt;span&gt;small business owner&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, the dry-cleaner down the street, the pizza shop owner who makes $300,000 before they pay their four employees..."&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;Wrong! &amp;nbsp;In fact a flat-out lie! &amp;nbsp;She does not understand how taxes are assessed. &amp;nbsp;And Coons did not correct her. &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;What O'Donnell and others like her fail to realize is that taxes are assessed on net income, after all deductions are taken.&amp;nbsp; If a dry-cleaner made $300,00 in sales, they would deduct&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="color: #366388; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; border-bottom-color: #366388; cursor: pointer"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #366388; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; border-bottom-color: #366388; cursor: pointer"&gt;&lt;span&gt;operating expenses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;like payroll, rent, utilities, insurance, and supplies to arrive at a&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="color: #366388; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; border-bottom-color: #366388; cursor: pointer"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #366388; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 2px; border-bottom-color: #366388; cursor: pointer"&gt;&lt;span&gt;taxable income&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. &amp;nbsp;They're called deductions, Ms O'Donnell, Mr Limbaugh, Mr Beck, Ms Palin and the rest of you! &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;I was equally frustrated during the last presidential campaign when no one corrected those who jumped on Joe the Plumber's bandwagon. &amp;nbsp;He thought if he bought a plumbing business worth $250,000, he would be assessed income taxes on $250,000 before his deductions. &amp;nbsp;And he thought he'd be taxed at one rate for the entire $250,000. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;Also wrong.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10.8333px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 15.8333px"&gt;&lt;sub&gt;You see, we have a progressive tax in the United States. &amp;nbsp;We are taxed at different rates for different dollars earned. &amp;nbsp;If an individual earned $300,000 in taxable income in 2009, he would be taxed at 10% for the first $8350 earned, then 15% for $8351 - $33,950, 25% for $33, 951 - $82,250, 28% for $82,251 - $171,550, and 33% for $171,551 - $300,00. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/sub&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;Because the media (and Democrats) allow this mis-information to be repeated over and over again, many Americans think that Obama wants to raise taxes on the average Joe. &amp;nbsp;If the Bush tax cuts are not extended for those making over $250,000, only that portion over $250,000 would be taxed at the higher rate. &amp;nbsp;That's after deductions are taken, like mortgage interest, property tax and charitable contributions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;How come nobody seems to correct politicians and the media talking heads when they incorrectly talk about how taxes are assessed. &amp;nbsp; How come they allow people like O'Donnell to scare Americans into thinking that those of us on the left want to raise taxes on small businesses and the the little guy? &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;Ms O'Donnell, I am a small business owner and I have never come close to earning $300,000 in taxable income. &amp;nbsp;If I ever do, I would think I was one of the so-called rich!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10.8333px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px"&gt;Or maybe I'm just hallucinating.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="margin: 0px"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2010/10/19/i_must_be_hallucinating</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2010/10/19/i_must_be_hallucinating</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2010 20:10:29 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Has the Right ever done anything right????</title><description>

&lt;p&gt;A conservative realtive of mine (while opposing anything the Obama administration tries to do) told me "I don't know anyone who doesn't think our health care system needs some sort of reform".&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;OK, then tell me....what have the Republicans done to introduce any form of health care reform?&amp;nbsp; For 6 years under the Bush administration, the Republicans had control and what did they do about health care?&amp;nbsp; Nothing!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What has the Republican party done for anyone, except large corporations?&amp;nbsp; Nothing!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What happened during the 8 years that Bush was President?&amp;nbsp; Well, we had 9/11 during his watch.&amp;nbsp; And he was warned several times about terrorists attacking the World Trade buildings - as recent as August 6, 2001.&amp;nbsp; What did he do about it?&amp;nbsp; Nothing!&amp;nbsp; Bush didn't keep us safer....we were attacked during his watch!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Right wing conservatives voted for Bush because they wanted Roe v Wade overturned.&amp;nbsp; Well, guess what?&amp;nbsp; Bush and the Republicans had control for 6 years with a conservative Supreme Court and not once did they do anything about Roe v Wade.&amp;nbsp; Why?&amp;nbsp; Because the abortion issue gets them votes.&amp;nbsp; They don't really want to do anything about it.&amp;nbsp; They just want votes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When was the last time the Right did anything to improve the quality of life for Americans?&lt;/p&gt;

</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2009/07/29/has_the_right_ever_done_anything_right</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2009/07/29/has_the_right_ever_done_anything_right</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 17:07:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Does anyone really care what Sarah Palin has to say???</title><description>

&lt;p&gt;On Sunday, Sarah Palin told the media to quit making things up.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;May I remind her of some of the things she said on the campaign trail....&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;1.&amp;nbsp; Obama pals around with terrorists.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2.&amp;nbsp; I&amp;nbsp;told them 'thanks, but no thanks' about the Bridge to Nowhere.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3.&amp;nbsp; Obama never wrote or sponsored one piece of legislature.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4.&amp;nbsp; About the state plane, "I sold it on ebay".&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;5. She negotiated trade missions with Russia.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;6.&amp;nbsp; She visited Iraq.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;7.&amp;nbsp; She's against earmarks.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The list goes on and on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Hmmmmm.&amp;nbsp; Who's making things up?????&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;

</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2009/07/28/does_anyone_really_care_what_sarah_palin_has_to_say</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2009/07/28/does_anyone_really_care_what_sarah_palin_has_to_say</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 23:07:20 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Please Don't Forget Me</title><description>

&lt;p&gt;I've been away from OS for awhile.&amp;nbsp; Nothing serious.&amp;nbsp; I've just taken a break.&amp;nbsp; Haven't had anything to write about for awhile.&amp;nbsp; No big inspirations.&amp;nbsp; But PLEASE....DON'T FORGET ABOUT ME!!!!&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I just wanted to check in.&lt;/p&gt;

</description><link>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2009/07/16/please_dont_forget_me</link><guid>http://open.salon.com/blog/proud_and_progressive/2009/07/16/please_dont_forget_me</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 00:07:05 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>When Angels Live and Die</title><description>
&lt;span&gt;&lt;p&gt;Two years ago today, on a morning when the scent of roses drifted sweetly through the air, my mother breathed her final breath, while being comforted by a young nurse&amp;lsquo;s aide. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;We were told that she was a little tired when the aide stopped by her room in the morning, but by breakfast she was her normal, cheerful self. As she sat down at the breakfast table, the three women she shared her meals with asked how she was. "Not so well," Mom said, then slumped over in her chair. They knew it had to be serious because Mom never complained.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I was the first to arrive after the paramedics declared Mom dead. They had placed her on her bed in her room so her family could say a private goodbye. As I entered her room, the sun was peeking through her yellow cotton curtains, casting a warm glow over her face. She looked angelic lying there, her body still warm, but stiff. I cried. Of course I cried. But amongst the tears, I felt a sense of calm, as if Mom was telling me "It's OK. Don&amp;rsquo;t be sad for me. I'm at peace now."&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;My mother did not have an easy life, yet she made it seem easy. Despite all of her struggles, she was always happy. She never said an unkind word about anyone. She was grateful for everything she had, no matter how insignificant it seemed to others. She was proud, independent, and honest. Yet she did not drive a car and only had a 9&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; grade education. At her memorial service, a friend said of her, &amp;ldquo;she looked like she could be swept away by the wind, but she was as strong as steel."&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She was born on Thanksgiving day, 7 years before the Great Depression. Her mother died while giving birth to her youngest child when Mom was only 3. The grieving dad sent the baby to live with another family until she was 5. I imagine my mother spent her early years wondering if she too was going to be sent away.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Because of, or in spite of not having a maternal role model, my mother devoted her adult life to her 5 children. She was a stay-at-home mom before the days of play dates, car pools, and soccer moms. But she wasn&amp;rsquo;t June Cleaver by any means; I&amp;rsquo;d say she more closely resembled Edith Bunker. Then at the age of 45 she was thrust into the job market when my dad walked away from the family, choosing the bottle over responsibility. For 20 years she took the bus across town, transferring twice, for a job that paid a little over minimum wage. She never missed a day of work. When she reached retirement age they asked her if she wanted to stay. &amp;ldquo;No, I think I&amp;rsquo;d rather let someone younger have a job," &amp;nbsp;she said. To her, work was an honor and she wanted to give that honor to someone else. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;My mom lived her life by the Golden Rule, and watching her, we were inspired to do the same. In my brother&amp;rsquo;s eloquent tribute to her at her memorial service he said, &amp;ldquo; She taught us some of the most valuable lessons in life simply by the way she embraced life and how she treated people. &amp;nbsp;She never sat us down and told us these things. We just saw what she did and knew it was right.&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;She even forgave my dad for leaving and they became friends. How could she not? She came out of the divorce the stronger one, the more confident one, the happier one.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;People have commented to my siblings and me that we were so good to our mother, as if they considered it unusual. But to us it was natural. At Mom&amp;rsquo;s memorial service my niece said &amp;ldquo;I had the coolest, hippest grandma ever!&amp;rdquo; After all, what other 80-year old grandma would sing karaoke with her granddaughter while on vacation with her in Florida? What other 84-year old great-grandma would play catch with her great-grandson, while holding onto a cane? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I guess we were lucky. My mother never complained that we didn&amp;rsquo;t visit or call enough. If a few days went by she would say &amp;ldquo;Oh, I guess so-and-so was busy." When we took her places she wanted to pay for our gas, or our meals. &amp;ldquo;Oh, you&amp;rsquo;re going out of your way," she would tell us, &amp;ldquo;I don&amp;rsquo;t want to be a bother.&amp;rdquo; But she wasn&amp;rsquo;t a bother. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;When Mom retired, my sisters and I took her everywhere with us. When my niece got older she came along, often with her toddler son and daughter in tow. We went to Florida, Wisconsin, Central Oregon, the Oregon Coast. Our last trip was to Las Vegas, 3 months after she broke her hip and 9 months before she died. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;As Mom aged, unseen demons that sometimes attack the elderly appeared in her room at night. Little people would show up, sometimes they were mean and sometimes they were nice. Sometimes she fed them food, and sometimes she fled her room to get away from them. She thought her apartment was bugged and started hearing music that wasn&amp;rsquo;t there. It pained us to see her like this, but she always said &amp;ldquo;Don&amp;rsquo;t worry about me. I&amp;rsquo;m OK&amp;rdquo;. She didn&amp;rsquo;t want to see us in pain, so she stopped telling us about the incidents.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;So the morning she died, when the roses were beginning to bloom, their sweet scent filled her room and comforted us. It was the way she would have wanted it to be. The look on her angelic face told me she was OK.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;img id="cid_219123" style="width: 406px; height: 268px" src="/files/label51244083620.jpg" alt="label5" hspace="5px" width="285" height="198"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p align="center"&gt;Mom with her daughters and granddaughter in Las Vegas - August 2006&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;
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