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Wed, 9 Jun 2010 10:06:50 -0400

Hey there! Been a while, I know... I am currently studying the light along the French Riviera! It's a hell of an experience... you can read about it here: Seeing the Light.

-David AKA the Red Star.

The Great Escape: an evening of music and art

Wed, 20 Jan 2010 15:01:12 -0500

Hello Chicago OSers!!

As you may or may not know, the Red Star has been quite busy since the begining of the new year painting, plotting and frequently PANICING (which is why my posts have all but dried up lately) and it looks as though he will be once again moving on to the next fabulous art-location!

If you're just tuning in... Over the last year or so, I have been working with a few European galleries in hopes of setting up a show or two and boosting my art scene cred. To that end, I have recently been invited to participate in the TINA-B, a multi-national art fest held in Prague.

Prague! I'm SO there!!

To celebrate and to say good-bye to this amazing city that has been my home these last 3 years, I am throwing a farewell art party / fundraiser.

It's a one-night-only event - this Saturday (Jan. 23, 2010) from 7pm until midnight.

In addition to the new and recent art up on the walls and to make things even more fun, there will be free beer, a couple of local DJ's, the dulcet tones of emerging music sensation; "Midnight Moxie" and did I mention the art auction? Yes, there's a silent auction of an original painting of mine happening. And some nice prints, too. :)

I hope you can make it out, it would mean so much...

5$ cover at the door -- bring friends! Lots and lots.

You can join the festivities here:
Melvin Studios
3243 W. Lawrence, Chicago, IL 60625.

For a map, follow this link: Event location

"Gun Moll" Part of the new Cheesecake series, by David DeRosa 2010

Happy Christakwanukkasolsticadon!!!

Sun, 20 Dec 2009 11:12:03 -0500

Missing Boy Linked To Squirrel Insurrection

Tue, 8 Dec 2009 11:12:23 -0500

Excerpt taken from Red Star's field journal:
December 8th, Day 100. 27 degrees Fahrenheit.

Personal commentary:
Midwestern squirrels, who – I've decided – are all named Buddy and Loretta, are a completely different breed than their coastal, chain smoking city equivilants. If you've visited NYC or SFO then you know the type: skinny, paranoid, self-destructive… In many ways, it is apparent that the fallout resulting from great National Pigeon Uprising of 2006, has left a lingering mark on the local Sciurini tribes... (shudder)

Observations:
At any rate, the Eastern Gray Squirrel (Sciurus carolinensis), or as they are more commonly known: the Grey Squirrel, look as though they’ve spent some time in the gym doing Pilate's or perhaps, spinning. Every morning, just after sun-up, they congregate atop the dumpster in the alley behind our apartment, drinking coffee, joking and "talking smack" about the neighbors as they peruse electrical schematics of the city…

To be sure, they’ve unionized.

Sometimes, as I’m hiding in the bushes, I see them running wire up to the power lines or coaxial cable along the ground to certain trees or even siphoning gas from nearby SUVs. As much as I’d like to, I dare not approach them.

Last week, (Day 96) soon after I got settled into my usual observation point, I watched – rather stupefied, as a local boy, wrapped comically in a red and grey argyle scarf, burst out of seemingly nowhere and – armed to the teeth with tightly packed snowballs – proceeded to launch an obviously well planned (if not completely unprovoked) ground-to-air-strike against the squirrel community during one of their morning meetings when sadly, they are at their most vulnerable.

With grim fascination, I looked on in horror as Buddy – who had just opened his thermos for what was to be his first cup of coffee for the day, took two slushballs to the chest and one to the head. Loretta, with no regard for her own safety, ran to him, crushing his limp body to her snow-splattered bosom, screaming; “SQUEAK SQUEAKER SQUEAK SQUEAK!” again and again; “SQUEAK SQUEEKAR SQUEAK SQUEAK!!” as a barrage of snow and ice exploded around her.

The rest of the squirrels – unsure of what had just happened – ran for cover as the local kid, obviously tweaked out on sugarplums and Redbull, ducked down another alley where he immediately vanished behind what was later determined to be a disemboweled, late model Ford.

Now, days later, just as Loretta finishes scattering Buddy’s ashes at the foot of the dumpster, a large, balding squirrel – Buddy – approaches and hands her a neatly folded red and grey argyle scarf.

Fascinating.

Additional commentary:
Perhaps justice was served and perhaps it wasn't. I do not judge, only observe. For me, day 96 shall forever be the day I witnessed my first run-by snowballing and while I hope it's my last, I can see now that this is the beginning of something much, much larger...

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Origins of a Superhero: Bipolarman

Tue, 1 Dec 2009 15:12:58 -0500

In her recent book; “Wishful Drinking,” Iconic actress Carrie Fisher wrote:

“…living with Manic Depression takes a tremendous amount of balls…”

I heartily agree.

And, considering the number of blog posts and articles I’ve read over the years, I’ve found that while some were from members of the Psychological community, mostly what I came across were cries from the brave, afflicted souls reaching out to connect, to be heard while struggling to tread water in the tidal wave of what I consider to be the biggest run of bullshit that modern POP psychology has yet to offer. I am constantly horrified by what these poor people are put through in the name of “mental health.” The constant flow of experimental narcotics, well-intentioned but sadly misguided family members, selfish, unsupportive partners, uncompromising work environments, therapists who can barely grasp the concept of what you’re going through – the list goes on.

The bottom line here is, if you are Bipolar, the deck is stacked greatly against you. Especially when you consider the paternalistic philosophy that is the keystone of psychiatry and unfortunately, the public perception at large which is: “Persons with mental illness cannot make decisions on their own.” That can be true, but not always and not for everyone. And let’s be honest, if you are reading this, you are obviously capable of surfing the internet and more than likely not a legitimate candidate for much of what Psychiatry prescribes. Therefore, after reading Ms. Fishers book, I decided it was high time to take my turn at the pulpit and offer up a different view on what it is to live with Bipolar disorder.

So consider this other side of the coin then, a letter straight from the front lines…

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Hi all. My name is David and I’m emotionally disturbed.

At this moment, I am thirty-six years, two months, eight days, seventy-six hours and twenty-two and a half minutes old and I am a diagnosed Dyslexic, mostly manic, rapid cycling Bipolar 2 with Intermittent Explosive Disorder, Symmetric OCD and “suffering” from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and a mild Psychosis.

Or, in lay terms, I’m an artist.

For most of my life, I thought that what and how I felt was normal like, this is how it is. Get a fucking grip, kid. I’d look around me – everyone else seemingly well adjusted and functional and think; “How do THEY deal with this shit? Why can’t I?? Is it supposed to be this hard???” My family was no help. They’d tell me to just get over it or change the subject or interrupt me by saying something stupid like: “You don’t know what real suffering is! Why, when I was your age blah, blah, blah…” leaving me feeling like a jerk for even opening my mouth. So, by the time I got to high school, I just stopped talking about it.

But let me back up a bit. There’s some build-up here that I’d like to explain.

I spent most of my childhood alone. My father or “sperm donor” as I prefer think of him, bailed out when I was four, leaving me with my mother in favor of starting a new family with an ex-prostitute and junkie who once came at three-year-old me with a sledge hammer while I was helplessly strapped into the passenger side of the family Chevy. Yes, I can remember that. I am unfortunately “blessed” with a near perfect visual memory and can recall most of my life in pictures quite clearly. Granted, it gets a little patchy in the years before my fifth birthday but really, do I want to recall my circumcision?

Probably not.

“Everyone has a cross to bear,” my mother liked to remind me; “you’re mine.” Yep. Life with mom was just lousy with Hallmark moments like that. Mom’s failed marriage was my fault. Dad shacking up with a whore was my fault. My childhood asthma was my fault. Her having to work back-to-back swing shifts at Denny’s because she never finished high school was my fault. Everything bad in the world happened to my mother and somehow, it was all my fault.

There are faded scars from her cigarettes hiding along my heavily tattooed arms to prove it.

So, when I was nine and she started working graveyard shifts, I got my own key. For years, we only saw each other on weekends and then fought about it. I’d get up, make myself breakfast, and get myself to school. Then, afterwards, I’d get myself home, clean the house, make dinner, do my homework and put myself to bed. By the time I was twelve, I was really more like thirty. I’d lie about my age to get full time work, to cover half the expenses so that I could buy my freedom. During all of this, I sketched. I read anything about everything. I wrote letters to people I’d never meet, tie them to balloons and watch until they disappeared into the sky. I wrote short stories so I’d have something to draw. ANYTHING to drown out the incessant hum lurking just under the surface of my thinking. Racing or “intrusive” thoughts, they call it. Whatever you want to call it, my head never shut up and it was often a bit more than I could take.

At times, it’d get so loud that out of frustration I’d cry in the shower, holding my head, feeling like it might split open or, at other times, I’d just blast some hard-core punk or speed metal and scream myself horse. Years later, I’d discover that radio static, if I adjust the volume right, cancels it all out, granting me the sweet relief of actual and total silence. But until then, I did my best to keep myself distracted with as many art projects as possible.

For the most part, that’s still how I maintain.

At any rate, I had my art, I had my intellect and no one could ever take that from me. It’s how I got through high school, how I survived my mother and naturally, how I got into art school -- my ultimate goal.

The plan was to hit the ground running. I was working at a deli early mornings and doing classes from nine to nine Monday through Friday and working as a bouncer on weekends and sleeping on Sundays. Occasionally, I did an internship or some kind of independent study before, towards the end, taking a year and a half of pre-med (unofficially) just so I could get in front of a cadaver. I figured, if Michelangelo could do it, so could I. This would then give me a master’s tactile, one-on-one understanding of human anatomy. All of this happened in four short years. I simply can’t imagine WHY I was so frustrated all the time or why, during that last year, I felt so overwhelmed. Needless to say, at twenty four and just days after graduation, it dawned on me that I hadn’t considered what to do AFTER art school. It was right then when my life caught up with me and everything came crashing down and I completely freaked out. It got so loud in my head and I was moving so fast that I thought if I didn’t do something quick, my brain would blow a synapse and start leaking out of my ears and I’d just drop dead right there on the street so, I checked myself into a crisis clinic.

Thus began five years of my life that I will never get back.

I tried doing things by the book. “These are professionals,” I thought, “Surely they can help me.” So when they offered to medicate me, I didn’t argue, didn’t complain. I simply smiled and gratefully took my meds. Lots and lots and lots of meds that Psychology assured me would help me be just like everyone else. The way they talked, you’d think I’d stumbled into the Emerald freaking City. Truth is, the meds didn’t make my problems go away; they just made it so that I didn’t care about them anymore. That’s not helpful! I imagined myself pinned to a spinning wheel with psychiatrists blindly throwing pills at me like darts or knives, just to see what might happen. Well, as it turns out, the meds fix one issue by replacing it with another, so then they’d give me another pill to combat the new issue created by the first pill but then the two pills together would react and create yet ANOTHER issue that required..? Anyone..? Another damn pill! Yay!!!

For instance, I once took a combination of pills that evened me out, yes, but also gave me symptoms not unlike Parkinson’s disease. I’m told that if I had continued on this regimen, the shaking and twitching could have become permanent. How awesome is that? There were blackouts and lost time. Hallucinations and paranoia. I took Depakote, Lithium, Seraquil, Lamictal, Lorazapan… others I can’t recall… three times a day, every day. My doses had to be constantly adjusted because my body’s natural sense of self-preservation kept adapting and fighting and it takes around two to four weeks to feel the full benefits of the medication which meant that for the most part, I was a slobbering, incoherent drugged out ZOMBIE. I was drowning and everyone that came to watch kept throwing me bricks. I could barely hold down a job. I gained a ton of water weight, had high cholesterol, high blood pressure, was borderline diabetic and developed a stammer. I was a “danger to myself and others,” they’d tell me. I should go on permanent disability or look into assisted living or hey, how about electroshock?

Yeah, they still do that. It’s called Electroconvulsive Therapy or ECT by those who still practice this horror. It was suggested to me during the second week of my third stint “on the ward” by the head psycho and quite frankly I feared for my life. He told me I had an equal shot at either (A.) being “even keel” for six months (the goal), (B.) getting stuck manic for six months which was unsettling because, as it happens, I have three levels of mania: “life of the party,” “super irritable pissed off guy” and “tasmanian devil on crack” or (C.) getting stuck in a life-threatening depression for six months. I didn’t like my odds so I said; “You first, buddy.”

* I’ve since read a great deal of literature about this “treatment” and half of it seems to contradict the other half which tells me that someone, somewhere is trying to pull something. Admittedly, I am more inclined to believe those who refer to themselves as “shock survivors,” than members of the FDA looking to justify their income. To further back up my commentary and so you won’t think that I’m just talking out of my ass, the British medical journal -- Advances in Psychiatric Treatment, reported: “Until recently there appears to have been a general reluctance among psychiatrists to admit that ECT could cause memory or other cognitive problems that are severe, persistent and disabling.” If you are at all considering this, PLEASE -- do the research before making ANY decisions. *

Where was I? Oh, right. In the end, whether they did or did not help me, one thing was becoming very painfully clear – I couldn’t create anymore. As mentioned, I have racing, somewhat intrusive thoughts. This means that I can think about ten things at once, clearly, all the time and at a thousand miles an hour. There’s always a show going on in my head like a filmstrip with no sound. I can see these images on the paper or board or whatever in front of me and the work comes. I can look at a problem – any kind, and find a solution without necessarily knowing how or why and trust that it’s right, because it always is -- but not while on meds. It’s a side effect that I suppose was never considered when the drug lords first started their marketing campaign, but remains what you’d call a “deal breaker” for me. When I would complain and believe you me, I complained, I was told that I would learn to adjust and that maybe there was something else I could do instead. Yeah, like what asshole?

There IS nothing else because I am my art. A work in progress, you might say.

Five years. Gone. I was suicidal only because the meds took away my ability to create art and with it my identity and personality. Not being able to create, in turn, took away my ability to emote so now and then, I would go numb and whenever that happened, I would cut myself… small gashes on my thighs, on my arms and across my chest… it was the only way to tell if I was still alive or not. And if I wasn’t, did that mean I was in Hell?

For quite some time I honestly thought I was.

Periodically, I would have what I considered a moment of clarity: a day or two when I felt like myself. This usually happened within the week before the Doctors would adjust my dosage or want to try out the new drug of the month. Anyway, it was during one such moment where I considered the following: Is this right? Am I being helped?? Is being so medicated that I can’t even identify what I’m feeling at any given time let alone express it – normal??? When it was pointed out to me that I had a learning disability, I wasn’t drugged. I was taught a new way to learn. I adapted. Well, how is “emoting acutely” any different? Why can’t I just be taught a new way feel? Also, the drugs were apparently killing my liver like I was drinking a fifth of alcohol a day, so there was that.

Hmm.

I didn’t have to think too long about what I should do and after a moment or two of making sure I was sure, I went into the bathroom and flushed my pills down the toilet – where they belong, told my therapist to go fuck himself and went cold turkey.

Now, I’ve never done hard drugs but I have seen those anti drug movies where the guy gets locked in a room and goes through a freaky violent withdrawal. That was me. I did that. For two weeks, I locked myself in my crappy apartment and shook and pissed and threw up and spazed out and collapsed into a fetal position and dropped like thirty five pounds and at the end, after the smoke cleared, I got up and found that I was me again.

Shortly after that, I did a couple of months in an out patient program I had heard about where I was mixed in with drug addicts and alcoholics and schizophrenics and learned the delicate art of self awareness. That’s the trick I’ve learned to living with and managing Bi-polar disorder – self awareness. No amount of pills or electro-induced seizures can do that for you. I started charting my moods, recognizing my “triggers” and figuring out what I was feeling while I was feeling it and why and then channeling my emotional peaks and valleys so that I could use them to my advantage.

Now when I get Manic, I get busy. I draw. I Paint. I write. I clean the house and check things off my to-do list. I go to the gym... I find this is especially helpful in taking the edge off my mania making it way easier to manage. This is particularly true when the aforementioned mania is the irritable kind and not the life of the party kind. As a manic, I get more done in an afternoon than most people do in a WEEK.

Disability my ass!

That unfortunately leaves depression, which – as I’m sure you can guess, is much, much harder to deal with. What seems to work for me is getting out of the house. Be around people. Distraction is the key word here. I’ll ask myself; "What am I so upset about?" If there is no logical, reality based reason – because sometimes, depression is a valid and justifiable emotional response -- it must then be chemical and therefore, irrelevant. So, I focus on something else. Anything that can keep me busy until the storm passes. And besides, one doesn’t get into the MOMA if one first can’t get out of bed, right?

This isn’t to say however, that I don’t have bad days, because I do. Most mornings, I wake up wondering if today is the day I finally lose my grip once and for all. It’s a nagging fear held-over from the numerous therapy sessions of what seems like a lifetime ago: my condition is advancing. What can I do but take it as it comes, one day at a time? In the meantime, between my scheduling and routines and my art and a healthy, consistent diet, I continue to function. No meds, no pointless therapy tearing at old wounds, no off the mark hypotheses – just me, unfiltered and unashamed.

True, it can be a little much. There are times where the only thing playing in my head is my mother telling me again and again what a worthless piece of shit I am and how nothing I do is ever good enough and there are days when I believe that and days when I don’t. Fortunately for me, I met and married a remarkable woman whose fortitude, patience and continued willingness to better understand what being Bipolar actually entails, inspires me to work a little harder at staying in the moment and keeping my focus.

You may wonder how I do that.

Well. Not too long after I went rogue, I happened across a study done on Omega Fatty Acids. They’re meant for your heart but they also benefit your general organ health, help clean the blood, lower your cholesterol, etc., etc. but what caught my attention was apparently the only side effect: “Natural mood stabilizer.” I figured what the hell and immediately started taking two or three of those 3-6-9 complex jobbers a day, everyday and holy crap whaddya know, it worked. I still cycled but – my peaks and valleys stretched out into easier to navigate bumps and dips and thus far, I’ve kept this up with continuing success for just under nine years.